g_b File - Tired of too many mails?

2014-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Tired of too many emails from this group?  

Hi All

I know that this group has been generating too many emails. Many 
subscribers are flustered at the number of mails. Some of you might 
be thinking of leaving the group because you do not like your mail 
box to be clogged with mails.

But just in case you do not know, you have the option of receiving 
all your emails in a digest mode or you can opt for no email mode. 


That way, you can see what's new on the website and still keep a 
clear mailbox. You will never receive mail from us if you do that. 
YOU choose when to visit us ... and you can check out what you like 
and can skip over what doesn't interest you.

(Or choose Daily digest ... once or twice a day, you will receive 
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g_b File - Essentials

2014-02-01 Thread gay_bombay



PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS GROUP DOES NOT CARRY ADULT PICTURES OR LURID 
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g_b File - Personal Replies To Advertisements

2014-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hello

please reply to the concerned person directly in case you want to
reply to someone who has posted a personal email.

please CLICK ON THE PERSON'S EMAIL ADDRESS while replying to him .
this will enable you to send a mail to the person with whom you want
to communicate.

if you click on the reply button, the message will go the entire
group. it is unfair and many persons have complained that they do
not want personal correspondence in their box.


Individual personal replies to one another will NOT BE CARRIED on
this list until and unless it is relevant to the entire group

regards

moderator

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g_b File - E mail problems?

2014-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi

Have you stopped getting emails from this group suddenly? It is highly unlikely 
that your name has been deleted from the list. We do not delete anybody’s 
membership until and unless the person repeatedly spams or sends 
pornographic/crude emails

 you might not be getting your mails is because  your email is on the bouncing 
list. Some members have trouble with bouncing e-mails: Messages that are sent 
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g_b File - Personal Advertisements

2014-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi All
 
2 personal advertisements seeking mates a month are allowed on the list. It’s 
unfair to others if you post your advertisement every few days. In the past, 
many have complained that they see too many personal advertisements on the 
list. So a restriction of 2 personal advertisements per month has been imposed. 

In case you want to reply to a member’s personal advertisement, kindly click on 
the person’s email address. This will ensure that your reply goes to the 
concerned person and not to entire list which is what happens when you hit the 
reply button. So please reply directly to the advertiser and not to the whole 
group in case your reply is personal.
 
Regards
 
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g_b File - just in case you did not know

2014-02-01 Thread gay_bombay

Hi.


I am sure you are enjoying reading the thought provoking, at times 
funny, at times informative mails and also seeing the JPGs/pictures 
that members post on this list

However, at times you may get a lot of mail and it may flood your 
email box.

If you feel flustered and feel that there are too many emails, I'd 
like to remind you that you don't have to leave just to stop us from 
clogging your inbox. 

You have the option of

1) getting your mails in digest form (however you will not be able 
to see the pictures in this format)
Daily digest ... once or twice a day, you will receive an
email -- text only -- listing all new postings ... just click on the
messages link at the top of the digest to go to the web archive to 
see any
attachments.)



2) or you can view mails directly on the web... and choose the 
option ...
you can see what's new on the website and still keep a clear
mailbox. You will never receive mail from us if you do that. YOU 
choose
when to visit us ... and you can check out what you like and can 
skip over
what doesn't interest you.


3)no email option

I hope this helps. The commands for choosing the various modes are 
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Re: g_b NDTV reports that SC rejects review

2014-02-01 Thread bapu nath
Its nice that Supreme Court rejected review petition..  We do not want to be 
accepted by the Court, society to do have right of sex only...  we need in 
equality in terms of sex, marriage and everything.. 





On Wednesday, 29 January 2014 12:12 AM, Vikram D vg...@yahoo.co.uk wrote:

 
This is from NDTV - the SC bench of Justices Dattu and Mukhopadhaya have 
apparently rejected the review petitions filed by the government and by LGBTQ 
groups and their supporters. Its as expected, but still disappointing.



g_b The best preparation for tomorrow

2014-02-01 Thread dunno76
The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today. - H. Jackson
Brown Jr. (OM | Rekindling the Light Within
http://om.symphonyoflove.net/gallery/living-life-to-the-fullest )

  http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1456
(Click above for the bigger image)
___

Forgive them, even if they are not sorry. Holding on to anger only hurts
you, not them. - Timber Hawkeye (OM | Rekindling the Light Within
http://om.symphonyoflove.net/gallery/forgiveness )

Forgiving is doing yourself a favour.

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aker-in-the-world.html
___

Being generous of spirit is a wonderful way to live. - Pete Seeger (OM |
Rekindling the Light Within
http://om.symphonyoflove.net/gallery/giving )

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___

Feelings come and go likes clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is
my anchor. - Thich Nhat Hanh (OM | Rekindling the Light Within
http://om.symphonyoflove.net/gallery/inner-peace )

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(Click above for the bigger image)
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When we know ourselves to be connected to all others, acting
compassionately is simply the natural thing to do. - Rachel Naomi Remen
(OM | Rekindling the Light Within
http://om.symphonyoflove.net/gallery/kindness )

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(Click above for the bigger image)
___

Dreading something that isn't here yet only wastes the time you have
today. - Joyce Meyer (OM | Rekindling the Light Within
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g_b I want to marry with this hottie gay man!

2014-02-01 Thread Peter P
Since I saw him for the first time I could not take my eyes off him:

is handsome with a body that looks better every time, sings well, has

some clips of their songs clearly gay-themed (like none) Is the

Ricky Martin of Israel : Yehonathan!

Find out more about it here

I want to marry with this hottie gay man!



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Re:: g_b

2014-02-01 Thread chundu chundu

Hi All,

I am Chandu from Hyderabad. I'm 24. Is anybody doctor in this group. I have 
some doubts. I want to clarify them with the doctor. And they can give me 
suggestions. Please mail me to my mail I'd chundu90@gmail. com.


g_b Public Meeting Against Sec. 377 of Indian Penal Code

2014-02-01 Thread Amitie Trust
Dear Friends  Comrades,

You all know that the Supreme Court of India on 11th December, 2013 has 
reinstated Section 377 of Indian Penal Code by upholding its constitutional 
validity - setting aside the Delhi High Court order dated 2nd July, 2009 that 
read down the concerned section by restricting its use on consensual private 
sexual acts of adults.

As a result citizen's right to privacy, their bodily integrity, to give 
consent, to enjoy sexual lives of their preferences - all are compromised with. 
Since Sec. 377 of IPC criminalises certain sexual acts, irrespective of 
people's sexual orientation and gender identity any and every citizen is 
adversely affected by this regressive judgment of the court.

Moreover on basis of too common a misnomer that only people with 
non-conventional sexualities namely the Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, 
Transpersons, Hijras, Queers, Intersexed persons practise penile non-vaginal 
penetrative sex, the stigma and discrimination existing in the society against 
these LGBTHQI people has been strengthened many fold by this judgment. They are 
experiencing increased violence in the hands of their homophobic fellow 
citizens and also apprehended wide spread harassment in the hands of the 
members of the law enforcement agencies.

The judgment has also posed a great challenge to successful implementation of 
sexual health interventions and increased the chances of widespread sexually 
transmitted infections by forcing people and their sexual behaviours to go back 
under cover and restricting their access to condom and other life-saving 
services.

As citizens it is our responsibility to sound our protests against this 
unfortunate judgment. We need to raise such protest that we can make the judges 
and the lawmakers know about our anger against this act of injustice committed 
by the Apex Court of the land.

Amitie' Trust as a Community Based Organisation of, by and for people with 
non-conventional sexualities and/ or gender non-conformities has been a partner 
in the countrywide struggle against Sec. 377 of IPC.


On the completion of the 2nd month after the Supreme Court judgment Amitie' 
Trust has decided to organise a public meeting at Rani Rashmoni Road, Kolkata 
on 11th February at 4:30 pm.

We request all citizens and organisations that respect an individual's rights 
to privacy, freedom of self expression, health, consent and choice to join this 
meeting and strengthen the struggle against this judgment in particular and all 
kinds of sexual offences in general.

Please attend the meeting and invite all your friends to do so.

Thanking you,

Yours sincerely
 
Aparna Banerjee
Managing Trustee
Amitie' Trust
Flat no. - G 5B
23, Daw's Temple Road
P.O. Bally, Dist. Howrah
West Bengal, India - 711201
Mobile: +91-9874871578

g_b Men between men,we understand better

2014-02-01 Thread Peter P
If you missed something, here you have the whole magazine and for free as 
always!
  Men between men,we understand better



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g_b Friday's Funnie

2014-02-01 Thread asfan
A young student asked the Professor of English, “What is a
dilemma?”
 
The professor said, “Well, there’s nothing better than an
example to illustrate it.
Imagine that you are lying in a big bed with a beautiful
naked young woman who
Is desperate to have you on one side and a gay man on the
other who wants to be in you equally.
Who are you going to turn your back on??”

g_b LGBT Indians stare at a bleak future [1 Attachment]

2014-02-01 Thread gay_bombay moderator
*LGBT Indians stare at a bleak future*

*With the Supreme Court refusing to review its December 2013 judgment on
article 377, Indian Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals and Transgender ( LGBT) face
a sad and lonely road ahead says KETAN TANNA. *
l

It's when the chips are really down that the human spirit needs to hang on
to that extra little bit of inner strength. It's when the mind and body are
exhausted from fighting that one needs to tell self not to give up. It's
when there is no road seemingly ahead that one must try and find out that
may be, hidden somewhere in the bleak foggy mist, is a road that could
offer some rest and some salvation.

This is the feeling that is running through the mind of LGBT Indians on
Tuesday when the Indian Supreme Court rejected the petition to review its
judgment on Section 377.

What is article 377? Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code or IPC
criminalizes  unnatural offences. It says that whoever voluntarily has 
carnal intercourse against the order of nature with any man, woman or
animal shall be punished.

The maximum punishment is imprisonment for life. Since the terms  carnal
intercourse against the order of nature and  unnatural offences were not
defined in the IPC, courts have had to interpret the terms. Courts have
ruled that the purpose of  carnal intercourse is procreation and hence,
any non- procreative act would be  against the order of nature. They have
also held that all forms of intercourse that are not penile- vaginal are
not necessarily against the  order of nature. The Indian Supreme Court on
28th January 2014 said that it will not review its controversial order that
made gay sex criminal in India. Justice HL Dattu and Justice SJ
Mukhopadhaya who heard the plea for the review petition in the private
chambers refused to accept the Centre's plea for reviewing the earlier
decision by Justice Singhvi and Justice Mukhopadhaya.

The SC decision had re- criminalised ' unnatural' sex once again.

Its earlier decision in December 11, 2013 had

drawn sharp criticism internationally for failing to protect fundamental
individual rights. United Nations human rights chief Navi Pillay had said
that criminalizing private, consensual same- sex sexual conduct violated
the rights to privacy and to non- discrimination enshrined in the
International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights, which India has
ratified.  The Supreme Court decision in this case represents a
significant step backwards for India and a blow for human rights, she
said. In 2009, the Delhi High Court exempted gay sex between consenting
adults from the ban imposed by Section 377. That verdict was the result of
a case brought by the Naz Foundation, a sexual rights organization, which
fought a legal battle for almost a decade. Different religious groups
appealed against the Delhi High Court's decision in the Supreme Court,
which ruled in their favour.

The Supreme Court bench, headed by G. S. Singhvi on his last day before
retirement, found the High Court had overstepped its authority and that the
law passed by the British in 1860 does not violate the Constitution. The
Supreme Court stated then that only the Parliament could change the law, by
deleting Section 377 which is a British colonial- era statute of the Indian
Penal Code which bans sex  against the order of nature. This essentially
means that all LGBT sex in India is unnatural and that all LGBT individuals
when they have sex Indian are unapprehended felons or criminals.

The Union Government and gay rights activists had appealed against the
Supreme Court's December 2013 decision.

But judges in their wisdom said that they saw no reason to interfere with
the order. So what next? The Union government has two options: it can
either file a curative petition in the Supreme Court, or it can try to
amend the law in Parliament.

A curative petition, the final appeal in the legal process, is heard by the
Supreme Court's senior- most judges including the Chief Justice of the
country. The curative petition has to be certified by a senior advocate and
is then circulated to the three senior most judges and the judges who
delivered the impugned judgment.

After the curative petition is given to these judges, it will be heard only
if majority of the judges decide that matter needs urgent hearing.

Amending the law in Parliament will be moretough for the government. The
main opposition party, the Bhartiya Janata Party or the BJP, has said it
backs Article 377. There is every likelihood that the BJP may form the next
government at the Centre and they bringing any Constitutional amendment in
favor of decriminalizing gay sex ( read LGBT sex) or reading down Article
377 ) is as possible as the Pope saying LGBT orientation is natural and
that he supports gay marriages.

A direct impact of the December 2013 judgment making LGBT sex unnatural in
India has been the reemergence of fear and a feeling of helplessness in a
vast number of LGBT which prefer to remain in the shadows. 

Re: g_b Wednesday's Woe

2014-02-01 Thread Manoj Shroff
Didnt understand this one ... Pls explain.

...

On Jan 14, 2014, at 10:40 PM, asfan asfa...@yahoo.com wrote:

 I met a friend in a bar and noticed two hunks looking at me.
 Nine I heard one of  them whisper when I passed.
 Feeling chuffed, I swaggered up to my friend and told him that
 the boys had just rated me a nine out of ten.

 I don't want to ruin it for you, he replied, but when I walked
 past them, they were speaking German.