Hi all,

I just had a phone call with Christian (because, you know, intonation and vocal 
emphasis can make a huge difference in understanding each other) and I want to 
report back here.

>> First of all thanks a lot to Denis for all his work, I imagine it must have 
>> taken hours.
>> We, the board and the NCC will follow up on it and will not just have a look 
>> at the content itself but also look into how did we end up in this situation 
>> in the first place.
>> We will come back to the mailing list after the legal evaluation is 
>> conducted and also report on this at the next RIPE Meeting.
> 
> Thank you, this is what I would like to see.

First of all, Christian acknowledged there were a lot of useful things in 
Denis' email that will be looked at by the NCC staff, so all the work Denis did 
will get used.

>> Regarding the CoC aspect of this emails, we the board did not read Hans 
>> Petters comments as shutting down the conversation or policing anyone and we 
>> would not have allowed that.
> 
> Well, then you the board should read it again... Invoking the Code of Conduct 
> when criticising the RIPE NCC is seen exactly as silencing. It also 
> diminishes the value of the Code of Conduct and sets a horrendous precedent. 
> This abuse of the CoC is EXACTLY what makes people afraid of adopting a CoC 
> in the first place. This abuse of the CoC bij a managing director and then 
> explicitly condoning that by the board damages all the hard work done by the 
> community.

But then the hard bit… As I understand it some of the NCC staff felt offended 
by some things Denis wrote, like "looks like it was written as an undergraduate 
project". The more people care about something, the more they are likely to be 
offended by criticism like this, and I *like* that the NCC staff cares! And I 
agree with them that Denis' tone was much too harsh for a community where we 
are all supposed to be working together. All of that apparently lead to Hans 
Petter to jump in and defend his staff, and that is part of his job. So I don't 
have any problems with any of this so far.

Where I strongly disagree is invoking the Code of Conduct in this case. There 
is a very difficult boundary between "don't write strong criticism on the RIPE 
NCC" vs "don't write strong criticism on the RIPE NCC in such a harsh tone". 
Cristian reminded me that many of us have know Hans Petter for many years, and 
though his use of the CoC reads like the former to some, we could give him the 
benefit of the doubt and read it as the latter. I still think invoking the CoC 
here was wrong, but I do indeed give Hans Petter the benefit of the doubt and 
will assume he indeed meant the latter. (HPH, would be nice if you could 
confirm my assumption here! ;)

I also understood from Christian that some people felt they couldn't speak up 
in defence of Hans Petter because of the strong replies sent to the list by me 
and other longtime members of this community. That leaves me in the awkward 
position of me myself not contributing to a welcoming and inclusive 
environment... So I'll invoke the Code of Conduct on myself :)

To summarise:
- I think Denis' wording was not very nice
- I think Hans Petter's use of the CoC was not good
- I know them both and am convinced they both want to do the best for this 
community (and the NCC staff which is also part of this community)
- My harsh response to Hans Petter was not good and I should have used milder 
language to keep the discussion open for positive contributions

I therefore want to defuse this thread and urge us to get back to the content 
of Denis' message and work with the NCC in a friendly way to make things better 
for all of us. And whenever invoking the CoC let us do it in that spirit.

Cheers,
Sander


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