Hospitals have policies regarding children as visitors and how long visits can be during those crucial weeks in the beginning as the doctors and nurses are doing what they are suppose to be doing. Nurses will often make the determination regarding small children as visitors and tell the family. What doesn't happen today can happen many more times tomorrow regarding those visits. Continued Best Wishes In a message dated 6/25/2008 1:06:24 P.M. Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
Twice is better than never but I'm glad you stressed the point. Mark Jackson RollinOn ____________________________________ From: NICHOLE ROHLING [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, June 25, 2008 11:48 AM To: Mark Jackson; QUADLIST Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Help The ex has taken them twice to see her. I did stress she needed as much contact w/ them because like you, mine are what kept me going. i know theytaught her daughter how to text because they can communicate that way. --- On Tue, 6/24/08, Mark Jackson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: From: Mark Jackson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Help To: [EMAIL PROTECTED], "'QUADLIST'" <[email protected]> Date: Tuesday, June 24, 2008, 10:50 AM All I can say is she needs to see her kids because that's the only reason I didn't give up. I would focus on getting what little family she has getting to her and showing thier support. Doesn't her ex bring the kids or any family visit? Mark Jackson RollinOn ____________________________________ From: NICHOLE ROHLING [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Monday, June 23, 2008 2:34 PM To: QUADLIST Subject: [QUAD-L] Help Dear friends on the list I received this msg from a friend - what would be your advice to this young woman? Nicki C5-6 I need your help. I have a very dear friend that was in an auto accident a month ago and broke her back in four places. Amanda is 29 years old and has two children and is divorced. Amanda was in a coma and on a ventilator for two weeks, but has come out and is breathing on her own. She has an arm that is broken in two places and her airway was damaged by the ventilator and she will be on a feeding tube for several months. She has no feeling from her belly button down. Amanda also suffers from a bipolar disorder, which is not helping her cope with this situation. She has resorted to text messaging since her voice will not go above a whisper due to the throat damage. I receive about 40 messages a day from her and I am running out of ideas of how to help her. Amanda was told today by her doctor that she has a 1% chance of ever gaining feeling in her legs. I have asked her if she would be willing to talk to you so you could shed some light on how life is still totally possible, but she is not ready to talk to you. I just wondered if you had some ideas on what I can do to help her. I feel so helpless when she sends me messages of how bad she is hurting or that she spent the entire day crying and I try to distract her, but I do not know how much help I am giving her. Her daughter, Caitlin, is Bridgette's best friend and she is a dance at DCDC. Her son, Benjamin, is 6 years old. The children are staying with their father and are in great hands. Amanda is an only child and has very little family so she sits in ICU alone at OU Medical Ctr a lot. Do you have any advise to offer me to help her with this? She sends me messages saying it would have been better if she would have just died and I get onto her and tell her that those kids do not care if her legs do not work, but I feel it is not getting into her head. I just want to help her, if I can. I feel so helpless. No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.524 / Virus Database: 270.4.1/1514 - Release Date: 6/23/2008 7:17 AM No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.524 / Virus Database: 270.4.1/1516 - Release Date: 6/24/2008 7:53 AM No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.524 / Virus Database: 270.4.1/1518 - Release Date: 6/25/2008 9:46 AM No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.524 / Virus Database: 270.4.1/1518 - Release Date: 6/25/2008 9:46 AM **************Gas prices getting you down? Search AOL Autos for fuel-efficient used cars. (http://autos.aol.com/used?ncid=aolaut00050000000007)
