Very well said, I like your thinking!  Silas
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Sent: Wednesday, May 31, 2006 12:27 PM
Subject: [QUAD-L] Bag Balm / Broken leg / Smoking / Whiners & Winners

I hope everyone has had an enjoyable Memorial Day.

 

I thought that I would take all subjects in one e-mail, so that I did get yelled at too much.

 

First, there is some prevention for a pressure sore.  One subject that I have not seen discussed on the quad site recently is Bag Balm.  Being almost 40 years post SCI the skin on my bottom is paper thin.  I had eight years of constant skin tears and pressure sores.  Almost every quad gets some urine leakage at times and this can break down skin quickly.  I was in bed waiting more than I was up.  I gave up activities and pretty much limited my life my street.  Then, I started to use bag balm.  I first heard about it from another quad but didn't pay much attention until it was a topic of discussion on the quad site.  Well, my life has changed and I have (knock on wood) not had a p….. s….. in the last two years.  I have been using bag balm for approximately 6 years and I have had virtually no problems.  The problems that do pop up are usually from wetness, or in many cases being outside in the summertime too long.  I have my attendants apply bag balm each morning and each evening religiously!  I would not do without it.

 

OK, let's move onto that a broken leg.  When I first broke my leg in three places from the knee to the ankle, the first reaction of the doctor was to give me the option of having my leg amputated.  We could try to heal it, but it probably won't heal.  Bull….!  I couldn't believe the doctors arrogant attitude.  He had treated another quad in the area, but the quad did not take care of himself and lost his leg.  I guess because the doctor had very little experience with quads he just assumed we were all the same.  We are not.  We must learn to know our own bodies and know what our body is capable of doing.  This is one thing that I have learned over the years.  Read your body and listen to it.

 

If you want to smoke, smoke.  Yes, I believe it is harmful, I don't enjoy being around a smoker even though I used to be one, but until it is made illegal don't cram your will down my throat, and don’t give me the bull it is addictive. So is stopping at McDonalds every time I’m out, but I still do it and it shows.  I believe that if an establishment chooses to be a smoke environment, so be it, people that don't smoke like myself we go somewhere else.  The one thing that I do have a problem with is someone that chooses to smoke and gets an illness from smoking, who pays the bill?  The same thing with motorcycle riders in Pennsylvania.  A few years ago there was such a big stink about wearing a helmet while riding a motorcycle, that the stupid lawmakers repealed the helmet law and motorcycle riders no longer have to wear a helmet.  Yes, there are a few cases where a helmet has caused neck injury, but in the overall scheme of things helmets have helped more than they have hindered.  As with the smoker and the motorcycle rider, who pays for their long-term injuries and health care.  The taxpayer!

 

I guess it is a little too late to comment on the person who is having the flap surgery, but approximately 10 years ago I had a “track” which is a very small opening on the surface but went approximately 3 inches deep.  I was a good person, stayed in bed, but it would heal on the surface, I would get out, it would open.  I packed it twice a day with, I don't know the spelling, but it was seaweed, and  Reaganax.  It took two months, but it finally closed to the surface.  We needed to keep it from healing at the surface until it was completely healed inside.  It took us another two months to realize that packing it

after it was so shallow was only keeping it open. We just started to apply the Reganax

on to the surface and within two weeks it was healed. I already had flap surgery twice and the doctor really did not went to perform flap surgery again as it can only be done so many times.  Maybe I was lucky, maybe I did the right thing.

 

Whiners and winners: I don't know what the original post was concerning the subject, but I think I have just found a popular phrase.  It was one of those days and I was feeling sorry for myself, and then I realized I am the reason that I am whining.  After 30 years of running my own electronics business I am now semiretired doing volunteer work for the historical society as well as the local church.  Everyone thinks that just because you're semiretired you have lots of time.  Well I was doing so much that I did not have time to do my own chores and take the time to enjoy myself.  I'm going to take my whining and the good Lord willing go back to school, learn additional advanced computer skills and market myself.  I have 30 years of experience which is better than four years of college, you just don't have a piece of paper.

 

Later dudes,

 

GA

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