Who is Your True Friend? 





My Dear Students! 


You should have good sight. See good. How to see good? When you have good 
thoughts, you will get good vision. Do good. When you get a good thought, you 
can do good actions. When you have a bad thought, you will do only bad actions. 
If the whole body wants to perform good actions, you should have pure thoughts. 
For whose sake do you do this? It is for your sake. What for are you performing 
your actions? 'Chittasya Shuddhaye Karmaha'


We undertake actions in order to purify our mind. How can you get the purity of 
mind? Here is a small example. In this world, who is there to love you? Do you 
think your mother loves you? Do you think your father, brother, wife or husband 
love you? It is true that they all love you. However, in their love there is at 
least some trace of selfishness. Who really loves you without selfishness and 
whole-heartedly? Even your dearest friend may love you but not with absolute 
purity as there is still a trace of selfishness. Without having desire for any 
reward, there is only One, who really loves you and that is God. Thus, no 
friend is higher than God in this world, as God does not have even the 
slightest trace of selfishness. God does not perform any actions with 
self-interest. He wants to help others all the time. He performs all actions 
for the sake of others. So, you may think that there are so many who love you 
in this world. No, they love you for the sake of their own benefit and 
selfishness. Even your mother does not love you without a trace of selfishness. 
She has some self-interest for her child. Only God loves you absolutely and 
without any trace of selfishness. We should offer ourselves to such a selfless 
God. 


In this world, we call many as our friends. But who truly is our friend? As 
long as you have money in your pocket and your father is in good position, all 
will tell you 'Hello, Hello'; but, when your father has retired and you do not 
have money, nobody will even say 'Goodbye'! When the tank is full, all frogs go 
there; but if it is empty, you cannot find even a single frog! However, God is 
not like that. All the time His tank is filled with the water of selfless love. 
The change of time and space does not matter for Him. In any situation, the 
tank of God's love will be full of nectarine water. Therefore, God is the only 
true and eternal friend for everyone. Unfortunately, you give up such a friend 
and struggle to attain worldly, physical, temporary and untrue friends. All 
these friendships are ephemeral and last only for a short time. Thus, we should 
always pray to the eternal and true friend. 


Source: Follow the Lord Within, Discourse 7, My Dear Students Volume 2

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