Re: [FairfieldLife] 'Dear Cyn, won't you come out to Play?'

2009-04-12 Thread Kirk
I met Prudence Farrow and she told me the real story.
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From Cynthia Lennon's biography...

The Beatles publicly renounced drugs (although never completely) after 
their initial meetings with the Maharishi Mahesh Yogi in London, and took a 
train to Bangor, in Wales, to meet him again in the summer of 1967. A policeman 
stopped Cynthia from boarding the train as it was pulling out (not knowing who 
she was) with Lennon calling out of a window after her, "Tell them to let you 
on!".[72] She broke down in tears, and later said that it symbolised where she 
felt their marriage was heading, with Lennon speeding into the future and 
herself being left behind.[73] Epstein had previously agreed to travel to 
Bangor to join them after the August Bank Holiday, but died of a drug overdose 
on 27 August 1967, which was a massive shock to both her and Lennon.[74][75]
India
The Beatles were scheduled to fly to India to visit the Maharishi for 
two or three months, but before that she found letters from Yoko Ono that made 
it clear that Lennon had had contact with her over a period of time. She had 
previously met Ono when Ono asked for a lift in Lennon's car after a meeting 
with the Maharishi in a London suburb.[76] Lennon denied that he was involved 
with Ono, and said that she was just some "crazy artist" who wanted to be 
sponsored, although Ono kept up a stream of calls and visits to Kenwood.[77]
In February 1968, she flew to India with Lennon and the other Beatles 
and their partners.[78] She had taken pens and paper with her, so was able to 
draw, meditate with Lennon every day, and for the first time in her life she 
started to write poetry.[79] "Magic Alex" (Greek-born Alex Mardas who was part 
of Apple Electronics) was also with them, and smuggled in alcohol from the 
nearest village as it was not allowed in the ashram. After two weeks Lennon 
wanted to sleep in a separate room from her, saying that he could only meditate 
when he was alone.[80] She found out much later that Lennon walked down to the 
local post office every morning to see if he had received a telegram from Ono, 
who sent one almost daily.[79]
Divorce
 

Cynthia and Julian at Kenwood in 1968, after Lennon had left.
She had suspicions of Lennon's infidelity over the years, and people 
had told her that he had had numerous affairs as far back as their time 
together at the art college in Liverpool, but she decided to ignore it, unless 
there was definite proof.[81]
After returning to Kenwood from India, Lennon got very drunk on scotch 
and coke and confessed that there had been other women during his time with 
her. He detailed every groupie, friends of hers (such as Joan Baez, and Maureen 
Cleave) and told her about "thousands" of women around the globe.[82] She was 
totally taken aback at the time and simply replied, "That's OK".[83] Two weeks 
later, in May 1968, Lennon suggested that she take a holiday in Greece with 
Mardas, Donovan and two friends. Lennon said that he would be very busy 
recording The White Album and that it would do her some good to take a 
break.[83]
The beginning of the end for the Lennon's marriage came when she 
arrived back at Kenwood one day early from Greece on 22 May 1968, to discover 
Lennon and Ono sitting cross-legged on the floor, staring into each others 
eyes, and then found Ono's slippers outside their bedroom door.[84] She 
gathered a few things and asked Jenny Boyd and Mardas if she could spend the 
night at their apartment. At the apartment Boyd went straight to bed, but 
Mardas got Cynthia drunk and tried to convince her that they should both run 
away together. After she had been sick in the bathroom she collapsed on a bed 
in the spare bedroom, but Mardas joined her and tried to kiss her until she 
pushed him away.[85]
Lennon seemed absolutely normal when she returned to Kenwood the next 
day, and maintained his love for her and Julian.[86] Lennon went to New York 
with McCartney shortly after and told her she could not go with them, so she 
went on a trip to Italy with her mother.[87] Mardas appeared during the holiday 
in Italy and broke the news that Lennon was planning to sue her for divorce on 
grounds of adultery, seek sole custody of Julian, and send Cynthia "back to 
Hoylake".[88] She said in 2005: "The mere fact that ‘Magic Alex’ [Mardas] 
arrived in Italy in the middle of the night without any prior knowledge of 
where I was staying made me extremely suspicious. I was being coerced into 
making it easy for Lennon and Yoko to accuse me of doing something that would 
make them not look so bad.&qu

[FairfieldLife] 'Dear Cyn, won't you come out to Play?'

2009-04-12 Thread Robert
>From Cynthia Lennon's biography...
 
The Beatles publicly renounced drugs (although never completely) after their 
initial meetings with the Maharishi Mahesh Yogi in London, and took a train to 
Bangor, in Wales, to meet him again in the summer of 1967. A policeman stopped 
Cynthia from boarding the train as it was pulling out (not knowing who she was) 
with Lennon calling out of a window after her, "Tell them to let you on!".[72] 
She broke down in tears, and later said that it symbolised where she felt their 
marriage was heading, with Lennon speeding into the future and herself being 
left behind.[73] Epstein had previously agreed to travel to Bangor to join them 
after the August Bank Holiday, but died of a drug overdose on 27 August 1967, 
which was a massive shock to both her and Lennon.[74][75]

India
The Beatles were scheduled to fly to India to visit the Maharishi for two or 
three months, but before that she found letters from Yoko Ono that made it 
clear that Lennon had had contact with her over a period of time. She had 
previously met Ono when Ono asked for a lift in Lennon's car after a meeting 
with the Maharishi in a London suburb.[76] Lennon denied that he was involved 
with Ono, and said that she was just some "crazy artist" who wanted to be 
sponsored, although Ono kept up a stream of calls and visits to Kenwood.[77]
In February 1968, she flew to India with Lennon and the other Beatles and their 
partners.[78] She had taken pens and paper with her, so was able to draw, 
meditate with Lennon every day, and for the first time in her life she started 
to write poetry.[79] "Magic Alex" (Greek-born Alex Mardas who was part of Apple 
Electronics) was also with them, and smuggled in alcohol from the nearest 
village as it was not allowed in the ashram. After two weeks Lennon wanted to 
sleep in a separate room from her, saying that he could only meditate when he 
was alone.[80] She found out much later that Lennon walked down to the local 
post office every morning to see if he had received a telegram from Ono, who 
sent one almost daily.[79]

Divorce

 

Cynthia and Julian at Kenwood in 1968, after Lennon had left.
She had suspicions of Lennon's infidelity over the years, and people had told 
her that he had had numerous affairs as far back as their time together at the 
art college in Liverpool, but she decided to ignore it, unless there was 
definite proof.[81]
After returning to Kenwood from India, Lennon got very drunk on scotch and coke 
and confessed that there had been other women during his time with her. He 
detailed every groupie, friends of hers (such as Joan Baez, and Maureen Cleave) 
and told her about "thousands" of women around the globe.[82] She was totally 
taken aback at the time and simply replied, "That's OK".[83] Two weeks later, 
in May 1968, Lennon suggested that she take a holiday in Greece with Mardas, 
Donovan and two friends. Lennon said that he would be very busy recording The 
White Album and that it would do her some good to take a break.[83]
The beginning of the end for the Lennon's marriage came when she arrived back 
at Kenwood one day early from Greece on 22 May 1968, to discover Lennon and Ono 
sitting cross-legged on the floor, staring into each others eyes, and then 
found Ono's slippers outside their bedroom door.[84] She gathered a few things 
and asked Jenny Boyd and Mardas if she could spend the night at their 
apartment. At the apartment Boyd went straight to bed, but Mardas got Cynthia 
drunk and tried to convince her that they should both run away together. After 
she had been sick in the bathroom she collapsed on a bed in the spare bedroom, 
but Mardas joined her and tried to kiss her until she pushed him away.[85]
Lennon seemed absolutely normal when she returned to Kenwood the next day, and 
maintained his love for her and Julian.[86] Lennon went to New York with 
McCartney shortly after and told her she could not go with them, so she went on 
a trip to Italy with her mother.[87] Mardas appeared during the holiday in 
Italy and broke the news that Lennon was planning to sue her for divorce on 
grounds of adultery, seek sole custody of Julian, and send Cynthia "back to 
Hoylake".[88] She said in 2005: "The mere fact that ‘Magic Alex’ [Mardas] 
arrived in Italy in the middle of the night without any prior knowledge of 
where I was staying made me extremely suspicious. I was being coerced into 
making it easy for Lennon and Yoko to accuse me of doing something that would 
make them not look so bad."[89]
She was allowed to return to Kenwood, while Lennon and Ono took up residence at 
Starr's flat at 34 Montagu Square. Lennon and his wife had one last short 
meeting at Kenwood (with Ono alongside Lennon) but Lennon accused her of an 
affair in India—saying that she was no "innocent little flower".[90] McCartney 
visited Cynthia and Julian that year, even though it was frowned upon by 
Lennon.[91] On the way to Kenwood he composed a song in his head th