Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-07 Thread Miserere
Hi Barbarann!

Only just saw this message. My most sincere condolences to you on this
painful loss. My oldest friendship is from the age of 12, and even
though we're thousands of miles apart, I'd be distraught if I lost
him.

It was fun to flip through your photos together (but I will confess to
a moment of geekiness when I said Ann's got an LX around her neck!);
I bet Barb's daughter and son will really appreciate this pictures of
you and their mum.

All the best,


  --M.


On 5 October 2010 12:06, Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com wrote:
 My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest
 closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm off to Chicago to
 her home and family One of the reasons I could talk myself into the expense
 of the photo show at the Dank last spring was my concern that there would no
 be many more opportunities to be with her in person... the show became a
 reason to go to Chicago so Barb
 wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get there before she passed on... one
 had hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from
 her daughter -- Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real trooper
 ... She appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself
 invented a few wonderful shaggy-dog groaners.

 No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and out of
 hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.

 While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she said But
 you are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.

 How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with someone from
 childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December)
 Particularly sad for me not just for the loss of her friendship but to think
 of her only being two years my senior ...
 Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a grouping of
 photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on
 my web page...  he took the one of us last May.
 I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past at her
 daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it
 seems that is something of a fashion these days...

 I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter rail to
 take me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around
 returning (bus and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to see a
 couple of you .
 Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .

 The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and Barb
 Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and Family section
 - if you are curious...

 Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to do with
 my server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list will ya? you both
 should have had email from me.

 I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick up my
 photo and the one I traded for from Dank House

 I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why I've
 been quiet for a bit

 ann
 http://annsan.smugmug.com





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RE: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-07 Thread John Coyle
My condolences, Ann - it is indeed a rare thing to stay friends with someone
for so long.

John Coyle
Brisbane, Australia



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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-06 Thread frank theriault
On Tue, Oct 5, 2010 at 12:06 PM, Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com wrote:
 My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest
 closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm off to Chicago to
 her home and family One of the reasons I could talk myself into the expense
 of the photo show at the Dank last spring was my concern that there would no
 be many more opportunities to be with her in person... the show became a
 reason to go to Chicago so Barb
 wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get there before she passed on... one
 had hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from
 her daughter -- Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real trooper
 ... She appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself
 invented a few wonderful shaggy-dog groaners.

 No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and out of
 hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.

 While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she said But
 you are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.

 How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with someone from
 childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December)
 Particularly sad for me not just for the loss of her friendship but to think
 of her only being two years my senior ...
 Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a grouping of
 photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on
 my web page...  he took the one of us last May.
 I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past at her
 daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it
 seems that is something of a fashion these days...

 I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter rail to
 take me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around
 returning (bus and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to see a
 couple of you .
 Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .

 The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and Barb
 Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and Family section
 - if you are curious...

 Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to do with
 my server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list will ya? you both
 should have had email from me.

 I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick up my
 photo and the one I traded for from Dank House

 I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why I've
 been quiet for a bit

So sorry, Ann.

I don't have any childhood friends that I'm still in touch with.  One
high school friend, but none from my elementary or pre-school years.

You were fortunate to have each other for so long.  This must hurt like hell.

My condolences.

-frank

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RE: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-06 Thread Chris Mitchell
Ann Sanfedele wrote:
My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest
 closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... 

Sad news Ann, we're thinking of you.
Chris



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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Bob Sullivan
Sad news Ann, my condolences.  Regards, Bob S.

On Tue, Oct 5, 2010 at 11:06 AM, Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com wrote:
 My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest
 closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm off to Chicago to
 her home and family One of the reasons I could talk myself into the expense
 of the photo show at the Dank last spring was my concern that there would no
 be many more opportunities to be with her in person... the show became a
 reason to go to Chicago so Barb
 wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get there before she passed on... one
 had hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from
 her daughter -- Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real trooper
 ... She appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself
 invented a few wonderful shaggy-dog groaners.

 No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and out of
 hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.

 While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she said But
 you are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.

 How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with someone from
 childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December)
 Particularly sad for me not just for the loss of her friendship but to think
 of her only being two years my senior ...
 Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a grouping of
 photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on
 my web page...  he took the one of us last May.
 I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past at her
 daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it
 seems that is something of a fashion these days...

 I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter rail to
 take me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around
 returning (bus and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to see a
 couple of you .
 Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .

 The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and Barb
 Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and Family section
 - if you are curious...

 Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to do with
 my server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list will ya? you both
 should have had email from me.

 I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick up my
 photo and the one I traded for from Dank House

 I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why I've
 been quiet for a bit

 ann
 http://annsan.smugmug.com








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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Stan Halpin
So sorry to hear this Ann.  I know you had been concerned for her for some 
time. But expecting the worst doesn't make coping with the situation all that 
much easier.

stan

On Oct 5, 2010, at 11:06 AM, Ann Sanfedele wrote:

 My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest 
 closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm off to Chicago to 
 her home and family One of the reasons I could talk myself into the expense 
 of the photo show at the Dank last spring was my concern that there would no 
 be many more opportunities to be with her in person... the show became a 
 reason to go to Chicago so Barb
 wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get there before she passed on... one 
 had hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from
 her daughter -- Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real trooper 
 ... She appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself
 invented a few wonderful shaggy-dog groaners.
 
 No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and out of 
 hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.
 
 While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she said But 
 you are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.
 
 How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with someone from 
 childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December)
 Particularly sad for me not just for the loss of her friendship but to think 
 of her only being two years my senior ...  
 Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a grouping of 
 photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on
 my web page...  he took the one of us last May.  
 I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past at her 
 daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it
 seems that is something of a fashion these days...
 
 I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter rail to 
 take me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around
 returning (bus and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to see a 
 couple of you .  
 Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .
 
 The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and Barb 
 Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and Family section 
 - if you are curious...
 
 Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to do with 
 my server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list will ya? you both 
 should have had email from me.
 
 I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick up my 
 photo and the one I traded for from Dank House
 
 I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why I've 
 been quiet for a bit
 
 ann
 http://annsan.smugmug.com
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Boris Liberman

Be strong, Ann!

Boris

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Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Ann Sanfedele
My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest 
closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm off to 
Chicago to her home and family One of the reasons I could talk myself 
into the expense of the photo show at the Dank last spring was my 
concern that there would no be many more opportunities to be with her in 
person... the show became a reason to go to Chicago so Barb
wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get there before she passed on... 
one had hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from
her daughter -- Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real 
trooper ... She appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself

invented a few wonderful shaggy-dog groaners.

No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and out 
of hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.


While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she said 
But you are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.


How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with someone 
from childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December)
Particularly sad for me not just for the loss of her friendship but to 
think of her only being two years my senior ...  

Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a grouping 
of photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on
my web page...  he took the one of us last May.  

I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past at 
her daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it

seems that is something of a fashion these days...

I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter rail 
to take me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around
returning (bus and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to see 
a couple of you .  


Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .

The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and Barb 
Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and Family 
section - if you are curious...


Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to do 
with my server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list will ya? 
you both should have had email from me.


I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick up 
my photo and the one I traded for from Dank House


I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why 
I've been quiet for a bit


ann
http://annsan.smugmug.com








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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread CheekyGeek
Ann,
Please let me be among the first to share my condolences for your loss.
Thank you for sharing.

Darren Addy
Kearney, Nebraska

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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Cotty
On 5/10/10, Ann Sanfedele, discombobulated, unleashed:

but you can see why
I've been quiet for a bit

Take care Ann XX

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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Steven Desjardins
Best of Luck Ann.




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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Paul Sorenson
 So sorry to hear that, Ann.  Was she the friend you visited in Zion?  
FWIW, I leave you with a quote which has been beneficial to me from time 
to time...Don't know the author...


What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but 
what is woven into the lives of others.


-p

On 10/5/2010 11:06 AM, Ann Sanfedele wrote:
My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest 
closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm off to 
Chicago to her home and family One of the reasons I could talk myself 
into the expense of the photo show at the Dank last spring was my 
concern that there would no be many more opportunities to be with her 
in person... the show became a reason to go to Chicago so Barb
wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get there before she passed 
on... one had hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from
her daughter -- Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real 
trooper ... She appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself

invented a few wonderful shaggy-dog groaners.

No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and 
out of hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.


While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she said 
But you are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.


How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with someone 
from childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December)
Particularly sad for me not just for the loss of her friendship but to 
think of her only being two years my senior ...
Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a 
grouping of photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on

my web page...  he took the one of us last May.
I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past 
at her daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it

seems that is something of a fashion these days...

I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter rail 
to take me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around
returning (bus and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to 
see a couple of you .

Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .

The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and 
Barb Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and 
Family section - if you are curious...


Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to 
do with my server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list 
will ya? you both should have had email from me.


I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick up 
my photo and the one I traded for from Dank House


I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why 
I've been quiet for a bit


ann
http://annsan.smugmug.com










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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Scott Catron
Sorry for you loss, Ann.  Thanks for the link to your gallery - very 
heartwarming to see a friendship last that long.

 --- Scott Catron - z...@yahoo.com --- 
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From: Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com
To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List pdml@pdml.net
Sent: Tue, October 5, 2010 10:06:27 AM
Subject: Off list for a while - and why 

My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest closest 
long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm off to Chicago to her home 
and family One of the reasons I could talk myself into the expense of the photo 
show at the Dank last spring was my concern that there would no be many more 
opportunities to be with her in person... the show became a reason to go to 
Chicago so Barb
wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get there before she passed on... one had 
hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from
her daughter -- Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real trooper ... 
She appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself
invented a few wonderful shaggy-dog groaners.

No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and out of 
hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.

While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she said But you 
are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.

How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with someone from 
childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December)
Particularly sad for me not just for the loss of her friendship but to think of 
her only being two years my senior ...  

Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a grouping of 
photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on
my web page...  he took the one of us last May.  
I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past at her 
daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it
seems that is something of a fashion these days...

I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter rail to take 
me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around
returning (bus and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to see a 
couple 
of you .  

Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .

The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and Barb Yeah, 
I 
was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and Family section - if you 
are curious...

Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to do with my 
server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list will ya? you both 
should 
have had email from me.

I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick up my photo 
and the one I traded for from Dank House

I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why I've been 
quiet for a bit

ann
http://annsan.smugmug.com








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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Ann Sanfedele

Paul Sorenson wrote:

 So sorry to hear that, Ann.  Was she the friend you visited in Zion? 


Paul, _ yes who you almost met...
thank you for a sweet quote - and there will be many  there who are part 
of the fabric...


thanks everyone for your kind thoughts

ann

FWIW, I leave you with a quote which has been beneficial to me from 
time to time...Don't know the author...


What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but 
what is woven into the lives of others.


-p

On 10/5/2010 11:06 AM, Ann Sanfedele wrote:

My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very 
dearest closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm 
off to Chicago to her home and family One of the reasons I could talk 
myself into the expense of the photo show at the Dank last spring was 
my concern that there would no be many more opportunities to be with 
her in person... the show became a reason to go to Chicago so Barb
wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get there before she passed 
on... one had hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from
her daughter -- Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real 
trooper ... She appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself

invented a few wonderful shaggy-dog groaners.

No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and 
out of hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.


While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she 
said But you are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.


How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with 
someone from childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December)
Particularly sad for me not just for the loss of her friendship but 
to think of her only being two years my senior ...
Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a 
grouping of photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on

my web page...  he took the one of us last May.
I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past 
at her daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it

seems that is something of a fashion these days...

I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter 
rail to take me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around
returning (bus and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to 
see a couple of you .

Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .

The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and 
Barb Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and 
Family section - if you are curious...


Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to 
do with my server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list 
will ya? you both should have had email from me.


I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick 
up my photo and the one I traded for from Dank House


I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why 
I've been quiet for a bit


ann
http://annsan.smugmug.com










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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Joseph McAllister

On Oct 5, 2010, at 09:06 , Ann Sanfedele wrote:

one of two of my very dearest closest long term friends passed away  
on Friday ...



I am sorry to hear of your loss, gladdened for the wonderful  
friendship you've enjoyed to oh so many years.

Safe journey. To you both.

The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and  
Barb Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and  
Family section -


It is a joy putting together those images of our past. Very nice Ann.  
Thank you.


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RE: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread Tanya Love
Thinking of you Ann, friendships like that are few and far between, and a
wonderful reminder of our humanity.  I am going to go and have a look at
your gallery now.

Thanks for being so candid and open about it, and I hope that your trip to
Chicago brings you lots of happy tears as you remember the wonderful years
that you spent together.

Tan.x.


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From: pdml-boun...@pdml.net [mailto:pdml-boun...@pdml.net] On Behalf Of Ann
Sanfedele
Sent: Wednesday, 6 October 2010 2:06 AM
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Subject: Off list for a while - and why 

My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest
closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm off to Chicago to
her home and family One of the reasons I could talk myself into the expense
of the photo show at the Dank last spring was my concern that there would no
be many more opportunities to be with her in person... the show became a
reason to go to Chicago so Barb wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get
there before she passed on... 
one had hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from her daughter --
Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real trooper ... She
appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself invented a few wonderful
shaggy-dog groaners.

No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and out of
hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.

While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she said But
you are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.

How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with someone from
childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December) Particularly sad for me not
just for the loss of her friendship but to think of her only being two years
my senior ...  

Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a grouping of
photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on my web page...  he took
the one of us last May.  

I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past at her
daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it seems that is something
of a fashion these days...

I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter rail to
take me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around returning (bus
and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to see a couple of you .  

Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .

The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and Barb 
 Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and Family 
section - if you are curious...

Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to do with
my server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list will ya? 
you both should have had email from me.

I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick up my
photo and the one I traded for from Dank House

I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why I've
been quiet for a bit

ann
http://annsan.smugmug.com








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Re: Off list for a while - and why

2010-10-05 Thread eckinator
Take care, Ann, and my sincere condolences.
Ecke

2010/10/5 Ann Sanfedele ann...@nyc.rr.com:
 My  oldest (in terms of years known) and one of two of my very dearest
 closest long term friends passed away on Friday ... so I'm off to Chicago to
 her home and family One of the reasons I could talk myself into the expense
 of the photo show at the Dank last spring was my concern that there would no
 be many more opportunities to be with her in person... the show became a
 reason to go to Chicago so Barb
 wouldn't think I was just hurrying to get there before she passed on... one
 had hoped  things were not as dire as they sounded from
 her daughter -- Barb always minimalized her troubles and was a real trooper
 ... She appreciated our lists penchant for puns and herself
 invented a few wonderful shaggy-dog groaners.

 No, not the big C - but enough other stuff to cause her to be in and out of
 hospital for a few months and cause her a lot of discomfort.

 While I was biting my nails waiting to see if my photo got in she said But
 you are coming anyway arent you? naturally, I was.

 How many of us can claim to still be friends and in touch with someone from
 childhood at my age? (gonna be 74 in December)
 Particularly sad for me not just for the loss of her friendship but to think
 of her only being two years my senior ...
 Her son Johnny took our photo in May and  said I should make a grouping of
 photos of the two of us  - so I did that for him on
 my web page...  he took the one of us last May.
 I've spent the last couple of days gathering more snaps from the past at her
 daughter's request to be displayed at the wake... it
 seems that is something of a fashion these days...

 I won't really be _in_ Chicago ... except to get to the communter rail to
 take me to the far burbs - I'll be taking the long way around
 returning (bus and trains) so if I can manage it at all I'll get to see a
 couple of you .
 Happily, my young roomie  will take care of Ashley .

 The gallery on my web page with vintage photos is called Barb and Barb
 Yeah, I was  _nee_ Barbara Ann... and is in the Friends and Family section
 - if you are curious...

 Sometimes my direct off-list mail doesnt get to people (something to do with
 my server) so Frank and Paul Stenquist - write me off list will ya? you both
 should have had email from me.

 I hope to at least get a cuppa with Christine and I'm going to pick up my
 photo and the one I traded for from Dank House

 I'll stay on list long enough to answer  stuff - but you can see why I've
 been quiet for a bit

 ann
 http://annsan.smugmug.com








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