> Spirit Rider wrote:
>
> All,
> At work we really some type of dress code in place.
Need?
What if they only hired girls to work at Walmart?<G>
*I'm kidding of course, but want to make you aware
that while prudent morality is the business norm, and
subject to the discretion of the employer, your job
is to not needlessly burden the female co-workers with
your "hang-up"<G>
In the past.. Considerations such as you expressed
led to such codes of conduct that the freedom of others
was impacted by class, race and gender needlessly.
*Allow me to illustrate the past, one group felt "challenged" to find
another race eating at the same lunch counter, using
the same rest room or sitting anywhere on a public bus.
Recently, Girls were allowed to play little league baseball
along side the boys, *A Law professor here at the University
told me that his daughter was told she must wear a boys
"cup" as the rules stated that all players *must.
(*Gender Politics sometimes breeds hard lines of understanding)
By the use of social pressure, Women wore high neck
dresses/corsets while working along side men.. and until
recently (and maybe still in Mizzourah) There was a negative
stigma for girls to wear jeans ect. This was part of what
was wrongly labeled as "Holyness"..
*Now.. I've been
to Mizzouah twice.. and found it hotter then Hadies!<G>
Even out west where we "let it all hang out<G>" casual
dress is respected as working attire. If we believe and
grant equal respect to our sister's, we also temper our
eyes, and mind to encouraging an equal freedom for them
to dress in such a way as they see fit.
*The non-problem is yours amigo!
What you describe is called "voyeurism" and your reaction
was to condemn an innocent... such as if your pants were
to fall in the parking lot as you carried a package<G>
Right?
Relax and Time will make a change in you<G>
Cdr.Duane
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