[FairfieldLife] Re: Reinvent Yourself!

2009-01-08 Thread Duveyoung
curtisdeltablues wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@ wrote:
 
  curtisdeltablues wrote:
  Some of us already know who we REALLY are.  It isn't that big a
deal.
 
 
  Curtis, you're talking about the spectrum called personality,
right?
  Not something beyond the physical, right?

 Isn't our personality and mind beyond the physical?  They arises from
 our physical brain's activity but it is a wonderful nonphysical
reality.

Hmmm, now this sure sounds like you're a priest with a PhD in
psychology.

Man, did I want to be one of those all my life, but my aim was off and I
ended up wearing a suit with extra wide lapels and driving a cheap car
with a SCI pamphlet for a bible.

Hey, wait, Bloomfield came a lot closer to that goal, and his highly
regarded opinion was that candy is dandy but . . .

But I digress.  Come on, dude, aren't you slipping up here?  You've
banged my head repeatedly about anything remotely mystical, and
non-physical reality coming out of your keyboard is like seeing Bunny
Wigglesworth come over the horizon instead of Zorro.

Toss me a definition, eh?  If you meant merely radiation, not matter,
then that's a much easier to defend definition of a matrix in which
personality is embodied or from which mind emerges.

If it's radiation or a neuronic processing, then that's still way
physical IMO.

 
  Word schmerds, eh?
 
  If you have the time, I would dwell with a serious intent on your
  definitions of:
 
  Real

 This is context dependent as a concept.  It is meaningful in context.
  If I am imagining a green dinosaur it is not real in the physical
 world, but I can tell a story about it and it will be a real part of
 that story.  Discussing this kind of concept outside its concept is a
 quality of some spiritual discussions that I am not into.

Slippery again are ya?  If a green dinosaur (a jackalope, right?) is
real, then whenever you've stomped me about inserting the concept, God,
into a discussion, you must have been thinking of another definition of
real -- a higher standard for God is being applied by you, and that's
fine, but . . . ahem.

Yeah, we know a jackalope is not a sentient entity with a causative
potency, and when I speak about God it seems you've often thought that
I'm granting Him/Her/It/That not only a physical reality, but actually
tacitly defining Him with a hyper-realness that is beyond the physical. 
And you'd be wrong to think that at least when I use God nowadays. 
(Might have used it too loosely,  the wrong way, in my past posts, but
not recently.)

Just to be sure you know, I think that God is a process that TM labels
amness, but that this is a physical process that dies with the robot;
yet this God can be contacted and gotten jiggy with (transcending) and
that any attempt to get resonant with it is a powerful therapy for the
personality.  Not that transcending is like going to a masterclass
wherein one acquires the skill to mindfully evolve with a set of
God-axioms as the guides, but transcending is having the skill of
avoiding the lure of identifying with thoughts and this can be a general
dynamic in daily life that's quite useful.

Non-physical reality.  A mouthful, chew it for us a bit more before we
swallow it.

 
  Know

 Again, more useful in context.  I am not a complete epistemological
 skeptic, I believe we do know some things.  But if you challenge
 knowledge in an abstract way you lose it's pragmatic value, which for
 me is its most important value.  OMG knowledge leads to action,
 flashback central!  I have been most focused on building myself a
 practical epistemology and don't claim to understand ultimate values
 in life like being and no-being.  I know my limitations and am
 comfortable with them.

Nice credo, but do you see the faith aspect of this stance?

How do you validate your own thoughts as capsules of truth?  Isn't a
thought a thought, and therefore being is as handy as jackalope? 
Yet you are uncomfortable when I use God even when it is obviously
used as a metaphor.  I'm tired of this between us.  I'd like you to
see me first and foremost as an athiest -- you'd be wrong, but you'd be
a lot closer to where I'm at than if you're thinking I'm over here
praying to a non-physcial entity.  Note: athiest not an agnostic.  I
think I KNOW God and that I and anyone is found to be the Witness behind
His thoughts if one gets clarity about Identity.  KNOW is defined as
mere processing, and I don't mean to imply having a
universally-found-in-everyone God process, instead, it is an
idioscyncratic processing that embodies my deepest held axioms -- like
I exist, Isness can be sacred, God's most easily seen in the
processing called intuition.  Etc.  These axioms can be totally
fercockt, but yet they are egoicly identified with and used as if they
are life-supporting, real-real, divine, etc.  And, practically, most
folks have an inner set of goodness rules that is operative when we
try to do what Maharishi said, Don't do 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Reinvent Yourself!

2009-01-07 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, arhatafreespe...@... wrote:

 An ad? That's a new one!

I'm with Bhairitu on this one, his feedback was valid.

I'm glad you are happier surfing then whatever you did on Wall Street.
 That doesn't mean that I am in some box just because you finally
really GOT what was written on your Celestial Seasoning's Hibiscus tea
box.

Reinvent yourself as a non spammer and create discussions.  Most of
the posters here have spent enough time with your counterculture
message to not need a lecture about it. Some of us already know who we
REALLY are.  It isn't that big a deal.



 
 Now this is an ad, IMO. Arhata, I would suggest being more discrete
like 
 just having a link to your website as part of your signature or if 
 someone asked then explaining what you offer and a link.  This however, 
 if I were a moderator, looks more blatant.  Of course others might say 
 there is TMO spam here too but the TMO does not post directly to FFL
and 
 their promotions posted as a topic of discussion.
 
 Arhata Osho wrote:
  Reinvent Yourself!
 
  Stuck being You? Is it really YOU?  Time to find out who you
really are!?  It may be a surprise that the ¡real you¢ is much
  different than who most everyone gets enmeshed in. Reinventing is a
technique that might lead to dropping the attached beliefs that one
lugs around without real examination.  
 
  I have found that people are very much a product of what their
occupation is!  Little do people realize that they become human clones
of what they do in life that is structured, particularly in a ¡routine
job¢, be it a logger, teacher, nurse, computer programmer, lawyer,
engineer, retiree, on and on.  Few occupations create an environment
with the flexibility to be who one REALLY IS.  Of course, race,
religion, nationality, status, etc., program people into ¡boxes¢.
 
  Dropping my ¡Wall Street¢ clothes for a ¡surfin LA¢ persona that
became a total reinvention of the ¡outer¢ has been a tremendous
continuing experience!  Consciously changing allows the dropping of
the ¡cloaking¢ of who you really are
  not.  To merge into a ¡suit¢ of other people¢s expectations of
protocol, usually becomes a path to lose touch with who you really are
deep down.  
 
  Living with other people¢s expectations or, one¢s attached to
yourself, is buying into a complete facade and waste of a precious
life. Locking oneself into the illusionary outer and inner is fear
driven. An explosion of the inner emotional, mental, and spiritual
self leads to the truth that is what we are all here to find. Time is
always ¡today¢ inspite of the illusion of whether one is 10 or 100. 
Reinventing oneself for discovery or morphing into the true self, is
divine. 
 
 
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Reinvent Yourself!

2009-01-07 Thread Arhata Osho
Bizarre response!  Most in this group know who they are beyond polarity?
That's an interesting speculation! Then why respond as such? 
Is there judgment here? Dialog would better find a more accurate
 interpretation.
 Arhata












--- In FairfieldLife@ yahoogroups. com, arhatafreespeech@ ... wrote:



 An ad? That's a new one!



I'm with Bhairitu on this one, his feedback was valid.



I'm glad you are happier surfing then whatever you did on Wall Street.

 That doesn't mean that I am in some box just because you finally

really GOT what was written on your Celestial Seasoning's Hibiscus tea

box.



Reinvent yourself as a non spammer and create discussions.  Most of

the posters here have spent enough time with your counterculture

message to not need a lecture about it. Some of us already know who we

REALLY are.  It isn't that big a deal.



 

 Now this is an ad, IMO. Arhata, I would suggest being more discrete

like 

 just having a link to your website as part of your signature or if 

 someone asked then explaining what you offer and a link.  This however, 

 if I were a moderator, looks more blatant.  Of course others might say 

 there is TMO spam here too but the TMO does not post directly to FFL

and 

 their promotions posted as a topic of discussion.

 

 Arhata Osho wrote:

  Reinvent Yourself!

 

  Stuck being You? Is it really YOU?  Time to find out who you

really are!?  It may be a surprise that the ¡real you¢ is much

  different than who most everyone gets enmeshed in. Reinventing is a

technique that might lead to dropping the attached beliefs that one

lugs around without real examination.  

 

  I have found that people are very much a product of what their

occupation is!  Little do people realize that they become human clones

of what they do in life that is structured, particularly in a ¡routine

job¢, be it a logger, teacher, nurse, computer programmer, lawyer,

engineer, retiree, on and on.  Few occupations create an environment

with the flexibility to be who one REALLY IS.  Of course, race,

religion, nationality, status, etc., program people into ¡boxes¢.

 

  Dropping my ¡Wall Street¢ clothes for a ¡surfin LA¢ persona that

became a total reinvention of the ¡outer¢ has been a tremendous

continuing experience!  Consciously changing allows the dropping of

the ¡cloaking¢ of who you really are

  not.  To merge into a ¡suit¢ of other people¢s expectations of

protocol, usually becomes a path to lose touch with who you really are

deep down.  

 

  Living with other people¢s expectations or, one¢s attached to

yourself, is buying into a complete facade and waste of a precious

life. Locking oneself into the illusionary outer and inner is fear

driven. An explosion of the inner emotional, mental, and spiritual

self leads to the truth that is what we are all here to find. Time is

always ¡today¢ inspite of the illusion of whether one is 10 or 100. 

Reinventing oneself for discovery or morphing into the true self, is

divine. 

 

 

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      Est. 1991    

 

  

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Reinvent Yourself!

2009-01-07 Thread Duveyoung
curtisdeltablues wrote:
Some of us already know who we REALLY are.  It isn't that big a deal.


Curtis, you're talking about the spectrum called personality, right?
Not something beyond the physical, right?

Word schmerds, eh?  

If you have the time, I would dwell with a serious intent on your
definitions of:

Real

Know

And: why it isn't such a big deal to have such clarity.  To me, if
your statement is taken to be utterly true, then you have found truths
of incredible worth.

I must admit that I am so different from even last year's version of
me, that, whew, I really have no grasp of what I might be next -- it
seems to depend on the matrix so much more than on anything I might
(don't laugh) plan for myself.

Yet, you and others pull off being quite certain who they are/will
be/have been with such an aura of conviction that my above POV is
shaken. Am I in denial about knowing my real self?

Questions:  when did you finally become you?  when did you finally
conclude that you had finally concluded about who you are?  how does
change impact your certainties?  aging must mellow all so how does
that jibe witcha?  do you have axioms that have not been shaken for
years, decades, a lifetime?  

Oh, too much to ask of you, but if you have the time

Edg





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reinvent Yourself!

2009-01-07 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_re...@... wrote:

 Questions:  when did you finally become you?  when did you finally
 conclude that you had finally concluded about who you are?  how does
 change impact your certainties?  aging must mellow all so how does
 that jibe witcha?  do you have axioms that have not been shaken for
 years, decades, a lifetime?  

I'm not Curtis, but as axioms go I'm going to
have to vote for, Don't eat the yellow snow.

It's really hard to go wrong with that one.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reinvent Yourself!

2009-01-07 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_re...@... wrote:

 curtisdeltablues wrote:
 Some of us already know who we REALLY are.  It isn't that big a deal.
 
 
 Curtis, you're talking about the spectrum called personality, right?
 Not something beyond the physical, right?

Isn't our personality and mind beyond the physical?  They arises from
our physical brain's activity but it is a wonderful nonphysical reality.

 
 Word schmerds, eh?  
 
 If you have the time, I would dwell with a serious intent on your
 definitions of:
 
 Real

This is context dependent as a concept.  It is meaningful in context.
 If I am imagining a green dinosaur it is not real in the physical
world, but I can tell a story about it and it will be a real part of
that story.  Discussing this kind of concept outside its concept is a
quality of some spiritual discussions that I am not into. 

 
 Know

Again, more useful in context.  I am not a complete epistemological
skeptic, I believe we do know some things.  But if you challenge
knowledge in an abstract way you lose it's pragmatic value, which for
me is its most important value.  OMG knowledge leads to action,
flashback central!  I have been most focused on building myself a
practical epistemology and don't claim to understand ultimate values
in life like being and no-being.  I know my limitations and am
comfortable with them. 

 
 And: why it isn't such a big deal to have such clarity.  To me, if
 your statement is taken to be utterly true, then you have found
truths of incredible worth.

In my 20's I had more confusion and doubts about myself. Now I am more
comfortable through living with myself in different situations.  
I think getting older IS profound but not in some cosmic sense.  My
process of living with immigrants and having friends from different
cultures made me feel more at home in the world and less insecure
about how much of it I had experienced.

 
 I must admit that I am so different from even last year's version of
 me, that, whew, I really have no grasp of what I might be next -- it
 seems to depend on the matrix so much more than on anything I might
 (don't laugh) plan for myself.
 
 Yet, you and others pull off being quite certain who they are/will
 be/have been with such an aura of conviction that my above POV is
 shaken. Am I in denial about knowing my real self?

It probably depends on your definition for real self.  My opinions
about things change, but who I am stays constant.  I can clarify and
change certain values but my processes for doing that is similar.  I
can re-invent myself in some ways, but it is all done from the core of
who I am.  

 
 Questions:  when did you finally become you?  when did you finally
 conclude that you had finally concluded about who you are?  how does
 change impact your certainties?  aging must mellow all so how does
 that jibe witcha?  do you have axioms that have not been shaken for
 years, decades, a lifetime? 

I believe that the decade after I left the movement was the decade I
gained self-actualization in Maslow's sense of the term.  I don't know
exactly when since I don't consider it static.  But I definitely
noticed that at some point I was dealing with life from a better place
internally, with more self-knowledge and more knowledge of how life
works.  I became more comfortable with all the stuff I don't know and
the ambiguities of life. I would also throw in the death of a loved
one as a pivotal moment in my consciousness.  It changed me in a very
positive way.

Certainties is not a word I would use.  I would call it a functional
mental tool kit.  With good evidence I change my POV regularly.  I
think aging makes me more comfortable with ambiguity and a bit less
harshly judgmental of other people's choices. But I know I can still
be a prick so I keep an eye on myself.
 
 
 Oh, too much to ask of you, but if you have the time

It is a privilege to be asked such questions.  Having someone give a
shit about your POV across the digital abyss is a wonderful thing so
thanks!

Now back at you brother, what is your take on your own questions?


 
 Edg





[FairfieldLife] Re: Reinvent Yourself!

2009-01-07 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Arhata Osho
arhatafreespe...@... wrote:

 Bizarre response!

Thanks, I hope it was entertaining.


Most in this group know who they are beyond polarity?

Yes.

 That's an interesting speculation! Then why respond as such? 

Because you were preaching to the choir.


 Is there judgment here?

Yes.


Dialog would better find a more accurate  interpretation.

Wh?


  Arhata

God bless you.


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@ yahoogroups. com,
arhatafreespeech@ ... wrote:
 
 
 
  An ad? That's a new one!
 
 
 
 I'm with Bhairitu on this one, his feedback was valid.
 
 
 
 I'm glad you are happier surfing then whatever you did on Wall Street.
 
  That doesn't mean that I am in some box just because you finally
 
 really GOT what was written on your Celestial Seasoning's Hibiscus tea
 
 box.
 
 
 
 Reinvent yourself as a non spammer and create discussions.  Most of
 
 the posters here have spent enough time with your counterculture
 
 message to not need a lecture about it. Some of us already know who we
 
 REALLY are.  It isn't that big a deal.
 
 
 
  
 
  Now this is an ad, IMO. Arhata, I would suggest being more discrete
 
 like 
 
  just having a link to your website as part of your signature or if 
 
  someone asked then explaining what you offer and a link.  This
however, 
 
  if I were a moderator, looks more blatant.  Of course others might
say 
 
  there is TMO spam here too but the TMO does not post directly to FFL
 
 and 
 
  their promotions posted as a topic of discussion.
 
  
 
  Arhata Osho wrote:
 
   Reinvent Yourself!
 
  
 
   Stuck being You? Is it really YOU?  Time to find out who you
 
 really are!?  It may be a surprise that the ¡real you¢ is much
 
   different than who most everyone gets enmeshed in. Reinventing is a
 
 technique that might lead to dropping the attached beliefs that one
 
 lugs around without real examination.  
 
  
 
   I have found that people are very much a product of what their
 
 occupation is!  Little do people realize that they become human clones
 
 of what they do in life that is structured, particularly in a ¡routine
 
 job¢, be it a logger, teacher, nurse, computer programmer, lawyer,
 
 engineer, retiree, on and on.  Few occupations create an environment
 
 with the flexibility to be who one REALLY IS.  Of course, race,
 
 religion, nationality, status, etc., program people into ¡boxes¢.
 
  
 
   Dropping my ¡Wall Street¢ clothes for a ¡surfin LA¢ persona that
 
 became a total reinvention of the ¡outer¢ has been a tremendous
 
 continuing experience!  Consciously changing allows the dropping of
 
 the ¡cloaking¢ of who you really are
 
   not.  To merge into a ¡suit¢ of other people¢s expectations of
 
 protocol, usually becomes a path to lose touch with who you really are
 
 deep down.  
 
  
 
   Living with other people¢s expectations or, one¢s attached to
 
 yourself, is buying into a complete facade and waste of a precious
 
 life. Locking oneself into the illusionary outer and inner is fear
 
 driven. An explosion of the inner emotional, mental, and spiritual
 
 self leads to the truth that is what we are all here to find. Time is
 
 always ¡today¢ inspite of the illusion of whether one is 10 or 100. 
 
 Reinventing oneself for discovery or morphing into the true self, is
 
 divine. 
 
  
 
  
 
                                             Yesss Self Love Center
 
  
 
       Est. 1991    
 
  
 
   
 
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      Port Townsend, Washington USA
 
  
 
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