Oh, I hate it when people once were paralyzed and then recovered gradually
say it's because of their hard work and determination. I'm like I didn't
try so I'm still in the chair? More like, how about your cord wasn't
damaged like those that are still in the chair. Give me a F...in break is
what I would love to tell those people.
The stupid question just make me laugh.
Stacy
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Sent: Monday, June 05, 2006 5:01 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] About life and
length of time as a quad
Wish I had a dollar for every idiot I've met that thought I
just wasn't trying hard enough.
Eric
Danny Hearn
wrote:
> I am
thankful for this site created by Jim L. and the other > sci and
disabled links that have helped me and others and their > families deal
with all the things that go with being paralyzed. > Sharing info. on
here has helped me a lot-covering things such as > infections,pressure
sores, medications, equipment and so on. Many > times we have helped
each other and care-givers come up with answer's > to problems even
when our doctors are not alway's sure what to do. > Becoming a Quad in
1997 sure changed my outlook on life and of others > with disabilities,
it sure gives a person more compassion and > understanding of others
and their needs.I used to feel strong and > invincible-like nothing
serious could happen to me , man, was i wrong > lol. I think most
healthy people don't have a clue about living with > disabilities like
quad-life and etc. until it happens to them or close > family members.
I remember a quad i used to see a few times a week > that got hurt
horseback riding-- I used to think.. man why are his > hands kinda
curled in like that..now i know why ... I guess that is > why i am
amused at people and their questions like---how far can you > walk
without your wheelchair ? I had one nurses aide tell me that if > he
were paralyzed he would try with all his mind and strength and make >
his hands at least function nornal again ( he said he thought most of
> us quads don't try hard enough ) LOL DUH !
Anyway i'm rambling to > much but at least between us all we are
helping to educate some people > a bit i
hope. >
> god-bless you all Dan H. >
>
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