[Goanet] Cyprian Fernandes against Selma Carvalho (Response to Eddie Fernandes by Rose Fernandes)

2012-09-17 Thread Melvyn Fernandes
Dear Eddie

I too echo what others have written on goanet, this matter was well and truly 
closed. Selma had written an article on the Goan Festival 2012 which was 
published 
in the OHeraldo in Goa, a number of readers took issue at what she had written 
about our community from East Africa and this gauntlet was taken up by Cyprian 
from Australia who, with a fully loaded gold tip parker pen (with ink to spare) 
gave her a justifiable slap on her writer's wrist. In a rare display of 
humility, Selma 
apologised, we all breathed a sigh of relief and therein the matter closed. She 
then bade us all a fond farewell from goanet, but she bades us so many fond 
farewells, that we have all developed a great fondness for her in our hearts.

In your goanet posting, you have written that she has been sitting in the 
National Archives for long hours doing her research, I have to ask did our 
community 
live in the National Archives or did they live in East Africa? The story of our 
lives there is in the streets, the churches, the club houses, the sports 
grounds, the 
beaches, the schools, the colonial offices, the private companies, the 
railways, and in the hearts and minds of those who lived there, not in the 
National Archives, 
we are not some lost tribe yet.

You have also reminded us for the past one year, she has been travelling 
relentlessly the length and breadth of London to record these stories, recruit 
interviewees, transcribe, edit and produce videos. Let me take this 
opportunity to refresh your memory, how you announced with great pride of huge 
interest 
shown in every training session that it was fully booked even before it was 
advertised. There were 20 dedicated volunteers that took training on 29 October 
2011 
and 15 dedicated volunteers that took training on 26 November 2011 both 
sessions at the Indian YMCA in London, all were trained on how to handle video 
and 
audio equipment and interviewing techniques, as shown on 
http://www.britishgoanproject.com/event/ Did these dedicated volunteers pass or 
fail their training? 
Or were these training sessions a tick box exercise as part of the grant 
requirements? Could you advise us why you now feel that we should be giving a 
thank 
you vote to Miss Lonesome when she would have had enough trained-up, dedicated 
volunteers to assist her with this project? 

Like a mystery move on undir papa's game board, it is incredulous that you have 
resurrected this matter on goanet. As editor of Goan Voice and PR Director of 
The Histories of British Goans Project, you will be familiar with these types 
of clashes which have a tendency to die down after a while. In my opinion, the 
behaviour of my best friend mirrors a child standing on a pram because all her 
favourite toys have been thrown on the floor. Rather than an adult continually 
picking them up, in time this child will need to learn she has to pick the toys 
up by herself without any assistance.


Rose Fernandes
Thornton Heath, Surrey, United Kingdom

17 September 2012


Re: [Goanet] Cyprian Fernandes against Selma Carvalho (Response to Eddie Fernandes by Rose Fernandes)

2012-09-17 Thread Eddie Fernandes
Dear Rose,

You are right to question the resurrection of the doddery issue even though 
your path is replete with thorns! 

I too thought that this was dead and buried until on 13th Sep I received a 
message from Cyprian which was also sent out to about 100 other addresses and 
consisted of responses he had received supporting his position. This message 
started off with a Dear Eddie…

I replied to the 100 email addresses indicating why I thought his action was in 
poor taste considering that an apology had been made. I was completely thrown 
by a message that came back to me via GoaNet on 16th Sep. accusing me of being 
distasteful in having revived the issue! I therefore examined Cyprian’s mailing 
list and goanet was indeed one of the 100 names on the list. However, though 
Cyprian had obviously meant his message to go on to GoaNet, it did not do so, 
presumably running foul of the rule that does not allow cross-posting. But when 
I replied to Cyprian’s list, mine got forwarded by GoaNet, presumably because 
of the reputation I have acquired over the years of not being able to do wrong 
:-)
 
Thank you for your interest in our Oral History Project.  I wonder what you 
thought of the documentary released last week. 

Eddie Fernandes