[Goanet] rape of a woman in GOa

2008-03-07 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: 6 Mar 2008 15:23:29 -
From: Jerry Fernandes [EMAIL PROTECTED]

A few days back there was an article which said ?
where are all the Goans?, not sure if I read it on
goanet but it did come on Gulf goans.  The writer said
that if one goes to Panjim, it is very difficult to
find a Goan in Panjim, and I believe it must be the
case in other parts of Goa too.

Mario responds:

Jerry,

I'm sure this will come as a shock to the many Goan
residents of Panjim.

Whoever wrote that it is hard to find a Goan in Panjim
or Goa needs to have their head examined or was
smoking or drinking something illegal:-))

Mario




[Goanet] rape of a woman in GOa [making constructive noise]

2008-03-06 Thread Mario Goveia
Date: 6 Mar 2008 10:08:47 -
From: jane gillian rodrigues
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

the way, all Goans feel, which is - why should I
bother, not my problem, someone else has raped the
woman.  But, unless, we all unitedly make a noise,
the atrocities against all women in Goa will continue.

Mario responds:

Dear Jane,

You and I are on the same side on this issue though I
disagree with you on several details which may
distract from your worthy objective.  For example, I
disagree that a) all Goans need to be ashamed, and b)
all Goans feel that why should I bother, not my
problem, someone else has raped the woman.

To begin with, I have no idea how you know how all
Goans feel.  That's a pretty broad brush.  Besides, I
had no idea that our Goan culture, guarantees the
freedom, respect and dignity of all women.

There are atrocities taking place against women, and
men, in every society.

GUARANTEES?  We haven't even been able to guarantee
that Goans will not be discriminated against because
of the families they were born into.

How do you impose such a cultural guarantee?  I am not
aware of any such guarantees, though I believe that
women, as well as men, should be treated with respect
and dignity and not have to worry about being
assaulted. 

Secondly, wouldn't the constructive approach be to
first  establish the facts?  If you have followed this
story, there is some doubt as to exactly how this
young British girl was killed, while you have jumped
to the conclusion that she was raped.

What if the second autopsy finds that she was not
raped?

Thirdly, instead of indicting all Goans, male and
female, accusing them of being callous and trying to
put a guilt trip on an entire community, which will
lead many of them to tune you out, I think you will do
women a greater and more practical service by making
noise and warning them to be careful, not just in Goa,
but wherever they happen to be, and to also learn some
of the fundamentals of self-defense.

I will certainly join you in making noise about that.





[Goanet] rape of a woman in GOa

2008-03-06 Thread Jerry Fernandes
  
Dear Jane,

A few days back there was an article which said ‘ where are all the Goans’, not 
sure if I read it on goanet but it did come on Gulf goans. The writer said that 
if one goes to Panjim, it is very difficult to find a Goan in Panjim, and I 
believe it must be the case in other parts of Goa too. If Goa is full of so 
many non Goans, and with so many unwanted things taking place in Goa, Why will 
Goans hang his/her head in shame? You must have heard of drug trade by 
foreigners, foreign gangs in Goa, and what not. And that is the height of 
things that are taking place in Goa. 

Cheers

Jerry 

Jane wrote ..

Every Goan, throughout the world, must hang his/her head in shame at the rape 
of a young UK national on the Anjuna Beach recently.

No matter what the reason every woman visiting or residing in Goa, must be 
treated with dignity and respect, or BIG sign boards should be put up in Goa 
with the following comment  BEWARE OF MEN IN GOA

REGARDS,

jane rodrigues ?





[Goanet] rape of a woman in GOa

2008-03-05 Thread jane gillian rodrigues

Dear Friends

Every Goan, throughout the world, must hang his/her head in shame at the rape 
of a young UK national on the Anjuna Beach recently.

No matter what the reason every woman visiting or residing in Goa, must be 
treated with dignity and respect, or BIG sign boards should be put up in Goa 
with the following comment  BEWARE OF MEN IN GOA

REGARDS,

jane rodrigues