Howdy-

*I'm trying with my son to "Increase Honor- decrease anger" as his life
at 15
will begin to radically change through the process of maturity...

On our long drive to Yakama for ROY testing... we got to talk about
things
and the subject came up about politics and the Bush/McCain race.. I told
him
about Sen.McCain and described him as an "honorable man" for his stand
on
the issues and for his service to the country- 5 1/2 years as a
POW...ect.

Josh replied back with some guff... and shortly we were going back and
forth<G>

Josh would give me a blast and I would return "fire"<G>  *Doing that he
started
to get angry... *I didn't want that.. so I changed to trying  to steer
the conversation
back to *Honor...

Josh is apparently a G.W.Bush supporter- I am prone to support John
McCain.

 He would say something.. and I would repeat back exactly what he
said...
so that he knew that *I got what he was saying..not altering his
words-but just playing
"fair..". Listening...

When I would say a short thought.. *He would repeat back what he heard
me say.
This took some time<G> but it was still dark at 5 am...and we had 200
mi's to go<G>

Josh went silent for a mile or so...

"I'm concerned that you  would put Honor above winning a flight-  *Let's
say you are right
about Sen.McCain... That he isn't a normal politician, but a man of
Honor."

"How would you feel to be the chosen candidate for the republicans
(G.W.Bush)
and then to become embarrassed by loosing to a back of the pack
contender.? That would
make me pretty mad.. and I'd want to win. I'd want to use all my power
to get back
at McCain..."

I listened.... Josh went on..

"Maybe what you say is true- that Bush won by playing rough and lose
with the facts,
and shoved hard when a slight push would have been more fair... *But I
see it this way-
Bush used his "powers" and unfortunately for you, he won over an
honorable man... He HAD TOO! I respect him for that...

*His honor... was on the line, he HAD TO WIN! Everyone in the republican
party was behind him expecting victory... Only McCain stood in his
way..*That's politics!

Josh looked out across the Topinish ridge... as we crossed the Indian
reservation
at the foot of Mt.Adams...

*But now that Bush has won.. He might regret the gulf in friendship that
has been
made between them...  I think you are right that he needs the support of
McCain
to win in November, but doesn't know how to win it back.. *mayby he went
too far
in targeting McCain as the enemy- to win *just the latest battle, and
will have trouble
being humble enough to ask McCain to support him. It could seem that
doing so would
be a weak thing to do... mayby-mayby not...

*The sun was rising as we descended to the flats, and ran along the
Yakama river
and through the Apple orchards...

We had a great day- Josh stood for his GMA at a board of review, and I
tested
the skills of the Trailrangers for Ranger of the Year.. We didn't agree
on politics!

But I Love him... and trust his judgment!

Each of us are unique individuals, have differing thoughts and
feelings...
when we disagree- we can go for a walk, and come back later<G>

Winning isn't everything... It's how we play the game<G>

-=A=-

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