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An apology to a young woman killed in Iraq
Posted on Sun, May 28, 2006
BY FRED GRIMM
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The kid seems out of place among these old men.

Lines of bronze markers memorialize men who survived the horrors of 
other wars and grew old before final dates were fixed to their 
Department of Defense-issued plaques.

But Elizabeth Nicole Jacobson wasn't born until March 26, 1984.  What's 
she doing here among so many grandfathers?

Their grave markers have taken on the color of rust from years of 
sprinkling with cemetery well water.  Hers has yet to arrive from the 
foundry.

What's Elizabeth doing here with all these old veterans?

Even her grave site seems out of place in that solemn section of Forest 
Lawn Cemetery in Pompano Beach.  A SpongeBob snow globe has been placed 
on her plot.  A fuzzy yellow Easter Bunny, sad and bedraggled after so 
many weeks in the weather, is propped up against a wreath of artificial 
flowers.  A dozen dead yellow roses, real ones, have toppled out of an 
overturned plastic vase.  There's a sand dollar painted with a 
University of Miami logo.  Another with SpongeBob.  Elizabeth must be 
the only hero here with such an affection for SpongeBob SquarePants.

Ten little American flags, knocked askew by the wind, share the 
arrangement with a U.S. Air Force flag - - her flag.  Airman 1st Class 
Johnson's war service brought her a Bronze Star, a Purple Heart and a 
plot in a hero's garden.

On Sept. 28, outside the city of Safwan, she became the first Air Force 
woman killed in the Iraq war.  It was, of course, a roadside bomb.  
That's the way most of our kids die in Iraq - - in military vehicles 
without proper armor, in sudden explosions along dusty roads.  She had 
been in a security detail escorting a supply convoy into Camp Bucca, a 
U.S. military outpost.

She was just one of 2,500 U.S. military deaths in Iraq.  But, still, a 
young woman's death in war seems poignant.  Her last few e-mails have 
been posted on the Internet.  They exude youth.

‘’ I want to die happy and have a productive life.  I hope nobody 
wishes I was never born.  I hope my kids never tell me they wish I was 
like their friend's mom.  I hope that I make money, but don't end up a 
workaholic or stuck up.’’

Her messages were never meant to be epitaphs.

In January, The Cincinnati Inquirer published a feature story about an 
Ohio doctor, a reserve major with the 344th Combat Support Hospital in 
Iraq.  It began:  ‘’ David Grundy carries a tiny news clipping in his 
wallet, an obituary for Airman 1st Class Elizabeth Nicole Jacobson, who 
was 21 when she died in Iraq on Sept. 28.

‘’ Grundy saw her in the emergency room on the first day of his second 
deployment to the war zone.  Jacobson already was dead, killed 
instantly when a roadside bomb hit the convoy she was escorting.

‘’ Something about that death, compared with all the others he 
witnessed, stuck with Grundy.''

Something about that death, and stories about her loss in The Miami 
Herald and The Palm Beach Post, stuck with me.  I stopped by Forest 
Lawn Thursday and brought a sprig of bougainvillea and a pink hibiscus 
from my own garden.  The flowers were offered as an apology.

I'm sorry.  I didn't think, back when I and so many others too old to 
fight acquiesced to this war, when I didn't scream objections, that a 
schoolgirl from Riveria Beach would be killed there in the fall of 
2005.  And I didn't think kids would still be dying in the summer of 
2006.

I should have known better; that war is chaotic and ungovernable and 
that plans die along with soldiers.  I should have paid less attention 
to politicians and more attention to historians.  I didn't.  Too few of 
us did.

And long after that famous ‘’ Mission Accomplished ‘’ banner was 
hoisted over the U.S.S. Abraham Lincoln, a hero's garden finds a place 
for a kid who loved SpongeBob.

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~~ Suz-Q ~~

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