[FairfieldLife] Re: The Dutch approach to dying

2014-03-26 Thread salyavin808

 Face painting? Might be a good idea to ask the deceased relatives if it's OK.

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 This kinda has to be posted here, because it's something I haven't seen 
anywhere else, and I find it remarkably refreshing, and kinda spiritual. You 
know how in America no one really ever talks much about death, and they try 
especially to hide it from children? Well, here in Leiden the local Crematorium 
is sponsoring a Kinderdag -- a Children's Day. From a Google Chrome translation 
of their web page at http://www.dela.nl/evenementen 
http://www.dela.nl/evenementen:
 

 Sunday, April 6 Nursery from 11:00 to 16:00
 Look around a crematorium? That's what you do when someone is dead? 
That's true, but not on our special Children's Day. During a discovery in a fun 
way to learn what happens in a crematorium. But also: face painting, balloon 
kites, listening to stories, crafts, delicious sweets and much more.
 
 I find it kinda refreshing. We may even take Maya. She's 5, and finally 
beginning to grok the mysteries of death, since Pippin the dog went away some 
time ago, and he doesn't seem to be coming back. I can't help but believe that 
a no-nonsense approach to the subject might just help to develop a healthier 
approach to the inevitability of death than the American approach of Denial. 

 

 

 

 

 






[FairfieldLife] Re: The Dutch approach to dying

2014-03-26 Thread salyavin808
I meant: Face painting? Might be a good idea to ask the deceased's relatives if 
it's OK.
 

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote :

 
 Face painting? Might be a good idea to ask the deceased relatives if it's OK.

---In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb@... wrote :

 This kinda has to be posted here, because it's something I haven't seen 
anywhere else, and I find it remarkably refreshing, and kinda spiritual. You 
know how in America no one really ever talks much about death, and they try 
especially to hide it from children? Well, here in Leiden the local Crematorium 
is sponsoring a Kinderdag -- a Children's Day. From a Google Chrome translation 
of their web page at http://www.dela.nl/evenementen 
http://www.dela.nl/evenementen:
 

 Sunday, April 6 Nursery from 11:00 to 16:00
 Look around a crematorium? That's what you do when someone is dead? 
That's true, but not on our special Children's Day. During a discovery in a fun 
way to learn what happens in a crematorium. But also: face painting, balloon 
kites, listening to stories, crafts, delicious sweets and much more.
 
 I find it kinda refreshing. We may even take Maya. She's 5, and finally 
beginning to grok the mysteries of death, since Pippin the dog went away some 
time ago, and he doesn't seem to be coming back. I can't help but believe that 
a no-nonsense approach to the subject might just help to develop a healthier 
approach to the inevitability of death than the American approach of Denial.