EVERYBODY,
I meant to say what the Doctor said when I was in rehab, when
I asked him "Can I still have sex?" He said
"You will either get pregnant or have a bowel movement." I was a Voice
recognition mistake that I said "can't".
I know, I know I can get pregnant and other women with spinal cord injuries can
get pregnant.
Bobbie
Smile Everyday
> On Oct 31, 2014, at 10:33 PM, [email protected] wrote:
>
> Naughty Nan.... is still another wonderful woman that proved.. the
> impossible. She is also a member of this group.
> Atta Girl Nan
>
> Best Wishes
>
> In a message dated 10/31/2014 8:44:43 P.M. Central Daylight Time,
> [email protected] writes:
> Bobbie, why did he say you can't get pregnant? did he just not know...because
> I have heard of several quad women having kids, I have even read of a few
> having more than just one kid also.. seen some on tv once. Dan H**
>
>
> On Friday, October 31, 2014 7:21 PM, Gmail <[email protected]> wrote:
>
>
> Ed,
> I think this is outstanding that you are starting up this topic for you
> guys ... and your doing it respectfully.
> I've always been curious as to how you guys manage your equipment, both
> bodily and mechanical.
>
> When I was first in rehab in 1973, I asked my male doctor if I could still
> get pregnant and what about sex? He was extremely uncomfortable of me asking
> him such a question, his answer was "You can't get pregnant or have a bowel
> movement" And ran out the door. That was the end of my sex education in
> rehab. Bobbie
>
> Smile Everyday
>
>> On Oct 30, 2014, at 9:08 PM, Ed Tessier <[email protected]> wrote:
>>
>> I have used the Ferticare Personal for many years now. It is based on
>> similar technology. It has worked very well for me.
>>
>> I am C 5 – 6 complete, with basically no traditional tactile sensation down
>> below. Erections are only touch triggered and short lasting. This
>> industrial grade vibrator change all of that. It's a regular part of my solo
>> play and occasionally during sex with my wife. I can regularly get orgasm
>> and cum (they are not necessarily the same thing). The vibrator's settings,
>> they adjust both the rate and intensity of vibration, can be very intense
>> and not appropriate or pleasurable with areas with full sensation. Its
>> website makes it seem very clinical and focused on fertility assistance. It
>> can definitely help out. Two of our four sons had this helping hand.
>> However, we used it entirely at home, never had any doctors office training,
>> and made it just one part of our sex play, not the central aspect of our
>> hopes to conceive.
>>
>> Another thing that doesn't get fully explained is that it can be, or at
>> least was for me, a way to explore just what my body can do. Being able to
>> test different things in different ways and doing it often enough to notice
>> subtle effects and reactions, helped me realize I can do a lot more sexually
>> than I was led to believe in rehab. I can sense something some things
>> below my injury line and there are autonomic reactions above my injury line
>> that are pleasurable, and the rush from a full on climax is mind blowing.
>>
>> My device is getting old and doesn't seem to be quite as effective lately.
>> It might be the vibrator and it might be me age wise, coming up on 50, or
>> due to medications, or that I am 30 years post injury, etc. So I think it
>> is time for me to try something new. Before I get another Ferticare
>> Personal, which is definitely very expensive, I might try a new product they
>> have but I am very interested in the one you came across. thanks for sharing
>> about it. if anybody is interested I can share how that's going, and I'd be
>> interested in knowing what other cool techniques people here have had.
>>
>> All of us spend a lot of time and creativity figuring out how to manage the
>> logistics and equipment and complications and attendant care etc. when quads
>> want to live full and rewarding lives.I think the fun things in life, like
>> recreation and travel and sex, need the same kind of tenacious and
>> innovative Quad power. What toys work? What positions? What porn? Let's have
>> fun Finding out.
>>
>> Ed
>>
>> On Wed, Oct 1, 2014 at 8:22 PM, RONALD L PRACHT <[email protected]>
>> wrote:
>> Daryll Gywnn was a c5. It depends on the injury, every one is different.
>> That's just one method they use when you want to have a child with that
>> special someone. Theres no way to know if it will work unless you try it. I
>> never found that person to go to the trouble to try such a thing. If you
>> have someone that's going to stay with you and love it would be worth it.
>>
>> Ron
>>
>>
>> On Wednesday, October 1, 2014 8:46 PM, Quadius <[email protected]> wrote:
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>>
>> just wondering if it works for quads. I figured it doesn't hurt to ask.
>>
>> On Wed, Oct 1, 2014 at 9:39 PM, RONALD L PRACHT <[email protected]>
>> wrote:
>> A man that knows all about that is the paralyzed drag racer Daryll Gywnn. he
>> told me about that, it was pretty rough, but he has a child now with his
>> wife.
>>
>> Ron
>>
>>
>> On Wednesday, October 1, 2014 7:49 PM, Quadius <[email protected]> wrote:
>>
>>
>> A couple of years ago someone posted an interesting link about a vibrator
>> that can be used with spinal cord injured patients. I waited a few years and
>> looked it up, but couldn't find any material which substantiated that it
>> worked effectively in helping a male achieve orgasm.
>>
>> Well, I happened to come across this today and it appeared to take the
>> technology of that rather pricey vibrator and marketed it for everyone else.
>> The other one you needed a prescription in order to get it and it cost
>> around 400 bucks. This one's around 100 and anyone can buy it.
>>
>> Just wondering if anyone has tried this.
>> http://www.hotoctopuss.com/how-pulse-works/
>>
>> Quadius
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