I had a PCA that also seemed too good to be true. I used to have to give her my pin number, because I cannot push the buttons of the ATM, for my ATM card. She managed to get a hold of my card and extract a couple of hundred dollars while I was sitting in the van waiting on her to fill my water containers. She also manipulated some of the checks that I had her write for herself. The detective from the Hillsborough County Sheriff's Department thought we had enough to charge her with defrauding a disabled person, a third-degree felony in a state of Florida, but the chicken shit state attorney's office would not prosecute. Thank goodness the detective would not take no for an answer and had the contiguous County, where she just happen to have had cashed the checks in, look into the case. Pinellas County, actually the St. Petersburg Police Department and state attorneys office of Pinellas County, prosecute her with great zeal. I did get some restitution, but anything taken whi! ch was committed in Hillsborough County was not returned. I also had a problem with the credit card company. They would not take charges that she had put on my card off, despite the fact that some of the very astute companies had her put her Florida driver's license number on the receipts.
Billy from Tampa
C2-3
9 years post
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Lori Michaelson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Live & learn. In 1998 I hired someone privately. I was 20 yrs post & had hirednumerous aides. This guy was as smooth coming as a baby's butt. When nothingis wrong with an aide (too good to be true) there's SOMETHING wrong usually.He didn't steal my identity but did take a credit card, use it, and slide it back thenext day. And stole nearly $20,000.00 in property ... some things non-replacableby insurance.We felt very violated and the police say "if we can't see him taking your stuff into HIS home, wecan't do anything." LIKE HOW WOULD THAT OCCUR? What a bunch of crap!And the police TRIED dusting for prints on a wooden jewelry box ... saying they couldn't lift any.More crap! Enough dust was there to SEE them. We were so rattled that we weren'tassertive enough at the time.I'll never be TOO trusting again.Lori-------Original Message-------Thats the way it worked for me, except I had private insurance that paid fornearly everything. After 2 years I was eligible for Medicare as my Primarywith my private picking up the rest. When I reached the cap on my private Ihad already been put on a PCA program after being on the waiting list for 4years.It took several years before I was able to comprehend the medicaid red tape,but with a very good case worker who was finally able to be able to explainit. Even then it took a few more years before I was able get the"quarterly" requirement thing down.But now everything is covered nicely, I get my PCA money, I get homemakerservices--I don't ask, my case worker did not tell me how--I have a cushionthat finally works, figured out that I need to lay flat in bed, so my skinis finally "not" a problem!Now I need to find a replacement for an attendant that will probably bespending some time in prison as she stole my ID! Fortunately it was caughtsoon enough that I only personally was taken for $100. And I shred"everything!! Seems she has a record back in Philadelphia too, but theofficer working on the case did not seem to think they would want her back.She was pregnant when I hired her, took a couple of days off for aDNC--guess that was when she had the baby--then came back to work as ifnothing had happened! I never knew or noticed anything in thatarea. In hindsite it does explain a few times she came and was very hotand had a difficult time getting the job done.She was very dependable, always picked up extra hours when someone elsewanted off. Never missed worked. Was good at her job--she got me up on theweekend mornings, did supper M-F and put me to bed M,T, &W nights. It willbe hard to replace her.One time I asked for a background check just for the heck of it from theIndependant Living Center that handles the payroll etc.--2 months later itcame in the mail. The police will not do it.I have since been told not to hire anyone who I do not get a copy of a statewide background check that the person is su;pposed to send an informationsheet and $5 in to have done. I had not looked at that paper at all, sodid not know I was supposed to get a copy of it. I thought they were notsupposed to get paid unless the person had done this. ( the independantliving center is now considering that) It includes a zerox of their SSnumber and drivers license. If I had waited for that to be done, I'm notsure I would have hired her. And in another hindsite, I doubt she sent thatin, altho the only record she seemed to have was in Philadelphia.Her arrest was in the paper and all she was charged with was 2 counts ofmisuse of a credit device. Her bail was $5500. That will be a slap on thehands! So she is out on bail and will probably skip town. If she does thatat least all I have to do is show up to court and if she does not, I win anda warrent goes out for her. I am still waiting for a warrent to catchanother person I took to court about 4 years ago and she did not show up.So much for warrents! ugh.I do not know how to keep this from happening again, tho. The 2 peoplestill working for me and have been for years, can't do it all. Then thereare the homemakers that buy my groceries. I give them a check. I supposecould just start using my debit card.So anyway--be as careful as you can be!take care,Dana----- Original Message -----From: "Stacy Harim" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>To: <[email protected]>; "Julie A Napper" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2005 4:34 PMSubject: Re: [QUAD-L] anniversary/medicaidI don't know. I have been getting disability all along. I have beengetting attendant care services all along and I am surprised you aren'tgetting Medicare already since you are getting SSI. I am on the waiverprogram in maryland. I started getting medicare after 2 yrs on disability.My brother gets ssdi and started getting medicare right away. With thewaiver I automatically got medicaid and when I switched to medicare,medicaid picked up the extra that medicare didn't cover.Stacy----- Original Message -----From: Julie A Napper<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2005 3:24 PMSubject: Re: [QUAD-L] anniversary/medicaidHi Stacy,So, if someone is switched from SSI to Disability, then will they go fromMedicaid to Medicare? If so, how will that affect their attendant care?Julie C4-5 27 yrs postOn Sun, 27 Feb 2005 14:53:30 -0500 "Stacy Harim"<[EMAIL PROTECTED]<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>> writes:> Well I was literally days away from a nursing home coming from rehab.> I had been fighting for housing for months before I knew when I was> going to be discharge. I took time to find all the things that I> would be eligible for so I could live on my own. I found out how to> get rental assistance, Medicaid, but if your on disability you get> Medicare and can apply for Medicaid to pick up the difference. I> got food stamps, electric assistance, and attendant care. I am> barely making it but I am not in a nursing home. Mark worked to get> himself out of one and there are a couple of other people on the> list that are in nursing homes or there were not that long ago. I> don't think they post much. None of use deserve to be in a nursing> home. That is partly why that I am going to school for social work.> I want to help keep disabled adults out of them.>> Stacy> ----- Original Message -----> From: dave> To:;>> Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2005 2:10 PM> Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] anniversary>>> been in a nursing home since 99.> around here if you don't have family or money to fill in the void> of> coverage the government supplies, you get incarcerated.>>> >From: "Stacy Harim">> >To:"dave> headman"> >Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] anniversary> >Date: Sun, 27 Feb 2005 13:14:40 -0500> >> >Dave,> >> >I completely agree with you. I wanted to shake the people that> told me> >that. How long have you been in a nursing home? Why do you have> to be> >there? That is if you don't mind sharing the info.> >> >Stacy> > ----- Original Message -----> > From: dave>headman<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>>>> > To:>[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]<mailto:[email protected]">mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]<mailto:[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]">mailto:[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]">mailto:[email protected]">mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]<mailto:[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>.> > Sent: Sunday, February 27, 2005 12:22 PM> > Subject: [QUAD-L] anniversary> >> >> > my sci anniversary was feb 19th my 26th year being stuck in> this body.> > i've heard a lot of you weigh in about the movie "million> dollar baby"> > i think the message is right on the money. i think i am the> only list> >member> > thats actually in a nursing home, i see a lot of people that> need a> >visit> > from clint eastwood. when you have family, friends,spouses and> or a> > job your outlook on life might be a little brighter.> > and if i hear that bullshit line "everything happens for a> reason" or> >"gods> > will" my head will explode.> >> > dave headman> > c4 26yrs post> >> >> _________________________________________________________________> > Express yourself instantly with MSN Messenger! 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