Re: [MOPO] MOPO-August thoughts of Movies and posters and otherworld events

2023-08-19 Thread allen day
and thanks to you Tom

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On Sat, Aug 19, 2023 at 12:16 AM Tom Martin <
dreamfact...@hollywooddreamfactory.com> wrote:

> Hi Mopo-
> I turned 67 on Aug 11- wow
>
> My son called and brother...Tommy is healing from bipolar depression and
> schizophrenia I guess he's taking medication now but since he's an adult
> I'm not allowed to talk to the doctors I told him prayer was the best
> answer for stress I understand very well and I discovered why tell me it
> was taking some of my items personal belongings was because he was never
> prepared for what if his dad dies and I think he just had a complete
> meltdown mentally from the stress the answer was for me to forgive him
> let him keep the items that he took when I asked God what do I so I got
> was what's more important your son or some memorabilia
>
>
> Many families fight over their parents estate or belongings or financial
> property it's a horrible thing and when I thought there was a
> possibility I might end up in a nursing home it was stressful for me
> also so what did I do? I said Lord God if it is your will where I end up
> in a nursing home and everything I own be taken away let it be done as I
> believe it's your world not mine the lesson I learned was it's not about
> time martins well it's about Jesus Christ well it's a hard concept when
> you wonder who's in control me the doctors a social service group my son
> the courts who is in control?
>
> When I was younger in my 20s and started this business it was about
> accumulating making as much money as possible and buying stuff like cars
> houses and other property I never planned on long-term what happens when
> I'm 67 years old and I'm in pour house and have my foot amputated Indian
> partially blind what do I do then?
> I found in my own personal researchers we never plan on our demise we
> try to plan on accumulating even more because we are addicted to saving
> stuff example is old men keep boxes of nuts and bolts in baby food jars
> that they never will use because when they're young they say I need one
> of these someday so they squirrel in the way thinking that they will use
> it again problem is after they start losing your memory they forget they
> have
> in the garage or basement is full of boxes of small parts that will
> never get used then the family airs have to have garage sales to sell
> all of grandpa's or dad's stuff after he croaks fact how I found a lot
> of my memorabilia is attending estate sales and garage sales
>
> We find stuff like limited-edition books that were stashed away by
> grandpa and grandma years ago that the families have no clue what it's
> worth in the estate sale vendors just want to get rid of it as fast as
> possible within days so I have watched entire lifetimes of collectibles
> be liquidated in a few days then people put it on eBay if they discover
> a trophy or collectible
>
> As you all know dealers basically process with their knowledge and get
> it to the market and then if you're lucky it might end up on a very high
> cost auction house like Heritage or Bruce and Garner big results but
> first it starts at the garage sale or estate sale then it goes to a
> specialist dealer regionally who then passes it on to another dealer
> that's larger than eventual goes to auction to all the wealthy bidders
>
> Funny thought I need to go while I was sleeping I had a dream that I had
> an order that needed to be filled for my copper boards and in my mind I
> was thinking it through what I needed to do as far as processing the
> parts which is almost laughable since I don't even have a foot right now
> but I was logistically planning it out in my sleep when I woke up I
> thought wow I'm so glad I don't have an order because I'm proud of
> myself I'm always delivering the goods that's one of the frustrating
> things about being ill is when you cannot do what you used to do that
> even happens to major sports figures like Simone the acrobat runner
> sometimes people need time to recharge and reestablish their mind and
> thoughts or even resuscitate their business even corporations do that
> all the time that's why many of the fortune 500 companies or big bucks
> big commerce companies I've had to do the same
>
> When I look at companies I found in my company partially on Sears
> roebuck and I watch the company we run into the ground by a hedge fund
> investor who just started bottom-line profit margin instead of taking
> care of the customers and taking care of his employees I'm a firm
> believer that the employees help build the company but if you don't have
> a major compassion for your customers you might as well throw in the
> towel because what builds a business is the treatment of the customers
> in times when it looks like you're losing money but you're actually
> investing in your business because businesses based om Goodwill
>
> I would tell my employees I'll never be angry with you for taking too
> good of care of a customer pretend 

[MOPO] MOPO-August thoughts of Movies and posters and otherworld events

2023-08-18 Thread Tom Martin

Hi Mopo-
I turned 67 on Aug 11- wow

My son called and brother...Tommy is healing from bipolar depression and 
schizophrenia I guess he's taking medication now but since he's an adult 
I'm not allowed to talk to the doctors I told him prayer was the best 
answer for stress I understand very well and I discovered why tell me it 
was taking some of my items personal belongings was because he was never 
prepared for what if his dad dies and I think he just had a complete 
meltdown mentally from the stress the answer was for me to forgive him 
let him keep the items that he took when I asked God what do I so I got 
was what's more important your son or some memorabilia



Many families fight over their parents estate or belongings or financial 
property it's a horrible thing and when I thought there was a 
possibility I might end up in a nursing home it was stressful for me 
also so what did I do? I said Lord God if it is your will where I end up 
in a nursing home and everything I own be taken away let it be done as I 
believe it's your world not mine the lesson I learned was it's not about 
time martins well it's about Jesus Christ well it's a hard concept when 
you wonder who's in control me the doctors a social service group my son 
the courts who is in control?


When I was younger in my 20s and started this business it was about 
accumulating making as much money as possible and buying stuff like cars 
houses and other property I never planned on long-term what happens when 
I'm 67 years old and I'm in pour house and have my foot amputated Indian 
partially blind what do I do then?
I found in my own personal researchers we never plan on our demise we 
try to plan on accumulating even more because we are addicted to saving 
stuff example is old men keep boxes of nuts and bolts in baby food jars 
that they never will use because when they're young they say I need one 
of these someday so they squirrel in the way thinking that they will use 
it again problem is after they start losing your memory they forget they 
have
in the garage or basement is full of boxes of small parts that will 
never get used then the family airs have to have garage sales to sell 
all of grandpa's or dad's stuff after he croaks fact how I found a lot 
of my memorabilia is attending estate sales and garage sales


We find stuff like limited-edition books that were stashed away by 
grandpa and grandma years ago that the families have no clue what it's 
worth in the estate sale vendors just want to get rid of it as fast as 
possible within days so I have watched entire lifetimes of collectibles 
be liquidated in a few days then people put it on eBay if they discover 
a trophy or collectible


As you all know dealers basically process with their knowledge and get 
it to the market and then if you're lucky it might end up on a very high 
cost auction house like Heritage or Bruce and Garner big results but 
first it starts at the garage sale or estate sale then it goes to a 
specialist dealer regionally who then passes it on to another dealer 
that's larger than eventual goes to auction to all the wealthy bidders


Funny thought I need to go while I was sleeping I had a dream that I had 
an order that needed to be filled for my copper boards and in my mind I 
was thinking it through what I needed to do as far as processing the 
parts which is almost laughable since I don't even have a foot right now 
but I was logistically planning it out in my sleep when I woke up I 
thought wow I'm so glad I don't have an order because I'm proud of 
myself I'm always delivering the goods that's one of the frustrating 
things about being ill is when you cannot do what you used to do that 
even happens to major sports figures like Simone the acrobat runner 
sometimes people need time to recharge and reestablish their mind and 
thoughts or even resuscitate their business even corporations do that 
all the time that's why many of the fortune 500 companies or big bucks 
big commerce companies I've had to do the same


When I look at companies I found in my company partially on Sears 
roebuck and I watch the company we run into the ground by a hedge fund 
investor who just started bottom-line profit margin instead of taking 
care of the customers and taking care of his employees I'm a firm 
believer that the employees help build the company but if you don't have 
a major compassion for your customers you might as well throw in the 
towel because what builds a business is the treatment of the customers 
in times when it looks like you're losing money but you're actually 
investing in your business because businesses based om Goodwill


I would tell my employees I'll never be angry with you for taking too 
good of care of a customer pretend that each package is a Christmas gift 
and packet as well as you can offer some free lagniappe show gratitude 
and give a little extra even if it's just for a $10 order or a five 
dollar order because in the customers