THE SPECIAL POSITION OF WOMEN IN ISLAM

 

 

In this era, Islam is being attacked from all angles and fronts. Among the popular issues that have been raised against Islam is the issue of the status of women in Islam. They claim that Islam has given no rights to women, that women are oppressed, that women are considered inferior to men. Actually Islam had accorded women a position of honour, respect, safety and love, that has not yet been matched to this day, let alone being superseded by any religion or ideology.

 

What Has Western Civilisation Given To Women?

 

Western civilisation has given women freedom in the form of prostitution, free sex, escort agencies, massage parlours, lesbianism, illegal mistresses, nudity and shamelessness. The Western World has made women the cheapest commodity on earth. From a car to a packet of sweets, everything sell with the picture of a nude or semi-nude woman beside it. The body of this woman is the property of one and all.

 

Out-of-wedlock birth rate is increasing in the west. According to George A. Akerlof and Janet L. Yellen , in An Analysis of Out-Of-Wedlock Births in the United States, published in 1996, “Since 1970, out-of-wedlock birth rates have soared. In 1965, 24 percent of black infants and 3.1 percent of white infants were born to single mothers. By 1990 the rates had risen to 64 percent for black infants, 18 percent for whites. Every year about one million more children are born into fatherless families. If we have learned any policy lesson well over the past 25 years, it is that for children living in single-parent homes, the odds of living in poverty are great. The policy implications of the increase in out-of-wedlock births are staggering.”

 

Are women really free and safe in the west? According to a study conducted by the National Victim Centre, 1.3 women (age 18 and over) in the United States are forcibly raped each minute. That translates to 78 per hour, 1,871 per day or 683,000 per year.

 

An estimated 51% of the sexual assault cases studied in the Sexual Violence in Women's Safety Project, A Community-Based Survey, 1995, were committed against young women between 16 and 21 years old.

 

The National Violence Against Women Survey found that rape is a crime committed primarily against youth in America. Of the women who reported being raped sometime in their lives, 21.6% were younger than age 12, 32.4% were ages 12 to 17, 29% were ages 18 to 24, and 16.6 % were over 25 years old. Thus, 54% of women victims were under age 18 at the time of the first rape and 83% were under the age of 25.

 

According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, U.S. Department of Justice, 77% of rapes are committed by someone who is known to the victim.

 

Islam And Women

 

When Islam came more than 1400 years ago, it taught that women and men were considered equal in the eyes of God. However, it is important to note that, even though the rights and responsibilities of a Muslim woman are considered equal to a Muslim man, they are not necessarily identical, for equality and sameness are two different things. This brings us to the concept of equity in Islam. Equity is a better term than ‘equality’ as ‘equality’ is sometimes misunderstood to mean absolute equality in each and
every detailed items of comparison, rather than overall equality. Equity in the Islamic context means justice and overall equality in total rights and responsibilities of both genders. It allows variations in specific items within the overall balance and equality. This is because woman and man are created with different responsibilities and functions. In the Quran chapter Ali Imran 3:195, Allah said, “And their Lord answered their prayer saying, ‘I do not let go to waste the labour of any worker from among you, whether male or female, for all of you (human beings) are the offspring of one another’.”

 

God has honoured women by giving them value in relation to God, not in relation to men. But as Western feminism erases God from the scene, there is no standard left but men. As a result, the Western feminist is forced to find her value in relation to a man. And in so doing, she has accepted a faulty assumption. She has accepted that man is the standard, and thus a woman can never be a full human being until she becomes just like a man. Thus, when a man cut his hair short, she wanted to cut her hair short. When a man wrestled, she wanted to wrestle. When men play football, women wanted to play football too, and so on. She wanted all these things because the ‘standard’ (that is men) had them. What she did not recognize was that God dignifies both men and women in their distinctiveness, not their sameness.

 

By Dr. Danial bin Zainal Abidin (M.B.Ch.B., University of Alexandria),

Managing Director Danial Zainal Consultancy (M) Sdn Bhd.

Motivator in Penang Broadcasting Station (Mutiara FM),

Advisor for International Propagation Islamic Society,

Medical Practitioner,

Author of 8 Books,

Columnist in i-Magazine,

Web site:    http://www.shoutmix.com/box/formulacemerlang/

(For the non-Muslims, get your free copy of 'Islam The Misunderstood Religion' by

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