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Re: g_b Need Advice (reply)
Kiss him and see what happens !!! In a message dated 8/9/2014 3:32:10 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com writes: Hi All, Need advice from you... I have a colleague actually he is my junior. We started chatting casually and we get along well with each other. I first started saying jokingly I Love You and all...and he dint mind. Then we really get along so well that I fall in love with him...Whenever we chat he will call me JAAN... I then told him that my love for him is not brotherly or friendly...I would like to sleep beside you...I would like to sleep wrapping my arms around you...I would like to kiss you and all... Then he used to send some romantic messages like the one which a guy send to girl...he send me some romantic English songs as well... He recently got married to his long time girl friend...And he told me that although I am married you are part of my life and I love you... I told him many times that My love for you is not brotherly or friendly and he said he knows it..and even his is same... Even just to taste him I said that someone saying me that my relation with him is not good and all my love messages to him is not good as well... For which he got angry and he said he don't care of any one and whoever is saying it is wrong My confusion is we never got physical nor we talked about sex How would I know if he is straight or bi or gayOr whether he actually knows what relation I am talking about... I told him even recently like that I love you more than anything and you are my life and I cannot control it and he was OK with it. Kindly help me to find out his orientation
g_b Re: Need Advice
Come right out and ask him. Henry
g_b website on lord dattatreya
New website on Lord dattatreya launched on Shravana poornima at http://www.sreedattavaibhavam.org http://www.sreedattavaibhavam.org and is also having google group link on home page. Site is more informative a and covering all datta kshetras n datta stotras site is also covering dattakshetras of maharashtra
g_b Re: Hi
Hi - I went there a week backhad a very good time...anyone want to join me next time...plis ping me
g_b Travel makes one modest
Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world. - Gustave Flaubert (Humility http://journey.symphonyoflove.net/z5jZW @ JOURNEY)There is a saying, “The more I know, the more I realise how little I knew.” Just this morning, I came across another quote from Socrates http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/socrates-love-quotes-and-love-sayings.html, “True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize how little we understand about life, ourselves, and the world around us.” Travelling is eyes opening and humbling for one. Have you come across a story of the frog of the well http://journey.symphonyoflove.net/travel-quote-travel-makes-one-modest.html?___Don't let people pull you into their storms. Pull them into your peace. - Kimberly Jones (Choice http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#choice @ OM)We do have a choice to be either pulled into the storms of others, or continued to live in and share our inner peace. http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1965(Click above for the bigger image) ___Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. - Ian Maclaren (Rev. John Watson) (Kindness http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#kindness @ OM)Quoting Socrates http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/socrates-love-quotes-and-love-sayings.html, Be nicer than necessary to everyone you meet. Everyone is fighting some kind of battle.More Quotes on Kindness http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/8t93y http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1964(Click above for the bigger image) ___One day you will wake up and there won't be any more time to do the things you've always wanted. Do it now. - Paulo Coelho (Life http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#life @ OM)Death is a challenge that we all face. It tells us not to waste time ... it tells us to do the things or to say the things that we want to do or say right now; there may not always be another time.Be inspired with more quotes from Paulo Coelho http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/BvNOH http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1963(Click above for the bigger image)___The beginning is the most important part of the work. - Plato (Take Action http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#take-action @ OM)Quoting Lao Tzu http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/lao-tzu-love-quotes-and-love-sayings.html, A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.More quotes from Plato http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/BvNOH http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1962(Click above for the bigger image) ___Cause you're only given a little spark of madness, and if you lose that, you're nothing. - Robin Williams, A Night at the Roxy (1978) (Living Life to the fullest http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#living-life-to-the-fullest @ OM) http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1961(Click above for the bigger image)___Reduce to increase (based on a true story): An old woman has started to run 20km a day seriously. What do you think inspired her? Find out what inspired her to do that. https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=940859455941068set=vb.188411217852566type=2theater ___Plan your next trip at JOURNEY Now http://journey.symphonyoflove.net/!
Re: g_b Need Advice
My dear friend, you are lucky to have a partner like that, who loves you. you said you guys never performed physical, and that things probabllyy bugs u. listen yaar, basicalllyy nowdays everything is only for sex(like msg chat, movie, dates) every thing, bcz one or other guy want that at the end, maximum guys dnt care for the actual love, but as in urs case , he never ask fr u to being physical, and he still cares for u and love u. love is not what we do physicallyy, love is ..what we you or that guy feel for each other. my only advice for u is that, stop thinking about any doubts or smthing, just keep flow with time ... and enjoy the moments all the best. On Sunday, August 10, 2014 1:02 AM, guru nanak imad4u2...@yahoo.com [gay_bombay] gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com wrote: Hi All, Need advice from you... I have a colleague actually he is my junior. We started chatting casually and we get along well with each other. I first started saying jokingly I Love You and all...and he dint mind. Then we really get along so well that I fall in love with him...Whenever we chat he will call me JAAN... I then told him that my love for him is not brotherly or friendly...I would like to sleep beside you...I would like to sleep wrapping my arms around you...I would like to kiss you and all... Then he used to send some romantic messages like the one which a guy send to girl...he send me some romantic English songs as well... He recently got married to his long time girl friend...And he told me that although I am married you are part of my life and I love you... I told him many times that My love for you is not brotherly or friendly and he said he knows it..and even his is same... Even just to taste him I said that someone saying me that my relation with him is not good and all my love messages to him is not good as well... For which he got angry and he said he don't care of any one and whoever is saying it is wrong My confusion is we never got physical nor we talked about sex How would I know if he is straight or bi or gayOr whether he actually knows what relation I am talking about... I told him even recently like that I love you more than anything and you are my life and I cannot control it and he was OK with it. Kindly help me to find out his orientation
g_b Ashok Row Kavi interview on BBC World Service's Outlook
Hi, Yesterday, I was pleasantly surprised when I logged on to BBC World Service's web page and found a smiling Ashok Row Kavi staring at me. I found out that Ashok was featured on one of the station's flagship shows called Outlook. This morning, over my first cup of coffee, I heard the interview. I thoroughly enjoyed knowing more about a man that I have personally known, albeit rather casually, for several years. I recommend this interview to anyone who would like to know more about one of India's pioneering hay rights activists. http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0245lv8 Kris
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g_b WTF India: Being gay in India – A sin or freedom of choice?
http://www.india.com/stream/wtf-india-being-gay-in-india-a-sin-or-freedom-of-choice-118614/ WTF India: Being gay in India – A sin or freedom of choice? http://www.india.com/stream/wtf-india-being-gay-in-india-a-sin-or-freedom-of-choice-118614/ http://www.india.com/stream/wtf-india-being-gay-in-india-a-sin-or-freedom-of-choice-118614/
g_b Gays in UP avoid prying eyes, get hooked online
Gays in UP avoid prying eyes, get hooked online Priyangi Agarwal | 2014-08-17 07:06:00 + http://toi.in/9ktQgY People living in UP small towns have started taking the help of numerous online gay clubs not only to connect but also to arrange meeting in more secure locations. BAREILLY: Once while walking through the deserted banks of the Rapti in Tulsipur, Balrampur district of Uttar Pradesh, 28-year-old Aman hugged his friend who had come visiting from Delhi. A local cop who had been following them recorded it on his mobile phone. The cop would go on to extort Rs 15,000 from the boys on six occasions. Now, though, Aman and thousands of others like him across UP's small towns have become smarter, taking the help of numerous online gay clubs not only to connect with each other but also to arrange meetings in more secure locations that would be impossible for nosy policemen to pinpoint. There is one, for instance, called the 'Rampur Gay Club' where Hitesh and Subhash met. Then there are others for gay residents of Rohilkhand, Allahabad, Bareilly and even Sitapur. Such membership-only platforms have mushroomed everywhere, from Ballia to Saharanpur and beyond. And it's come as a boon for these men living isolated lives, haunted by perpetual worries of being found out in small neighbourhoods. Unlike in metro cities, there is no social circle of gays living in the smaller and more conservative parts of India, said Animesh Kumar. These clubs have expanded our lives. We can meet like-minded people in any of the neighbouring districts, and further if we are willing to travel. Saleem Kidwai, an activist fighting for rights of LGBT community, says the internet has helped diminish both fear and isolation of homosexuals. One such active user, Ritesh, a BTech student in Bareilly, said, Earlier I used to think I am the only gay man in my city. But recently I realized there are many more. Gay men in small towns live a highly closeted life, with hardly any opportunity to meet partners in everyday life. These (online) groups have made it easy for us to reach out to one another in the same city itself. Another user, Sameer, a native of Pilibhit and a BSc student, added: Importantly, these forums are not just for gays and lesbians. They are for all liberals. We love meeting straight people, too. In a country like India where gay sex is still a criminal offence, their love and support is crucial to us. But everything is not hunky-dory. There is always a risk factor associated with social networking sites as a significant chunk of members give false details to protect their identity. Often it is the police or people belonging to an extortion racket who are active on these sites. After gaining the trust of a gay man, they either extract money or seek sexual favour from him, said Deepak, 25, a Saharanpur resident. Outside the internet, life continues to be tough. When the influential family of Jafar, 23, who lives in Kamerie tehsil of Rampur, learnt that their son is gay, they admitted him to drug rehabilitation centre in Moradabad to distance him from other abnormal online friends. Recalling the tale of horror, Jafar said, My family thought that if I am punished in this way, I will become straight. Within three months my health deteriorated and they asked me to come back when they realized that I would die soon. Another gay couple Junaid and Nikky of Rampur, who want to move in together, said no one will rent an apartment to them. We have no option but to live on the outskirt of the city, Nikky said, sadness writ large on his face. ___ Sincerely with best regards, Aditya Bondyopadhyay (Sent from my iPad)
g_b Watch: First gay hug, a homophobic experiment
Watch: First gay hug, a homophobic experiment http://www .deccanchr onicle.com /140810/li festyle-of fbeat/arti cle/watch- first-gay- hug-homoph obic-exper iment
g_b Choose a positive and grateful attitude
Don't let anyone's bad attitude ruin your good one. - Joel Osteen (Attitude http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#attitude @ OM)No matter how bad others' attitude might be towards us, do not let that disturb your inner peace because attitude is the one thing that makes a big difference in all that we do. Choose instead to have a positive and grateful attitude for yourselfMore quotes by Joel Osteen http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/oDCxP http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1971___It's not what the world holds for you. It's what you bring to it. - L.M. Montgomery (Be the change http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#be-the-change @ OM)Quoting L.M. Montgomery http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/3HYjb, Some people go through life trying to find out what the world holds for them only to find out too late that it’s what they bring to the world that really counts. http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1970(Click above for the bigger image) ___Forgiveness is the only way we can release ourselves from the past. - Marianne Williamson (Forgiveness http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#forgiveness @ OM)Quoting Marianne Williamson http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/LmxmP, Forgiveness is not always easy. At times, it feels more painful than the wound we suffered, to forgive the one that inflicted it. And yet, there is no peace without forgiveness. http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1969(Click above for the bigger image) ___Life is short. Don't miss opportunities to spend time with people that you love. - Joel Osteen (Love http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#love @ OM)Quoting Leo Buscaglia http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/leo-buscaglia-love-quotes-and-love-sayings.html, Death is a challenge. It tells us not to waste time ... It tells us to tell each other right now that we love each other. Not only to tell, but also to spend time with each other. http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1968(Click above for the bigger image)___Your life is your story. Write well. Edit often. - Susan Statham (Life http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#life @ OM)Quoting Lisa Nichols http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/lisa-nichols-love-quotes-and-sayings.html, At any given moment you have the power to say: this is not how the story is going to end. http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1967(Click above for the bigger image) ___To hold, you must first open your hand. Let go. - Lao Tzu (Letting go moving on http://om.symphonyoflove.net/#letting-go-and-moving-on @ OM) http://om.symphonyoflove.net/?attachment_id=1966(Click above for the bigger image)___If we concentrate on being a blessing to other people, encouraging other people, giving to other people, then that automatically shuts selfishness out of our life. - Joyce Meyer (more quotes by Joyce Meyer http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/joyce-meyer-love-quotes-and-sayings.html)___Plan your next trip at JOURNEY Now http://journey.symphonyoflove.net/!
