Students, Embodiments of Love!
All of you want Swami to say at least a few words. You feel, “How nice it
would be if Swami speaks for a few minutes”! However, I don’t want to say
anything about the present system of education.
This land of Bharat has given birth to many noble women like Savitri who
brought her dead husband back to life; Chandramati who extinguished wild fire
with the power of truth. Sita who proved her chastity by coming out of blazing
fire unscathed and Damayanti who reduced an evil-minded hunter to ashes with
the power of her chastity. (Telugu Poem)
At first, Chandramati was fear-stricken by the raging forest fire. She
along with her husband and son was surrounded by flames of wild fire. Nobody
could say how they were all of a sudden surrounded by the raging flames. This,
in fact, was a divine play. Ultimately, when Chandramati utilised her power of
truth and chastity the fire was extinguished in a trice.
As Chandramati prayed, there was a heavy downpour. On one side there was
a raging fire and on the other side started a heavy rain, and ultimately the
fire was completely extinguished. Savitri was also endowed with great power of
penance and chastity. She could even stop Yama (Lord of Death) from taking her
husband’s life. She argued with Yama and told him, “The life of wife depends
upon her husband and that of the husband on his wife. One cannot live without
the other. So, if you want to take my husband’s life, take my life also. Or
else, spare his life. We are not separate from each other. It is my primary
duty to safeguard my husband’s life”. Ultimately, Lord Yama had to revive
Savitri’s husband. Is there any country or region in this world where one can
find a woman like Savitri who could bring her dead husband back to life? Such
divine power is latent in every human being. Man should draw this power from
within himself, which he can utilise not only for himself but for others also.
During those times, wife considered her husband as her very life and
vice-versa. But, unfortunately, the situation is not the same today. This
sacred land of Bharat is surrounded by the seven seas. In this land, many women
like Damayanti, Savitri performed intense penance. They are all women of great
chastity. But today we do not find such women of great chastity.
A Pativrata (chaste woman) is one who considers her Pati (husband) as her
very life and depends entirely on him. A Pativrata is one who does not talk
back to her husband. There will not be even a little defect in her. She does
not have any selfish desires. All that she does is for the sake of her husband.
She would not even look at any male other than her husband. Only such a woman
can be called a true Pativrata. But modern ladies do not follow their husbands.
They do not listen to what their husbands say. When the wife follows her
husband and the husband follows the wife and both lead a life of harmony, then
the entire country will attain peace and prosperity. It is due to the
differences between the husband and wife and disunity in the family that the
country is subjected to one trouble after the other. Both husband and wife
should understand each other and adjust with each other.
A Pativrata who strictly obeys the command of her husband can do
anything. If she prepares food for her husband with saline water of the ocean,
it will be changed into sweet water. When the wife obeys the command of her
husband and the husband fulfils the desires of his wife, then the future of the
family will be safe and secure. If they act contrary to this, the family will
be subjected to great suffering. Both husband and wife may conduct themselves
in a decent manner when they are in their house. But as soon as they step out
of the house, they indulge in all sorts of evils. If there is no unity and
harmony between wife and husband, there is no use of undertaking spiritual
practices like Japa, Dhyana (chanting, meditation), etc.
When the wife follows her husband and the husband follows his wife, there
is great happiness in the family. Strive to achieve such unity and harmony in
your family. Then, your entire life will become happy and peaceful without any
worries whatsoever. All your worries are of your own making. They are not given
by God. God is not at a distant place. He is immanent in man. You should have
unwavering faith in this truth. Then there will be happiness not only in the
individual but also in society. Pure heart is the temple of God. Therefore,
develop love in your heart. You will attain everything in life.
There will be peace and happiness in the family when both husband and
wife share the same views. A Pativrata is one who has no other thought of
anybody or anything except that of her husband. A woman who leads her life with
such unflinching faith in her husband can achieve everything in her life. When
both follow different paths, then there can be no peace and happiness in the
family. You should not allow your mind to waver this way and that way. You
should totally focus it on God. Contemplation of God is the basis to achieve
unity and harmony in the family. When the wife prays to God, the husband will
become a good person.
Chaste woman of yore like Sita and Damayanti had single-minded devotion
towards their husbands. Sita was held captive in Lanka for ten months. But
never even once did she look at the face of a male person. She spent all her
time in the contemplation of Rama, sitting under a tree in Ashoka forest. She
did not move out at all. As she was such a great chaste woman, she could prove
her purity through Agni Pariksha (test of fire).
God is only one, not two. He is the indweller of your heart. If you
constantly contemplate on Him, you will also become God. Whomsoever you come
across, consider them as the embodiments of divinity. That is the principle of
divinity. On the other hand, if you follow the vagaries of your mind and move
about arbitrarily here and there, how can you become God? When you go to your
college, why should you look here and there and indulge in vain gossip? Focus
your mind on the purpose for which you have come. Do your work without
developing unnecessary contacts. Look after your family. There is nothing wrong
in this. Nobody tells you to give up performing your worldly duties. Live in
the world and perform your duties. But always have divine feelings.
Many people go to places of pilgrimage like Badrinath, Amarnath,
Kedarnath, Bhadrachalam, Tirupati, etc., in search of God. They think that they
can find God at such places. Oh foolish man! God is not somewhere else. In
fact, you yourself are God. God is present in all. God is only one and He is
present wherever you look for Him. He is in you, with you, above you, below
you. God is beyond birth and death and indwells every being in the form of
Atma. He is present in all human beings right from a child to an old man. The
same God is present in an ant, a mosquito and in all birds, beasts and animals.
Therefore, do not go in search of God here and there and trouble yourself.
Wherever you see, God is present there. Whomsoever you see, there is God
in him. God has no different form. All forms are His. That is why the Veda
declared, Sahasra Seersha Purusha Sahasraksha Sahasra Pad (The Cosmic Being has
thousands of heads, eyes and feet). When you sit for meditation, your mind
wanders here and there. You should not allow the mind to waver and keep it
always steady. When you go to a seashore, you will hear the waves making the
sound of Om! When you concentrate on that sound, you will forget everything.
Since you are all young, I wish to emphasise this point. Do not develop
opposition or differences among you. Controversies give rise to many troubles.
These days some people marry not once, not twice, not thrice, but even four
times. This is not a good practice. Be single-minded. Even if somebody makes
you angry, do not fight with him. Understand that by fighting with others, you
actually harm yourself. Control your thoughts. This is the quality of a truly
educated person. This is called educare. Along with education, you should also
have educare. When you have educare, you will have everything – health,
happiness, peace and prosperity. This is what I want you to understand.
Everything will become good to you if you make your heart pure. At least from
today onwards, take to the right path. If somebody tries to put you on the
wrong path, do not pay any heed to him. Even if such a person comes to you and
tries to start a conversation with you, do not even look at his face. Just
ignore him and go away from him.
Students should live with unity in all matters. But today unity has
disappeared altogether. On the other hand, enmity is on the rise. When one
student in the class secures high marks, other students start feeling jealous
of him. This should not be there. Because jealousy gives rise to hatred. There
will be further divisions if politics enter the educational institutions.
Therefore, all students should live with unity and solidarity.
You should achieve unity. There is no unity in the youth today. First and
foremost, the youth should come forward to help each other. The end of
education is character. If your character is good, then you can achieve
anything in life. You may think you have won gold medals, acquired high degrees
and achieved name and fame. But if you lack character, these degrees are merely
a piece of paper. It is most essential for you to safeguard your character.
Only such a person is a truly learned one.
When Ravana was taking Sita away to Lanka, she dropped all her ornaments
in a bundle which fell a mountain. Rama and Lakshmana, while going in search of
Sita, were shown this bundle by Sugriva. Rama asked Lakshmana to see the
ornaments and identify if they belonged to Sita. Then Lakshmana replied,
“Brother! I never looked at the face of Sita and therefore I do not know
whether these ornaments belong to her or not. I can recognise only the anklets
as I have seen them while offering my obeisances to her feet everyday”.
Sita, Rama and Lakshmana lived together in the forest for almost fourteen
years. But not even once did Lakshmana look at the face of Sita. What a
pure-hearted person Lakshmana was! Whenever he had to talk to Sita, he talked
to her with his head bent down. As he was such a noble person, he could enjoy
the wealth of proximity of Rama. When Lakshmana fell unconscious in the
battlefield, Rama said, “If I search, I may get a wife like Sita but not a
brother like Lakshmana. I can bear the separation from Sita, but not from
Lakshmana”. Such was the strong bond of love between Rama and Lakshmana.
Students also should develop such unity considering all their brothers
and sisters. All are human beings. All are the children of God. Therefore, you
should live with unity without giving room to any differences. This is My
message for you today.
