I have to agree with Ron. If your family is not willing to help you, take a fun trip instead. Don't let longing for what could be cloud your judgment. Although I'm very fortunate to have much help with in my family, one of my most favorite trips was a week that my favorite attendant and I went by ourselves. We did San Diego zoo, animal park, Santa Barbara and whale watching, and lots of good food all in April when the weather was beautiful in Southern California and snowy and freezing Reno-so just think about where you want to spend your time and energy and then go for it and enjoy! J
Joan in beautiful sunny in Reno where it got down to 23 last night, my tomatoes are not happy.
