Speaking of music (the first essay,) here are a couple of songs
and videos, delightful and serious infusing the airwaves, internet,
ears and minds of folks, old and (more importantly) young. -Ed
http://www.markfiore.com/animation/decider.html
http://decider.cf.huffingtonpost.com/
http://bradblog.com/video/flvplayer/FlvPlayer.html?file=http://www.ameratsu.com/media/vid/misc/Neil_Young_Lets_Impeach_President_060428a_180x180.flvwidth=180height=180OrigWidth=180OrigHeight=180
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Gonna Use My Imagination May 12, 2006
By Cynthia Peters
Today's Boston Globe (April 22, 2006), reports that Massachusetts is giving
$1 million to a faith-based organization to teach abstinence in the schools.
The same school kids, meanwhile, are subjected to multi-million dollar ad
campaigns that positively scream at them about sex, presenting mostly
passive sex objects whose cleavages, crotches, and botox-injected lips
reduce sex and sexuality to the sum total of certain consumable body parts.
Alternatively, if these same kids read deep into the same newspaper, they'd
see a Dear Ann column consoling a teenager that s/he shouldn't feel
ashamed of masturbating. The piece reads like an excerpt from a medical text
book, referring to blood rushing and muscles spasming, etc., delivering
potentially useful information, but not much of an affirmation of sexuality
or what a person might be feeling in the course of the blood rushing.
Then there's the radio. Flip it on, and you might hear the low rumble of
Bruce Springsteen's voice. I got a bad desire. I'm on fire, he sings, in a
way that is tuneful, but also pretty close to a purely sexual moan. What's
the fire like for him? He explains it, Sometimes it's like someone took a
knife, baby, edgy and dull and cut a six inch valley through the middle of
my soul. At night I wake up with my sheets soaking wet and a freight train
running through the middle of my head. And he implores his lover, Cool my
desire.
Or check out Chrissie Hynde from the Pretenders, who shares the many ways
she plans to make her lover happy. Gonna use my arms, gonna use my legs,
gonna use my style, gonna use my sidestep, gonna use my fingers, gonna use
my-my-my imagination. She's not just there to please him (or her), however.
She is as demanding as Bruce is, though a good bit more playful. I've got
to have some of your attention. Give it to me!
The radio waves are full of sexually explicit lyrics. Some are hateful,
homophobic, and/or derogatory toward women But you can find many of them are
positive, playful, and passionate. Marvin Gaye calls for sexual healing.
Marianne Faithful reminds us, It's not the meat, it's the motion. John
Prine laughs about getting rug burns on his knees.
With all the negative, sexist, racist, exploitative images of sexuality in
the popular media, it's pleasantly surprising sometimes to notice that some
music (even popular rock and roll music) can be a place where sexuality is
expressed in a more or less healthy way. (I'm not too familiar with rap,
country, and other music styles, but Im sure it has a similar mix of
positive and not-so-positive sex lyrics.) It's pleasantly surprising to
notice halfway decent message getting airtime in the otherwise barren
cultural context of a) the deafening noise of corporate-sponsored, sexist
objectification of sex and sexuality harnessed for buying power competing
with b) the deafening silence of abstinence-only and/or one-dimensional
body-part oriented approaches that explain sex and sexuality as the
functioning of genitalia.
Some radio stations bill themselves as avoiding the racier lyrics so as not
to embarrass you in front of your kids. But what's really embarrassing is
how much we've let corporations and the right-wing dominate any public
conversation about sex.
We give kids (and ourselves) a few dots of information -- the medical text
book excerpt, the moralistic abstinence lesson, the onslaught of objectified
women in advertising -- and expect them to connect them and fill in the
enormous remaining white space in the picture. This is how they're supposed
to grow into a healthy sexuality?
What if progressives were to renew our efforts (admirably initiated by the
women's movement and the gay liberation movement) to put healthy sex and
sexuality at the forefront of our movements? What would say about it? What
is a healthy sexuality? Taking a hint from regular old commercial radio --
which, while dominated by corporate interests, seems to have elements of it
that escape that particular stranglehold -- we could start by trying to
simply and unabashedly celebrate passionate, non-oppressive, joy-inducing,
healing sexuality that embraces the whole body plus the imagination.
Sexuality makes up a major part of what