[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajradh...@... wrote:

Excellent!  Hard for me to get around how apt these descriptions seem.




 
 On Jul 15, 2010, at 7:43 AM, TurquoiseB wrote:
 
  So, unlike some who have read the book and feel
  more compassion or understanding for Maharishi,
  I read what they have said on these forums and
  feel less. How could something so obvious not
  have been obvious to him?
 
 
 Some people have commented that Mahesh may fit the profile for  
 Narcissistic Personality Disorder. And of course the thing about  
 personality disorders, is they often occur in clusters with other  
 personality disorders. Of the remaining 'believers' in Maheshism,  
 several I've heard on the list would certainly raise an eyebrow for  
 personality disorder issues themselves. So perhaps they are blinded  
 to it in others? To them Mahesh seems normal.
 
 The World Health Organization's ICD-10 lists narcissistic personality  
 disorder under (F60.8) Other specific personality disorders.[16]
 
 It is a requirement of ICD-10 that a diagnosis of any specific  
 personality disorder also satisfies a set of general personality  
 disorder criteria.
 
 Diagnostic criteria (DSM-IV):
 
 The essential feature of Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a  
 pervasive pattern of grandiosity (either in fantasy or actual  
 behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy that begins by  
 early adulthood and is present in a variety of situations and  
 environments.
 
 In order for a person to be diagnosed with narcissistic personality  
 disorder (NPD) they must meet five or more of the following symptoms:
 
 Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates  
 achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior  
 without commensurate achievements)
 Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power,  
 brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
 Believes that he or she is special and unique and can only be  
 understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status  
 people (or institutions)
 Requires excessive admiration
 Has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of  
 especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or  
 her expectations
 Is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to  
 achieve his or her own ends
 Lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the  
 feelings and needs of others
 Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him  
 or her
 Shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes.
 Interesting subtypes of NPD are:
 
 Any individual narcissist may exhibit none or one of the following:
 unprincipled narcissist - including antisocial features. A charlatan  
 - is a fraudulent, exploitative, deceptive and unscrupulous individual.
 amorous narcissist - including histrionic features. The Don Juan of  
 our times - is erotic, exhibitionist.
 compensatory narcissist - including negativistic (passive- 
 aggressive), avoidant features.
 elitist narcissist - variant of pure pattern. Corresponds to Wilhelm  
 Reich's phallic narcissistic personality type.
 fanatic type - including paranoid features. A severely  
 narcissistically wounded individual, usually with major paranoid  
 tendencies who holds onto an illusion of omnipotence.





[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltabl...@... 
wrote:
curtisdeltablues@ wrote:

 

Secrets like that form an intimate bond for the insiders and the master.  I 
can't believe Jerry wasn't conflicted about all this happening under his nose.

I beg your pardon ? How can you be sure anything particular was happening 
under Jerry's nose ? Because some psychic reader wrote a book ?



[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread randyanand


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_re...@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ 
 wrote:
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  
 
 Secrets like that form an intimate bond for the insiders and the master.  I 
 can't believe Jerry wasn't conflicted about all this happening under his nose.
 
 I beg your pardon ? How can you be sure anything particular was happening 
 under Jerry's nose ? Because some psychic reader wrote a book ?

And, even if Judith's book is true, how do we know that Jerry knew about it, 
and/or knew about it and didn't say or do anything about it.
The bottom line is we don't know.



[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, randyanand ra...@... wrote:

 And, even if Judith's book is true, how do we know that Jerry knew about it, 
 and/or knew about it and didn't say or do anything about it.
 The bottom line is we don't know.

This interpretation is not credible for me after having read the account.  
Jerry is not an idiot.  The more credible interpretation for me is that he knew 
and rationalized it.

YMMV





 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_reply@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   
  
  Secrets like that form an intimate bond for the insiders and the master.  
  I can't believe Jerry wasn't conflicted about all this happening under his 
  nose.
  
  I beg your pardon ? How can you be sure anything particular was happening 
  under Jerry's nose ? Because some psychic reader wrote a book ?
 
 And, even if Judith's book is true, how do we know that Jerry knew about it, 
 and/or knew about it and didn't say or do anything about it.
 The bottom line is we don't know.





[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, randyanand ra...@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_reply@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
  
   
  
  Secrets like that form an intimate bond for the insiders and the master.  
  I can't believe Jerry wasn't conflicted about all this happening under his 
  nose.
  
  I beg your pardon ? How can you be sure anything particular was happening 
  under Jerry's nose ? Because some psychic reader wrote a book ?
 
 And, even if Judith's book is true, how do we know that Jerry knew about it, 
 and/or knew about it and didn't say or do anything about it.
 The bottom line is we don't know.

Exactly. In any instance of a Kiss and Tell book when it comes to the 
intimate details of pillow talk, it amounts to he said, she said, except 
Maharishi ain't saying, nor can he. He may have had a roll in the hay with 
Judith and others, but I don't know that for sure and it would make no 
difference to my love of the TM practice if I did. Leave the dead guy alone 
unless you have and interest in salacious gossip, and yet, another excuse to 
psychoanalyze and bash Maharishi.   





[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchy...@... wrote:

 Exactly. In any instance of a Kiss and Tell book when it comes to the 
 intimate details of pillow talk, it amounts to he said, she said, except 
 Maharishi ain't saying, nor can he. He may have had a roll in the hay with 
 Judith and others, but I don't know that for sure

I agree.  We each need to evaluate the credibility of Judith's statements if we 
want to express an informed opinion on this.  But we can know to whatever 
standards we personally maintain about credibility and assign the probability 
of the account being accurate.  We are not in a position of knowing nothing now 
that this book is out unless we choose to ignore it.  People get convicted in 
court every day in he said she said cases once the jury has made that 
determination for themselves.  Absolute certainty is not an option.  

 and it would make no difference to my love of the TM practice if I did.

I respect your personal call on this.  It also makes no difference to my TM 
practice.

 Leave the dead guy alone unless you have and interest in salacious gossip, 
and yet, another excuse to psychoanalyze and bash Maharishi.

And I would like you to respect mine.  This is not salacious gossip for me.  It 
is an inquiry into the complex personality of a fascinating man who held great 
importance in my young adult life by a person who knew him more intimately than 
I did.  My search for truth is no less laudable or sincere than anyone else 
here, even if it has lead me to different conclusions about Maharishi's 
teaching.

Equating a physiological analysis of Maharishi with bashing is unnecessary 
negative reductionist spin on what is for me an useful insight into human 
nature.  For me it does not bash Maharishi to form a more accurate view of 
him than what is presented by his own self-created PR machine. It is my genuine 
search for truth given much lip service in the movement until the evidence 
leads to more obvious conclusions than Maharishi's perfection.

I respect your right to not be interested in this topic Raunchy. But phrases 
like leave the dead guy alone represents a lack of intellectual curiosity 
that I can't relate to. 




 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, randyanand ra108@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 no_reply@ wrote:
  
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
   

   
   Secrets like that form an intimate bond for the insiders and the 
   master.  I can't believe Jerry wasn't conflicted about all this 
   happening under his nose.
   
   I beg your pardon ? How can you be sure anything particular was happening 
   under Jerry's nose ? Because some psychic reader wrote a book ?
  
  And, even if Judith's book is true, how do we know that Jerry knew about 
  it, and/or knew about it and didn't say or do anything about it.
  The bottom line is we don't know.
 
 Exactly. In any instance of a Kiss and Tell book when it comes to the 
 intimate details of pillow talk, it amounts to he said, she said, except 
 Maharishi ain't saying, nor can he. He may have had a roll in the hay with 
 Judith and others, but I don't know that for sure and it would make no 
 difference to my love of the TM practice if I did. Leave the dead guy alone 
 unless you have and interest in salacious gossip, and yet, another excuse to 
 psychoanalyze and bash Maharishi.





[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread WillyTex


  The bottom line is we don't know.
  
raunchydog:
 Exactly. In any instance of a Kiss and Tell book 
 when it comes to the intimate details of pillow talk, 
 it amounts to he said, she said, except Maharishi 
 ain't saying, nor can he. He may have had a roll in 
 the hay with Judith

But, did she enjoy? 

 and others, but I don't know that for sure and it 
 would make no difference to my love of the TM practice 
 if I did. Leave the dead guy alone unless you have and 
 interest in salacious gossip, and yet, another excuse 
 to psychoanalyze and bash Maharishi.

So, why would someone like Judith want to seduce the 
Maharishi? Power? Hormones? Love? And why would she
want to write a book about it, without mentioning Connie
Larsson and the Sai Baba? 

Are we to assume that giving the Maharishi a full body 
massage and then writing a book about it, is much more 
important to Judith than telling us about Sai Baba and 
the pedophilia? Go figure.



[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajradh...@... wrote:

A charlatan  
 - is a fraudulent, exploitative, deceptive and unscrupulous individual.

Sounds like Vaj is describing himself :-)



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of raunchydog
Sent: Thursday, July 15, 2010 11:40 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was
Teacher-student sex

 

  And, even if Judith's book is true, how do we know that Jerry knew about
it, and/or knew about it and didn't say or do anything about it.
 The bottom line is we don't know.

Exactly. In any instance of a Kiss and Tell book when it comes to the
intimate details of pillow talk, it amounts to he said, she said, except
Maharishi ain't saying, nor can he. He may have had a roll in the hay with
Judith and others, but I don't know that for sure and it would make no
difference to my love of the TM practice if I did. Leave the dead guy alone
unless you have and interest in salacious gossip, and yet, another excuse to
psychoanalyze and bash Maharishi. 



My last post of the week. The reason I think this book is important is that
it may enable the Movement or at least many people in it to grow up. Which
is why, if Judith's dream is to be believed, Maharishi wanted her to publish
it. The TMO could still flourish if it divested itself of the nonsense that
accumulated as MMY progressively lost his bearings. And individually, people
will grow a lot if they learn to think for themselves, stop regarding
everything MMY said or did as divinely inspired, take what they need, and
leave the rest.



[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
 On Behalf Of raunchydog
 Sent: Thursday, July 15, 2010 11:40 AM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was
 Teacher-student sex
 
  
 
   And, even if Judith's book is true, how do we know that Jerry knew about
 it, and/or knew about it and didn't say or do anything about it.
  The bottom line is we don't know.
 
 Exactly. In any instance of a Kiss and Tell book when it comes to the
 intimate details of pillow talk, it amounts to he said, she said, except
 Maharishi ain't saying, nor can he. He may have had a roll in the hay with
 Judith and others, but I don't know that for sure and it would make no
 difference to my love of the TM practice if I did. Leave the dead guy alone
 unless you have and interest in salacious gossip, and yet, another excuse to
 psychoanalyze and bash Maharishi. 
 
 
 
 My last post of the week. The reason I think this book is important is that
 it may enable the Movement or at least many people in it to grow up. Which
 is why, if Judith's dream is to be believed, 

Maharishi wanted her to publish it.


Rich Archers wet dream.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread Bhairitu
curtisdeltablues wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchy...@... wrote:

   
 Exactly. In any instance of a Kiss and Tell book when it comes to the 
 intimate details of pillow talk, it amounts to he said, she said, except 
 Maharishi ain't saying, nor can he. He may have had a roll in the hay with 
 Judith and others, but I don't know that for sure
 

 I agree.  We each need to evaluate the credibility of Judith's statements if 
 we want to express an informed opinion on this.  But we can know to whatever 
 standards we personally maintain about credibility and assign the probability 
 of the account being accurate.  We are not in a position of knowing nothing 
 now that this book is out unless we choose to ignore it.  People get 
 convicted in court every day in he said she said cases once the jury has made 
 that determination for themselves.  Absolute certainty is not an option.  

An acquaintance wrote a book about his experiences in India and was 
having a friend help edit it.  According to my friend the publisher kept 
asking for more sex stuff to help the book sell.




[FairfieldLife] Re: The Maharishi's Personality Disorders, was Teacher-student sex

2010-07-15 Thread WillyTex


vajradhatu:
  A charlatan -- is a fraudulent, exploitative, 
  deceptive and unscrupulous individual.
 
Nab:
 Sounds like Vaj is describing himself :-)

So, 'Vajradhatu' was the name of the umbrella 
organization of Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche, and so 
that makes Vaj a charlatan and a fraudulent, 
exploitative, deceptive and unscrupulous 
individual? 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vajradhatu

In late November 1988, rumors began to circulate 
that the Vajra Regent Ösel Tendzin was sick with 
AIDS and that he may have infected a sangha member 
with HIV...

http://www.chronicleproject.com/tcs.html