Re: [FairfieldLife] The insulted Peter Suthpen

2005-11-03 Thread Peter
God, I know! Everybody else is so fascinated with it.

--- Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Keep this going, you two, and you'll be able to grab
 the championship 
 away from Barry and Judy.
 
 Sal
 
 
 On Nov 2, 2005, at 6:16 PM, Peter wrote:
 
   Irmeli, do you really think we can have a
 rational
   discussion after you take a dump like that? Maybe
 we
   can, I don't know... Let me respond to you below:






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[FairfieldLife] The insulted Peter Suthpen

2005-11-02 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 There two reasons why I tend not to take these
 discussions too far with you. We are coming from two
 very different conceptual systems. I try to stick to
 MMY's model of the 7 states. I'm not sure what
 conceptual model you are coming from. You also become
 insulting in your responses to me. As soon as this
 happens I stop responding. I find your posts
 interesting, but I'm not going to argue with you.
 

Who has got insulted here, if there is no I Peter Suthpen?
Why don't you discuss with people, who don't share your conceptual
framework, or your stories. Wouldn't it be a good starting point to
get beyond one's stories to discuss with people who have different
stories than you?
 
Peter Stuthpen wrote in a post earlier:
The mind wants to have a story as a defense against
experiences that contradict its primary story. Why
have any story at all? MMY is a con artist; MMY is a
great saint. He's both, he's neither, he's nothing.
Why have any story/position at all. Does it matter?
Attached, non-attached...just more stories.

Why does Peter experience my criticism of his No I story so
insulting. Why is he so attached to that story. No I is a story, a
description by words of an inner state. 
 
Peter's claims are often in conflict with his behaviour. He asks
others to leave all stories, as if it were possible. When his own
cherished favourite story is questioned, he gets so hurt that, if he
bothers to answer, he uses all is energy, not to discuss the proposed
ideas, but to tell me, how my ideas are low waking state ideas. They
don't belong to enlightened reality. Apparently somehow these
structures I have brought up, that define also our use of language,
vanish totally in enlightened state according to Peter's reasoning.

Why does Peter still all the time express himself with the waking
state language in his enlightened state if those strucuteres don't
exist in enlightened state. That man is full of bullshit. Now I  first
time say a personal insult of him. He is full of his superiority that
he hides behind his sacred No I story. To be convincing he tries to
avoid the word I. Pathetic.

I find it also quite interesting that he has not bothered to comment 
any of the ideas of the function of I presented by me. He just
dismisses them as low waking state ideas. Why has he this need to show
off his superiority by putting others down?
 
He claims I have insulted him. I have not. It is me, who should feel
hurt because of his nonchalant, and condescending treatment of my
comments.

His behaviour shows that he has an I and an ego, that is in
desperate need to prove his superiority above others. He has spent a
long time in spiritual circles and he has figured out that
enlightenment and No I are very highly appreciated in those circles.
Apparently his ego has started to interpret his subtle experiences in
those terms. Had he taken a nonspiritual path the stories he would be
telling himself about himself to prove his superiority would be
something else. But the inner pattern would be precisely the same,
only the outer form different.

Why did he not comment the quote of Ken Wilber and Andrew Cohen
discussion in my latest post on this topic. Are also their
understanding and insights so low waking state descriptions that it
doesn't interest him? Why did he instead concentrate on blubbering how
I have insulted him?

I have no memory of any personal attack on Peter Suthpen.  I have
heavily criticised MMY, but he is a public figure. It is not my habit
to attack personally the members of FFL. This post is an exception. 

I add the Wilber/Cohen quote again here.
The quote is from the newest issue of What is Enlightenment . It is
from the Ken Wilber and Andrew Cohen Dialogue and I feel it to be a
very good description that pretty well describes also my own inner
reality.

Quote:
Wilber: Moment to moment there is this ever-present is-ness, and yet
as soon as you locate yourself in it, there is an `I'.
Cohen: Yes. The minute you locate yourself, the whole world appears.
Wilber: Exactly. As soon as there is an `I', there is an it or an
object, and then there is a `we'; there is some resonance with some
other subjectivity someplace.

Wilber explains also a little bit further in the text: When you are
in a causal, or nondual, open-eyes, ever-present, non-effort state, an
I arises that is an authentic self.

Is this too low for Peter Suthpen to comment? Actually I suspect this
is far too advanced for Peter Suthpen.


Irmeli








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Re: [FairfieldLife] The insulted Peter Suthpen

2005-11-02 Thread Peter

Irmeli, do you really think we can have a rational
discussion after you take a dump like that? Maybe we
can, I don't know... Let me respond to you below: 


--- Irmeli Mattsson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  There two reasons why I tend not to take these
  discussions too far with you. We are coming from
 two
  very different conceptual systems. I try to stick
 to
  MMY's model of the 7 states. I'm not sure what
  conceptual model you are coming from. You also
 become
  insulting in your responses to me. As soon as this
  happens I stop responding. I find your posts
  interesting, but I'm not going to argue with you.
  
 
 Who has got insulted here, if there is no I Peter
 Suthpen?

You don't understand what I'm talking about when I say
no I.

 Why don't you discuss with people, who don't share
 your conceptual
 framework, or your stories. Wouldn't it be a good
 starting point to
 get beyond one's stories to discuss with people who
 have different
 stories than you?

Of course, and I have done this with you in the past.

  
 Peter Stuthpen wrote in a post earlier:
 The mind wants to have a story as a defense against
 experiences that contradict its primary story. Why
 have any story at all? MMY is a con artist; MMY is a
 great saint. He's both, he's neither, he's nothing.
 Why have any story/position at all. Does it matter?
 Attached, non-attached...just more stories.
 
 Why does Peter experience my criticism of his No I
 story so
 insulting.

I don't experience that as insulting. Passive
aggressive comments like, hiding behind concepts,
and he doesn't bother to answer me. are indicative
of another agenda going on in the conversation. 
 
 Why is he so attached to that story. No
 I is a story, a
 description by words of an inner state.

Because the concept/story articulates my
phenomenological reality. I'm attached  to it the
same way you'd be attached to the phrase, It's
raining if you went outside and rain drops were
falling from the sky. When the phenomenological
reality changes, then the concept will be useless. And
I understand that the phenomenological reality of no
I is useless to you. Fine. Just don't infer that
it's useless for me.
  
 Peter's claims are often in conflict with his
 behaviour. He asks
 others to leave all stories, as if it were possible.
 When his own
 cherished favourite story is questioned, he gets so
 hurt that, if he
 bothers to answer, he uses all is energy, not to
 discuss the proposed
 ideas, but to tell me, how my ideas are low waking
 state ideas. They
 don't belong to enlightened reality. Apparently
 somehow these
 structures I have brought up, that define also our
 use of language,
 vanish totally in enlightened state according to
 Peter's reasoning.

Yes, they do, pretty much! The shift from waking state
to Realization; the shift from a bound, limited,
subjective sense of self to an unbounded no-self
radically alters many cherished concepts of waking
state. The first being that there is no such thing as
an individual. But this is not the reality of lowly
waking state. 


 
 Why does Peter still all the time express himself
 with the waking
 state language in his enlightened state if those
 strucuteres don't
 exist in enlightened state.

I don't follow you here. How else am I going to
communicate with you or anyone else? Silence?

 That man is full of
 bullshit.

Have you been talking to my wife? ;-)

 Now I  first
 time say a personal insult of him. He is full of his
 superiority that
 he hides behind his sacred No I story. To be
 convincing he tries to
 avoid the word I. Pathetic.

I try to avoid the word I? I don't think so. That
truly would be pathetic! I'm sorry if I come off as
sounding superior. That certainly isn't my intent at
all. I've been accused of that before in this
newsgroup, so I guess it does happen.

 I find it also quite interesting that he has not
 bothered to comment 
 any of the ideas of the function of I presented by
 me. He just
 dismisses them as low waking state ideas. Why has he
 this need to show
 off his superiority by putting others down?

I don't say they are lowly. The problem comes about
because you are talking about enlightenment within the
phenomenological limitations of waking state.
Enlightenment can not be understood within waking
state because it is such a radical shift of self (even
this does not express the idea correctly because it
implies a relationship between the self of waking
state and the unbounded no-self of enlightenment as if
there is some sort of a continuum between the two.
There isn't)


 He claims I have insulted him. I have not. It is me,
 who should feel
 hurt because of his nonchalant, and condescending
 treatment of my
 comments.

Perhaps nonchalant, but not condescending. If you
haven't had experiences of enlightenemnt, what are you
doing trying to talk about it? You can't! This might
seem condescending to you, but of what value is a

Re: [FairfieldLife] The insulted Peter Suthpen

2005-11-02 Thread Sal Sunshine
Keep this going, you two, and you'll be able to grab the championship away from Barry and Judy.

Sal


On Nov 2, 2005, at 6:16 PM, Peter wrote:

 Irmeli, do you really think we can have a rational
 discussion after you take a dump like that? Maybe we
 can, I don't know... Let me respond to you below: