Re: g_b Re: NEVER READY FOR IT

2009-06-22 Thread Aditya Bondyopadhyay
Hi Alpha,
please search the archives of this list. Especially for October/Nov/Dec
2008. The entire corpus of the final arguements have been posted here by
Arvind and ALF. It is very comprehensive and very interesting to read.

Best,
Aditya B

2009/6/22 Alpha Leonis canes@gmail.com



 Hmm ... I can understand prashan'ts view but I don't agree ...

 To bring big change, we have to start off somewhere right ? and removal of
 377 is just a start ... if it happens it will give courage to our community.
 You cannot expect things to fall from heaven and everything will be
 legalized in one shot. We must go step by step.

 Lots of arguments must have gone in courtrooms. I have one request. After
 the virdict, court will publish entire book of arguments and all ... if
 possible make it available, electronically, for everybody to read. So we can
 also get an idea of how arguments were done.

 Rgds,
 -Alpha Leonis



 On Thu, Jun 18, 2009 at 11:46 PM, Manoj zeus200...@yahoo.com wrote:



The govt should this
 The courts should do that
 ppl shud not wear masks
 what is there today is wrong
 what is going to happen is as bad if not more.

 rt?

 but then as an individual how are you carrying the stone on which the
 foundation is sought to be built?

 Wanna have a secure house.?lift the stone to build it n not cast on
 others.

 Manoj


 --- On *Thu, 18/6/09, Prashant p...@yahoo.com* wrote:


 From: Prashant p...@yahoo.com
 Subject: g_b Re: NEVER READY FOR IT
 To: gayde...@googlegroups.com
 Cc: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, GayAhmedabad 
 gayahmeda...@googlegroups.com, GayBangalore 
 gaybangal...@googlegroups.com, GayBombay gaybom...@googlrgroups.com,
 GayBombay Blogger gaybombay.sasha1...@blogger.com, GayBombayGroup 
 gaybombaygr...@yahoogroups.com, Gaycalcutta 
 gaycalcu...@googlegroups.com, gaycalcuttagr...@yahoogroups.com,
 GayChennai gaychen...@googlegroups.com, GayDelhi 
 gayde...@googlegroups.com, GayIndia gayin...@googlegroups.com,
 time84x...@post. wordpress. com time84x...@post.wordpress.com
 Date: Thursday, 18 June, 2009, 5:57 PM

 I think 377 may be removed any time now, may be next month when the
 courts open after summer vacations or a little later. The hearing in the
 Delhi High Court was over in October, 2008 and only verdict has to come. The
 proceedings and the attitude of the judges during the last 4-5 days of
 hearing made it clear that 377 will be removed. They only have to see that
 there is no law and order problem the day verdict comes. They will have to
 make some police arrangement before verdict is announced. The court might
 inform the government in advance to make suitable arrangements.



 However, I do not think that removal of 377 is going to help Indian
 gay community in any way. Indian homosexuals will not be able to surface out
 and start living with their partners openly after 377 is removed.
 Homosexuality will keep operating as a hidden and underground sub-culture in
 India as usual. In fact, 377 has already been removed in practice. The
 government of India is not enforcing it now. They allow flavoured condoms
 meant for oral sex to be manufactured and marketed openly, they install
 condom vending machines in military barracks for soldiers who have anal sex
 with each other since they remain away from their wives for prolonged
 periods, all gay sites remain openly accessible in India, gay parties openly
 allowed in metros, gay men remaining openly involved in sexual activities in
 city parks in Mumbai when cops turning a blind eye to them and so on. IPC
 377 now exists on paper only.  Whether we remove it from paper or not is
 immaterial. The Sri Lankan Government has even said to its gay community
 that we are not enforcing law banning anal sex, so they can have anal sex if
 they want.



 What we want is the acceptability of homosexuality in India which will
 come through education. The government must publicize the findings of
 medical science about homosexuality in India through newspapers, radio, TV
 etc. and other means of mass communication. The government must heavily
 advertise that homosexuality is not a mental disorder and it is a normal
 human behaviour. The Government should also launch special drives so that
 married gay men come out in the open and take divorce from their wives.
 Making same-sex Marriage Law is the first step in creating the acceptability
 of homosexuals in the society. Nothing less than this will work. Nepal's
 Supreme Court has already ordered Nepal Government to make Same-sex Marriage
 Law within 6 months. Since 6 months are already over, somebody might now
 file a contempt petition in the court to remind the Government to make the
 law. Nepal is presently going on under political turmoil; otherwise the law
 might already have been made by now.



 Removal of 377 only helps in establishing the existence of male
 homosexuals in the society. The Government of India has already accepted our
 existence but a common man has yet

Re: g_b Re: NEVER READY FOR IT

2009-06-22 Thread Alpha Leonis
okie..
Rgds,
-Alpha Leonis


On Mon, Jun 22, 2009 at 1:53 PM, Aditya Bondyopadhyay
adit.b...@gmail.comwrote:



 Hi Alpha,
 please search the archives of this list. Especially for October/Nov/Dec
 2008. The entire corpus of the final arguements have been posted here by
 Arvind and ALF. It is very comprehensive and very interesting to read.

 Best,
 Aditya B

 2009/6/22 Alpha Leonis canes@gmail.com



 Hmm ... I can understand prashan'ts view but I don't agree ...

 To bring big change, we have to start off somewhere right ? and removal of
 377 is just a start ... if it happens it will give courage to our community.
 You cannot expect things to fall from heaven and everything will be
 legalized in one shot. We must go step by step.

 Lots of arguments must have gone in courtrooms. I have one request. After
 the virdict, court will publish entire book of arguments and all ... if
 possible make it available, electronically, for everybody to read. So we can
 also get an idea of how arguments were done.

 Rgds,
 -Alpha Leonis



 On Thu, Jun 18, 2009 at 11:46 PM, Manoj zeus200...@yahoo.com wrote:



The govt should this
 The courts should do that
 ppl shud not wear masks
 what is there today is wrong
 what is going to happen is as bad if not more.

 rt?

 but then as an individual how are you carrying the stone on which the
 foundation is sought to be built?

 Wanna have a secure house.?lift the stone to build it n not cast on
 others.

 Manoj


 --- On *Thu, 18/6/09, Prashant p...@yahoo.com* wrote:


 From: Prashant p...@yahoo.com
 Subject: g_b Re: NEVER READY FOR IT
 To: gayde...@googlegroups.com
 Cc: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, GayAhmedabad 
 gayahmeda...@googlegroups.com, GayBangalore 
 gaybangal...@googlegroups.com, GayBombay gaybom...@googlrgroups.com,
 GayBombay Blogger gaybombay.sasha1...@blogger.com, GayBombayGroup
 gaybombaygr...@yahoogroups.com, Gaycalcutta 
 gaycalcu...@googlegroups.com, gaycalcuttagr...@yahoogroups.com,
 GayChennai gaychen...@googlegroups.com, GayDelhi 
 gayde...@googlegroups.com, GayIndia gayin...@googlegroups.com,
 time84x...@post. wordpress. com time84x...@post.wordpress.com
 Date: Thursday, 18 June, 2009, 5:57 PM

 I think 377 may be removed any time now, may be next month when the
 courts open after summer vacations or a little later. The hearing in the
 Delhi High Court was over in October, 2008 and only verdict has to come. The
 proceedings and the attitude of the judges during the last 4-5 days of
 hearing made it clear that 377 will be removed. They only have to see that
 there is no law and order problem the day verdict comes. They will have to
 make some police arrangement before verdict is announced. The court might
 inform the government in advance to make suitable arrangements.



 However, I do not think that removal of 377 is going to help Indian
 gay community in any way. Indian homosexuals will not be able to surface out
 and start living with their partners openly after 377 is removed.
 Homosexuality will keep operating as a hidden and underground sub-culture in
 India as usual. In fact, 377 has already been removed in practice. The
 government of India is not enforcing it now. They allow flavoured condoms
 meant for oral sex to be manufactured and marketed openly, they install
 condom vending machines in military barracks for soldiers who have anal sex
 with each other since they remain away from their wives for prolonged
 periods, all gay sites remain openly accessible in India, gay parties openly
 allowed in metros, gay men remaining openly involved in sexual activities in
 city parks in Mumbai when cops turning a blind eye to them and so on. IPC
 377 now exists on paper only.  Whether we remove it from paper or not is
 immaterial. The Sri Lankan Government has even said to its gay community
 that we are not enforcing law banning anal sex, so they can have anal sex if
 they want.



 What we want is the acceptability of homosexuality in India which will
 come through education. The government must publicize the findings of
 medical science about homosexuality in India through newspapers, radio, TV
 etc. and other means of mass communication. The government must heavily
 advertise that homosexuality is not a mental disorder and it is a normal
 human behaviour. The Government should also launch special drives so that
 married gay men come out in the open and take divorce from their wives.
 Making same-sex Marriage Law is the first step in creating the acceptability
 of homosexuals in the society. Nothing less than this will work. Nepal's
 Supreme Court has already ordered Nepal Government to make Same-sex Marriage
 Law within 6 months. Since 6 months are already over, somebody might now
 file a contempt petition in the court to remind the Government to make the
 law. Nepal is presently going on under political turmoil; otherwise the law
 might already have been made by now.



 Removal of 377 only helps in establishing the existence of male

Re: g_b Re: NEVER READY FOR IT

2009-06-21 Thread Alpha Leonis
Hmm ... I can understand prashan'ts view but I don't agree ...

To bring big change, we have to start off somewhere right ? and removal of
377 is just a start ... if it happens it will give courage to our community.
You cannot expect things to fall from heaven and everything will be
legalized in one shot. We must go step by step.

Lots of arguments must have gone in courtrooms. I have one request. After
the virdict, court will publish entire book of arguments and all ... if
possible make it available, electronically, for everybody to read. So we can
also get an idea of how arguments were done.

Rgds,
-Alpha Leonis


On Thu, Jun 18, 2009 at 11:46 PM, Manoj zeus200...@yahoo.com wrote:



 The govt should this
 The courts should do that
 ppl shud not wear masks
 what is there today is wrong
 what is going to happen is as bad if not more.

 rt?

 but then as an individual how are you carrying the stone on which the
 foundation is sought to be built?

 Wanna have a secure house.?lift the stone to build it n not cast on
 others.

 Manoj


 --- On *Thu, 18/6/09, Prashant p...@yahoo.com* wrote:


 From: Prashant p...@yahoo.com
 Subject: g_b Re: NEVER READY FOR IT
 To: gayde...@googlegroups.com
 Cc: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, GayAhmedabad 
 gayahmeda...@googlegroups.com, GayBangalore 
 gaybangal...@googlegroups.com, GayBombay gaybom...@googlrgroups.com,
 GayBombay Blogger gaybombay.sasha1...@blogger.com, GayBombayGroup 
 gaybombaygr...@yahoogroups.com, Gaycalcutta 
 gaycalcu...@googlegroups.com, gaycalcuttagr...@yahoogroups.com,
 GayChennai gaychen...@googlegroups.com, GayDelhi 
 gayde...@googlegroups.com, GayIndia gayin...@googlegroups.com,
 time84x...@post. wordpress. com time84x...@post.wordpress.com
 Date: Thursday, 18 June, 2009, 5:57 PM

 I think 377 may be removed any time now, may be next month when the
 courts open after summer vacations or a little later. The hearing in the
 Delhi High Court was over in October, 2008 and only verdict has to come. The
 proceedings and the attitude of the judges during the last 4-5 days of
 hearing made it clear that 377 will be removed. They only have to see that
 there is no law and order problem the day verdict comes. They will have to
 make some police arrangement before verdict is announced. The court might
 inform the government in advance to make suitable arrangements.



 However, I do not think that removal of 377 is going to help Indian
 gay community in any way. Indian homosexuals will not be able to surface out
 and start living with their partners openly after 377 is removed.
 Homosexuality will keep operating as a hidden and underground sub-culture in
 India as usual. In fact, 377 has already been removed in practice. The
 government of India is not enforcing it now. They allow flavoured condoms
 meant for oral sex to be manufactured and marketed openly, they install
 condom vending machines in military barracks for soldiers who have anal sex
 with each other since they remain away from their wives for prolonged
 periods, all gay sites remain openly accessible in India, gay parties openly
 allowed in metros, gay men remaining openly involved in sexual activities in
 city parks in Mumbai when cops turning a blind eye to them and so on. IPC
 377 now exists on paper only.  Whether we remove it from paper or not is
 immaterial. The Sri Lankan Government has even said to its gay community
 that we are not enforcing law banning anal sex, so they can have anal sex if
 they want.



 What we want is the acceptability of homosexuality in India which will come
 through education. The government must publicize the findings of medical
 science about homosexuality in India through newspapers, radio, TV etc. and
 other means of mass communication. The government must heavily advertise
 that homosexuality is not a mental disorder and it is a normal human
 behaviour. The Government should also launch special drives so that married
 gay men come out in the open and take divorce from their wives. Making
 same-sex Marriage Law is the first step in creating the acceptability of
 homosexuals in the society. Nothing less than this will work. Nepal's
 Supreme Court has already ordered Nepal Government to make Same-sex Marriage
 Law within 6 months. Since 6 months are already over, somebody might now
 file a contempt petition in the court to remind the Government to make the
 law. Nepal is presently going on under political turmoil; otherwise the law
 might already have been made by now.



 Removal of 377 only helps in establishing the existence of male homosexuals
 in the society. The Government of India has already accepted our existence
 but a common man has yet to do so. Previously, the Government of India was
 also not recognising the existence of homosexuality in the society. However,
 after AIDS came into picture, the government had to do it. Now, if not all
 then at least those government documents and reports which are prepared in
 connection of HIV and AIDS

g_b Re: NEVER READY FOR IT

2009-06-18 Thread Prashant
I think 377 may be removed any time now, may be next month when the courts open 
after summer vacations or a little later. The hearing in the Delhi High Court 
was over in October, 2008 and only verdict has to come. The proceedings and the 
attitude of the judges during the last 4-5 days of hearing made it clear that 
377 will be removed. They only have to see that there is no law and order 
problem the day verdict comes. They will have to make some police arrangement 
before verdict is announced. The court might inform the government in advance 
to make suitable arrangements. 
  
However, I do not think that removal of 377 is going to help Indian 
gay community in any way. Indian homosexuals will not be able to surface out 
and start living with their partners openly after 377 is removed. Homosexuality 
will keep operating as a hidden and underground sub-culture in India as usual. 
In fact, 377 has already been removed in practice. The government of India is 
not enforcing it now. They allow flavoured condoms meant for oral sex to be 
manufactured and marketed openly, they install condom vending machines in 
military barracks for soldiers who have anal sex with each other since they 
remain away from their wives for prolonged periods, all gay sites remain openly 
accessible in India, gay parties openly allowed in metros, gay men remaining 
openly involved in sexual activities in city parks in Mumbai when cops turning 
a blind eye to them and so on. IPC 377 now exists on paper only.  Whether we 
remove it from paper or not is immaterial.
 The Sri Lankan Government has even said to its gay community that we are not 
enforcing law banning anal sex, so they can have anal sex if they want. 
  
What we want is the acceptability of homosexuality in India which will come 
through education. The government must publicize the findings of medical 
science about homosexuality in India through newspapers, radio, TV etc. and 
other means of mass communication. The government must heavily advertise that 
homosexuality is not a mental disorder and it is a normal human behaviour. The 
Government should also launch special drives so that married gay men come out 
in the open and take divorce from their wives. Making same-sex Marriage Law is 
the first step in creating the acceptability of homosexuals in the society. 
Nothing less than this will work. Nepal's Supreme Court has already ordered 
Nepal Government to make Same-sex Marriage Law within 6 months. Since 6 months 
are already over, somebody might now file a contempt petition in the court to 
remind the Government to make the law. Nepal is presently going on under 
political turmoil; otherwise the law might
 already have been made by now. 
   
Removal of 377 only helps in establishing the existence of male homosexuals in 
the society. The Government of India has already accepted our existence but a 
common man has yet to do so. Previously, the Government of India was also not 
recognising the existence of homosexuality in the society. However, after AIDS 
came into picture, the government had to do it. Now, if not all then at least 
those government documents and reports which are prepared in connection of HIV 
and AIDS prevention work always use two words together - prostitutes and 
homosexuals (they have coined the word 'MSM' for homosexuals but they never use 
the words ‘MSW’ or ‘WSM’ for themselves). It shows that the government of India 
has accepted the existence of homosexuals on earth. However, a common man is 
yet to do so categorically. So far a common man on the street thinks that there 
are some men who take young boys to deserted spots and they rape them. A common 
man also knows
 that there are some men in the society who want that another man performs anal 
sex on them. A common man thinks that these two types of men are known as 
homosexuals and they suffer from a mental disease. A common man also thinks 
that the number of such homosexuals is very small in the society, just one in 
lakhs. However, all this information in informally available to a common man. 
He has picked it up from no formal source. 
  
When we remove 377, a common man will come to know in a formal way about the 
existence of a class named 'MSM' in the society, just like the government has 
accepted it now. However, besides establishing the existence of MSM's, nothing 
more will be accomplished by removal of 377. A common man will continue hating 
homosexuals, as he does now. When we remove 377 as a measure to prevent AIDS, 
the common man on the street will think that the govt. had to do this since 
homosexuals are an unavoidable evil and we shall have to tolerate them since we 
cannot eliminate them. Homosexuality will be thought like prostitution. We are 
also on our path to legalise prostitution since it has been found that 
prostitution cannot be stopped by any means so it is better to legalise it. 
Prostitution has been accepted by the society as an unavoidable evil. By 

Re: g_b Re: NEVER READY FOR IT

2009-06-18 Thread Manoj
The govt should this
The courts should do that
ppl shud not wear masks
what is there today is wrong
what is going to happen is as bad if not more.
 
rt?
 
but then as an individual how are you carrying the stone on which the 
foundation is sought to be built? 
 
Wanna have a secure house.?    lift the stone to build it n not cast on others.
 
Manoj


--- On Thu, 18/6/09, Prashant p...@yahoo.com wrote:


From: Prashant p...@yahoo.com
Subject: g_b Re: NEVER READY FOR IT
To: gayde...@googlegroups.com
Cc: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, GayAhmedabad gayahmeda...@googlegroups.com, 
GayBangalore gaybangal...@googlegroups.com, GayBombay 
gaybom...@googlrgroups.com, GayBombay Blogger 
gaybombay.sasha1...@blogger.com, GayBombayGroup 
gaybombaygr...@yahoogroups.com, Gaycalcutta gaycalcu...@googlegroups.com, 
gaycalcuttagr...@yahoogroups.com, GayChennai gaychen...@googlegroups.com, 
GayDelhi gayde...@googlegroups.com, GayIndia gayin...@googlegroups.com, 
time84x...@post. wordpress. com time84x...@post.wordpress.com
Date: Thursday, 18 June, 2009, 5:57 PM













I think 377 may be removed any time now, may be next month when the courts open 
after summer vacations or a little later. The hearing in the Delhi High Court 
was over in October, 2008 and only verdict has to come. The proceedings and the 
attitude of the judges during the last 4-5 days of hearing made it clear that 
377 will be removed. They only have to see that there is no law and order 
problem the day verdict comes. They will have to make some police arrangement 
before verdict is announced. The court might inform the government in advance 
to make suitable arrangements. 
  
However, I do not think that removal of 377 is going to help Indian 
gay community in any way. Indian homosexuals will not be able to surface out 
and start living with their partners openly after 377 is removed. Homosexuality 
will keep operating as a hidden and underground sub-culture in India as usual. 
In fact, 377 has already been removed in practice. The government of India is 
not enforcing it now. They allow flavoured condoms meant for oral sex to be 
manufactured and marketed openly, they install condom vending machines in 
military barracks for soldiers who have anal sex with each other since they 
remain away from their wives for prolonged periods, all gay sites remain openly 
accessible in India, gay parties openly allowed in metros, gay men remaining 
openly involved in sexual activities in city parks in Mumbai when cops turning 
a blind eye to them and so on. IPC 377 now exists on paper only.  Whether we 
remove it from paper or not is immaterial.
 The Sri Lankan Government has even said to its gay community that we are not 
enforcing law banning anal sex, so they can have anal sex if they want. 
  
What we want is the acceptability of homosexuality in India which will come 
through education. The government must publicize the findings of medical 
science about homosexuality in India through newspapers, radio, TV etc. and 
other means of mass communication. The government must heavily advertise that 
homosexuality is not a mental disorder and it is a normal human behaviour. The 
Government should also launch special drives so that married gay men come out 
in the open and take divorce from their wives. Making same-sex Marriage Law is 
the first step in creating the acceptability of homosexuals in the society. 
Nothing less than this will work. Nepal's Supreme Court has already ordered 
Nepal Government to make Same-sex Marriage Law within 6 months. Since 6 months 
are already over, somebody might now file a contempt petition in the court to 
remind the Government to make the law. Nepal is presently going on under 
political turmoil; otherwise the law might
 already have been made by now. 
   
Removal of 377 only helps in establishing the existence of male homosexuals in 
the society. The Government of India has already accepted our existence but a 
common man has yet to do so. Previously, the Government of India was also not 
recognising the existence of homosexuality in the society. However, after AIDS 
came into picture, the government had to do it. Now, if not all then at least 
those government documents and reports which are prepared in connection of HIV 
and AIDS prevention work always use two words together - prostitutes and 
homosexuals (they have coined the word 'MSM' for homosexuals but they never use 
the words ‘MSW’ or ‘WSM’ for themselves). It shows that the government of India 
has accepted the existence of homosexuals on earth. However, a common man is 
yet to do so categorically. So far a common man on the street thinks that there 
are some men who take young boys to deserted spots and they rape them. A common 
man also knows
 that there are some men in the society who want that another man performs anal 
sex on them. A common man thinks that these two types of men are known as 
homosexuals and they suffer from a mental disease. A common man also