Hello,
Heres an interesting situation I came across this past Sunday when I called
a dance in the Southern California area
.
Lesson being: always watch the dance floor to see whats happening during
the whole evening, you never know whos going to jump into the dance late
I was calling a dance at a community where the dance level is fairly high,
however there are some quirky things going on in the community that I needed to
keep in mind, etc
. This dance starts at 6:30 9:30pm, lesson being between 6
6:30pm.
We had some new folks show up at about 6:35 6:40pm, so I chose to re-do the
walk thru, and incorporated some basic tips into my teaching to the floor at
large. I also went down on the floor and went directly to some hands 4 groups
of experienced dancers and told them weve had some new folks that came in,
theyve had no lesson; I really need your assistance in teaching them and
watching out for them
. That was my first time I directly did this with
dancers.
So, I re-programmed dance #2 and #3 to easier dances. And jumped in with my
regular program with dance #4 which took it up some notches, and everything
flowed fine. Second half, I took it up considerably as this community has some
very experienced dancers expecting a challenge, the new folks were doing well
During or after dance #2 second half, someone arrived with a dog. Everyone
seemed to know the dog and pet and greeted the dog. It looked to me like
someone just stopped in to say HI for awhile. I taught dance #3 second half.
It was a dance that had a grand right & left up and down the longways set (pull
by Left N1, pull by Rt N2, pull by Left N3, N4 Al Rt 1x; come back the way you
came; pull by N3, Swing N2
.)
..I started thinning out my calls and was
about to stop calling, and as the #2s that started down at the back of the
hall, came closer to the stage, I notice there was one woman I hadnt seen
before wearing a rust color dress
. (I have a hawk of an eye for watching
folks, especially the new folks). She was doing fine as long as I was calling.
Then, when I started thinning out, she was getting confused. Some people were
helping along, guiding her gently. Some stayed focused on their own dancing
pleasure and let her fumble along (that was also fascinating to watch:
who guided gently and politely, and who ignored the situation!
.). I tested
it some more by stopping to call a bit; she got lost, called a little she was
fine
. Wow, this is really interesting, I thought. I hadnt seen her before
.
So, this begged the question: do I keep calling to help her out (one person),
or do I let her fumble and let some help out
. After experimenting some more
(calling thinly and watching her
. I stopped calling once and she ended up in
a completely different hands 4 group for the P Bal & Swg no where near her P),
I finally figured out what was happening! The woman was blind! Or, at least
hard of seeing
. A caller friend was at the top of the set Hey I asked my
friend is that woman over there blind?,
. yeah, he said, quite
non-chalantly, no big- deal
.
I decided to keep calling thinly for her. If other dancers had more
consistently assisted her from the floor, I could have stopped calling.
After the dance ended, I was talking to the band about it
. And the lead
accordion player said that must be her eye seeing dog!
. which I hadnt even
thought of or figured out. Everyone seemed to know her. It was interesting
that no one thought to tell the caller that a blind / hard of seeing woman had
jumped in during dance #3 of the second half.
One of the many good advice that Lisa Greenleaf and Cis Hinkle had given me
when I first started calling was: if you want to be a good caller and are
able to travel, hit the road and see how dancing is done, (and calling), in
other parts of the United States. I took this literally, have danced all over,
and also called all over, and the learning experiences Ive gained have paid
off. I recently called in Fort Collins Colorado, and had danced at
Denver-Boulder-Fort Collins, CO a few months before that. There was a blind
gentleman who dances there, so I had both danced and called with him on the
dance floor. Plus, prior to calling at the Fort Collins dance, one of the
organizers included me on a lengthy email to callers addressing another topic
(requesting callers to be mindful of beginners and integrating the new comers).
In this email, they had also mentioned the blind gentleman that dances
regularly in the community, so I was prepared.
I thought this was an experience worth sharing. I thought it was odd that
she arrived and joined in the dance evening so late. But, people knew her, so
it she was no stranger to the community. Keep your eyes on the floor during
the whole dance. The dancers can change as the evening continues!
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Karen