if you feel that strongly about inviting her to your home, do it. But don't stress out, don't make a big deal of it, and don't worry about any of her words or actions. Do it this one time and then leave it alone. If it goes well, invite her over again, maybe around the holidays, but no sooner. If she acts like an ass, well, you tried, and you can let it go with a clean spirit and know you did your best. Then move on, you and Daniel deserve some happiness and make that happen for the two of you and don't let her or anyone else get in the way of that. Hand it over to a higher authority. so speaks c j ----- Original Message ----- From: Sugar To: [email protected] Sent: Monday, July 21, 2008 10:23 AM Subject: [RecipesAndMore] some advice?
Hi all, As some of you know the problems I have had in the past with my Mother-in-law, well, to mend things up, well, not mend, because she won't change, but that's a long story, and some of you know... well, I was thinking of maybe inviting her and the family to my house for a Sunday luncheon, and then for a swim, if they wanted to to just let them know that I'm not angry with them any more, and yes, I still feel all the hurt that she caused me in the past two years while I lived with her, and all the horrible things that she did and said to me, but I just want to move on, and I have forgiven her for everything, and I'm tired, so in order for me to move on, in order for Daniel and I to move on together, I was hopeing that she would accept my invitation to join us at our home, since I haven't invited anyone to visit... so, I would like very much for some input and advice? Thanks so much Syl Sugar Says 'Try some wicked sugar... Go on, you'll like it!' --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ Access the Recipes And More list archives at: http://www.mail-archive.com/recipesandmore%40googlegroups.com/ Visit the group home page at: http://groups.google.com/group/RecipesAndMore -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
