Damn Facebook!  But you also have to wonder about the powers to be,  namely 
a Boston suburb school board which recently passed by majority vote a new  
rule that allows 1st grades to request condoms from the school nurse without 
 getting permission from their parents, whether they agree or disagree.   
This lends a new activity in 1st grade class and the rest of the elementary  
school recess.  When the lead school official was asked about this, Dr  Beth 
Singer, Supt. replied, these kids have questions and want  answers.  This 
was our answer. Seems to good to be true.... check out  Provincetown, Mass. 
Schools.
Gee, all I got were some A's, B's and C's besides a few F's.
Best Wishes
 
 
In a message dated 11/17/2010 2:03:55 P.M. Central Standard Time,  
[email protected] writes:

This is not aimed at any of you for obvious reasons ............   just an 
interesting news story.  Too bad so many of his flock are having  problem 
[in part] due to Facebook.  But this Reverend ORDERING 50 of his  officials to 
delete Facebook off their systems is a bit much.  This  is what happens 
though (and throughout history) when one  person is in charge.
 
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Rev. to NJ church leaders: Thou shalt not Facebook
By WAYNE PARRY, Associated Press Wayne Parry, Associated Press 2 hrs 48 
mins ago  

NEPTUNE, N.J. – Thou shalt not commit adultery. And thou also shalt not use 
 Facebook. 
That's the edict from a New Jersey pastor who feels the two often go  
together. 
The Rev. Cedric Miller said 20 couples among the 1,100 members of his  
Living Word Christian Fellowship Church have run into marital trouble over the  
last six months after a spouse connected with an ex-flame over Facebook. 
Because of the problems, he is ordering about 50 married church officials  
to delete their accounts with the social networking site or resign from 
their  leadership positions. He had previously asked married congregants to 
share  their login information with their spouses and now plans to suggest that 
they  give up Facebook altogether. 
"I've been in extended counseling with couples with marital problems  
because of Facebook for the last year and a half," he said. "What happens is  
someone from yesterday surfaces, it leads to conversations and there have been  
physical meet-ups. The temptation is just too great." 
Miller is married and has a Facebook account that he uses to keep in touch  
with six children, but he will heed his own advice and cancel his account 
this  weekend. 
On Sunday, he plans to "strongly suggest" that all married people to stop  
using Facebook, lest they endanger their marriage. 
"The advice will go to the entire church," he said. "They'll hear what I'm  
asking of my church leadership. I won't mandate it for the entire  
congregation, but I hope people will follow my advice." 
Miller said he has spoken from the pulpit before about the dangers of  
Facebook, asking married couples to give each other their passwords to the  
site. 
"Some did. Others got scared and deleted their accounts right away. And  
some felt it was none of my business and continued on," he said. 
Miller said he has gotten a mostly positive response so far among the  
leaders subject to his edict, which was first reported by the Asbury Park  
Press. 
Pat Dawson, a minister at the church, uses her Facebook account to see  
photos of her relatives. She is unmarried and therefore not required to delete  
her account, but she agrees with Miller about the dangers such sites can  
create. 
"I know he feels very strongly about this," she said. "It can be a useful  
tool, but it also can cause great problems in a relationship. If your spouse 
 won't give you his or her password, you've got a problem." 
The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers says 81 percent of its members  
have used or been faced with evidence plucked from Facebook, MySpace, 
Twitter  and other social networking sites in divorce cases over the last five  
years. 
About one in five adults uses Facebook for flirting, according to a 2008  
report by the Pew Internet and American Life Project. And a do-it-yourself  
divorce site in the United Kingdom, Divorce-Online, reported late last year  
that the word "Facebook" was appearing in about one in five of the petitions 
 it was handling. 
Miller says there are legitimate uses for Facebook, which is why he started 
 an account a few years ago. 
"People use it as an opportunity to invite others to social gatherings, to  
share Scripture or talk about what went on at church," he said. "Those are 
all  positive, worthwhile things. But the downside is just too great." 
Facebook did not immediately respond to a before-hours interview request  
left at its California offices.

 
 
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