Its more complicated than b4 but doable. You have to show confidence to 
potential partners and as far as the sex goes if your a spinal injured male 
................you must get good at oral sex, and you can keep her satisfied. 
Go the extra mile that the walking joes wont do. It takes time to get a person 
comfortable with all the sci issues. Involve partners in as little care as 
possible if you want it to last. Someone in the persons family will always give 
you grief but you only have to please your potential partner......keep that in 
mind. You must build trust. Once you know someone is interested you are going 
to 
have to just throw out your issues to them or you will be nervous all the time 
on potentially what could happen. Remember this.........if all goes to hell and 
it blows up..........whats she going to say? That crippled guy was bad in bed, 
lollol.

Ron



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From: Don Price <[email protected]>
To: "[email protected]" <[email protected]>; "[email protected]" 
<[email protected]>; "[email protected]" <[email protected]>
Sent: Thu, May 2, 2013 2:33:31 PM
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There's a book by Gary Karp entitled: Disability and the Art of Kissing that 
has 
some excellent information.

http://www.amazon.com/Disability-Art-Kissing-Gary-Karp/dp/B00ANZ4C2O/ref=sr_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1367523008&sr=1-6



Full disclosure: Gary's a friend of mine. I do think you'll enjoy his books.
Don.

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From: "[email protected]" <[email protected]>
To: [email protected]; [email protected] 
Sent: Thursday, May 2, 2013 9:03 AM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Advice



The National Spinal Cord Injury Assoc offers such a booklet.
Also Spinal Network is in their 4th edition of ....  
(www.newmobility.com/bookstore.cfm)
Best Wishes

In a message dated 5/2/2013 10:04:40 A.M. Central Daylight Time, 
[email protected] writes:

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> 
>I Want To Ask You My Friends,
>What Should Your Partner Knows about Intimacy and Sex (With a quadriplegic Man)
>What kind Of Problems The quadriplegic Man And His Partner Should Expect In 
>The 
>Future
>Where Can I Find The Best Information about This 
> 
>Thank You All

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