Re: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship
Very good answer AB. Sameer, Only one thing is for real ... that is there are no guarantees in this life. There is "no one" ideal including oneself. Thus expecting ideal person is futile. What you can on the other hand get is a nice person. As they say "One can look at a cup and say either it is half empty or half full" ... which one chooses decides what they would become, right. Love someone for the sake of love itself. If that person loves you in return, then you are lucky. If not you have to choose what your options are. I feel for you, being miserable will not change things. Go out and meet people without expectation. This will make you not assess every person you meet, but will allow you to be yourself and stress free. You will look far more attractive and desirable this way. Again, no guarantees in life. Morea. From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, July 18, 2011 2:32:06 AM Subject: Re: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship One of the ways of doing it could be not to look too hard, while at the same time keeping your eyes open so that you do not overlook soneone who you chance upon. The other trick is not to go in with a bag of desires about what you do or dont want in the person. That way you would always be comparing the person you meet to that ideal but unreal image in your head. In such a a comparison the person you meet will not be evaluated for his own merits, and he can never better that mental image you have anyways. The result is you keep rejecting 'good' people and continue to remain lonely. Won't be helpful that, will it? Wish you all the best. Aditya B On 7/17/11, Sameer wrote: > > I want to meet some who really cares for me. > But I dont know how to reach him. > > -- Sent from my mobile device -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship
Hi I am also searching for friends. I wish to know does the get together arranged by gb is useful in finding friends ? regards From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, 18 July, 2011 1:02:06 PM Subject: Re: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship One of the ways of doing it could be not to look too hard, while at the same time keeping your eyes open so that you do not overlook soneone who you chance upon. The other trick is not to go in with a bag of desires about what you do or dont want in the person. That way you would always be comparing the person you meet to that ideal but unreal image in your head. In such a a comparison the person you meet will not be evaluated for his own merits, and he can never better that mental image you have anyways. The result is you keep rejecting 'good' people and continue to remain lonely. Won't be helpful that, will it? Wish you all the best. Aditya B On 7/17/11, Sameer wrote: > > I want to meet some who really cares for me. > But I dont know how to reach him. > > -- Sent from my mobile device -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship
Couldn't agree more with u ,Aditya. Manu/Bangkok From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Mon, 18 July, 2011 2:32:06 PM Subject: Re: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship One of the ways of doing it could be not to look too hard, while at the same time keeping your eyes open so that you do not overlook soneone who you chance upon. The other trick is not to go in with a bag of desires about what you do or dont want in the person. That way you would always be comparing the person you meet to that ideal but unreal image in your head. In such a a comparison the person you meet will not be evaluated for his own merits, and he can never better that mental image you have anyways. The result is you keep rejecting 'good' people and continue to remain lonely. Won't be helpful that, will it? Wish you all the best. Aditya B On 7/17/11, Sameer wrote: > > I want to meet some who really cares for me. > But I dont know how to reach him. > > -- Sent from my mobile device -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship
One of the ways of doing it could be not to look too hard, while at the same time keeping your eyes open so that you do not overlook soneone who you chance upon. The other trick is not to go in with a bag of desires about what you do or dont want in the person. That way you would always be comparing the person you meet to that ideal but unreal image in your head. In such a a comparison the person you meet will not be evaluated for his own merits, and he can never better that mental image you have anyways. The result is you keep rejecting 'good' people and continue to remain lonely. Won't be helpful that, will it? Wish you all the best. Aditya B On 7/17/11, Sameer wrote: > > I want to meet some who really cares for me. > But I dont know how to reach him. > > -- Sent from my mobile device -- ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY Development Sector Consultant Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India) Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/ Notice to all recipients: Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or criminal nature. Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered forward of another communication received by this email account, or a referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
Re: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship
I wish I knew you, I would really be that person buy I live in the USA so don't know how. Everett --- On Sun, 7/17/11, Sameer wrote: From: Sameer Subject: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Sunday, July 17, 2011, 1:51 PM I want to meet some who really cares for me. But I dont know how to reach him.
Re: g_b Re: let's meet for friendship
Most of don't - so join in and keep reading or posting if u get the way :-) Meeting ppl in some organized meets/ events (gb/humsafar to name few regularly organize em) and hopefully after some false starts u will meet him All the best Manoj
g_b Re: let's meet for friendship
I want to meet some who really cares for me. But I dont know how to reach him.
