My husband and I have done some touring together and I think the easiest way to see the differences between us is to see our travel differences in general (on any trip, not just a bike trip)!
So, for example, on a road trip - he'd be fine camping and not showering too often - but I like to shower every day or two, and I tend to prefer a hotel room to camping. My dream road trip would be down the coast on quieter roads, his would be up in the mountains. So, we've done a Pittsburgh to DC trip where we didn't shower nearly enough and I was a little unhappy, and we did a ride down the PCH (a much shorter ride) that was my favorite mini-trip ever. I think taking your regular travel-together expectations and just adding in the riding will give you a great idea of how to plan this. Does she want to stop through cities? Does she want to be in nature the whole time? Does she need a lot of rest/get going time? How can you incorporate that into your ride together? The other thing that my husband did that I am sure you do all the time is he made me feel so ok with stopping. My general distances are shorter than his. I need breaks more often. He never made me feel bad about a break, or a short day, or whining "why can't we just get a hotel room" (there were none). We also had many potential bail points, that we never used, but I was comforted knowing they existed. All in all, I love touring with my husband, and despite him making some concessions, he enjoys touring with me :) I'm excited for you and this trip! On Wednesday, 22 June 2016 12:21:20 UTC-7, Mark Reimer wrote: > > A few years back I built up a new bike for my wife as a surprise. It was a > Surly Cross Check with Jack brown 33.3 tires, Nitto Albatross bars, a small > wald basket, ladies Brook's B17, etc. Very classy build. Black frame, all > silver parts. I was hoping a nice, well fitting comfortable bike would > promote more riding together, which it has to a degree. We've done a few > longer rides together and last summer did our first overnighter, which she > loved. She's always said that long distance touring probably isn't her > thing, but after we've completed a couple motorcycle tours and backcountry > hiking trips together it seems she's developed the urge to transition to > bicycles... maybe all my cycling adventures have inspired some > self-propelled wanderlust too, who knows. > > Point is, we're sitting on the couch earlier in the week and she says "I > want to take two weeks off next summer and go on a cycling tour with you". > > I felt like I was electrocuted! That's basically my dream. > > So here's my questions. I'm well aware of the fact that what I like to do > on a tour isn't what a lot of other people would like to do. I look for > single track and dirt roads, don't mind rough terrain and not showering for > a week. I like doing 100-200km in a day. I love the idea of spending five > hours climbing a mountain and then screaming down the other side as fast as > I can possibly go. > > If we did that, I don't think she'd ever tour with me again... > > For those of you who've toured with your spouse, or with friends who > aren't as nutty as you in general, what worked? What advice do you have for > daily distance, elevation, road surface, etc? I know this will be highly > individual and vary widely based on personal preferences, age, appetite for > adventure, budgets, etc. For reference, my wife Cindy has done some 100km > rides and enjoyed them, but I think that would be a bit much for day after > day mileage. She likes gravel roads, but not trails. Enjoys hiking up > mountains, but is nervous to attempt cycling up one. She's always been hard > on the brakes all the way down any hill, but she's since acquired her > motorcycle license, so all that 100km/h time in the saddle is sure to help > alleviate the fear of speed. > > > Thus far the best idea we've come up with together is going to > Newfoundland and touring the western edge. It's a 450km one-way ride that > crosses Gros Morne National Park, where we would stop to hike for a day or > two. 450km isn't enough distance for 2 weeks in my opinion. I'd like > something closer to 750. That way we can have some 100km days, some 30km > days, a few rest days, etc. So maybe doing this 450km route plus something > extra. Camping mostly, with a hostel/B&B every 4-5 days to stay fresh, > mentally and physically. I think it'd have a nice mix of rolling coastal > roads with light traffic, no high-mountain passes but still some climbing, > and some good spots to stop for a day. > > Any advice is welcomed! > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "RBW Owners Bunch" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. Visit this group at https://groups.google.com/group/rbw-owners-bunch. For more options, visit https://groups.google.com/d/optout.
