Re: [ozmidwifery] Midwife in Geelong area?

2002-11-10 Thread TinaPettigrew
In a message dated 10/11/02 6:08:15 PM AUS Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:


Hey thats my post!! What a small world the net can be... :)

But yes- if anyone can point me in the direction of a couple of midwives in
this area, I would be truly grateful!!

Cheers- Isis



Hi Isis

my name is Tina Pettigrew, a B Mid student who lives in Geelong...if you would like to contact me off the list I can put you in touch with some local midwives and bring you up to speed on all things birth here locally...

Look forward to hearing from you
Cheers Tina.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Re : Julia's birth

2002-11-10 Thread Robin Moon
h, that sounds SO beautiful. Snowy haired babies are always my
favourites, I could only imagine what a water-birthed one looks like.
:-)
Robin

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Subject: [ozmidwifery] Re : Julia's birth


 And a shock of white blonde hair….  Perfect

 I have also had a baby born with a crop of white blonde hair, it is truly
 beautiful.
 He was born in the water and to have a baby lifted through the water and
 this halo of white hair floating around the head, is a sight to be seen.

 cheers
 Megan

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Re: [ozmidwifery] what doctors learn at med school!

2002-11-10 Thread Sue Cookson
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] what doctors learn at med school!



Hi everyone,
One of my daugters is studying medicine, and she is appalled at the common 'ethic' or attitude of fellow med students.
A typical example would be that she was taught that baby's breathing mechanism is stimulated initially by the cutting of the cord. It is in her text book!! When she queried this and mentioned lotus birth and underwater births and homebirths where cords are not cut (quickly) so can not be part of the stimulation to breathe, the only response was that she must be the one from ...Nimbin or wherever

I've changed the place so to protect my daughter, but I'm sure you get the gist. NO DISCUSSION at all, and NO queries from any of the other students (most being sons and daughters of GPs). It is surely horrifying!! These ARE the future GPs and OBs of the future!!

Sue



Hi again all,

had an interesting afternoon today at a BBQ with some old work mates...One friend who I worked at CSIRO with eons ago (past life stuff) like me had a radical change in occupation and went to do nursing...she finished her nursing about 8 years agoanyhowshe brought a friend to the BBQ ...a work colleague I just assumed this woman was a nurse too...anyhow got chatting as you do...my friend announced to her work colleague that I was doing midwifery.So your a nurse too she asked...No...I'm not a nurse doing the new Bachelor of Midwiferybla blaDirect entry my friend announcesone of THOSE midwives who think they are not part of the nursing profession. ...Well that went down REAL well...she always did know how to get my hackles up...thought I had educated her better than that...but can see she has been educated by others than just I...:-((

No not direct entry I replied...we don't do direct entry nursingor direct entry medicine...or direct law or accounting...bla bla bla..Anyhow ...finally this work colleague couldn't resist and announced that she was a MO...doing her internshipand wanted to know more about the likes of you doing midwifery without nursing firstdo you do any physiology??? bla bla bla I guess you can imagine the conversation from there...

The conversion progressed quickly back to medicine...I wanted to pick her brains about being a beginning practitioner and her thoughts on the health care system...What struck me immediately was her sheer arrogance and lack of understanding of peopleamazingAccording to her the general public are all fu-k--- nuff nuffsparents have no parenting skills..the public all just want to sue us. She was just fascinated to think that I would even consider private practice as a midwife...too scary - you must be fu--ing mad!! and noone from uni is even considering obs and gynae as its just too risky. 

This woman is 25 years old and already educated with the 'fear factor'. She stated openly that as doctors they are taught at med school that a trusting relationship with your patients is non existent as the patient only looks to the doctor fix up their problems and will sue if they don't..and the doctor looks at the patient thinking all you want is to sue meI was totally blown away by this...oh yeh she says...its the underlying premise in all that we do...we have to always be thinking at every moment...are you the one who is going to make my life hell?

How scary is this folks???These are the obs of the future...This woman has this level of fear ingrained into her already..I couldn't believe what I was hearingI was almost lost for words...beleive it or not!

Ahhh I said...that's where midwives have it all over doctorsour basic premise is trustfor if we can't establish our professional relationships on thatlike you guys are discovering...when it all comes tumbling downyou have nothing else

Trust and communication.two important factors in not getting sued I'd reckon..but hey who am Ionly a nuf nuff in her eyes...

Cheers Tina P. 






Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-10 Thread rem melissa bruijn
MArgie - just wanted to say THANK YOU for these words.  The biggest thing I
am finding for anyone who has been traumatised by their birth experience is
GETTING VALIDATION.

Everytime someone says It is not ok, as you have, it lets us hear that our
pain is valid.   We  usually hear but you're fine and the baby is fine
whenever we mention our difficulties to others.  Hearing It is not ok also
gives us permission to grieve, for it admits that there IS another way that
IS ok...and we have missed out on it.  It is important to acknowledge this.

And the way you wrote about having had the honour of supporting traumatised
women on their new journey...that just fills me with hope, and gratitude
that there are people like you out there.  Thank you,

Melissa

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From: Margie Perkins [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences
Date: Thu, 7 Nov 2002 4:21 PM


 My heart goes out to everyone who is sharing or has had soul and body
 hurting births. It is not ok.  And must change. I have had the honour of
 supporting a number of women who have previously been traumatised by
 caesareans (or other things)  and it is something so special to be part of
 their new journey.

 love and the greatest respect to you all.

 Margie


 At Thu, 7 Nov 2002 17:39:56 +1100 (AUS Eastern Daylight Time),
 Rhonda ([EMAIL PROTECTED]) wrote:
 I suggest tjhat you allow her to be angry and to vent her pain and
 her anger
 towards those who caused it.   Support her in complaining to the
 hospital
 and insisting upon answers as lame as they may be.  If she were to
 ask why
 was the induction needed?  Was the baby in distress (at the time
 of the
 first insertion of gel - a horrible substance called prostin made
 from Pig
 seamen.
 Lovely!) Was her placenta failing?  What was the indication that
 at 10 days
 over she needed to be induced anyway?
 Then once they have wormed out of that she should ask for
 explanations as to
 why all of the intervention and what caused it and why was it all
 needed.

 Give her lots of love and support to do this as nothing will
 change and it
 will keep happening unless women are encouraged to complain and
 conplain and
 complain!
 Even if she personally gets little satisfaction fron the complaint
 it is
 just one more brick to add - eventually we will built a wall to
 protect
 women from this - brick by brick.

 You need to complain first to the registra at the hospital but at
 the same
 time go directly to the medical practitioners board and make sure
 it
 outlines that the initial induction was not called for and the
 following
 intervention could have been avoided.  Also any poor bedside
 manner should
 be outlines clearly if they were rude to her which it seems they
 were not
 supportive and gentle from your description.

 I wish her love and luck in her recovery - if she needs someone to
 talk to
 you are welcome to give her my email.

 The problem is this happens every day and it is not looked at as
 torture or
 as something that needs to be changed.  The only way it will be
 seen as a
 problem is if they are inundated with complaints about this sort
 of thing.

 Luv
 Rhonda.

 I am so angry for her - it just shpuld not happen and make sure
 she knows
 she is right to be upset because it is not a fault with her body
 and it is
 not that it just happens - it should not have happened to her.
 Make sure
 she knows why it was not necessary and why it should not have
 happened.


 ---Original Message---

 From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Date: Thursday, November 07, 2002 14:44:32
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Interesting fact

 Whew, Rhonda.
 I heard this morning from a friend about a friend of hers, aged
 19, whose
 baby was 10 days late; ob insisted on inducing with gel, nothing
 much
 happening, into hosp., more drugs, foetal monitoring, on her back,
 strapped
 down to bed, more drugs, epidural, more of same, enormous
 episiotomy, cut
 artery, blood gushing in spurts, vacuum to head, two big men
 hauling as
 though it was a tug-of-war, massive lump on baby's head
 accompanied by ring
 of scars, she's stitched up, off her face, baby won't wake up,
 won't feed,
 she's being pumped every six hours for milk which they're somehow
 force
 feeding to baby. but hey, at least she's ok and the baby's ok,
 they tell her
  and she repeats as she recovers from her torture. Yes, it's
 happening under
 our noses. In Adelaide, November, 2002.
 ...and I'm screaming inside for women and children...who are our
 future.

 Aviva
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 From: Rhonda
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Wednesday, November 06, 2002 1:05 AM
 Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Interesting fact



 Well Megan,

 I guess the only way to really understand is this..

 I can honestly and acceptingly say (as I cannot change what has
 happened and I have dealt with it in my own way)ay to really
 understand is this..=0D
 =0D
 I can honestly and acceptingly say (as I cannot change 

RE: [ozmidwifery] what doctors learn at med school!

2002-11-10 Thread Robyn Thompson



Debby's articulate points to Tina'sBBQ discussion are very 
interesting.I have extrapolated out of the 2nd pointthe 
sentence below to which I offer my point of view. 

...why can't you do a 
Bachelor of Science or Nursing with a major in 
Midwifery...???

Because it is my belief that if we takethisfuturistic road we 
remain primary nurses andsecondarymidwives, no different from where 
we are at present.

If we 
midwives who practice midwifery remainregistered nurses first women and 
midwives will not see themselves freedfrom the control, power and 
dominanceof theobstetric profession and the medical influence of 
their education and practice. We must move on toward recognition of 
Midwifery as a distinct and legitimate nationally 
registeredprofession.Sate Registration is exceedingly 
restrictive to our practice and movement within our Nation. I think 
thiscould be achievedif we moved toward a strong cohesive body of 
midwives regardless of place of practice. For the past 18 years my 
perception of asuccessful,strong andcohesive body of midwives 
is to work toward a Trans Tasman agreement with New Zealand College of Midwives 
and the Australian College of Midwives. Theexperience of NZCOM gaining national recognition of 
midwives would be beneficial in working toward developingan Australian/New 
ZealandRegister formidwives.The legal details would need to be 
researched by midwives.

Without doubt Midwives should be the providers of care for the majority 
of healthy, well pregnant women (around 85%). Nurses are the providers of 
care for the rest of the sick, ill and ageing population. There 
arevast and extreme differences in the models of care 
required.85% of well pregnant and birthing women should 
becared for solely by midwives. This is 
wheremidwives need to focusattention to providing 
information and education for women with emphasis onthewonderful, 
innate ability they have and what can achieve when they avoid the sick and 
interventionist medical model of obstetric care.

Women 
who have been hurt, abused and damaged by the outrageous amount of unnecessary 
interventions should be encouraged to write and publish 
-books,Videos, CD's, DVD'sabout their experiences so that more 
of our future generations can access this information.Obstetric 
practice is responsible forthe unnecessary interventionist service they 
provide, little wonder they work in a model embellished by fear.Having 
said that, I really believe that they do not set out with the intent to harm 
women they are primarily influenced by their limitations 
ofknowledgeabout natural healthy pregnancy and birth.We 
knowonly 15% of women may need some level of medical care and with these 
15% only some intervention will be necessary,and most importantly this 15% 
of women equally need one to one midwife care usually in a more 
interdisciplinary environment, depending on the extent of their 
illnessthey may even need some nursing care. 


The 
question is Why? 
With 
the above percentagesat our fingertips, the knowledge of the cost of the 
current intervention rates in this country and the highproportion 
ofobstetricians employed in the hospital systems who create this economic 
imbalance. Why aren't the learned economists pricking up their 
ears? Why is it so difficult topresent ourselves as 
economically viable and professionally reliable primary midwifery providers 
basedon the callous basis of economics alone?Maybe the 
economic experts can answer this.

Mybelief iswe are still finding ourselves 
as a profession,we are still learning to trust each other, many are still 
gaining confidence to trust the woman and her innate ability. Community 
midwifery and generalpractice was removed from under our noses by a very 
powerful 'specialist obstetricprofession' who saw midwifery practice as a 
lucrative business which took women from the community and their homes into the 
sick and ill model of care in the institutions.Women believed the 
patronising obstetric approach when they used the'don't worry 
dear -we have the knowledge -we know what is best for you - trust 
us'and followed them into the 'safety of the 
hospital'.They further controlled women and midwives by 
ensuringintroduction of the doctor only referral system,effectively 
separating women from access to midwives.

Althoughmidwives and women are trying to make a 
difference, it is very difficult to be recognised when there is apathy in 
professional unity, our practice is fragmented. We are fragmented 
professionally and politically, we are stilldivided by thenursing 
and midwifery models of care. Most hospital employed midwivesare 
anxious about losing their jobs if they are outspoken or are strong advocates 
forwomen's rights. Women are brow beaten and controlled particularly 
when under the care of medical men and women. Like our 
medical colleagues, we are also fear driven for different reasons. Women conform 
and midwives are submissive, we arefrightened to challenge to 

Re: [ozmidwifery] Gold Coast Midwife

2002-11-10 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Gold Coast Midwife



Hi, Tory,
I am in Brisbane but know quite a few fantastic people on the Gold Coast who could support your sister-in-law (don't actually know any midwives, but these people I am recommending will - and support can come from all angles!). I hope it is ok - I have forwarded your email to Deirdrie Cullen, who is a member of the GC Home Birth Assoc and a wonderful contact for any pg woman on the Gold Coast. Her ph humber is : 55332258.

Also, I recommend that your sister-in-law contact Sarah Buck, a Childbirth Educator/Doula who is currently supporting my best friend as she prepares for a vbac. I have also spoken to her on the ph and she was great. Her number is 55 908 101. 

THe Gold Coast has quite a rampant c/sec rate - and from friends I hear it is very difficult to find support from an OB. But hopefully your sister-in-law will be able to meet some of these women and surround herself with positive and informed support.


Plus, Dr Andrew Davidson is an OB at John Flynn Hospital at the Gold Coast who does water
births and I believe is supportive of vbac, so may be more open with your sister-in-law about her options, too. 

Also,if your sister-in-law has internet access, I suggest she contact ICAN (International Caesarean Awareness Network), for more information, as they are fabulous in that area. The best way is to get on their chat list and just ask the questions. The site is www.ican-online.org, and the chat list address is : 
send an email to
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She could also contact me at Birthtalk (3356 7449). My sister-in-law is a midwife and together we run this support group for Birthing Women in Brisbane, if she needs to talk.

Hope this helps,

Melissa

birthtalk : Sharing, Empowering, Celebrating Birth. 

We aim to : 
* provide a forum for women to share their thoughts, expectations and experiences of birth
* empower women by providing access to current and accurate literature  information about
their birthing options 
*encourage an atmosphere of celebration of birth, and of ourselves as women.

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From: Victoria Howell [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: Midwifery [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Gold Coast Midwife
Date: Sun, 10 Nov 2002 5:59 AM


Dear Ozmidders,

My name is Tory Howell and I am a first year midwifery student in Adelaide. I am writing to ask if their are any midwives in the Gold Coast region that could help my sister-in-law. She is due on the 11th of January but has been told to have a c-section. I saw her not long ago and asked her why this was recommended. She couldn't quite give me a clear answer so I thought I would ask you all what you thought! 

She has quite prominent varicose veins on her inner left thigh which give her quite a bit of discomfort. She also has a swelling in her left groin almost in the labia region. (No varicose veins visible in this spot). She has been given stockings etc... to try and make here more comfortable and a obstetrician actually said that she could try a vaginal birth but a hospital based midwife told her to go for the c-section option. She is quite distressed and confused when I saw her as she just wants to do the safest thing for her baby and I felt she was leaning towards the c-section option but there is no way her husband will be able to take much time off while she will be recovering.

I would really like her to see a more open minded midwife for some clear discussions of her options, so if there is anyone out there who can help, it would be greatly appreciated. I am going to try to be with her for the birth and stay as long as I can to provide some support.

Kind regards,

Tory XXOO






Re: [ozmidwifery] healing and connecting after c/sec WAS dimensions - violent birth

2002-11-10 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] healing and connecting after c/sec WAS dimensions - violent birth



 Something I like to do for Ceasarean born babies...and breech born too...is 
 spend time massaging the babe from crown down the body to the toes, making sure 
 every part of the body is stimulated... Vicki

Vicki - this is something that I think is really important for c/sec babies and their mums - that's so great that you do this. I started massaging my boy when he was quite new, and we both got so much out of it - we still do (he's 3 now). This reminds me of other things I have done to heal from my caesarean and to connect with my boy, so I thought I'd put a couple here...

* skin-to-skin as soon as possible after birth. This may seem obvious, but I did not get to hold my baby skin-to-skin until he was 3 days old. He was completely healthy (Apgars of 9 and 10), but no-one thought to do it. He was just always handed to me wrapped up, and I had a hospital gown on. Even when feeding. When I finally unwrapped him and got him on my skin, all of a sudden we connected, and it was like he was MINE and I was HIS. I fell like I lost 3 days when I could have been connecting with my baby.

* telling my child the things I wanted to say to him when he was born, but couldn't because we were separated after the birth (while I was left alone in recovery, wondering what had just occurred.). I have written him letters telling him the words of greeting I never got to say. Then, I whispered those words to him at night as he slept. Then, I told him after his afternoon nap, when he was still drowsy. I will never forget the look of wonderment and delight on his face (this was only quite recently). That has been very healing for me.

Anyway - just a couple of things that have helped me heal.

Melissa


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From: Vicki Chan [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] dimensions - violent birth
Date: Thu, 7 Nov 2002 9:37 PM


Something I like to do for Ceasarean born babies...and breech born too...is spend time massaging the babe from crown down (for some reason, I went to write 'song-lines'here...interesting...) the body to the toes, making sure every part of the body is stimulated...simulating the passage through the vagina... the mothers have felt very good about doing this themselves...a gift to their child... Vicki
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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] On Behalf Of elizabeth mcalpine
Sent: Wednesday, November 06, 2002 3:13 PM
To: ozmidwifery
Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [ozmidwifery] dimensions - violent birth

Thanks to whoever sent the transcript. 

I have since inundated the ABC dimensions with my comments and request for help to get the message across.
arrgghh!

Its just too much to bear sometimes.

Just yesterday, a fellow student and I were chatting after doing some work. She has a 15 yr old.
Horrible, violent birth (the usual) After about 18 months, she returned to the hospital to discuss what had happened to her. That helped her a bit but she still grieves. No more children followed.

In actual fact, I make it a point to know birth stories from every woman I know - (I should collect them for a book or something) 

Oh and here's another. Discussing NMAP, violent birth vs humanized birth etc. as usual with all and sundry
one woman at work was listening so intently and I thought, hello, there's something here.
On asking, it turned out that her third child, at full dilatation had cord prolapse. Big emergency, she said. Upside down and then hauled out with forceps.
She was advised my a very wise woman, to provide excess sensory stimulation to enable/create neurophysiological recovery caused by damage due to forceps.
Very thankful she did that, because as a toddler it helped him develop normally.
He's 18 now, but has a very 'dark' side. ie suicidal thoughts.

Liz Mc






Re: [ozmidwifery] info on cholestasis

2002-11-10 Thread Kirsten Blacker
She needs to have liver function monitored regularly once she starts
itching. It may be that she develops this earlier in this pregnancy and
induction may need to be done earlier to coincide with that.

Cholestasis has a horrendously high risk of stillbirth, and shouldn't be
taken lightly. There is plenty of literature that has come out in the last
5-10 years about this - try searching under obstetric cholestasis in
medline.


Kirsten
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From: Larry  Megan [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: ozmidwifery [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Saturday, November 09, 2002 9:35 PM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] info on cholestasis


 Has anyone have any suggestions for a mum who is pregnant with baby number
 four, about 13 weeks, but developed cholestasis with her last baby.
 Fortunately it was very late into her pregnancy and she birthed vaginally
 after an induction, all going well. I have some info that was posted 12
 months ago from Natalie Forbes Dash, just wondering if anyone knows
anything
 new?
 thanks in advance,
 Megan.
 PS - she has had midwifery care in the past, but this may exclude her from
 using the Birth Centre, also now has health insurance and is a tad keen to
 get her return on this. She does have an idea about the different
 philosophies of midwives and Obs.

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Fw: [ozmidwifery] what doctors learn at med school!

2002-11-10 Thread elizabeth mcalpine



Dear Robyn, 

Powerful, brilliant letter. I second 
everything you said. And, in fact, the WHO consensus for 
health promotion 1986 - nearly 20 years ago recommended the same thing and we 
are still no further forward. 

love lizmc

edited

LEGISLATION

Midwifery as a distinct and legitimate nationally 
registeredprofession.
  thiscould be 
achievedif we moved toward a strong cohesive body of midwives regardless 
of place of practice. 

  work toward a Trans Tasman 
agreement with New Zealand College of Midwives and the Australian College of 
Midwives.
 
  Theexperience of NZCOM gaining national recognition of midwives would be 
beneficial in working toward
 
   
 developinganAustralian/New 
ZealandRegister formidwives.

The legal details would need to be researched by 
midwives.

Without doubt Midwives should be the providers of care for the majority 
of healthy, well pregnant women (around 85%). Nurses are the providers of 
care for the rest of the sick, ill and ageing population. There 
arevast and extreme differences in the models of care 


EDUCATION FOR WOMEN

midwives need to focusattention to providing 
information and education for women with emphasis onthewonderful, 
innate ability they have and what can achieve when they avoid the sick and 
interventionist medical model of obstetric care.


PUBLICITY

Women 
who have been hurt, abused and damaged by the outrageous amount of unnecessary 
interventions should be encouraged to write and publish 
-books,Videos, CD's, DVD'sabout their experiences so that more 
of our future generations can access this information.Obstetric 
practice is responsible forthe unnecessary interventionist service they 
provide, little wonder they work in a model embellished by fear.Having 
said that, I really believe that they do not set out with the intent to harm 
women they are primarily influenced by their limitations 
ofknowledgeabout natural healthy pregnancy and birth.We 
knowonly 15% of women may need some level of medical care and with these 
15% only some intervention will be necessary,and most importantly this 15% 
of women equally need one to one midwife care usually in a more 
interdisciplinary environment, depending on the extent of their 
illnessthey may even need some nursing care. 



PUBLIC 
AND PROFESSIONAL EDUCATION 

There 
is equally a lack of professional and community education and understanding of 
pregnant, birthing and post birth women 

it 
should be a compulsory part of theeducation of all obstetricians and 
midwives to attendthe care of a 'woman with a midwife' during pregnancy 
and birthing at home. 

MEDIA
no more distortions!!
portrayal of midwives / pregnancy and birth as a normal 
life event 






 


  
  
  
  
  
  


[ozmidwifery] healing and connecting after c/sec /violent birth

2002-11-10 Thread elizabeth mcalpine
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] healing and connecting after c/sec WAS dimensions -  violent birth





Melissa, 
wonderful message to pass on to everyone 
..thanks 
lizmc

I started massaging my boy when he was quite new, and we both got so much 
out of it - we still do (he's 3 now
* skin-to-skin as soon as possible after birth.

* telling my child the things I wanted to say to him when he was born, but 
couldn't because we were separated after the birth 

I whispered those words to him at night as he slept.
I told him after his afternoon nap, when he was still drowsy. 
I will never forget the look of wonderment and delight on his face 
(this was only quite recently). 
That has been very healing for me.







































[ozmidwifery] autism study

2002-11-10 Thread Larry Megan
Does anyone know more about the study done in WA looking at children with
autism and their birth experience. Have a snippet from The Advertiser,
saying women who had experienced difficult births or caesarean were more
likely to have a child develop autism than those who had a normal birth. The
mothers were more likely to be older, to have had an epidural and to have
had an emergency or elective caesarean.
Interesting thought. How does this link into the increasing diagnosis of
autism and our escalating intervention rates. Also I am interested in the
links with MMR vaccine and the suggestions of the disease developing in the
bowel. Are babies who have had a traumatic birth experience at greater risk
of the MMR vaccine?

Lots of questions, wheres the answers.
Megan

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Re: [ozmidwifery] autism study

2002-11-10 Thread elizabeth mcalpine
Megan,
don't know about MMR, or the WA study, but if you look at
www.birthworks.com/primalhealth/  you will find the research database
violent birth and autism
lizmc


Subject: [ozmidwifery] autism study


 Does anyone know more about the study done in WA looking at children with
 autism and their birth experience. Have a snippet from The Advertiser,
 saying women who had experienced difficult births or caesarean were more
 likely to have a child develop autism than those who had a normal birth.
The
 mothers were more likely to be older, to have had an epidural and to have
 had an emergency or elective caesarean.
 Interesting thought. How does this link into the increasing diagnosis of
 autism and our escalating intervention rates. Also I am interested in the
 links with MMR vaccine and the suggestions of the disease developing in
the
 bowel. Are babies who have had a traumatic birth experience at greater
risk
 of the MMR vaccine?

 Lots of questions, wheres the answers.
 Megan

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RE: [ozmidwifery] Haemoglobin and ferritin levels

2002-11-10 Thread Jane Palmer
Dear Sue

The normal range of Ferritin in 10 to 150 - so 14 is in normal range. A lot
of my clients have ferritin levels taken - and most of the time they are
around 10 to 20 in the last trimester of pregnancy.

Hb levels above 105 are also normal

Cheers

Jane

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Subject: [ozmidwifery] Haemoglobin and ferritin levels


Hi,
Needing some help to clarify the difference between haemoglobin levels and
ferritin levels.

Have a local GP who switches between the two readings depending on which one
is lowest and suggests/insists on iron injections.

Levels I've had quoted from some of the women are:

Hb  107
Ferritin   14


another: Hb 109
Ferritin 13

These two women are both 32 weeks.

Just needing clarification and some evidence about the relevance of
both/either readings. Hb levels seem fine to me - a bit foxed by the
ferritin level - one woman had dropped from 120 early pregnancy to 14 now...

Look forward to your fine input,

Sue


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[ozmidwifery] BMid course sturcture @ Victoria University

2002-11-10 Thread Jennifer Semple
Isis  anyone else that's interested,

Victoria Uni has the course structure for their Bachelor of Midwifery 
on their website  http://www.vu.edu.au/Faculties/Human%
20Development/Schools/Nursing/Undergraduate%20Courses/Bachelor%20of%
20Midwifery.asp

Cheers,

Jen
BMid student, Victoria Uni

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RE: [ozmidwifery] healing and connecting after c/sec /violent birth

2002-11-10 Thread Robyn Thompson
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] healing and connecting after c/sec WAS dimensions -  violent birth



I have 
to tell you that I no longer have a little baby to massage but my puppy is so in 
love with me when I massage her every morning.

Robyn 


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  [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: [ozmidwifery] healing and 
  connecting after c/sec /violent birth
  
  
  Melissa, 
  wonderful message to pass on to everyone 
  ..thanks 
  lizmc
  
  I started massaging my boy when he was quite new, and we both got so much 
  out of it - we still do (he's 3 now
  * skin-to-skin as soon as possible after birth.
  
  * telling my child the things I wanted to say to him when he was born, 
  but couldn't because we were separated after the birth 
  
  I whispered those words to him at night as he slept.
  I told him after his afternoon nap, when he was still drowsy. 

  I will never forget the look of wonderment and delight on his face 
  (this was only quite recently). 
  That has been very healing for me.
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  


[ozmidwifery] Interesting story.

2002-11-10 Thread Rhonda








  You know I recently heard of a woman who has 11 children. 
  This was some time ago - I am sure that the friend who told me said that 
  one of the children was my age. So this may be going back as far as 
  30 yrs or so.
  
  The first 6 were delivered by c/s because the doctors saw fit to do 
  this - Once a c/s always a c/s.
  When she fell pregnant with her 7th child the doctor said that a 
  seventh c/s would be too hard for her to heal from and said that she could 
  not have a c/s.
  She said - well if I can't have another c/s then I will have to just 
  deliver vaginally. From then on her next 5 babies were vaginal 
  deliveries with no Scar rupture or complications.
  This story was so full of hope and truth that I had to share it with 
  you all.
  What a brave woman.
  
  Regards
  Rhonda





	
	
	
	
	
	
	




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[ozmidwifery] Fw: Breast Milk

2002-11-10 Thread Rhonda








  I am sure we can all think of more than 4 reasons but I definitely 
  like the last one.
  Rhonda
   
  Breast MilkA young man sat in the life science classroom, staring 
  at a question on thefinal exam paper. The question was 'Give 
  four advantages of breast milk.'What to write? He sighed, and 
  began to scribble whatever came into hishead, hoping for the 
  best:1. No need to boil. 2. Never goes sour.3. Available 
  whenever necessary.So far so good - maybe. But the exam demanded a 
  fourth answer. Again, whatto write? Once more, he sighed. He frowned. 
  He scowled, then sighed again.Suddenly, he brightened. He 
  grabbed his pen, and triumphantly, he scribbledhis definitive 
  answer:4. Available in attractive containers of varying sizes.He 
  received an A
  





	
	
	
	
	
	
	




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[ozmidwifery] induction or miscarriage?

2002-11-10 Thread Aviva Sheb'a



Hi, All,

Just logged on for the first time in a few days -- 
152 new messages, which could take a while. 

Still haven't come to terms with inducing with 
pig-semen-derived gel.
Don't know if there's been anyone else online with 
this thought:
Is it really induction, or is in fact miscarriage 
caused by gels etc.? I gather the hormonal effect is a large part of it, but 
what about side-effects of substances that are very unnatural to the human body? 
The more I read/hear of inductions where there's no maternal or foetal problem, 
the more I think itcould be actually miscarriage, not induction, leading 
to further interventions. 

And to think, it's only Monday!
Aviva




Re: [ozmidwifery] what doctors learn at med school!

2002-11-10 Thread Aviva Sheb'a
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] what doctors learn at med school!



Higgorance is a terrible thing in those who think 
they're not higgorant. Golly, Leslie was breathing before his body was out, and 
with both my Darlings, I didn't cut the cord until long after the placenta was 
born, they'd been fed, cuddled, massaged. Good think noone told them they 
couldn't breathe yet, eh? As for the MO at the bbq, dunno.
Scratching my head,
aviva


RE: [ozmidwifery] obs and gobs

2002-11-10 Thread Ann green
Dear List,
Well I was told spurious labour was common amongst
those who had more than 3 babies and that I had an
ineffective womb.Oh well there was a time when women
were told they were incompetent to handle money and
any title to land or even the right to vote.So now our
cervix and wombs are incompetent!Love from Ann ---
Lynne Staff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  MessageI
wonder what our vaginas and pelvic floors
 are supposed to comply
 with? Or whom? This lack of faith in women and what
 they can do seems to be
 the legacy of a past time.for a good read see
 Reading Birth and Death
 (jo Murphy-Lawless) and Sex and Suffering (Janet
 MacCalman). These explained
 many things for me.
   -Original Message-
   From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 [mailto:owner-ozmidwifery;acegraphics.com.au]On
 Behalf Of Vicki Chan
   Sent: Saturday, 9 November 2002 11:42 PM
   To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
   Subject: [ozmidwifery] obs and gobs
 
 
   this fine bit of teaching I just came across from
 the uni of melb obs and
 gobs... should set our little hearts at rest...
 
   Primigravida
 
   Labour often begins slowly (the latent phase).
 False alarms or spurious
 labour are common. The duration of labour averages
 14 h, augmentation with
 oxytocin is often indicated, epidural analgesia
 frequently requested. The
 2nd stage is often particularly slow due to the poor
 compliance of vagina
 and pelvic floor. Instrumental vaginal delivery is
 not uncommonly needed.
 
   dont tell me they aint got faith!!!
 
 
 
   or what about this one...
 
 
 
   Natural Course of Obstructed Labour
 
 
 
 1.. Primigravida
 
 The uterus responds to slow progress with a
 reduction in the intensity
 and frequency of contractions - thereby further
 exacerbating the lack of
 progress. The natural course of neglected obstructed
 labour is to contract
 on and off for several days. The presenting part
 becomes impacted in the
 pelvic brim, the intervening tissues undergo
 pressure necrosis, infection
 develops, the fetus dies and with the skull bones
 collapsed, the fetus is
 able to deliver vaginally. An obstetric fistula is
 the long-term result.
 
 please, bring me the forceps this very minute!!
 
 
 
 
 
   Vicki
 
 

http://www.obsgyn.unimelb.edu.au/Teaching/MHW%20Protocols/Obstetrics/Intra-P
 artum%20Care.htm
 
 
 
  

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Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: FW:

2002-11-10 Thread Terry Garnons-Williams



I've been told that it takes five shots of seminal fluid (in quick order) 
to reach the same doasge as that given to women to induce labour with 
pharmaceutical PG's And from the stories I've been told, it works 
beautifully - in LOTS of lovely ways. Cheers! Terry

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Rhonda 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Thursday, November 07, 2002 11:07 
  PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: 
  FW:
  
  


  
A pig's orgasm 
lasts 30 minutes. (In my next life, I want to be a 
pig.)Well, look at that - 
Now we know why their semen is so potent!
I am sure if we can get our men to perform betterthen we 
canmake the use of prostin obsolete! LOL 
Rhonda

  

  
  


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Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: FW:

2002-11-10 Thread Kirsten Blacker



Now I've always thought/believed/heard that it is the WOMAN"S orgasm that 
contributes more prostaglandins than the mans. THoughts?
Kirsten


  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Terry 
  Garnons-Williams 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Sunday, November 10, 2002 4:21 
  PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: 
  FW:
  
  I've been told that it takes five shots of seminal fluid (in quick order) 
  to reach the same doasge as that given to women to induce labour with 
  pharmaceutical PG's And from the stories I've been told, it works 
  beautifully - in LOTS of lovely ways. Cheers! Terry
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Rhonda 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

Sent: Thursday, November 07, 2002 11:07 
PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: 
FW:


  

  A pig's orgasm 
  lasts 30 minutes. (In my next life, I want to be a 
  pig.)Well, look at that - 
  Now we know why their semen is so potent!
  I am sure if we can get our men to perform betterthen we 
  canmake the use of prostin obsolete! LOL 
  Rhonda
  

  


  
  
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Re: [ozmidwifery] introducing birthtalk

2002-11-10 Thread Aviva Sheb'a
Title: introducing "birthtalk"



Thank you, Alesa. that means a lot 
indeed.
Aviva
- Original Message - 
From: P  A 
Koziol 
To: ozmidwifery 
Sent: Friday, November 08, 2002 11:27 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] introducing "birthtalk"

Dear Aviva
I have always been so sad around the times that we 
remember the waste and futility of war (ANZAC day and Rememberance Day). I find it difficult to put my overwhelming sense 
of waste into words. Last year I had to share some of it with a group of 28 
participants in a childbirth education class. I mentioned at the start of the 
session that I would like to acknowledge remembrance day at 1100 by stopping the session for one minute'srespectful silence. The groupagreed, at 1100 they were 
all involved in small group discussions but stopped following the gentle 
reminder that it was 1100 and 29 peopleremained silent for that minute. A 
very powerful minute.

Alesa


Alesa KoziolClinical Midwifery 
EducatorMelbourne


Re: [ozmidwifery] autism study

2002-11-10 Thread Debby M

On Sunrise this morning they interviewed a researcher who has found a link between autism and excessive brain growth in babies from about the 4th month. Their correlation went further to say that the more pronounced the excessive brain growth was the more severe the autism as the child got older.

I suppose it just goes to show that we don't know what causes autism or even what the predetermining factors are. But all factors that show a strong(ish) positive correlation should be considered. It may well be that it is a mix of factors eg. abnormally fast brain growth and birth trauma.

Debby

From: "elizabeth mcalpine" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] autism study 
Date: Mon, 11 Nov 2002 08:48:34 +1100 
 
Megan, 
don't know about MMR, or the WA study, but if you look at 
www.birthworks.com/primalhealth/ you will find the research database 
violent birth and autism 
lizmc 
 
 
Subject: [ozmidwifery] autism study 
 
 
  Does anyone know more about the study done in WA looking at children with 
  autism and their birth experience. Have a snippet from The Advertiser, 
  saying women who had experienced difficult births or caesarean were more 
  likely to have a child develop autism than those who had a normal birth. 
The 
  mothers were more likely to be older, to have had an epidural and to have 
  had an emergency or elective caesarean. 
  Interesting thought. How does this link into the increasing diagnosis of 
  autism and our escalating intervention rates. Also I am interested in the 
  links with MMR vaccine and the suggestions of the disease developing in 
the 
  bowel. Are babies who have had a traumatic birth experience at greater 
risk 
  of the MMR vaccine? 
  
  Lots of questions, wheres the answers. 
  Megan 
  
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Re: [ozmidwifery] autism study

2002-11-10 Thread Debby M
Just found this. This is the congress where they are speaking about autism and the abnormal brain growth theory.

http://www.autismcongress.com/speaker.html

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[ozmidwifery] Prostoglandins

2002-11-10 Thread Rhonda








  Now I thought it was a case of the woman's orgasm causes the uterus 
  to contract very strongly which then if the body and babyare ready, 
  bring on labour.
  I didn't know that women produced much prostoglandin at all but it is 
  in human men's semen in a lower concentration to thatof pigs.
  
  As far as the supply - if it is from pigs they would have a huge 
  supply from the slaughter yards so that would not be a problem. I am 
  not sure noif i am to believe that it is synthhetic or it is 
  synthetically altered from a base of pig semen?? It is 
  something that is fascinating really - How did anyone come up with 
  it.
  
  The first successfulc/s being done by a butcher and now pig 
  semen to induce because of it's potency...
  I guess some butcher said to the missus - well about time junior was 
  born - let me put someof this in and see if speeds things up. 
  LOL 
  Where do they come up with these things? The mind 
  boggles. 
  
  Regards
  Rhonda
  
  ---Original Message---
  
  
  From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Date: Monday, November 
  11, 2002 14:27:39
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  Subject: Re: 
  [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: FW:
  
  Now I've always thought/believed/heard that it is the WOMAN"S orgasm 
  that contributes more prostaglandins than the mans. THoughts?
  Kirsten
  
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Terry 
Garnons-Williams 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

Sent: Sunday, November 10, 2002 
4:21 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: 
FW:

I've been told that it takes five shots of seminal fluid (in quick 
order) to reach the same doasge as that given to women to induce labour 
with pharmaceutical PG's And from the stories I've been told, it 
works beautifully - in LOTS of lovely ways. Cheers! 
Terry

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Rhonda 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Thursday, November 07, 2002 
  11:07 PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: 
  Fw: FW:
  
  


  
A pig's 
orgasm lasts 30 minutes. (In my next life, I want to be 
a pig.)Well, 
look at that - Now we know why their semen is so 
potent!
I am sure if we can get our men to perform betterthen 
we canmake the use of prostin obsolete! LOL 

Rhonda

  

  
  



  





	
	
	
	
	
	
	




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Re: [ozmidwifery] Prostoglandins

2002-11-10 Thread TinaPettigrew
In a message dated 11/11/02 3:55:16 PM AUS Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:


Now I thought it was a case of the woman's orgasm causes the uterus to contract very strongly which then if the body and baby are ready, bring on labour.
I didn't know that women produced much prostoglandin at all but it is in human men's semen in a lower concentration to that of pigs.
 

Hi Rhonda and all,

My understanding is that there are numerous sites of protaglandin production (fetal, maternal, placental) and it is thought that the initation of labour occurs when all these sites are actived at term largely due to contributions from the baby, the placenta and maternal tissues which set about initiating a complex hormonal interplay that triggers labour.

cheers Tina P.



FW: [ozmidwifery] Prostoglandins

2002-11-10 Thread Sally Westbury








As my sweet daughter
said.



who would
have thought of it before they thought of it



J



Sally Westbury



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From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] On
Behalf Of Rhonda
Sent: Monday, 11 November 2002
12:57 PM
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: [ozmidwifery]
Prostoglandins




 
  
  
  Now I thought it was a case of the woman's orgasm causes
  the uterus to contract very strongly which then if the body and babyare
  ready, bring on labour.
  
  
  I didn't know that women produced much prostoglandin at
  all but it is in human men's semen in a lower concentration to thatof
  pigs.
  
  
  
  
  
  As far as the supply - if it is from pigs they would have
  a huge supply from the slaughter yards so that would not be a problem.
  I am not sure noif i am to believe that it is synthhetic or it is
  synthetically altered from a base of pig semen?? It is something
  that is fascinating really - How did anyone come up with it.
  
  
  
  
  
  The first successfulc/s being done by a butcher and
  now pig semen to induce because of it's potency...
  
  
  I guess some butcher said to the missus - well about time
  junior was born - let me put someof this in and see if speeds things
  up. LOL 
  
  
  Where do they come up with these things? The mind
  boggles. 
  
  
  
  
  
  Regards
  
  
  Rhonda
  
  
  
  
  
  ---Original Message---
  
  
  
  
  
  
  From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  
  
  Date: Monday,
  November 11, 2002 14:27:39
  
  
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  
  
  Subject: Re:
  [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: FW:
  
  
  
  
  
  
  Now I've always thought/believed/heard that it is the
  WOMANS orgasm that contributes more prostaglandins than the mans.
  THoughts?
  
  
  
  Kirsten
  
  
  
  
  
  
  - Original Message - 
  
  
  From: Terry
  Garnons-Williams 
  
  
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  
  Sent: Sunday, November
  10, 2002 4:21 PM
  
  
  Subject: Re:
  [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: FW:
  
  
  
  
  
  I've been told that it takes five shots of seminal fluid
  (in quick order) to reach the same doasge as that given to women to induce
  labour with pharmaceutical PG's And from the stories I've been told, it
  works beautifully - in LOTS of lovely ways. Cheers! Terry
  
  
  
  - Original Message - 
  
  
  From: Rhonda
  
  
  
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  
  Sent: Thursday,
  November 07, 2002 11:07 PM
  
  
  Subject: Re:
  [ozmidwifery] Fw: Fw: FW:
  
  
  
  
  
   


   
A pig's orgasm lasts 30 minutes. (In my next life,
I want to be a
 pig.)

Well, look at that - Now we know why their semen is so potent!
I
am sure if we can get our men to perform betterthen we canmake
the use of prostin obsolete! LOL 
Rhonda

   
   


 
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
 



   
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
 
 
  
  
   









   
  
  
  
 



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Re: [ozmidwifery] what doctors learn at med school!

2002-11-10 Thread Carolyn Donaghey



I had the dubious pleasure of sharing last semester with a group of first
year medical students, of which one wished to become an obstetrician, but
she couldn't tell me why? They were all in my opinion, abnormally focussed
on litigation - this was first years What was really scary was they
had no idea - they thought the reason we had the highest intervention and
cs rates in Australia was because of our lower socio-economic group women.
When I asked if they could explain why the healthiest and most affluent
women of our community experience the most intervention they were struck
dumb. 
These young women will be unleashed on the community in approx. 7 years;
God help us!

Carolyn

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Hi again all,
  
 had an interesting afternoon today at a BBQ with some old work mates...One
friend who I worked at CSIRO with eons ago (past life stuff) like me had
a radical change in occupation and went to do nursing...she finished her
nursing about 8 years agoanyhowshe brought a friend to the BBQ ...a
"work colleague" I just assumed this woman was a nurse too...anyhow got
chatting as you do...my friend announced to her "work colleague" that I was
doing midwifery.So your a nurse too she asked...No...I'm not a nurse
doing the new Bachelor of Midwiferybla bla"Direct entry" my friend
announcesone of THOSE midwives who think they are not part of the nursing
profession. ...Well that went down REAL well...she always did know how to
get my hackles up...thought I had educated her better than that...but can
see she has been educated by others than just I...:-((
  
 No not "direct entry" I replied...we don't do direct entry nursingor
direct entry medicine...or direct law or accounting...bla bla bla..Anyhow
...finally this "work colleague" couldn't resist and announced that she was
a MO...doing her internshipand wanted to know more about "the likes of
you" doing midwifery without nursing first"do you do any physiology???"
bla bla bla I guess you can imagine the conversation from there...
  
 The conversion progressed quickly back to medicine...I wanted to pick her
brains about being a beginning practitioner and her thoughts on the health
care system...What struck me immediately was her sheer arrogance and lack
of understanding of peopleamazingAccording to her the general public
are all "fu-k--- nuff nuffs""parents have no parenting skills".."the
public all just want to sue us". She was just fascinated to think that I
would even consider private practice as a midwife..."too scary - you must
be fu--ing mad!!" and "noone from uni is even considering obs and gynae as
its just too risky". 
  
 This woman is 25 years old and already educated with the 'fear factor'.
She stated openly that as doctors they are taught at med school that a "trusting
relationship with your patients" is non existent as the patient only looks
to the doctor fix up their problems and will sue if they don't..and the doctor
looks at the patient thinking all you want is to sue meI was totally
blown away by this...oh yeh she says..."its the underlying premise in all
that we do"..."we have to always be thinking at every moment...are you the
one who is going to make my life hell?"
  
 How scary is this folks???These are the obs of the future...This woman has
this level of fear ingrained into her already..I couldn't believe what I
was hearingI was almost lost for words...beleive it or not!
  
 Ahhh I said..."that's where midwives have it all over doctorsour basic
premise is trustfor if we can't establish our professional relationships
on thatlike you guys are discovering...when it all comes tumbling downyou
have nothing else"
  
 Trust and communication.two important factors in not getting sued I'd
reckon..but hey who am Ionly a "nuf nuff" in her eyes...
  
 Cheers Tina P.