[FairfieldLife] Adyashanti in Fairfield

2011-04-20 Thread feste37
Adyashanti was excellent in the Sondheim last night. He had a good crowd, about 
300, I would guess. He is very smart, very articulate, well worth hearing, for 
those who like that kind of thing (the waking up thing, that is). I much 
prefer him to the imperious drama queen, Gangaji. He handled questions 
superbly, understanding exactly where people were coming from and taking them 
where they wanted to go but didn't know how. Very down-to-earth manner, not a 
trace of arrogance, speaking democratically as one human being to others. I 
enjoyed him a lot. He is speaking tonight, also, at 7:30.  



Re: [FairfieldLife] Adyashanti in Fairfield

2011-04-20 Thread Peter
Perhaps coming out of more of a zen/buddhist tradition makes him a little more 
direct and intellectual. I've always enjoyed his simple clarity.

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 Adyashanti was excellent in the
 Sondheim last night. He had a good crowd, about 300, I would
 guess. He is very smart, very articulate, well worth
 hearing, for those who like that kind of thing (the waking
 up thing, that is). I much prefer him to the imperious
 drama queen, Gangaji. He handled questions superbly,
 understanding exactly where people were coming from and
 taking them where they wanted to go but didn't know how.
 Very down-to-earth manner, not a trace of arrogance,
 speaking democratically as one human being to others. I
 enjoyed him a lot. He is speaking tonight, also, at
 7:30.  
 
 
 
 
 
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RE: [FairfieldLife] Adyashanti in Fairfield

2011-04-20 Thread Rick Archer
Comment from a non-FFL member friend on this thread:

 

I think putting down gangji was in appropriate and unnecessary. she may not
be his cup of tea but seems to have a following of people who get a lot out
of her.  

also,,, adyahanti is a good speaker but what value is it long term... my exp
is that he describes the exp of realization and also what needs to be done.
in terms of coming out of denial. embracing the dark side and investigating
belief systems.

he basically said what B katie says.  the only suffering is un investigated
beliefs, but he gives no way really that is systematic for people to go in
and deal with the shadow side or all the thoughts..

I need

I want

 I should

he shouldn't etc

he helped someone with atma vichara who am I, and encouraged someone to
ask themselves what is my deepest fears etc. this I felt was going in the
right direction and helpful.

its still nice to hear this kind of satsang.. good to have understanding as
well

this wont make sense to you unless you are really caught in the suffering
like someone of the questioners last night.. I really could relate and
thansk God I have katie, the sedona method and shadow work. just doing who
am I  or lsitening to advatia talks are good entertainment but for going
deep into mental patterns to release them. I think a lot more needs to be
done. he seemed to say the say thing but doesnt give much direction.

 



RE: [FairfieldLife] Adyashanti in Fairfield

2011-04-20 Thread Peter
And then this poster goes on to put down Adyashanti! We are nothing if not 
hypocrites!

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From: Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com
Subject: RE: [FairfieldLife] Adyashanti in Fairfield
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, April 20, 2011, 12:53 PM











 











Comment from a non-FFL member friend on this thread:  I think putting down 
gangji was in appropriate and unnecessary. she may not be his cup of tea but 
seems to have a following of people who get a lot out of her.  also,,, 
adyahanti is a good speaker but what value is it long term... my exp is that he 
describes the exp of realization and also what needs to be done. in terms of 
coming out of denial. embracing the dark side and investigating belief 
systems.he basically said what B katie says.  the only suffering is un 
investigated   beliefs, but he gives no way really that is systematic for 
people to go in and deal with the shadow side or all the thoughts..I needI 
want I shouldhe shouldn't etche helped someone with atma vichara who am I, 
and encouraged someone to ask themselves what is my deepest fears etc. this I 
felt was going in the right direction and helpful.its still nice to hear this 
kind of satsang.. good to have understanding as
 wellthis wont make sense to you unless you are really caught in the suffering 
like someone of the questioners last night.. I really could relate and thansk 
God I have katie, the sedona method and shadow work. just doing who am I  or 
lsitening to advatia talks are good entertainment but for going deep into 
mental patterns to release them. I think a lot more needs to be done. he seemed 
to say the say thing but doesnt give much direction.   



















Re: [FairfieldLife] Adyashanti in Fairfield

2011-04-20 Thread Sal Sunshine
On Apr 20, 2011, at 11:53 AM, Rick Archer wrote:

 Comment from a non-FFL member friend on this thread:
  I think putting down gangji was in appropriate and unnecessary. she may not 
 be his cup of tea but seems to have a following of people who get a lot out 
 of her. 

Sure glad the politeness police are out so that
we know what is appropriate and necessary, and
what isn't.  Thank goodness for that.
I agreed with feste's comment, and I actually like
Gangaji.  And what's wrong with being a drama
queen, anyway?  Why is that automatically an
insult? :)
 also,,, adyahanti is a good speaker but what value is it long term...

And I'm also really glad that there is someone
to tell myself and others what is good for us...
no reason to try anything out for ourselves then,
we can just let Mr. Politeness Police decide that
for us.

 my exp is that he describes the exp of realization and also what needs to be 
 done. in terms of coming out of denial. embracing the dark side and 
 investigating belief systems.  he basically said what B katie says.  the 
 only suffering is un investigated   beliefs, but he gives no way really that 
 is systematic for people to go in and deal with the shadow side or all the 
 thoughts..

And if a person doesn't say exactly what I
think he should, I can say that.  But you can't
say what you think of other spiritual masters
(so-called).  Are we all clear on that now?
And never refer to anyone as a drama
queen, even if they are.


 I need
 I want
  I should
 he shouldn't etc
 he helped someone with atma vichara who am I, and encouraged someone to ask 
 themselves what is my deepest fears etc. this I felt was going in the right 
 direction and helpful.
 its still nice to hear this kind of satsang.. good to have understanding as 
 well
 this wont make sense to you unless you are really caught in the suffering 
 like someone of the questioners last night..

Of course, a lecture on appropriateness 
is never complete without the usual
condescending observations.
 I really could relate and thansk God I have katie, the sedona method and 
 shadow work.

Yes, we all should thank God we have our own personal
experts and cult leaders, that way we don't actually 
have to use our brains and think for ourselves once in 
a while.  That is a huge relief, as it then leaves us more
time to fully focus on what's really important, like watching
TV and feeling smugly superior to all the other
ignorant slobs out there.
 just doing who am I  or lsitening to advatia talks are good entertainment 
 but for going deep into mental patterns to release them. I think a lot more 
 needs to be done. he seemed to say the say thing but doesnt give much 
 direction.

Whereas the people *I* follow are the deepest
of the deep, the most directed, the most
expert on releasing mental patterns.  Nobody
else could possibly measure up. And my
daddy drove a bigger car than yours did too.
 





RE: [FairfieldLife] Adyashanti in Fairfield

2011-04-20 Thread Rick Archer
Nice account of the evening by someone:

 

John and i were blown away- Adya is amazing- so simple and clear- no fancy
stuff- and the crowd was great-  there were about 350 people-  we're going
back tonight and taking our neighbor- there were a few questions and really
good ones-  one gal i know asked one- she said she has had so many
experiences of emptiness but was bummed that she is still a seeker - yeah,
that is true, and i loved her honesty-  Adya told her to look within to find
herself- she said she just couldn't find herself- he kept with her and when
she kind of frustratedly said that there just wasn't something that was
there, he said BINGO! and she got it-  so simple- he told her that that
emptiness doesn't seem like a great thing at first but to keep being with
that- and a kind of devotion to that develops- great- that is the deal-
eventually, and he said he didn't want to say this now and to forget he said
it but it is true anyway... eventually that emptiness is found to be
everything- fullness- all that is-  

i am making it sound not fabulous, but he was- his simplicity and true
humility and naturalness were amazing-  

this was like ointment for this gal- i was so happy for her.  he said that
each of us can see that within  ourselves any and all the time, and we can
also see it in our loved ones and friends and then also in everyone and
everything.  he brought it down so that it was completely accessible to
everyone there.

one guy started it out by asking about addictions- he goes between Peace and
addictions- Adya was completely non-judgemental- beautiful-  talked about
the shadow side being just as important as the Light side-  both duality-
and when we sit in the Light, we have to embrace the Dark, or the Dark will
come knocking on our door so that we can see that the jewel of Emptiness is
also found even in the Shadows-  He told him to keep asking himself what he
really wanted from the addiction- deep-  it helped the guy a lot, and it
addressed 'embodiment', which was great for the Bonder people who were
there.  I walked out with one of them.  she was prepared not to like him but
loved him after.

Another was totally a head guy- obvious- Adya got him to see the Space- to
acknowledge the realization of that. Soothing and freeing.

When he was talking, he said that it is interesting that when he sometimes
will tell the people at his retreats, 'ok, now let's meditate'- all of a
sudden there is a lot of shifting in seats and movement to get comfortable
for the meditation-  he laughs and says that it is so funny because they are
getting READY to find what is already here-  that was a cool thing!

and so true!

The Gita stuff was intersting... Krishna showed Arjuna the whole trip, but
Ar. wasn't quite ready for all the shadow stuff.  The war was about the war
of not wanting to let go- when we awaken, we let go of not only the bad but
also the good- and that is the hard part- like Arjuna having to kill his
relatives (the good parts about life that we are attached to).

 

Since so many people go to the domes, i don't know who was there who go and
who don't- i think it was well mixed, and there were people there that we
know and many we have never seen before and a good mix of our age and
younger-  I'll be interested to see tonight how many are repeats and how
many new-  I completely recommend that anyone go.  Can't imagine anyone
being put off by him. 

 

Oh yeah, he also talked about the infinite variety of awakenings and also
how an awakening is just the beginning- it is walking through the portal and
not the end.  He said some have huge blown awakenings, and that is lovely
but also can trap them, cuz they deep down keep referring to that big one-
and there is a kind of attachment to it in their being.  And some just have
an, 'Oh, for goodness sake, well, i'll be darned' kind of awakening-
adorable of him'- and said that these kind can be easier, cuz there is no
attachment to the initial breatkthrough.  Quite refreshing.  

 

He said that when he was in his twenties, he had completed his Buddhist
training and felt so good about being a Buddhist and had his mandala beads
on his wrist.  One day he started having some thoughts that perhaps he was
identifying himself as something- as a Buddhist.  The next day, the beads
caught on something and they went flying all over the floor. Stillness
moved!