Don, you are most correct, I understand and agree with you.  As I  
mentioned earlier, I'm sure there is much more to the story that we are not, 
nor  we 
will ever be privy to the entire story.  I agree, its a tragic  situation.  
I'm rather surprised that more Civil Rights Groups, and Groups  like Not 
Dead Yet haven't surfaced with comments, regarding this story.
Stories like this with not enough information often can mislead the public. 
 I believe that is the case, especially since the hospitals, doctors and 
law  division are not saying much.
Best Wishes
 
 
In a message dated 11/12/2013 12:52:03 P.M. Central Standard Time,  
[email protected] writes:

 
I didn't reply to the earlier thread about the injured deer hunter who  
"chose" to have his breathing tube removed; in fact, I was so upset I deleted  
the whole discussion.


After  thinking about it for a while I am still extremely emotional, going 
between  empathy and rage. I felt I had to reply, if only for my own relief 
through  venting.


While  we don't know every detail of the story, I still feel STRONGLY that 
allowing  this man to make this decision while medically impaired is the 
equivalent of  giving a handgun to someone who is suicidal. "So, your life 
sucks right now  and you want to end it? Well, it IS your decision, after all. 
Here's a  revolver. Be sure to aim upward, and here are some hollow-point 
bullets to  help you succeed. Thanks for easing the 'burden' on your family and 
our  healthcare system." This is insane! No one would condone a healthcare 
provider  sanctioning such an action, but they are ok with this?!


Like  so many of you on this list, I contemplated whether I wanted to live 
after  becoming a quadriplegic. Had somebody asked me to make life decisions 
at that  moment, I doubt I'd be here today. While we know life with 
quadriplegia is  difficult, it can also be wonderful. I've had so many 
blessings 
and amazing  times that I am thankful for every day I'm here. I want to live a 
lot  longer.


My  real anger is reserved for the medical staff that allowed this hasty 
decision  to be made under clear duress, and for his family members who viewed 
him as  damaged beyond saving. I know I can't question their 
motives--surely they  thought the were doing good by him--but medical 
professionals, 
including the  nurse-sister, should have had better judgement. If there were 
ANY 
narcotics or  mind-altering medications in his system how could his thought 
process be  considered lucid? The news account states he wasn't even able to 
speak!


In  the end this perpetuates society's view that people with disabilities 
are  "damaged goods"-- disposable commodities. How many times have we heard 
"I'd  rather be dead than in a wheelchair"? While his accident was horrible,  
snuffing his life was the real tragedy here. What a shame.


Don.


http://www.recorder.com/news/nation/world/9197116-95/paralyzed-deer-hunter-c
hooses-to-end-life-support



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