[AZORES-Genealogy] Re: Tracking Relative

2009-01-16 Thread Dolores Coyle
Charlene,

I have online access to old newspapers through Temple University's library.
If you give me some specifics, I may be able to find the obit for you.

Let me know,

Dolores Coyle

On Thu, Jan 15, 2009 at 8:10 PM, Charlene researchp...@gmail.com wrote:


 Thanks to all- those are some good ideas. The relative is buried in a
 Catholic Cemetery. I checked extensively in the local papers for the
 obit, so I think the idea of finding the paper that is local there
 might be a help. I appreciate the insight as to how funerals may be
 handled when the person dies, but is buried somewhere else. That is
 some good information. And the directory of newspapers-Gale
 Publication Directory ,  I did not know about that. Another resource,
 thanks. I got a call back from the local Catholic Church and they
 confirmed that one of the family had Mass said there, but they do not
 have funeral home info. I would like the death certificate from the
 county and I may do that, it gives great info. I have just paid for
 quite a bit of info for another line recently, so I may wait and do
 that if no other lead comes up. This is another situation of a
 relative who won't share info, even though I gave them quite a bit.
 Well, the suggestions you have given are all very good and I thank
 you. I have some things to try and some new angles to consider.

 Much appreciate your help! You guys are a great blessing :)

 Charlene
 


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[AZORES-Genealogy] Re: Tracking Relative

2009-01-15 Thread Steven McNamara

I would look in the location where he lived the longest.  Since the family
has to pay for the obit, they may not have put it in the paper where he
died, since he may have known less people there.  My grandfather lived in
the same town for 60 years.  We moved him to a nursing home in the state my
mother was in two months prior to his death.  We only had the obit in the
papers in the Boston suburb he was from.  

My parents lived in NH but they have a plot in MA. When my father died last
summer we contacted the funeral home in MA.  They then contacted a local NH
funeral home to get my father and then transport him to MA.  We always use
the same funeral home, maybe his family does too! Do you know the one his
family would use?  

Good Luck!

Steven  


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[AZORES-Genealogy] Re: Tracking Relative

2009-01-15 Thread eric edgar
Charlene,

I'd get an informational copy of the death certificate from the county. The
informant is usually a relative. I'd try to contact that person, or search
their death information and look for that Obit.

This has worked for me  a few times before.

Eric Edgar

On Wed, Jan 14, 2009 at 8:23 PM, Charlene researchp...@gmail.com wrote:


 I have a relative that died in one county in the 1960's, then was
 buried in another. Both are in California but about 400 miles apart. I
 can find no obit in the county in which he died. I called the cemetery
 where he is buried, and they are not going to give any information. I
 am trying to find where his children went, if he had any brothers or
 sisters. Does someone have an obit in the city where they are buried,
 or is it usually just skipped because he wasn't living there when he
 died?

 The cemetery won't look up the records and tell me the funeral home or
 any other information. It is in the Los Angeles area. Does a family
 contract with two funeral homes to transfer a body, then bury it, or
 how does that work?  Any ideas how to get more info? I thought if I
 could get the funeral home on one of his relatives, I could probably
 get info that would open up the rest. No luck.

 Charlene
 


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[AZORES-Genealogy] Re: Tracking Relative

2009-01-15 Thread Michelle
It can be placed in both places (as Cheri mentioned) or not at all. The cost
to place an obit can be
prohibitive if the person didn't have insurance. Some newspapers (present
day) do have a free placement but it's like one sentence. I'm finding many
of my relatives families didn't have obits for the deceased. In my most
recent experience, my aunt (Homen/Homem) passed away two months ago. She
lived in Los Angeles for 45 years but as she got older her association with
people got less and less. Since most of her siblings still live in New
Bedford and she was born there, I put the obit in that local paper and not
in LA.

Her wish was to be cremated but she does want her  her twin sisters ashes
to be buried with their parents. In this scenario the funeral home would
have mailed her ashes to the cemetery of choice by Priority Mail or I can do
it myself and make arrangements directly with the cemetery.

As Eric mentioned I would request an informational copy of the death record
from the county.

Best of luck...

1/14/09, Charlene researchp...@gmail.com wrote:


 I have a relative that died in one county in the 1960's, then was
 buried in another. Both are in California but about 400 miles apart. I
 can find no obit in the county in which he died. I called the cemetery
 where he is buried, and they are not going to give any information. I
 am trying to find where his children went, if he had any brothers or
 sisters. Does someone have an obit in the city where they are buried,
 or is it usually just skipped because he wasn't living there when he
 died?

 The cemetery won't look up the records and tell me the funeral home or
 any other information. It is in the Los Angeles area. Does a family
 contract with two funeral homes to transfer a body, then bury it, or
 how does that work?  Any ideas how to get more info? I thought if I
 could get the funeral home on one of his relatives, I could probably
 get info that would open up the rest. No luck.

 Charlene
 


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[AZORES-Genealogy] Re: Tracking Relative

2009-01-15 Thread Cakemom102
Our newspaper offers a free obituary that is very complete.  It lists  all 
survivors and those who have predeceased and the time of the services.   This 
is 
handled by the funeral home. I think it depends on the size of the  town.  In 
the large city near us, I believe that all obits are paid  for.  Hopefully, 
your relative resided in a small town for most of their  life, since we still 
have obits published of people who lived here years  ago.  Of course, someone 
has to let the paper know in order for it to be  published.
 
Mary Ann
 
 
In a message dated 1/15/2009 11:20:25 A.M. Pacific Standard Time,  
morinmi1...@gmail.com writes:

It can be placed in both places (as Cheri mentioned) or not at all. The  cost 
to place an obit can be
prohibitive if the person didn't have insurance. Some  newspapers (present 
day) do have a free placement but it's like one  sentence. I'm finding many of 
my relatives families didn't have obits for the  deceased. In my most recent 
experience, my aunt (Homen/Homem) passed away two  months ago. She lived in Los 
Angeles for 45 years but as she got older her  association with people got 
less and less. Since most of her siblings still  live in New Bedford and she 
was 
born there, I put the obit in that local  paper and not in LA. 
 
Her wish was to be cremated but she does want her  her twin sisters  ashes 
to be buried with their parents. In this scenario the funeral home would  have 
mailed her ashes to the cemetery of choice by Priority Mail  or I can do it 
myself and make arrangements directly with the  cemetery.
 
As Eric mentioned I would request an informational copy of the death  record 
from the county. 
 
Best of luck...
 
1/14/09, Charlene  _researchp...@gmail.com_ (mailto:researchp...@gmail.com) 
  wrote:
 

I  have a relative that died in one county in the 1960's, then was
buried in  another. Both are in California but about 400 miles apart. I
can find no  obit in the county in which he died. I called the cemetery
where he is  buried, and they are not going to give any information. I
am trying to  find where his children went, if he had any brothers or
sisters. Does  someone have an obit in the city where they are buried,
or is it usually  just skipped because he wasn't living there when he
died?

The  cemetery won't look up the records and tell me the funeral home or
any  other information. It is in the Los Angeles area. Does a family
contract  with two funeral homes to transfer a body, then bury it, or
how does that  work?  Any ideas how to get more info? I thought if I
could get  the funeral home on one of his relatives, I could probably
get info that  would open up the rest. No luck.

Charlene





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[AZORES-Genealogy] Re: Tracking Relative

2009-01-14 Thread E Sharp

Charlene,

I have had relatives who died in one county and are buried in another
and the obits appeared in both local papers.  LA is a tough place to
try and find an obit as I went through this a while back and could not
find the one I was looking for.  My brother in law's brother just
passed away in CT and he is being buried in MA and his obit appeared
in the local MA paper.

E

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