A WORD WITH YOU By Ron Hutchcraft #3862 - "Father Fallout" Proverbs 1:8 Listen with RealAudio! http://www.gospelcom.net/rhm/sounds/awwy/awwy3862.ram During our most recent mission to South Africa, our hosts were kind enough to take me to an incredible game park where I could see African animals in the wild. And I did! Rhino, giraffe, ostrich, baboon - not the kind of animals you usually see wandering around the New York area! But the highlight was coming around this curve and meeting a great bull elephant in the road. He put on a real show for us for several minutes. Recently, I picked up my local newspaper and saw a news article with that game park as the dateline. The article was about the young male elephants there - the ones the rangers call there "teenagers." Apparently, in the last few months, these teenage male elephants have been on a reign of terror in the park, doing things that elephants don't usually do. They have attacked other animals like rhinos. They have attacked tourists, inflicting death or serious injury. And finally, the park officials have figured out what's gone wrong with these young males. When they were newborn, they were taken from another game park and brought to this one. But their fathers - the bull elephants - were not brought with them. So these teenage elephants grew up without a model of how a grownup male should act - and they're out of control. Well, I'm Ron Hutchcraft and I want to have A WORD WITH YOU today about "Father Fallout." It isn't just some young elephants that are out of control - it's some young people. For the elephants, the cause is the absence of a father. The problem is the same for all too many young people, too. Yes, the young males, but even the young females as well. It is obvious that God's created order assumes that a father will be a major force in shaping the life of a child. Our word for today from the Word of God comes from a sampling of God's statements about this central human relationship. Proverbs 13:1 - "A wise son heeds his father's instruction." Proverbs 1:8 - "Listen, my son, to your father's instruction." Then from Proverbs 4, "Listen, my sons, to a father's instruction; pay attention to gain understanding ... When I was a boy in my father's house, still tender ... he taught me and said, 'Lay hold of my words with all your heart; keep my commandments and you will live.'" Well, it's very clear from God's Word: the father connection is critical in a son learning how to live. Even with elephants, if the male role model is not there, the young males don't know how to act or react ... and they end up going out of control. A father deficit is a major crippler in any child's life. There can be a father deficit in a child's life because there is no father around ... or because Dad is around but not really there for you. He's disconnected, he's distant, he's often unavailable. Or he's there but he's modeling the wrong things. Because God has set up the father-figure as being so influential in human development, a child - especially a son - will tend to make important what seems important to Dad. He'll make unimportant what seems unimportant to Dad. He'll react as Dad reacts. He'll treat different people as Dad treats them. And research shows that Dad's relationship with a daughter is critical, too: she'll tend to relate to men the rest of her life as she relates to her father. Being a father is a powerful role and a huge responsibility. So Colossians 3:21 says, "Father, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged." Ephesians 6:4, "Father, do not exasperate your children; bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." Dad, you have enormous power to build up your child ... or tear them down. And the ultimate responsibility for their spiritual development is up to you, not up to Mom. If you're a Dad, realize you have nothing more important to do. And don't even try it without the power and wisdom of God that belongs only to those who know Christ as their Savior. In an African game park, they are reaping the awful fallout of children raised without a father to follow. With the priorities and power of our Heavenly Father, we don't have to make the same mistake ... and reap a harvest of children with no inner guidance system. --------------------------------------------------------------------- Discuss today's "A Word With You," post your comments, or encourage others in our new discussion forum! http://forums.gospelcom.net/view/rhm/awwy If you have been encouraged by Ron Hutchcraft's daily challenge, please forward this email along to a friend! 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