Re: 94!

2004-04-04 Thread Anthony Ettinger
I agree with both of you. I would rather have my wife
at home taking care of the kids - that's how i was
raised and I turned out okay :-), as a kid I can
remember a friend of mine whose parents both worked,
and he was always getting into trouble after school,
even on into adulthood.

The ideal situation I suppose is to make it on one
income, with the possibility of the other spouse going
back to work, if need be.





--- John Von Essen [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 The problem today is one parent's income can't earn
 enough to support 
 the other stay-at-home parent + 2 cars + home +
 expenses from 2 
 kids and so on.
 
 
 
 
 On Apr 3, 2004, at 6:27 PM, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  Call me old fashioned, but I think one parent
 should be dedicated to 
  raising
  kids. Single/Young married people plan with both
 incomes, therefore, 
  can't
  make the choice to raise their kids when the time
 comes.
 


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Re: 94!

2004-04-04 Thread Randal L. Schwartz
 John == John Von Essen [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

John The problem today is one parent's income can't earn enough to support
John the other stay-at-home parent + 2 cars + home + expenses from 2
John kids and so on.

Ahh, the american dream, cranked to 11.

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Re: 94!

2004-04-04 Thread Dave Rolsky
On Sat, 3 Apr 2004, Steve Lane wrote:

 i've pretty much decided that if i want a job posted to this list, i
 need to find a way to move to CA or the DC/Boston corridor and -then-
 apply.  i wonder if that's accurate.  has anyone else here lived in a
 non-top-50 metro area in the US, and found a well-paying Perl job?

I do freelance consulting work for a number of clients, of whom only a few
are local to the Twin Cities, MN area where I live.


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Re: 94!

2004-04-04 Thread Anthony Ettinger
The bay area was one of the hardest hit errors with
the bust, however, I'm seeing more and more jobs
creeping up, so if you can stick it out another year
or so, I think things will be starting to swing again
here.

If you move out of the bay area to an affordable area,
you're pretty much limited to telecommuting only to
get the tech jobs, at least that's my opinion.


--- Steve Lane [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 interesting.  i'm seeing my only chance of making a
 good living with 
 Perl as moving -to- the Bay Area, or another city
 that has good Perl jobs.
 
 i live in Johnson City, TN.  i was able to make a
 living doing Perl from 
 1997 - 2002, and perhaps half a living in 2003, and
 may be able to 
 resume making a living in this area shortly.
 
 but i've found that although there are indeed tons
 of good-looking job 
 postings lately, it's been nearly impossible for me
 to get interest from 
 HR directors who staff those jobs, because i live so
 far away from the 
 jobs' cities.
 
 in one particular case, i thought i was going to get
 a high-profile and 
 very-well-paying job in Silicon Valley.  during and
 after a phone 
 interview for the job, i was told that hundreds of
 people had applied 
 for it, that i was in the final group (something
 like that; the top ten 
 people), and that i could expect a plane trip out
 for the face interview.
 
 after a call from the HR director saying that i
 would be getting an 
 email with a schedule of a few more phone
 interviews, i didn't hear 
 anything for a couple of weeks.  i emailed the
 person who had originally 
 interviewed me to ask what was up.  they said that
 while i was 
 qualified, the company had decided to focus only on
 local candidates, 
 because there were so many of them.
 
 i firmly believe that if i lived in the Bay Area, i
 would have gotten 
 that job.
 
 i've pretty much decided that if i want a job posted
 to this list, i 
 need to find a way to move to CA or the DC/Boston
 corridor and -then- 
 apply.  i wonder if that's accurate.  has anyone
 else here lived in a 
 non-top-50 metro area in the US, and found a
 well-paying Perl job?
 
 (i'm also getting more-than-annoyed at hirers who
 say they're going to 
 contact me in a few days or in a week and don't.
  but i guess that's 
 part of the game.)
 
 -- Steve
 
 Wiggins d'Anconia wrote:
  Or move out of the bay area
  
  Anthony Ettinger wrote:
  
  That's my biggest problem.
 
  I'm on a single income, I get paid well now, and
 could
  afford mortgage payments a house in the south bay
 area
  (although it would take most of the income). But
 I'm
  afraid if I loose a job, I will not be able to
 find
  one in IT locally that pays as well.
 
  The last few years, I've worked at 3 jobs, one
 high
  paying job during the boom, then about 44% of
 that
  during the bust. Now I make 117%  of my original
  dotcom salary. If I loose my job tomorrow, who
 knows
  what the heck I'll be making at the next job.
 
  My dad worked for IBM for 26 years, talk about
 job
  security.
 
  My only solution is to find a woman who makes
 roughly
  the same so we can support each other when one of
 us
  it out of work, or to start my own business and
  hopefully make the same amount of money at it.
 
  --- John Von Essen [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  The scary thing is with the low interest rates,
 home
  values are sky-rocketing, while salaries are
 staying the same
  and even shrinking. In some areas it is becoming
 very difficult to make
  a decent living in IT field - not to mention
 zero job security.
 -- 
 Steve Lane [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 


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Re: 94!

2004-04-04 Thread Terrence Brannon
Anthony Ettinger wrote:

If you move out of the bay area to an affordable area,
you're pretty much limited to telecommuting only to
get the tech jobs, at least that's my opinion.
 

unless you live in New Jersey and work in New York, NYC being the 
motherlode of Perl work AFAIK.

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Re: 94!

2004-04-04 Thread Anthony Ettinger
well, ain't that a bitch. I just got fired tonight.
I swear man, this industry is so friggin' flaky.

--- Terrence Brannon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 Anthony Ettinger wrote:
 
 
 If you move out of the bay area to an affordable
 area,
 you're pretty much limited to telecommuting only to
 get the tech jobs, at least that's my opinion.
 
   
 
 
 unless you live in New Jersey and work in New York,
 NYC being the 
 motherlode of Perl work AFAIK.
 
 -- 
 Terrence Brannon
 Drexel Student ID: 10734450
 


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Re: 94!

2004-04-04 Thread John Von Essen
I just want to say one word to you - just one word - Plastics

On Apr 4, 2004, at 9:56 PM, Anthony Ettinger wrote:

well, ain't that a bitch. I just got fired tonight.
I swear man, this industry is so friggin' flaky.
--- Terrence Brannon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
Anthony Ettinger wrote:

If you move out of the bay area to an affordable
area,
you're pretty much limited to telecommuting only to
get the tech jobs, at least that's my opinion.


unless you live in New Jersey and work in New York,
NYC being the
motherlode of Perl work AFAIK.
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Drexel Student ID: 10734450


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Re: 94!

2004-04-04 Thread Anthony Ettinger
Plastics?

what like credit cards?

--- John Von Essen [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 I just want to say one word to you - just one word
 - Plastics
 
 
 On Apr 4, 2004, at 9:56 PM, Anthony Ettinger wrote:
 
  well, ain't that a bitch. I just got fired
 tonight.
  I swear man, this industry is so friggin' flaky.
 
  --- Terrence Brannon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  Anthony Ettinger wrote:
 
 
  If you move out of the bay area to an affordable
  area,
  you're pretty much limited to telecommuting only
 to
  get the tech jobs, at least that's my opinion.
 
 
 
 
  unless you live in New Jersey and work in New
 York,
  NYC being the
  motherlode of Perl work AFAIK.
 
  -- 
  Terrence Brannon
  Drexel Student ID: 10734450
 
 
 
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