Monday, 5 August 2013
Do your best and God will do the rest
By Aravind Balasubramanya
Involvement without attachment
That should inspire us to be completely involved...
There is no scarcity of people’s stories where hard work has gone in vain,
unrewarded. There is also no scarcity of such stories where results and gifts
are handed on a platter to people who do nothing at all. Amid these two
extremes, we find a broad spectrum of people who get results disproportionate
to their efforts. Thus, we find people of the first extreme getting frustrated
with making efforts and people of the second extreme wondering why efforts have
to be made at all when ‘luck’ seems to be ‘gifting’ people at random. And there
is confusion on the efficacy of efforts in the intermediate area of the
spectrum.
Blessed is he/she who is able to stay out of and go beyond the spectrum
mentioned above! It is indeed a great blessing to be able to persevere with
one’s efforts without getting affected, positively or negatively, by the
results the efforts bring. This holds good for all kinds of efforts - at home,
at the workplace, in school and generally in life (which includes one’s
spiritual efforts as well). This ability to separate oneself from the results
of one’s efforts has been described in the Bhagwad Gita by Lord Krishna as
Karma Phala Tyaga (giving up the fruits of efforts).
My Lord and best friend, my Swami, Bhagawan Sri Sathya Sai Baba explains this
beautifully. He says that one must have the ability of involvement without
attachment. And that - involvement without attachment - is precisely what I
feel is the meaning of this famous proverb:
Do your best and God will do the rest.
Two reassuring incidents with Swami come to mind at this point. They are
similar in the way they panned out and probably that is the reason why I always
remember them together. Thinking about them, I feel that also carry the same
message in slightly different ways.
Goodness and Godliness
This incident is set sometime in the years 2000-2001. It is the experience of a
student who joined the Sri Sathya Sai Higher Secondary School for his XI grade
in 1986. He graduated in 1991 with a Bachelors degree in commerce. Let us call
this student Govind for identity sake.
Govind had decided to spend all his life with his Lord and master, his beloved
Swami. Therefore, he continued to be closely associated in many ways with
different projects that Swami undertook. Then came the time when his mother
told Swami that it was time for her son to get married.
Swami always stresses to the children and youth to consider their parents as
God. Matru Devo Bhava, Pitru Devo Bhava He says - regard and revere your mother
and your father as God. He called Govind and told him to get married. Govind
was hesitant. He feared that the girl who would become his wife would also take
him away from Swami. He expressed the same to Swami and said,
“Swami, I don’t care what kind of a girl she is. She should be a Sai devotee.”
When he said so, Swami slightly reprimanded him. Swami said that he should not
simply say that he didn’t care what kind of a girl he married. The girls should
be virtuous and good. It didn’t matter it she wasn’t a ‘Sai-devotee’. Govind
was adamant about his point of view. He tried to reason out with Swami. His
heart pounded harder even as he thought of the possibility of him being pulled
away from his Swami in case his wife did not ‘believe’ in Him.
Godliness attracts goodness naturally.
That was when Swami made a statement that reassured Govind. That statement
continues to be such an inspiration for me. I always think of it in many
different contexts. Swami told him,
“Ay! You just look out for virtues. Ensure that you select a good girl. I will
ensure that her goodness is attracted to my Godliness.”
Wow! What a statement! What a reassurance! There is the obvious message that
when one has put in one’s best efforts and done his/her best, God is always
ready to do the rest. However, there is also a different, subtle message for me
who claims to be His devotee.
I realize that I become Swami’s devotee only when there is goodness in me. I
don’t become a devotee because of ‘knowing’ Him for 50 years or having got
dozens of interviews/opportunities to touch His feet/have darshan. At the same
time, I also learn that if anyone does not ‘accept’ my God, it does not matter.
As long as they are good people, it is enough. Goodness automatically gets
attracted to divinity/Godliness in due course of time. So, I need not unduly
worry if people criticize or ridicule my Lord - as long as they are good
beings! Nothing taints the Lord.
Is there a shortage of ‘goodness’ in the world?
Well, it is indeed heartening that goodness gets attracted to godliness. But
again, in the ‘practical’ world as we call it, we feel that this is not
happening. Bad seems to be proliferating at such a pace that there seems to be
no ‘sufficient goodness’ to get attracted to Godliness! What do we do? It is
here that the importance of being good oneself cannot be overemphasized.
“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
Now that is a cliche that we have heard again and again from many places, at
many times. One of the most beautiful expressions of this cliche can be found
as the epitaph of a 12th century monk. On the grave are the following words:
“When I was young and had all energies, I wanted to change the world. I found
it difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation. When I
realized that the nation was too large a place, I began to focus on my town. I
couldn’t even change the town and so I decided that changing my family would be
sufficient. Now, on my deathbed, I know that the only thing I can change is
myself.
Suddenly I realize that if,long ago, I had changed myself, I could have
impacted my family. With its support, I could have made an impact on our town.
That impact could have changed the nation and, who knows, one day I could
indeed have changed the world!”
Once again, the inspiration and reassurance from Swami is wonderful.
Role models and inspiration
Time and again, Swami exhorts the importance of one’s efforts. In fact, in the
summer course discourse delivered on the 28th May 1993, Swami said,
“There is nothing that cannot be achieved through man’s efforts. He can even
bring the whole ocean into a glass and drink it up completely. When he was
born, he knew no alphabet but he is soon able to write complete books. However,
the problem comes with one’s mind.”
A little more insight into this can be gained from a student’s experience.
It was one of those memorable Trayee sessions in which Swami had stressed on
the importance of one putting in one’s best efforts. A student who was thinking
‘practically’ raised his hand and raised a doubt along with it. He asked Swami,
“Swami, you tell us that you will transform the world through us. But isn’t
that such a tough task. There are so many people in the world and the number of
students are so few. How can it ever happen?
Swami smiled at the student and then said,
“You take care of following and practicing the ideals I have taught. That is
all that needs to be your worry. When you are ideal, I shall make sure that the
world notices you and gets inspired by you. That is my job and you don’t worry
about it.”
Isn't that another beautiful reassurance? Again, it carries a subtle for me.
When I put in efforts, my focus and energies must be only on the efforts.
Keeping an eye on when the fruit is coming or why it is not coming does not
help. At the right time and circumstance, God will deliver the fruit for He
always knows best.
That is where I feel that the monk’s epitaph can be slightly modified. Yes, it
is indeed true that changing oneself can change the world one day. But for that
to happen, one should change oneself only with the focus on changing oneself.
If one changes oneself BECAUSE he/she wants to change the world, there might be
a problem! That is precisely the Karma Phala Tyaga that Lord Krishna spoke
about. In view of that has been discussed so far, I would like to modify the
famous proverb in this manner-
Do your best and then just rest. God will do the rest and, whatever that is, it
will always be the best!
�Aravindb1982
Source:
http://aravindb1982.blogspot.in/2013/08/do-your-best-and-god-will-do-rest-sathya-sai.html
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