Thank you for sharing. I am sorry for your pain and the rejection you are facing.
I must confess that this group has a wide range of perspectives on social and gender issues, and may not be the solution you were hoping for. That said, I do think there is a centrist perspective that tries to meet people where they are at, and not get locked into ideological labels. I would hope we can find a way to make that a viable alternative. Best wishes, — Ernie P. > On Jun 20, 2024, at 22:54, RedHairs <[email protected]> wrote: > > I'm a trans woman, living in the stealth. I transitioned in 2000s, because > wanted to escape gender dysphoria. And because I'm passing, I usually > pretend, in real life, that I'm just straight, biological female. > > I found, that trans acceptance among intellectual people, was much better in > 2000s, and 2010s. I think, woke activists created a backlash, a huge wave of > hate. We should stay in the shadow. > > Another big mistake was made, what woke activists, cancel "gatekeeping": > basically, in 1970-~2015 medicine used transition to help people with gender > dysphoria (transsexuals and intersex people) deal with it. And it really > helps, proofs: > https://whatweknow.inequality.cornell.edu/topics/lgbt-equality/%20what-does-the-scholarly-research-say-about-the-well-being-of-transgender-people%20/#againsttopic > > But later, under pressure of woke activists, we canceled "gatekeeping". Now > everybody can transition, if self-identificate this way. You no longer need > to have gender dysphoria diagnosis. > > As a result, a lot of ppl without gender dysphoria started their transition. > Example: so-called "incels" doing male to female transition, to present > theirself as lesbians, to get sex, or females, who want to be special, and > present themself as trans guys. > > I believe, as result, the amount of detransitioners increased. > > And now we have a big backlash. I tried to speak about my own marriage and > domestic violence in it on a popular forum (TAM), but found, that about > everybody hates me there because I'm trans, or just silent, when haters > bulling me - I was stupid enough, to tell about it - I think, if I tell about > my life issues as fake biological female, I think, It could be much better > discussion. > > I think, trans people, who transitioned because of gender dysphoria, now > under cross-fire between alt-right/maga fraction and woke people, and woke > people take us as hostages. > > I'm political centrist. And strongly against dictatorship of any kind, I > endorse science, and culture of discussions. And what I see, is terrifying > me. I feel like, the massacre incoming: that our an existence will be banned > soon, and I'll end in the camp of conversion therapy. Or even in the death > camp. > > Is it possible, if any of the centrist political movement, can provide that > part of transgender people - who transitioned because we had gender dysphoria > - a platform to speak? We call ourself transmedicalists. Mainstream > transgender groups leans in the far left part of political spectrum. You can > easily be banned there for even mention of transmedicalism. Also, mainstream > transgender subs today are mostly looking in things, like "fight patriarchy", > "abolish gender", etc. Community itself is very toxic for anybody who is not > far left on a cultural axe, is a classic example of echo chamber and live in > illusions about the world, and how it works. Example: "Queers for Palestine", > despite fact, that HAMAS could just kill these queers, if they ever visit > GAZA. > > Both of groups of extremists - woke and maga - hate us, and want us to > pretend, were're not real. > > For both of them it's very convenient, to pretend, that trans means just > self-identification. And nothing about medical condition - gender dysphoria, > and medical transition as result. > > And we just want to live our lives. 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