Jim writes: Clip> I still get sexually frustrated at times but nothing like I was after my injury so, I guess I can say sex is not that big of a deal anymore. Although it would be nice to try.
Clip> I must say I do miss any sexual encounters I had before and after SCI. I use to tease and aide back in 98 about ... she's getting paid for the pleasure I gave her. We had a good old time that summer. Although, she moved on and married an old work related friend of mine. But.................. This is one subject that is always on my mind. I dream about it all the time as well, but I don't have the feeling of an orgasm after I wake up. I'd love to have my hands, mouth, tongue roam a woman's body once again. Lori stated what I thought was true that a female likes subtle touches. Like sliding a bra strap off a shoulder. Yes, for sure, as a male I just wanted to jump right in, but to do so without exciting the woman's mind first you'd never get the pleasure you were after. Crap...I'd even enjoy just massaging a woman again. I loved to read playboy and hustler for what women wanted and how they wanted. I always felt I gave them that. Now, I just think back on my memories. Wipin' tears' Keith/35/C4-5/NJ PS. My spasms always activates my buddy. If I could I'd go spastic everywhere. A lil' pounding on him and he's awake. **************************************See AOL's top rated recipes (http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop00030000000004)
