Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-10 Thread Ken Restivo
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On Mon, Oct 08, 2007 at 01:14:46PM +0200, Thomas Mayer wrote:
 
 and gang bang can mean [t b b b b b b]
 

+1 Funny

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Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-10 Thread Ken Restivo
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On Sun, Oct 07, 2007 at 10:34:30PM +0200, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 ola,
 
 i'm sorry to be boring on this list,
 but here i read everyday terms as :
 'wet dream', 'gang bang' , ..

Women have wet dreams too. It's been studied and confirmed since the 1950's, 
IIRC.

Gang bang could possibly be considered offensive, although sometimes they are 
consensual and gender-balanced (well, here in California, anyway).

 
 and i understand why some girls stay away from this list

It could be because you are calling them girls. 

Any female over the age of majority (18 in California) is not a girl :-)

 
 sorry, i'm chocked sometimes,
 by the 'between men' macho jokes...
 even me.
 

Don't sweat it. It's probably fine as long as you're not doing this:
http://xkcd.com/322/

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Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-08 Thread Yves Degoyon
cdr wrote:

On Mon Oct 08, 2007 at 02:07:27AM +0200, Niklas Kl??gel wrote:
  

[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


ola,

i'm sorry to be boring on this list,
but here i read everyday terms as :
'wet dream', 'gang bang' , ..

and i understand why some girls stay away from this list

sorry, i'm chocked sometimes,
by the 'between men' macho jokes...
even me.

sevy


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just to cite someone:

that's how we speak in the streets man
so watch out when you go out )

sevy (03.10.2007//21:36 GMT+1)

and in reply:

sorry, i should have said here 'suck one of them dick',
is that polite enough? [...] 



err, sorry, that was precisely an anti-macho curators statement
do you make another point ?
( or stay as stupid as you sound ) ?

sevy

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Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-08 Thread Chuckk Hubbard
On 10/7/07, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 ola,

 i'm sorry to be boring on this list,
 but here i read everyday terms as :
 'wet dream', 'gang bang' , ..

 and i understand why some girls stay away from this list


Understandable, but that's not sexism.
And I have heard these terms from the mouths of women many, many times.

-Chuckk


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Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-08 Thread Thomas Mayer
Chuckk Hubbard wrote:
 On 10/7/07, [EMAIL PROTECTED] [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 ola,

 i'm sorry to be boring on this list,
 but here i read everyday terms as :
 'wet dream', 'gang bang' , ..

 and i understand why some girls stay away from this list
 
 
 Understandable, but that's not sexism.
 And I have heard these terms from the mouths of women many, many times.

Wet dream can also relate to the dreams of water on Dune by Paul
Atreides and gang bang can mean [t b b b b b b]

SCNR,
Thomas
-- 
Prisons are needed only to provide the illusion that courts and police
are effective. They're a kind of job insurance.
(Leto II. in: Frank Herbert, God Emperor of Dune)
http://thomas.dergrossebruder.org/

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Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-08 Thread Yves Degoyon

ola,



dont feed the braindead trolls!
 



i think you should at least sign your very uninteresting remarks,
and not with an internet nickname like 'carmen',
when it's a boy who is writing
( if i don't get confused )

sevy

ps: btw, we are here in 'Le Hangar' again,
for a workshop on FLOSS sound
and it's a mixed audience ( like 70-30 % ),
so i don't see why it doesn't reflect on the lists..
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Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-08 Thread Chuckk Hubbard
On 10/8/07, Yves Degoyon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  ola,

 dont feed the braindead trolls!


 i think you should at least sign your very uninteresting remarks,
 and not with an internet nickname like 'carmen',
 when it's a boy who is writing


This is absolutely trollspeak.


( if i don't get confused )

 sevy

 ps: btw, we are here in 'Le Hangar' again,
 for a workshop on FLOSS sound
 and it's a mixed audience ( like 70-30 % ),
 so i don't see why it doesn't reflect on the lists..


How do you know it doesn't reflect on this list?
And more importantly, who cares if it does?
I already pointed out that one of the terms you claimed to see here every
day has not been typed once since I've been subscribed, which is a few
years.  You are trolling.

-Chuckk

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Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-08 Thread Charles Henry
 How do you know it doesn't reflect on this list?
 And more importantly, who cares if it does?

I think sexism is a subject that should be dealt with here on the
pd-list.  And I think that the many replies here show that people on
the list do in fact care about it.

Allow me to try to condense the issue, as I see it, a bit:
1st:  The pd-list is an all-inclusive public forum.
2nd:  Sexist, racist, homophobic or otherwise derrogatory remarks
detract from the inclusiveness and usefulness of the forum.
3rd:  Slang does need some disambiguation to avoid creating the
perception of bias and insider/outsider differences.
4th:  The language of our discussion should try to positively change
people's minds about how to use the forum, rather than confront them
as individuals.
i.e. inflammatory, offensive, argumentative posts on topic--not so helpful

just to precede any comments that I'm being preachy:
No, I don't think I'm better than other people just because I haven't
said anything insensitive--lately.  I think many people on the list
have made valid points and I support them.  I am sometimes offended by
comments on the list, that I don't say anything about them.  And in
fact, I don't think that we collectively or individually should do
anything about it.  I have faith that the list is used with the best
of intentions, or at least, a sense of humor.  But I would suggest
that people choose language that avoids bias and the perception of
bias.

Chuck

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[PD] about sexism

2007-10-07 Thread ydegoyon
ola,

i'm sorry to be boring on this list,
but here i read everyday terms as :
'wet dream', 'gang bang' , ..

and i understand why some girls stay away from this list

sorry, i'm chocked sometimes,
by the 'between men' macho jokes...
even me.

sevy


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Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-07 Thread Niklas Klügel
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 ola,

 i'm sorry to be boring on this list,
 but here i read everyday terms as :
 'wet dream', 'gang bang' , ..

 and i understand why some girls stay away from this list

 sorry, i'm chocked sometimes,
 by the 'between men' macho jokes...
 even me.

 sevy


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just to cite someone:

that's how we speak in the streets man
so watch out when you go out )

sevy (03.10.2007//21:36 GMT+1)

and in reply:

sorry, i should have said here 'suck one of them dick',
is that polite enough? [...] 

ya basta,
sevy (03.10.2007//04:39 GMT+1)


blimpish drivel is sooo 90s, punk.

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Re: [PD] about sexism

2007-10-07 Thread cdr
On Mon Oct 08, 2007 at 02:07:27AM +0200, Niklas Kl??gel wrote:
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  ola,
 
  i'm sorry to be boring on this list,
  but here i read everyday terms as :
  'wet dream', 'gang bang' , ..
 
  and i understand why some girls stay away from this list
 
  sorry, i'm chocked sometimes,
  by the 'between men' macho jokes...
  even me.
 
  sevy
 
 
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 just to cite someone:
 
 that's how we speak in the streets man
 so watch out when you go out )
 
 sevy (03.10.2007//21:36 GMT+1)
 
 and in reply:
 
 sorry, i should have said here 'suck one of them dick',
 is that polite enough? [...] 
 
 ya basta,
 sevy (03.10.2007//04:39 GMT+1)
 
 
 blimpish drivel is sooo 90s, punk.

dont feed the braindead trolls!
 
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