Re: ??: Re: g_b circumsation plz help

2011-06-27 Thread nirbokj
It was so much easier ( being Jewish) when the Rabbi did the job when I was 
 only seven days old !!  I don't remember a thing...but my father nearly  
fainted !
 
Gordon from Santa Fe
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In a message dated 6/26/2011 12:39:25 P.M. Mountain Daylight Time,  
sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com writes:

 
 
 
Dear Madca-o
U need to reffer to a General Surgeon and not any general  physician. U 
will be under local anesthesia so during the process u wont feel  it. The 
surgeon will prescribe anti bios n pain killers 4 subsequent  discomfort. Maybe 
u 
need to take it easy 4 one week or so. Now a days they use  self dissolving 
threads for stitching u up so within a month the stitches  shall go. Its 
not a big deal check with a clinic hospital near  u.
Cheers

كتب mad cow يوم السبت، 25 يونيو 2011 16:25  GST:

Hi friends
any one tell me here  which gay friendly doctor can do my circumsation 
of my  
pennys forskin ? and how long it will take to get dried up is that  pain 
full ?
and what medicene i should take after circumsation plz  advice me  .

 
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From:  dunno76 _dunno76@yahoo.com_ (mailto:dunn...@yahoo.com) 
To: _gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com_ (mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com) 
Sent:  Fri, June 24, 2011 6:21:10 PM
Subject: g_b when two become  one

  
You can click on the photo for the bigger  version.
Each and everyone of you are special, unique and beautiful in  your own 
way!
 
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When your  path crosses with another, both of you are positively  
transformed!


 
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When two become one and yet each with space to  grow.
 
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Re: g_b Gay Marriage - A Bittersweet Victory [CNN-Time] (reply)

2011-06-27 Thread nirbokj
ALL Orgainised religions depend upon more and more congregants from  
generation to generation to support their Temples and Priests.  Therefore  it 
is 
to their benefit that those who generally do not produce ongoing  congregants 
( in other words: gays and lesbians)  should be vilified and  condemned to 
some kind of Hell !!!
 
It's Just that simple.  It's a matter of dollars ( or rupies !!)
 
Gordon from Santa Fe

-
 
In a message dated 6/26/2011 12:38:06 P.M. Mountain Daylight Time,  
gaymanprou...@yahoo.co.in writes:

 
 
 
Here's an article from CNN-Time magazine published a  couple of days ago. 
In it the author argues that even though gay marriages are  legal (or will 
shortly be) in New York, for the author it's not the  same thing since 
Marriage without a church or temple wedding isn't going  to be the real 
thing. 
How many of us  think that a gay wedding needs the sanction of religion? After 
all even  heterosexuals may decide to shrug off the religious rituals and 
settle for an  economically cheaper court marriage.   


Check out also the numerous homophobic comments at the end of the  article. 
There are so many who argue that it's wrong to be gay because  religion 
said so! 


Let us say that you had the opportunity to  wed your partner in India or 
Nepal, would you insist on the appropriate  religious rituals?



Regards,
Deep
http://gaynotes.blogspot.com




Source: _http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2079861,00.html_ 
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Saturday, Jun. 25, 2011
Gay  Marriage: A Bittersweet Victory?
By Howard Chua-Eoan
I woke up this  morning to discover that, despite my best efforts, I was 
still only married to  my job. 
I had spent part  of the night in Greenwich Village with the crowds outside 
the Stonewall Inn  celebrating the legalization of same-sex marriage in New 
York state. I  proposed to several passersby but every single one laughed. 
The thumping of  Y.M.C.A. on an adjacent boombox killed any possibility of 
romance. (Why is  that song always played at weddings?) 
I had wandered  down from a party about 10 blocks north, in Chelsea, one of 
New York City's  gay enclaves. The gathering at that apartment was slightly 
surreal. It  appeared to be familiar: handsome young men flirting with each 
other over  sweets and alcohol. But now they had a complex new dimension to 
navigate  through — albeit the kind of calculus that heterosexuals can do 
in their  sleep. Or when they sleep with each other. Or when they wake up and 
discover  who they have slept with. It's the possibility of marriage, 
lurking subtly  somewhere in one's head. Imagine all the  
psycho-sexual-financial-commercial-legal dramas that will emerge as that  
little formula weaves 
itself into the lives of gay New Yorkers. Soon, we can  have the kind of 
domestic life straight people have. One day, we may no longer  even be gay. 
Just 
the people next door. No more parades. 
Of course, that's  not going to happen soon. No matter that New York is the 
largest state of the  Union to hold that the union of a man and a man or a 
woman and a woman is  equal to that of a man and a woman. California, the 
largest state in the  Union, had that distinction for a few months before 
electoral and judicial jiu  jitsu tied marriage up in knots there. There are 44 
more states to go and a  rowdy presidential campaign season that is bound to 
roil a whole range of  political bases. And who knows if the legalization 
of gay marriage in New  York, because it is New York, will actually work 
against marriage equality  across the country. Could an exodus of gay people 
from the rest of the U.S. to  the Empire State sap the will (and pocketbooks) 
of campaigns to legalize  marriage in, say, Missouri or Minnesota or Kansas? 
Just saying. 
But in one very  important way, marriage will not quite be marriage even in 
New York, even 30  days from now when the law goes into effect. That is 
because the  psycho-sexual-financial-commercial-legal dramas that entangle the 
domestic  lives of straight people often have another component — religion. 
And  religious institutions have an exemption in the new law from 
accommodating gay  people. It was key to the passage of the legislation. 
Marriage without  a church or temple wedding isn't going to be the real 
thing. Why can some  people have all the bells and whistles in the church of 
their choice but not  me? Of course, there have been and will be congregations 
and churches that  allow gay men and lesbians to be married in their midst 
and to bless those  unions, recognizing that God loves them just as much as 
Governor Andrew Cuomo  does. But some rich and influential religious 
institutions are not only free  to continue to reject gay men and women as 
equal 
beneficiaries of all aspects  of faith but will now rally their 

g_b Chicago Pride march has a desi angle

2011-06-27 Thread Manoj















So Chicago had its Pride march today like each year.
I thought i should dress a bit more sober --- i was gonna take the train ride 
into the city afterall.
But surprise--- the train looked like just out of a gay bar and no one had to 
be really closeted. Wearing a rainbow bra or a leather vest was as common as 
the daily morning suit to the workplace.
 
250 odd floats, thousands of people in the march and more cheering us on the 
sides.
But Chicagoans were up for a surprise --- one of the floats was blaring music 
they had not heard before i am sure.
It was Sheila and Munni and Dhak dhak --  Bollywood !! 
 
Trikone marched under its banner for the first time and for more than 2 hours 
we were dancing and playing all Desi music.
The few choreographed steps got huge appreciation from the onlookers --- one as 
they liked the music (no one can dislike appadi pode !  ) , and two as they 
could see us much more knitted and together than many others.
 
The hard work and the very concept to have this .. paid off as people 
cheered, and some even came and danced with us irrespective of not 
understanding a word.
We could see ppl point at us --brown people --- who were known to be IT nerds 
quietly going about their work till now, were also equally gay and lesbian and 
as much woven into the social fabric as others.
 
For me, having a group which speaks the same language as i do, where i can be 
myself more, share interests definitely helped to make me feel better than what 
the initial months in the country were trawlingbars and pubs and little else.
 
From what i have interacted with the K and others, I am sure this is not where 
Trikone will rest and i look forward to a lot more events happening.
 
For those of you who could/didnt make it --try it the next time and be sure you 
will love it :-)
 
Thanks Trikone for doing this and making it happen.
 
Cheers,
Manoj.

Re: Fw: g_b anybody in dubai

2011-06-27 Thread Nick Dsouza
i am a 35 yr old top tall athletic and sexy i am looking for a cute caring 
submissive bottom in mumbai or pune i would like to go for a long term 
relationship and not just a fling i am strictly gay and i dont like girls i 
enjoy showers and watching gay movies i am very well endowed with a caring 
nature i would like to go on a date with a bottom and then get to know him 
better pls reply

Re: g_b Gay Marriage - A Bittersweet Victory [CNN-Time] (reply)

2011-06-27 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
Religion, of any and every denomination and persuation, as far as I am
concerned, can go their respective hells..
Best,
Aditya B

On 27 June 2011 00:43, nirb...@aol.com wrote:

 **


 **
 ALL Orgainised religions depend upon more and more congregants from
 generation to generation to support their Temples and Priests.  Therefore it
 is to their benefit that those who generally do not produce ongoing
 congregants ( in other words: gays and lesbians)  should be vilified and
 condemned to some kind of Hell !!!

 It's Just that simple.  It's a matter of dollars ( or rupies !!)

 Gordon from Santa Fe

 -
  In a message dated 6/26/2011 12:38:06 P.M. Mountain Daylight Time,
 gaymanprou...@yahoo.co.in writes:



 Here's an article from CNN-Time magazine published a couple of days ago. In
 it the author argues that even though gay marriages are legal (or will
 shortly be) in New York, for the author it's not the same thing since 
 Marriage
 without a church or temple wedding isn't going to be the real thing. How
 many of us think that a gay wedding needs the sanction of religion? After
 all even heterosexuals may decide to shrug off the religious rituals and
 settle for an economically cheaper court marriage.

 Check out also the numerous homophobic comments at the end of the article.
 There are so many who argue that it's wrong to be gay because religion said
 so!

 Let us say that you had the opportunity to wed your partner in India or
 Nepal, would you insist on the appropriate religious rituals?

 Regards,
 Deep
 http://gaynotes.blogspot.com


 Source: http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2079861,00.html

  Saturday, Jun. 25, 2011
 Gay Marriage: A Bittersweet Victory?
 By Howard Chua-Eoan

 I woke up this morning to discover that, despite my best efforts, I was
 still only married to my job.

 I had spent part of the night in Greenwich Village with the crowds outside
 the Stonewall Inn celebrating the legalization of same-sex marriage in New
 York state. I proposed to several passersby but every single one laughed.
 The thumping of Y.M.C.A. on an adjacent boombox killed any possibility of
 romance. (Why is that song always played at weddings?)

 I had wandered down from a party about 10 blocks north, in Chelsea, one of
 New York City's gay enclaves. The gathering at that apartment was slightly
 surreal. It appeared to be familiar: handsome young men flirting with each
 other over sweets and alcohol. But now they had a complex new dimension to
 navigate through — albeit the kind of calculus that heterosexuals can do in
 their sleep. Or when they sleep with each other. Or when they wake up and
 discover who they have slept with. It's the possibility of marriage, lurking
 subtly somewhere in one's head. Imagine all the
 psycho-sexual-financial-commercial-legal dramas that will emerge as that
 little formula weaves itself into the lives of gay New Yorkers. Soon, we can
 have the kind of domestic life straight people have. One day, we may no
 longer even be gay. Just the people next door. No more parades.

 Of course, that's not going to happen soon. No matter that New York is the
 largest state of the Union to hold that the union of a man and a man or a
 woman and a woman is equal to that of a man and a woman. California, the
 largest state in the Union, had that distinction for a few months before
 electoral and judicial jiu jitsu tied marriage up in knots there. There are
 44 more states to go and a rowdy presidential campaign season that is bound
 to roil a whole range of political bases. And who knows if the legalization
 of gay marriage in New York, because it is New York, will actually work
 against marriage equality across the country. Could an exodus of gay people
 from the rest of the U.S. to the Empire State sap the will (and pocketbooks)
 of campaigns to legalize marriage in, say, Missouri or Minnesota or Kansas?
 Just saying.

 But in one very important way, marriage will not quite be marriage even in
 New York, even 30 days from now when the law goes into effect. That is
 because the psycho-sexual-financial-commercial-legal dramas that entangle
 the domestic lives of straight people often have another component —
 religion. And religious institutions have an exemption in the new law from
 accommodating gay people. It was key to the passage of the legislation.

 Marriage without a church or temple wedding isn't going to be the real
 thing. Why can some people have all the bells and whistles in the church of
 their choice but not me? Of course, there have been and will be
 congregations and churches that allow gay men and lesbians to be married in
 their midst and to bless those unions, recognizing that God loves them just
 as much as Governor Andrew Cuomo does. But some rich and influential
 religious institutions are not only free to continue to reject gay men and
 women as equal 

g_b nigerian moving to mum seeks ltr

2011-06-27 Thread damon
Hello,
I am looking for ltr also with a honest man. Your message caught my interest and
i will like to know you more and see if we can work things out.
I am a total bottom gay. I am in Nigeria but i will be moving to mumbai soon.
Pls reply to me ASAP perhaps we can have a chat.

Hugs
Damon