Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?

2011-11-08 Thread Android Angel
Seems u got it. right?




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Subject: Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?


 
   
 
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From: Sujit Bhandary sbd...@yahoo.com
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Sent: Sunday, October 30, 2011 9:14 AM
Subject: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?


  
What does ASL mean? Could somebody decode that for me :) ?   

   
  

Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?

2011-11-08 Thread Android Angel
awesome. Very simple yet otug to figure out.




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To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sunday, 30 October 2011 4:47 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?


 
   
 



Age Sex Location





From: Sujit Bhandary sbd...@yahoo.com
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sunday, 30 October 2011 11:44 AM
Subject: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?


  
What does ASL mean? Could somebody decode that for me :) ?   

   
  

g_b Need your help

2011-11-08 Thread Nav Nav
Dear All,

Am Naveen, Age 28 from Bangalore. I need your help in convincing my parents 
about my marriage.

Its since 2 years my parents started forcing me to get married. They had no 
clue about my Gay sexuality until I came out to them. As expected they were 
shocked when I told them about this, one and half years ago. Their reaction was 
This can't happen, Its unnatural, you are with wrong friends... hundreds of 
inquiry about how I became Gay. Finally they took me to a psychiatrist and even 
I thought it would be helpful for me to make them understand if a doctor speaks 
about it. To my fate the doctor terns out to be dumb about knowledge of 
sexuality and started advising me that you became Gay bcoz you didn't had sex 
with any girl. I started arguing with him but couldn't as my parents started 
shouting at me saying you don't advise doctor just listen what he says. Now it 
has crossed limits and they think I have been polluted by wrong thoughts and 
they are not even in a stage to believe internet documents. They are not ready 
to listen any thing they just want
 me to get married. 


Guys please help me...How will i be able to make them understand about this.

Regards
Naveen 

g_b Friendship Club Scams

2011-11-08 Thread Deep
The need for companionship is so high that people, who ought to have
better sense, fall prey to these Friendship Club scams. I have
underlined the part of the article  in Mumbai Mirror which shows that
these scamsters are trying to hook both the gay and the straight.
Here is another set of complaints in the consumer court against such
clubs:
   
http://www.consumercourt.in/police/6473-complaint-against-friendship-clu\
bs-run-freely-mumbai.html
http://www.consumercourt.in/police/6473-complaint-against-friendship-cl\
ubs-run-freely-mumbai.html

In this day and age of FaceBook and GayRomeo why do people still pay to
get friends? Any thoughts?
Deephttp://gaynotes.blogspot.com

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 Lonely? Call us! With Mumbaikars becoming lonelier by the day, these
words can be seen plastered everywhere in the city -- from inside Mumbai
Locals and outside BEST buses to newspapers ads and city walls. Last
week, Unit 11 of the Mumbai crime branch busted a 'friendship club'
which duped several people, including some police officers and former
BMC commissioner K Nalinakshan, by offering them a hope for some
intimacy.
 Interrogation of the two men spearheading the scam has revealed that
the friendship club, which promised new 'friendships' and duped its
customers of lakhs of rupees, was a part of a large network of cons
carrying out a multi-crore scam. Based on details obtained from Sanjay
Sharma and Ninad Murudkar, the crime branch has traced at least 60
similar friendship clubs, which are offering cure to loneliness in
exchange of your crucial bank details. Mumbai Police Commissioner Arup
Patnaik had asked the crime branch to crack down on these friendships
clubs.
MASTERMIND
Sanjay Sharma, who was a small-time model and aspiring actor, had moved
to the city from Delhi a few years ago with his wife and two kids. He
was a frequent at several Page 3-type parties. It was then he hit upon
the idea of starting a friendship clubs.
 He befriended Murudkar, who was also a computer expert. Both started
a Share Trading Company at a Mall in Oshiwara as a front for soliciting
customers to join their friendship club. Each individual was asked to
pay a membership fee between Rs 5,000 and Rs 10,000 – based on the
service required.
 The benefits promised were much more than an average
social-networking site. The member were given contact numbers of
'friends', with a gender and orientation of their liking. And there were
other perks, like the stash of porn videos and nude pictures of
struggling models on their website, made freely available to all
members.
THE SCAM
The so-called friends would chat with the victims and ask them personal
questions to assess their financial status. The conversations will
become increasingly intimate and personal (and also increasingly
expensive). Soon personal details were exchanged, and then the calls
would abruptly stop. The victims' pocket lighter by lakhs of rupees. The
business was so smooth that at least Rs 5 lakh was being deposited every
month at each of the 15 accounts seized by the police. The cops said
that the amount can go radically up after raids on the other friendship
clubs.
 The Kandivali police has 

Re: g_b looking for marriage of convenience

2011-11-08 Thread Devan Nair
Dear Priya,

I am interested but i am already married. I am top for men and women. I love 
gays and lesbians but if i could marry again, i would surely marry you and look 
after you and give you all the freedom. I wouldn't mind if i had to marry 
again. Nobody is going to stop me from doing that but it has to be acceptable 
by you.


Govind


g_b QA Performing Visual Arts goes for Sufiana Compositions by Wadali Brothers

2011-11-08 Thread Q Adda
QA Performing  Visual Arts

goes to: 
Sama`a: The Mystic Ecstasy
Festival of Sufi Music | 2011

Based on the mystical branch of Islam, Sufi music seeks to unite listeners with 
the Divine. The pain of separation from the Creator is at the core of Sufi 
lyrics and music; and hence the longing to dissolve the physical realm and 
transcend into the spiritual Universe with Sama'a, the practice of listening to 
music, chanting and whirling, finally culminating in spiritual ecstasy. Sufi 
music is practised in different regions of the world through myriad genres. 

We will be going for
Sufiana compositions by Wadali Brothers and group: 

Puran Chand and Piyare Lal Wadali, popularly known as Wadali Brothers, 
represent the fifth generation of musicians devoted to singing messages of Sufi 
saints. As ardent practitioners of Sufi tradition, their repertoire includes 
poetry of Amir Khusrau, Baba Farid Sahib, Bulleh Shah and folklore associated 
with the region of Sindh-Punjab such as Laila-Majnu and Heer-Ranjha. The duo 
specialises in genres such as gurbani, heer, kaafi, ghazal and bhajan and has 
numerous albums to their credit. With their vibrant and full-throated voice, 
mixed with rustic Punjabi expressions peppered with the idiom of classical 
music, Wadali Brothers have created a niche in the Sufi music world today. They 
have also made forays into Bollywood with soulful songs; Darda Marya, Hey 
Rangrez Mere and many others. Wadali Brothers will present a bouquet of sufiana 
compositions, including traditional works and songs from their popular albums 
and films. 

For more on Wadali Brothers: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/W#8203;adali_brothers

Date:
November 12, 2011

Time:
6:30pm onwards

Venue:
NCPA Tata Theatre
NCPA Marg, Nariman Point 
Mumbai -400076.

The closest railway stations are Churchgate on Western Railway, and CST on 
Central and Harbour lines

Come, let us be part of this musical spiritual journey. The event starts at 7 
pm but please let us gather at the entrance at 6:30 pm.

For bookings:
http://in.bookmyshow.com/bookt#8203;ickets/?cid=NCTTeid=ET802#8203;3sid=1076ety=PL

Tickets priced at
Rs. 760 / 500 / 360 / 240 


Other events in Sama`a: The Mystic Ecstasy:

Fri, November 11: Mevlana Celaleddin-I Rumi: Dance of Love 
Fri, November 11: Sufi Gospel
Sun, November 13: Sama Ayins: Whirling Prayer Ceremonies



g_b GayBombay Sunday Meet at Bandra on 13 Nov 2011

2011-11-08 Thread GayBombay Events
GayBombay Sunday Meet at Bandra on 13 Nov 2011


Day, Date  Time:
Sunday 13 November, 2011, between 6:00 to 6:30 pm

Venue:
Outside Baskin Robbins Outlet,
And Apple store,

Linking Road,
Bandra [west]

(We may then move to another venue close by for an informal chat)



Directions:

At Bandra Station, on the WEST side, take a rickshaw to Linking Road. Get down 
at the National College junction. The Baskin Robbins outlet is opposite the 
college.


Cover:
Free Entry

Note:

* PLEASE DO NOT COME DIRECTLY TO THE VENUE (which is generally someone's home), 
even if you are completely familiar with it and even if you happen to know the 
owner of the home very well. You are advised to come directly at the first 
venue, mentioned on the website or announced on the mailing list.

* Ensure that you get to Baskin Robbins before 6:30 pm.

* Drag is a strict no-no. For the simple reason that though Gaybombay doesn't 
mind drag, the places that host us do. There are also may be many attendees who 
will prefer being discreet or may be still be coming to terms with themselves 
hence a request that all be sensitive to this and act and dress accordingly.

* After visiting the post meet venue, no one is allowed to go back to that 
place unless invited specifically by the owner of the house.

* We like to maintain Gaybombay as a comfort zone. This is a platform, which 
allows hesitant and often apprehensive gays to come and meet other gay people. 
As such, this platform has a strictly non-sexual framework. This group is not 
about porn, or orgies, or sex-talk, or escorts, or hook-ups.

* Do get your friends along to help them gain access to a group especially if 
they are not netizens. You do not have to be out to the world to attend. This 
is a discreet event being held as a clean, safe  social get-together of a 
non-sexual nature. Hardly any of those attending are out as such.

* You need to be at least 18 years of age to attend.
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Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?

2011-11-08 Thread neel kanth
Sam
 
I wish we had LIKE button on yahoo groups! :D



From: Sam Pate sammpat...@gmail.com
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wednesday, 2 November 2011 1:15 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?


  
it means A Sexy Lesbian


On Sat, Oct 29, 2011 at 11:14 PM, Sujit Bhandary sbd...@yahoo.com wrote:

  
What does ASL mean? Could somebody decode that for me :) ?



g_b Laxmi nominated on Bigg Boss!

2011-11-08 Thread Vikram Kapoor
Hey guys,
Many of you agreed with me when I had said that Laxmi has done us proud, by 
representing herself with poise and dignity.
She has now been nominated, and it would be awesome if we could vote to save 
her!

Irrespective of whether you watch the show or not, I think we'd do well to 
create an acceptable celebrity with mass appeal, and that would happen if she 
stays on longer.

I have nothing to do with her personally, just have grown fond of her and her 
ways on the show, and would love for her to have an opportunity to make it 
longer. She has been the strongest LGBT contestant so far, and has an 
opportunity to garner even more positive public visibility.


To save Laxmi, please send LAX to 56882

Thank you!
VK


g_b Has anal sex gone out of vogue...

2011-11-08 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
https://hivmsmblog.wordpress.com/2011/11/06/has-anal-sex-gone-out-of-vogue-what-does-this-mean-for-hiv-prevention/

Has anal sex gone out of vogue? What does this mean for HIV prevention?So the
Advocatehttp://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2011/10/19/Study_Only_37_of_Gay_Men_Recently_Engaged_in_Anal_Sex/
recently
reported the findings of a large-scale survey on sexual behaviors.
Apparently, only 37.2% of over 24,000 gay and bisexually identified men
indicated that their last sexual encounter consisted of anal sex.   The
most practiced activities were kissing (almost 75%) and mutual masturbation
(73%).

*Note*: Since posting this article I was able to look at the full text of
the study, which does ask participants questions about condom use at last
encounter.  Roughly about 33% of respondents state that they used a condom
at some point during their last sexual encounter, with almost half of those
that have had intercourse stating a condom was used.  However, the article
does not go onto the provide more specific analysis on condom use, since it
is difficult to extrapolate generalities regarding condom use, based on
information about singular encounters.


The survey, entitled  ‘The Gay and Bisexual Men’s National Sex Survey’ was
sponsored byManhunt http://www.manhunt.net/,  its sexual health affiliate
Manhunt Cares (see my past post here about
them)http://hivmsmblog.wordpress.com/2011/06/26/manhunt-cares/ and
its research partners,  present the findings in a cutesy interactive
graphical form which can be accessed from clicking on the picture on the
left (i.e. I found out that 80.8 % of surveyed men have eaten cum at some
point in their lives!) The abstract of the study, which appears in the
Journal of Sexual Medicine can be found
here.http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10./j.1743-6109.2011.02438.x/abstract


Now before we give up our lube and condoms and other devices we find makes
our anal sex experience more comfortable, there a few things to keep in
mind.  For some reason, the majority of respondents in this latest
conducted by researchers from Indiana University and George Mason
University were Caucasian males.  Perhaps results would be changed if there
was some diversity in the subject pool.  Also, one should note that the
respondents were “self identified” gay or bisexual.  Perhaps if behaviors
of non-identified men who have sex with men, (i.e. heterosexual identifying
men) were recorded the results would also show a higher indication of anal
sex.  However, I like the point that one of the commentators made:   Anal
sex does require a lot of effort (much like vaginal penile sex as well) and
perhaps people don’t want to go through such effort simply to get off.


First, usually the receptive bottom has to be sure that they have
maintained proper ass hygiene – for some folks this means just a thorough
cleaning in the shower, however for others this means anal douching (see my
past insightful entry on this
issue)http://hivmsmblog.wordpress.com/2010/08/11/to-douche-or-not-to-douche/.
Then, both inserter and receptive partner both need to be properly
lubricated.  Any condom needs to be applied, towels need to be made readily
available to absorb the lube and any other pre and post-fucking products,
and finally one may fuck.  For some individuals this ceremonial ritual just
may not be worth it.  I am not one of these people, but I can see the non
appeal.  Additionally this survey stated that 40% of men surveyed said that
their sexual encounter was with someone who they were in some way committed
to.  For many couples anal sex is a special sex act, that does not have to
be performed during every sexual encounter.  In my opinion, I seem to see
anal sex as the final act in the play of random hooking up (especially bar
sex) but I personally tend to think couples in a relationship have
generally been with each other so long they have other ways of turning each
other on and understand that anal sex is not a necessity.

I don’t think this study can necessarily tell us too much about HIV
prevention strategies, or where they should be aimed.  As some may know,
receptive anal intercourse without a condom is the most risky sexual
activity one can perform in terms of HIV acquisition.  And although we know
that only 40% of these Caucasian gay identified men admit to having anal
sex, we don’t know anything about condom use (I couldn’t find anything
about condom use at last anal sex in any of these graphics).  So, it can be
assumed that a portion of those having anal sex (or oral sex) are having
unprotected sex.  Additionally, we can assume that many of these surveyed
men did either not know their own or their partners HIV status (which is
likely given that 60% of the sex acts were recorded to be with people whom
the respondent was not intimately partnered with.) So this our crusade most
likely should continue.  Even if anal sex is supposedly  not the most
common sex act, it is the most risky, and deserved to still 

g_b from The Guardian - Are all male fashion designers gay?

2011-11-08 Thread vgd67

An excellently robust answer to a truly tiresome question: 

from Ask Hadley
by Hadley Freeman

Why are all male fashion designers gay?
David, by email


I'm sorry, I think you have your Guardian columns mixed up. All enquiries 
expressing concern that a family member might be gay should be addressed to 
Pamela Stephenson- Connolly, Sexual Healing, c/o this parish, etc etc. Oh, no 
wait a minute – sorry, I read your email too quickly. You didn't ask whether 
your father is gay (because you caught him masturbating over a gay porn 
magazine, as one Sexual Healing inquiry had it), but why all male fashion 
designers are gay. Oh, for God's sake.

I'm always amazed at the popularity of this ridiculous canard. Honestly, am I 
the only one who eagerly snaffles down articles with headlines such as Ralph 
and Ricky Lauren show us around their glamorous ranch! or Tommy and Dee 
Hilfiger invite us to their fabulous beach hideaway? With perhaps the 
exception of A day in the life of a supermodel, there is no genre of fashion 
article I love more than one in which a fashion designer shows off his lovely 
home, one he often shares with someone else, and, as often as not, that other 
person is someone of the opposite gender. Just off the top of my head, aside 
from Lauren and Hilfiger, Paul Smith, Rick Owens, Oscar de la Renta, Christian 
Lacroix and Yohji Yamamoto are all male fashion designers who do more for the 
ladies than design clothes for them (sorry – that looks a lot creepier written 
down than it sounded in my head). All male fashion designers, all straight.

But of course, fashion detractors with homophobic tendencies don't like these 
obvious examples because they don't corroborate their pet theory that fashion 
is a medium through which evil gay men humiliate women because they are jealous 
of their femaleness.

I have heard this ridiculous theory proposed by an amazing number of people 
over the years, by many seemingly otherwise intelligent beings with heretofore 
very hidden bigoted tendencies, and it's one that never fails to fascinate me. 
Let's not even bother with the patently hilarious ideas that gay men want to be 
women (without wishing to resort to sweeping generalisations myself, the gay 
men in my acquaintance generally look like they're having a lot more fun than 
the women), or that women are so stupid they not only don't know when they're 
being humiliated but that they pay money to be so. And then let's resist 
making the deeply obvious points that there are plenty of female fashion 
designers who make clothes that are just as uncomfortable as anything churned 
out by a gay male fashion designer; or that the people who are truly in charge 
of the fashion world, ie major magazine editors and the head of fashion 
conglomerates such as PPR and LVMH, are all either women or straight men.

Like I said, I'll leave all that to the side. What I won't leave, though, is 
wondering why fashion and fashion designers are being singled out here. Heck, 
there are loads of industries that are predicated on humiliating women! How 
about – oh, let's say – romantic comedies starring Katherine Heigl. Are they 
all masterminded by evil gay men? Or whoever invented Brazilian waxes?

But because the gay men are more visible in fashion than they are in any of the 
above, they and the industry they work for become an easy target for homophobia.

Obviously, I am not saying that you are homophobic, David. But I am saying that 
you have been gulled by a generalisation that comes from a deeply homophobic 
place about all men in fashion being evil queens who are intent on causing pain 
to anyone lucky enough to have been born with a uterus, out of a twisted sense 
of vengeance. Yes, there are a lot of prominent and out gay men in the fashion 
world – shouldn't that be something to applaud the fashion world for? Well, not 
if you're a homophobe, of course.




Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?

2011-11-08 Thread sugi shastri
ASL means ADULT SEX LEGAUE

SUGI

On Tue, Nov 8, 2011 at 1:14 PM, neel kanth neeel_ka...@yahoo.com wrote:

 **


  Sam

 I wish we had LIKE button on yahoo groups! :D

  *From:* Sam Pate sammpat...@gmail.com
 *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
 *Sent:* Wednesday, 2 November 2011 1:15 PM

 *Subject:* Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?


  it means A Sexy Lesbian

 On Sat, Oct 29, 2011 at 11:14 PM, Sujit Bhandary sbd...@yahoo.com wrote:

 **

   What does ASL mean? Could somebody decode that for me :) ?




  



Re: g_b Need your help

2011-11-08 Thread babu babu
1st u yourselves make sure whether u can have sexual relationship with a girl. 
If not, plese gods' sake never do it. be adumant on ur stand. It is a question 
of life, honour of ur family and urs. So, it is not a question of  convincing 
ur parents. ist u convince ursleves.


From: Nav Nav vbngu...@yahoo.in
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Monday, 7 November 2011 1:21 PM
Subject: g_b Need your help





Dear All,

Am Naveen, Age 28 from Bangalore. I need your help in convincing my parents 
about my marriage.

Its since 2 years my parents started forcing me to get married. They had no 
clue about my Gay sexuality until I came out to them. As expected they were 
shocked when I told them about this, one and half years ago. Their reaction was 
This can't happen, Its unnatural, you are with wrong friends... hundreds of 
inquiry about how I became Gay.  Finally they took me to a psychiatrist and 
even I thought it would be helpful for me to make them understand if a doctor 
speaks about it. To my fate the doctor terns out to be dumb about knowledge of 
sexuality and started advising me that you became Gay bcoz you didn't had sex 
with any girl. I started arguing with him but couldn't as my parents started 
shouting at me saying you don't advise doctor just listen what he says. Now it 
has crossed limits and they think I have been polluted by wrong thoughts and 
they are not even in a stage to believe internet documents. They are not ready 
to listen any thing they just want
 me to get married. 


Guys please help me...How will i be able to make them understand about this.

Regards
Naveen  





g_b gays just want good looking guys (mostly)

2011-11-08 Thread attractsafari
Hi AllI do want to discuss an issue with all of you being members of this group 
though i think it is not appropriate to discuss personal issues in groups but 
as i think we all have a common agenda it may be appropriate to discuss it and 
may be get some suggestions from some of you. And may be decisively this may be 
my last communication on any gay forum.

I am 23 years old   guy i am an average looking guy with 5/6 height with 55kgs 
weight and very average features. I am  an IT profession Student , also belong 
to very reputed spiritual based  organization where once cannot afford to come 
out openly as a gay. Otherwise i am gentle  very loving however a little 
different from the mainstream rat race and career occupy a reasonable place in 
my life but they are not the be all and end all of everything.I generally have 
interest in 

Spiritual related activities but it does not mean i have no interest in other 
things ..i am very cool in everythingMy problem or what i have faced is with 
all my sensitivity sincerity and loving nature i have not able to find a life 
partner forget a life time partner not even someone who is ready to stay back 
for at least some years. And the reason that i could find out was that it was 
my looks. 

I am not saying that people should not go by looks everybody is attracted to 
good looking people, but then how much ever people may say in the gay world i 
think there is no hope for people like me to find a life partner. I am not ugly 
i am just plane  average looking guy(what i consider myself to be) and i am not 
expecting a 20 years guy to look my way but even the people of my age seem so 
obsessed with looks. 

In normal heterosexual relationship we so often find very good looking guys 
having love marriage with very average looking girls or vice versa but in the 
gay world i think it never happens . Some of you may say that the problem lies 
with me i have not looked for people who looked beyond looks but my dear 
friends i want to tell you that i have ultimately found that in a gay 
relationship looks are the most important thing.

With all my efforts now i am tired and i have only two options one to become 
active sexually like so many gays and make my self empty emotionally or to just 
forget everything in this life about having a gay life partner and live a 
lonely life which i seem destined to live. I do not know what to do because i 
think it is high time i decide one or the other way.I think this is my last 
ever letter on any gay forum but then i do feel that if ever God makes someone 
gay he should not give him average looks looks
Tarun 
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Re: g_b Laxmi nominated on Bigg Boss!

2011-11-08 Thread Bob Alone
vote for Laxmi 




From: Vikram Kapoor ej_se...@yahoo.com
To: gb gaybom...@yahoogroups.com; gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com 
gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tuesday, 8 November 2011, 5:57
Subject: g_b Laxmi nominated on Bigg Boss!


  
Hey guys,
Many of you agreed with me when I had said that Laxmi has done us proud, by 
representing herself with poise and dignity.
She has now been nominated, and it would be awesome if we could vote to save 
her!

Irrespective of whether you watch the show or not, I think we'd do well to 
create an acceptable celebrity with mass appeal, and that would happen if she 
stays on longer.

I have nothing to do with her personally, just have grown fond of her and her 
ways on the show, and would love for her to have an opportunity to make it 
longer. She has been the strongest LGBT contestant so far, and has an 
opportunity to garner even more positive public visibility.


To save Laxmi, please send LAX to 56882

Thank you!
VK


g_b S.377 case may be heard in February 2012

2011-11-08 Thread vgd67
The appeal against the Delhi High Court verdict in the Naz India came up for 
hearing in the Supreme Court today but, as expected, since it was one of the 
last items listed for the day, the judges were not able to take it up. 

What is significant though is that they said they would hear it in February and 
have allotted two weeks for the hearing. That means about six working days 
which would be what's needed to hear all the petitioners against us and those 
supporting us. So it does look like Feb 2012 will be the date for the hearings, 
with the verdict coming sometime later. 




g_b Hotels That Only Accept Homosexuals Are Being Investigated

2011-11-08 Thread naughty confessions
Hotels That Only Accept Homosexuals Are Being Investigated


Jonathan Wynne-Jones wrote this article for The Telegraph.
Hotels that only accept homosexuals are being 
investigated by a government-funded watchdog for discriminating against 
heterosexual couples. 
The Equality and Human Rights Commission is examining whether 
“gay-only” guesthouses breach new laws designed to prevent people being 
treated unfairly in the provision of goods or services. 
Last month, Christian owners of a guesthouse in Cornwall became the 
first to be found guilty of discrimination under equality laws after 
they refused to let a homosexual couple stay in a double room, in a 
legal action supported by the EHRC. 
Now, the watchdog says it must establish an “objective balance” by 
considering if gays-only accommodation also defies the legislation.