it seems to be a pretty fast trip down that slippery slope into poor health that often leads us very near to the pearly gates. i took one or 2 in 2006......... i hope that the one that gets me is a rocket ride right through the gates. dying by inches just isn't in my plan. both my parents went that way - it wasn't very nice to watch. dave In a message dated 1/9/2008 2:59:08 P.M. US Mountain Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Over the years I have been amazed at the differences between levels of spinal cord injury. As is so often noted, we vary tremendously. We each have our own demons to deal with, and we each deal with them in often ingenious ways. I have often felt frustrated that it was so difficult to find the answers for seemingly small problems. Until I came up on this list a couple of years ago, I had been relatively isolated from other quads. Reno had no physiatrist, so I just used a family practitioner and she and I dealt with problems as they came up. Lucky for me, I hardly had any problems. The biggest whammy was being bitten by a brown recluse spider, and not having it diagnosed until a lot of damage was done. Luckily, that was during the time I had insurance. The people on this list have so much experience, and are so willing to share it with the rest of us, that many of the small problems can be resolved rather simply. At Santa Clara Rehabilitation, they emphasized keeping everything simple. Since I had very little access to information about quads, I kept it simple. The first 14 years bowel care consisted of digital simulation every third day, but after realizing that I was major lactose intolerant we changed it to four times a week-Monday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday-and I’ve stayed on that routine since then. I did not even have a urologist that was familiar with quads, so I just stayed with intermittent catheterization, not knowing the options. I do use an overnight bag with a 14 F red rubber catheter overnight as I do not have anybody to cath me. I’ve been very fortunate and do not have many UTIs, and have never had a serious one. I must admit that having to stop activities in order to be cathed is somewhat of a nuisance, but if it means that I will not have to deal with UTI’s I will continue to live with the scheduling problem. Of course, I cannot be sure that that is why I do not have UTI problems, but if it ain’t broke, why fix it? My new urologist told me that one of the advantages of using intermittent catheterization is that my bladder has stayed a normal size, and I am able to hold around 500 CC’s before my body lets me know it is time. If I watch what I eat and drink that is usually around 6 to 7 hours. Except for pressure sores I have enjoyed remarkable health, and thanks to the clinitron bed my pressure sores have been cured, and I hope that I can remain free of pressure sores. Because I cannot feed myself, it has been relatively easy for me not to gain weight because I hate being fed by other people. One would think after 17 years that I would be comfortable with it, but the only time it works well is when I share a plate and realize I am not keeping somebody from eating their food. JIt’s also very difficult to snack when I have to ask somebody else to fix it for me. This summer I had many tests done, because my physiatrist was appalled that I have not had scans done regularly. Everything was just OK, and luckily for me everything was in its right place J. They noted I had a couple of gallstones, and wanted to watch them. But over the holidays everything changed. My years of being healthy made me unaware of how sick I was. When my daughter said that I was yellow, and I had several days of burning pain in my stomach, I went to the ER. Except for being yellow, everything appeared to be OK-blood pressure, no fever, pulse rate OK, and my urine was rather dark, but not really worrisome. They were extremely busy in the ER, but we let them know I would need to be cathed in a couple of hours. They were very understanding, and came out a couple of times to let us know they had not forgotten us, and were able to get me into a room as quickly as possible. Everything changed however when they found out I was passing a gallstone and had pancreatitis, and they moved into high gear. I was admitted, and they explained my options, and we all agreed that I would have to have my gallbladder removed as soon as the pancreatitis subsided. My body was ready two days later-not my mind J-and I went to surgery, only to wake up with a tracheotomy! Certainly not what I was hoping for, as the anesthesiologist had said there was a 5% chance that I would have to have a tracheotomy. Unfortunately the scar tissue from my first tracheotomy prevented a simple intubation, and my daughter had to agree to a tracheotomy. Now I was facing a much longer stay in the hospital. I was in ICU for nine days because I had a major bleed-rapid response and all the rest-and really came face to face with my mortality. My care there was absolutely great, but then I had to move to a more long-term facility. WOW what a difference. Got there on Tuesday and, and by Thursday I wanted to leave. I went for hours without anyone checking in, no call button that I could use, and no way to call for anybody. Convinced my Dr. to take out the tracheotomy on Friday, and after a night from hell on Friday night, convinced him I would be much safer at home with people who would be there for me. Saturday night was rough, but certainly not as bad as Friday night in the hospital had been, and from there on things improved daily. I now empathize with those of you who have multiple hospital stays, and I really hope that I will not have to return to a hospital anytime soon. My trach has healed, and my energy has returned. I know as I get older that my health issues may become more of a problem, but hopefully I will be wise enough to catch them at the beginning and not let them progress to the hospital state! At Santa Clara they emphasized that we should be in control of our bodies, and not let our bodies be in control of us. I continue to think that God has a purpose and a plan for us, and that our job is to focus on the positive aspects of our lives, educate as many people as possible that wheelchairs are only the way that we walk, and try to improve things for those who will follow. Forgive my ramblings, but thanks for listening. From snowy Reno Joan No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.516 / Virus Database: 269.19.0/1216 - Release Date: 1/9/2008 10:16 AM Dave _Visit My Home Page_ (http://www.users.qwest.net/~daveoc/index.html) **************Start the year off right. Easy ways to stay in shape. http://body.aol.com/fitness/winter-exercise?NCID=aolcmp00300000002489
