Re: question re menstruation

2002-06-10 Thread Ms Elizabeth McCall

According to the LaLeche League the rule of thumb is -
1/2 of 1 per cent pregnancy rate if fully or nearly fully breastfeeding and
amenorrhheic up to 6 months.More intensive breasrfeeding ia associated with
with longer durations of amenorrhea.
- Original Message -
From: Macha McDonald [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: ozmidwifery [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Saturday, June 08, 2002 9:31 PM
Subject: question re menstruation


 Hiya.  Happy long weekend!  Just wondering if anybody can give me any
 information about lactational ammenhorea, and when women can expect their
 periods back.  Whats the longest amount of time you've heard of women
 resuming menstruation after breastfeeding?  Are there any disorders (ex.
 hormonal, premature menopause) that women can get postnatal/post
 breastfeeding that would cause menstruation to cease?  Thanks!
 Regards, Macha.

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Re: menstrating and bf

2002-06-10 Thread Rhonda








  Dear Belinda,
  
  Finding their own tucker - LOL. I thought that just 
  happened.
  My boy slept with me and if i didn't wake he would just attach 
  himself and have a feed. I have pierced nipples and one night forgot 
  to remove the bar - i woke up to hear him slurping and trying really hard 
  to feed around it. That gave me a fright and I removed it for 
  him. Much to his delight and we both went back to sleep.
  
  I guess your 22 month old is just letting you do all the work because 
  you have done it for her - that is what she expects.
  
  Rhonda.
  
  
  ---Original Message---
  
  
  From: Belinda Maier
  Date: Monday, June 10, 
  2002 14:58:47
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Subject: menstrating 
  and bf
  
  Im jealous of you both!!!By the way how do you get them 
  to find their own tucker. My 22 month old still waits for me to move her 
  into position then she attaches. I have never been able to sleep through 
  which is tiring as all mine have fed for every two hours overnight. This 
  one is my longest for being but still feeds a lot at night.
  Belinda
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
barbara glare  chris 
bright 
To: Ozmidwifery 
Sent: 09 June, 2002 9:43
Subject: Re: question re 
menstruation 

Hi,

If we are having a competition , 
Pinkyg

First baby 15mnths, second (tandem feeding for much of 
the time) 23months, 3rd baby 15months.

My body has been very kind

Love, Barb
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RE: question re menstruation

2002-06-10 Thread Sally

The info about pregnancy and breastfeeding reminds me of a lovely woman
I have helped with 2 homebirths. The first baby was born beautifully and
breastfed all was beautiful in their little world. No sign of return of
menstrual cycle. About 8 months after the first little fellows' arrival
I get a call saying. Will you help me with another birth I'm already 6
months pregnant. Her lack of period and general tiredness and weight she
all didn't give much thought to until her new little boy kicked her one
day. I think she could have fainted!!

She went on to have another beautiful baby boy only 10 months apart.

In peace and joy
Sally

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RE: re menstruation

2002-06-10 Thread Sally








Pinky,



I remember
that feeling. Of telling my man just to help yourself..
I had him laughing hysterically when I told him. Jump on and Ill lay
here and moan. Then he just could stop laughing to be serious at all!!



In peace and
joy

Sally








Pinky

2002-06-10 Thread Jo Dean Bainbridge



I am trying to educate a 10 year old boy, who 
used to find his own booby when he was little,that mothers don't find 
shoes and socks either!

Ha Ha Ha  Thanks Pinky, after a day 
of saying to my children that if they don't pick their toys up I am going to 
give them to all the under privileged children in the world (their 
response being they don't care cause it is their birthdays next month! 
What have I created?!) 
Glad to see I am not alone on this 
journey!
Jo Bainbridgefounding member CARES SAemail: 
[EMAIL PROTECTED]phone: 
08 8388 6918birth with trust, faith  love...


lactation/menstruation

2002-06-10 Thread sally mark

Further on that fascinating topic...My first baby sucked all night long
and cry if nothing in her mouth - if she couldn't find what she wanted,
she'd just suck the first bit of skin she could latch on to. Result -
lovebites covering breasts, abdomen and sometimes arms, though generally
she made sure she was in the right place. Periods returned after 10
months. Second baby hardly fed at night and slept through at an early
age, or woke infrequently for short feed then nod back off. Period
returned at 12 weeks (pregnant at 14 weeks - bummer) Third baby, another
constant craver and like the first would wake and cry if he realised no
boob in mouth. Period back after 11 months. My conclusion (! in
consultation with other friends who agree with this) that it's the all
night suckers who keep the periods away. I'm sure there's a slogan there
somewhere... 'if you don't want to bleed, give em boobs while they
sleep...?!'  Further to that, neither first nor third child suck their
thumb (none had dummies) whilst middle does need this comfort. Seems
they got their oral gratifiaction in first couple of years. Have always
wondered if there are any long-term studies connecting this and smoking
in later years.Sally :~)

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Re: lactation/menstruation

2002-06-10 Thread Rhonda








  
  This reminded me of a baby boy that was born while I was working in a 
  hospital about 15 yrs ago. He would lay in the nursery with a dummy 
  and you could walk in and hear that he was in the room - he sucked so 
  loudly and so much (this was at less than a day old.)
  He had a patch of skin missing from his wrist - he had litterally 
  sucked it off in the womb. A large 'love bite' on his wrist that actually 
  scabbed afer a day or two.  He had such a strong sucking reflex and 
  from memory was a large baby maybe about 9lbs - I remember giving 
  him his first bath for his Dad and handing him over- the look 
  on his fathers face, so proud and then he said, "What is that on his 
  arm?" I had to try to explain that the baby seemed to have sucked 
  his skin off while in the womb. 
  Has anyone else seen this?
  
  I know I used to think - His poor Mum with a suck like that I 
  wondered how her nipples were. 
  I am now wondering if she ever got her period back! LOL
  Just one of those amusing stories that sticks.
  Rhonda.
  ---Original Message---
  
  
  From: sally  mark
  Date: Monday, June 10, 
  2002 23:32:09
  To: ozmid
  Subject: 
  lactation/menstruation
  Further on that fascinating topic...My first baby sucked 
  all night longand cry if nothing in her mouth - if she couldn't find 
  what she wanted,she'd just suck the first bit of skin she could latch 
  on to. Result -lovebites covering breasts, abdomen and sometimes arms, 
  though generallyshe made sure she was in the right place. Periods 
  returned after 10months. Second baby hardly fed at night and slept 
  through at an earlyage, or woke infrequently for short feed then nod 
  back off. Periodreturned at 12 weeks (pregnant at 14 weeks - bummer) 
  Third baby, anotherconstant craver and like the first would wake and 
  cry if he realised noboob in mouth. Period back after 11 months. My 
  conclusion (! inconsultation with other friends who agree with this) 
  that it's the allnight suckers who keep the periods away. I'm sure 
  there's a slogan theresomewhere... 'if you don't want to bleed, give 
  em boobs while theysleep...?!' Further to that, neither first nor 
  third child suck theirthumb (none had dummies) whilst middle does need 
  this comfort. Seemsthey got their oral gratifiaction in first couple 
  of years. Have alwayswondered if there are any long-term studies 
  connecting this and smokingin later years.Sally 
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Re: Nurse Practitioner Project

2002-06-10 Thread Ms Elizabeth McCall



Some references for NPs -
Taylor,K. The duties of advanced nursing practice - 
The Lamp, August 2000, p.17
Petty, D. Advancing the practice of nursing, 
Newsletter of the Rural Health Alliance - Partyline, December 2000, 
p.16
Oakes,W. Competence not a question, 
nursing.aust. - The Journal of the NSW College of Nursing,August 2000, 1,3, p.5
Oakes, W. Report supports nurses for rural health 
jobs. nursing. aust, March 2000, 1,1,p.1.
Oakes, W. 40 Nurse Practitioners - far west leads 
the way, nursing. aust. November 1999, p.1
Moait, S. Editorial, The Lamp, June 2000, 
p.5
Mitchell, B. Rural  remote nurses : third 
world practitioners or the saviours of the bush?, nursing.aust.,August, 2000, 
p.12
Harulow, S. Nurse practitioners: defining the 
achievements, Australian Nursing Journal, 7,7, February 2000, p.20
Hanna, L. Is bribing doctors rge only answers to 
rural health dilemma?, Nursing Review - Royal College of Nursing, April 2000, 
p.1
Clark, S. S. Prescribing poer and the power to 
prescribe, Alternative Law Journal, 25, 1, February 2000, p.29
Goldman, J. Rural  remote nursing: in chaos or 
coping? nursing. aust., 2,3, November 2001, p.1
Wilken, Catherine, No choice for rural women, 
Midiwfery Matters, December 2001, p.22.
Good luck - it's an interesting question. Also look 
at the NHMRC documents as they recommend that midwives need to have the 
authority to prescribe  order routine path.  radiology. This is the 
difference between where we are now and where we need to get to  it's what 
authorised NPs can do. Otherwise we do not have true autonomy.
Liz McCall

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Lisa 
  Frahm 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Monday, June 10, 2002 7:05 AM
  Subject: Nurse Practitioner Project
  
  
  Hello everyone, 
  I'm after some midwife's thoughts on the Nurse 
  Practitioner Projects. Do you believe that midwives are already advanced 
  practitioners, and do they have a place in these projects?? I need to 
  write an assignment on how midwives feel about this issue - both those who 
  agree with it and those who oppose it. I believe that the ACMI (SA 
  Branch) has pulled out of the Project in SA, and wonder how credentialing will 
  be achieved without their support. 
  
  I'd love to hear your views, and any references 
  would be greatly appreciated.
  
  In anticipation
  Lisa Frahm


Cosleeping

2002-06-10 Thread Janelle Lyndon Webb




All the sharing on the list about the wonderful 
benefits of cosleeping has stirred my conscience. I have not had children, but 
can see that this is a very natural thing to do. However, the is a big SIDS 
prevention push at the hospital where I work, and one of the big no, nos is 
cosleeping. One of the paeds is on the SIDS committee and apparently there where 
two cases in our area last year, two cases too many. We have been asked to get 
parents to sign a form stating that they have received the information on safe 
sleeping, including the information that cosleeping is not recommended. A 
midwives, many of us feel uncomfortable with telling mothers that they must not 
sleep with their babies, and in my practice I was beginning to encourage more 
and more mothers to kanga cuddle their babies and have a snooze 
together in the days following the birth. Especially if they were having feeding 
issues. I do know however, that there are also midwives that if they find a 
mother and baby asleep in bed together, will remove the baby from the 
bed!

I know that there is also alternative research on cosleeping 
which I should try and track down, but are there any thoughts from the wise 
women of this list as to how to approach the current recommendations on 
SIDS?


Re: Update on our babies (long)

2002-06-10 Thread Lois Wattis

Dear Joy - thanks for sharing your happy and sad news.  What an experience
for all of you.  These are the shared times which bind families together in
an inexplicable way.  May you comfort and stengthen one another - and may
God bless Sally and your precious little grandson.   Best wishes, Lois

- Original Message -
From: Joy Cocks [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Ozmidwifery [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Saturday, June 08, 2002 6:51 AM
Subject: Update on our babies (long)


Hi everyone,
What a week, so much has happened so quickly!  I'll try to tell you as
briefly as I can - here goes.
Sally admitted to tertiary hospital on Wed 29/5 with ruptured membranes on
1st twin, on oral antibiotics, submitted to daily CTG's (but never could get
a good trace), told that she would need a C/S because both babies were
breech (and it will probably be a classical C/S and you will never have
another baby naturally [by a doctor]).  Very upset, of course.  However,
even with the best in the ultrasound department, no-one seemed able to
agree on the position of the babies. The plan was for bed rest in hospital
to try to keep these babies inside for as long as possible, provided there
was no infection.  All going along OK, her partner came back to Bright (3
1/2 hr drive) on Sun 2/6, I was going to come back with her little 4 y/o
boy, Tasman, on Mon 3/6.  However, a phone call to me at 5.30 am Mon from
L/W - Sally is having a few niggles, and would like you here, no need to
rush.  I got there at 6.30 am - quick in there, she's delivered!  I went
in to find that she had a little girl (twin1) and a little boy, the 3rd
stage was being delivered.  Masses of people in there - the 3rd set of twins
for the night!  Matilda had come out as a head/shoulder presentation and
Reuben was vertex.  Matilda a little stronger than Reuben, but of course
lines, monitors and tubes everywhere.  Both up to NICU after seeing Sally
briefly.  I stayed with Sally, who was in total shock with it all.  She
didn't even feel like she had given birth (and had only just started to
enjoy that real blossoming feeling of pregnancy) and of course had laboured
and birthed with none of her own support people present.  She was up in
stirrups, and they were still trying to put on the CTG and talking C/S when
the midwife said she's pushing.  The doc even was trying to put on a scalp
electrode at this stage and ended up cutting Matilda's (Tilly) neck with it.
However, no C/S and no stitches, so Sally's recovery has been excellent.  I
helped her with her shower and then we went up to NICU to see the babies
(her partner was still on his way).  Both stable, Tilly a little stronger
than Reuben, actually mostly breathing on her own, both on routine drugs,
treatments, etc.   They weighed 880g each.  Tilly was bruised around her
shoulder and Reuben's head was bruised.  Tilly had a lumbar puncture that
evening and she was diagnosed with meningitis, however, the staff were
pretty confident that she was going OK.  Those poor little mites were on
more drugs than Sally has had in her entire life!!
Then, on Tuesday Tilly was looking as if she was having a little bit of
seizure activity, CT etc, late Tuesday revealed she was haemorrhaging into
both sides of her brain, she had also developed scepticaemia and looked like
she was bleeding into her abdominal cavity.  Wed 5/6 - I had seen them early
in the morning before doctors' rounds and she was constantly fitting despite
Morphine and Phenobarb, etc.  I was with Sally when she was called to NICU
and this information was given to her and her partner when he rushed over
from across the road.  They made, what to me, was the only choice and that
was to cease treatment and turn everything off.  The staff were fantastic,
giving us all time, privacy and space.  My other daughter was there, Sally's
partner's (Russell) sister and brother-in-law were there.  Sally and Russell
spent a long time just touching and looking at Tilly until they were ready,
while we made sure that someone was with Reuben and touching him as well.
We held hands and surrounded them while Sally washed and dressed Tilly.
They then carried her into a private sitting room and held her as she died
which was almost immediately.  Sally had asked me to be with Reuben as they
turned Tilly's machines off and as she died.  He gave a little cry and
stopped breathing momentarily at that time, then settled.  I saw Tilly's L/W
summary which described the whole labour as being a total of 31 mins!
(however, Sally had actually been having niggles all night but tried to
convince herself that it wasn't labour and hadn't told anyone).  When Sally
and Russell were ready, we went in to hold and kiss Tilly and I brought
Tasman in to cuddle his sister.  She won't grow up big will she, but my
brother will!
Reuben is doing well, having periods off his CPAP, having 1 mil of EBM 4/24,
but we still have a long road in front of us.
It has just been SO awful, but some positives as well.  It is so awful to
see 

Re: Cosleeping

2002-06-10 Thread S.J.F.ELECTRICAL.



My understanding from a SIDS Director in WA that 
Co-sleeping is only cntra indicated if the parents are under the influence of 
drugs and highly questionable on waterbeds!

My experience in the past is that these ancedotal 
reports of SIDS and co sleeping are just that, anecdotes/stories?
Where as SIDS does definitely does happen for 
babies sleeping alone often in other rooms !
Perhaps some one else has the web site for James McKennas study and 
other supportive of co-sleeping?

The other thing about this SIDS foundation is a great career path for many 
in laboratories whilst women, mothers are being encouraged to fear for their 
babies and rely on the instructions of others rather than tune into their 
babies, breast feed them etc!

cynical denise 

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Janelle 
   Lyndon Webb 
  To: ozmidwifery 
  Sent: Tuesday, June 11, 2002 11:16 
  AM
  Subject: Cosleeping
  
  All the sharing on the list about the 
  wonderful benefits of cosleeping has stirred my conscience. I have not had 
  children, but can see that this is a very natural thing to do. However, the is 
  a big SIDS prevention push at the hospital where I work, and one of the big 
  no, nos is cosleeping. One of the paeds is on the SIDS committee and 
  apparently there where two cases in our area last year, two cases too many. We 
  have been asked to get parents to sign a form stating that they have received 
  the information on safe sleeping, including the information that cosleeping is 
  not recommended. A midwives, many of us feel uncomfortable with telling 
  mothers that they must not sleep with their babies, and in my practice I was 
  beginning to encourage more and more mothers to "kanga cuddle" their babies 
  and have a snooze together in the days following the birth. Especially if they 
  were having feeding issues. I do know however, that there are also midwives 
  that if they find a mother and baby asleep in bed together, will remove the 
  baby from the bed!
  
  I know that there is also alternative research on cosleeping 
  which I should try and track down, but are there any thoughts from the wise 
  women of this list as to how to approach the current recommendations on 
  SIDS?


Re: Menstruation(lack of it)

2002-06-10 Thread Jayne

I agree Megan - that's what I thought of when I read what Macha wrote.

I learnt it from the book.  I have picked each time (3) when I was about to
begin menstruation again after following the Billings method.  Even the last
time when it started 6 1/2 weeks postpartum!  I never believed the signs
though and thought now my body is really stuffed up but the signs were right
on!

Regards

Jayne


- Original Message -
From: Larry  Megan [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: ozmidwifery [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Tuesday, June 11, 2002 10:29 AM
Subject: Menstruation(lack of it)


 Hi Macha,
 we recently had a Billings Ovulation teacher speak at our coffee morning
and
 it sounds like it could be of use to you. She spoke about using it to
 establish a cycle, ovulation etc. They have a book but also recommend
 contacting a qualified teacher for help and support whilst learning. It
was
 really interesting, even in just learning about how amazing women's bodies
 are.
 Contact number for them is 1800 335 860 or check out website at
 www.billings-centre.ab.ca
 Hope this is helpful
 Megan Resch

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Re: terminology and midwifery

2002-06-10 Thread Carol Thorogood

Dear everyone

My colleague Yoni Luxford and I are writing a paper about the ways the 
profession,  and midwives 'talk about' midwifery, midwives and midwifery 
practices  and what this means for midwifery and the profession. At the 
moment we are trying to define and clarify the everyday meaning of 
these.  Yoni and I would appreciate your help.

Please tell us (either on the list or privately) what you understand by the 
terms obstetric nurse, nurse midwife and midwifery as well as the 
characteristics of each group (including similarities and differences in 
practices).  Brief sentences or points would be fine and comments are 
welcome from everyone. If you thinks its relevant put your qualifications 
in too ie B Mid student, midwife, prospective student, consumer etc etc.

Thanks a million
Carol

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Re: Cosleeping

2002-06-10 Thread Jayne



See below for situation in the US at 
present:

Alert!The Family 
Bed is under attack by the CPSC(Consumer Product Safety 
Commission)From The Compleat Mother 
Magazinehttp://www.compleatmother.com/bedattack.htm The U.S. 
Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) and the Juvenile Products 
Manufacturers Association (JPMA) is launching a mass-media National campaign 
aimed at "reducing deaths associated with placing babies in adult beds." The 
campaign will include a video news release that will be fed to stations 
nationwide along with pamphlets and posters distributed through retailers, 
hospitals, health departments and various grass roots 
organizations.Numerous studies and research have proven the family bed 
to be a safe and beneficial sleeping arrangement. Don't let these organizations 
frighten other parents with misleading data.Please visit the website 
to find out many more details and articles about this issue and what you can do 
to voice your opinion:http://www.compleatmother.com/bedattack.htm 
Thank you for your time and effort in this important matter.The 
Compleat Mother staffRebecca Youngemail: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Jody 
McLaughlinemail: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Greg Crynsemail: 
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

  
  My understanding from a SIDS Director in WA that 
  Co-sleeping is only cntra indicated if the parents are under the influence of 
  drugs and highly questionable on waterbeds!
  
  My experience in the past is that these ancedotal 
  reports of SIDS and co sleeping are just that, anecdotes/stories?
  Where as SIDS does definitely does happen for 
  babies sleeping alone often in other rooms !
  Perhaps some one else has the web site for James McKennas study and 
  other supportive of co-sleeping?
  
  The other thing about this SIDS foundation is a great career path for 
  many in laboratories whilst women, mothers are being encouraged to fear for 
  their babies and rely on the instructions of others rather than tune into 
  their babies, breast feed them etc!
  
  cynical denise 
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Janelle 
 Lyndon Webb 
To: ozmidwifery 
Sent: Tuesday, June 11, 2002 11:16 
AM
Subject: Cosleeping

All the sharing on the list about the 
wonderful benefits of cosleeping has stirred my conscience. I have not had 
children, but can see that this is a very natural thing to do. However, the 
is a big SIDS prevention push at the hospital where I work, and one of the 
big no, nos is cosleeping. One of the paeds is on the SIDS committee and 
apparently there where two cases in our area last year, two cases too many. 
We have been asked to get parents to sign a form stating that they have 
received the information on safe sleeping, including the information that 
cosleeping is not recommended. A midwives, many of us feel uncomfortable 
with telling mothers that they must not sleep with their babies, and in my 
practice I was beginning to encourage more and more mothers to "kanga 
cuddle" their babies and have a snooze together in the days following the 
birth. Especially if they were having feeding issues. I do know however, 
that there are also midwives that if they find a mother and baby asleep in 
bed together, will remove the baby from the bed!

I know that there is also alternative research on 
cosleeping which I should try and track down, but are there any thoughts 
from the wise women of this list as to how to approach the current 
recommendations on SIDS?


Re: Cosleeping

2002-06-10 Thread DebSlater
In a message dated 6/11/02 9:21:28 AM W. Australia Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:


I know that there is also alternative research on cosleeping which I should try and track down, but are there any thoughts from the wise women of this list as to how to approach the current recommendations on SIDS?

In The Austrlain today:

Peter Fleming (who was instrumental in the "Back to Sleep" campaign in th UK) quoted as saying that mothers can safely sleep with their baby in the first few months, possibly enhancing the child's development as there is no significant risk of cot death to babies who slept in the same baby as their mother. However, where mothers smoke and sleep with their baby, there is a significant increase risk. Also babies placed in another room were also at a greater risk.

Certainly, in the UK, it is now suggested that babies share their parents' room for the first 6 months (I think), and, providing parents don't drink or do drugs can co-sleep.


Debbie Slater
Perth, WA


Re: Cosleeping

2002-06-10 Thread Larissa Tim Inns



Hi Janelle  List

  
  However, the is a big SIDS 
  prevention push at the hospital where I work, and one of the big no, nos is 
  cosleeping. 
  I do know however, that there are also 
  midwives that if they find a mother and baby asleep in bed together, will 
  remove the baby from the bed!
  
  Had I not had a similar 
  experience I would not have believed such a statement!
  
  I had my last baby in February 
  of this year. Because I also had a toddler I decided to transfer to the 
  hospitals post natal ward for some "rest"(ha ha ha). The night shift midwife 
  and I had a severe disagreement at 1am because *gasp* I had my baby in bed 
  with me. Her exact words to me were " youwill roll over and kill her!" 
  and "didn't read hospital guidelines? We don't recommend it here - it's very 
  dangerous blah blah blah" My very nice (compared to her hostility)reply 
  was "Well my first child is still alive and there are lots of studies into the 
  benefits of co sleeping. Besides that she's hungry and she's feeding every 20 
  minutes and I am too tired to be sitting up and feed her like that 
  all night. This is much easier for both of us.Thankyou for pointing the 
  hospital guidelines out - I understand and I choose not to follow them" She 
  then proceeded to try and convince me to let her take the baby away "if I was 
  that bothered by her" ?!??!?! 
  Lots of other things happened 
  during the course of the night which I won't go into but needless to say I left first thing in the 
  morning after my "rest". 
  
  We have been asked to get parents to sign a form 
  stating that they have received the information on safe sleeping, including 
  the information that cosleeping is not recommended.
  
  Are the hospitals panicking 
  about liability?? This I can understand but still...it doesn't seem 
  right.
  
  Don't know if my story is really 
  relevant but it was something that had bothered me for a long time. I dread to 
  think how a first time mother would feel after being spoken to like that. I 
  guess I am still naive sometimes in thinking that the rest of the world is as 
  open minded as I am LOL.
  
  Hugs, Larissa
  
  
  


re:cosleeping

2002-06-10 Thread Grant and Louise



I don't know how the doctor can say it's not 
on, as the literature for professionals from SIDS says co sleeping is only a 
problem if smokers, more than usual alcohol, drugs or excessive tiredness. It 
even states sleeping in the same room is protective for the first 6 months. 
Anyway a doc/midwife/nurse etc can't make you do or not do 
anything.


Louise Dimmock McLeod
[EMAIL PROTECTED]




Re: Cosleeping

2002-06-10 Thread barbara glare chris bright



Hi,

Just been listening to radio 3LO in Melb (ABC) Dr James 
Fleming from the UK was talking about recent research conducted in the UK into 
co-sleeping. Babies who slept in another room from their parents had twice 
the risk of SIDS. When risk factors were removed from the co-sleeping 
arrangement (alcohol, drugs, smoking, overly soft bedding) there was no 
additional risk of co-sleeping compared to sleeping within arms reach of mum 
(and less than sleeping in another room

I think we'll hear a lot of this in the next few 
days.
Love, Barb


S*ubscription to International Journal of Childbirth Education

2002-06-10 Thread Jane Palmer

Hi All

Just to let you know that each year I organise a group s*ubscription to the
'International Journal of Childbirth Education' (IJCE) the official
quarterly publication of the International Childbirth Education Association.
As a member of the group s*ubscription the cost is $54.00 Australian - It is
much cheaper than if you s*ubscribe as an individual to the journal. If you
s*ubscribe to the IJCE as an individual - the cost is $40.00 US (around
$70.00 with current exchange rates). As a member of the group s*ubscription
you receive an individual journal (just as if you s*ubscribed as an
individual).

The journal covers a broad range of topics. For example the March 2002
edition contained:
Breastfeeding and Healthcare Professionals: A review of knowledge, attitudes
and the experience towards breastfeeding
In my opinion  Lifetime uses for Childbirth skills
Focal Point on Postnatal Education: Postpartum depression: The most frequent
complication of childbirth.
Ethical and legal issues in reproductive health: Considerations for the
childbirth educator
Plus lots more topics.

If you are interested in finding out more or s*ubscribing you can contact me
via email or phone (02) 9873 1750.

Cheers

Jane Palmer


Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond
Caring, Professional Midwifery Services
Sydney Visit http://www.pregnancy.com.au



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