Re: [silk] Meet up.

2013-08-30 Thread Chandrachoodan Gopalakrishnan
On Fri, Aug 30, 2013 at 10:17 AM, Biju Chacko biju.cha...@gmail.com wrote:


 I think I'll drop out too. I've had a lot of late nights lately and
 I'd like to get home early for a change.

 Udhay, add me to the confirmed list.

I just made a 350 km trip to come to the meet. Why, why, why do you folks
drop out?


C


Re: [silk] Chennai meet up

2013-08-30 Thread Srini RamaKrishnan
Suresh do you have a preference? Chandroo, will you be able to make it?

On Thu, Aug 29, 2013 at 5:28 PM, Badri Natarajan asi...@vsnl.com wrote:

 Not in the same area at all, but anyone for Amethyst?

 Unless I'm mistaken Amethyst is the one near the big mall  Satyam?
 That place is a mighty commute considering the time of day, but yes
 I'd be up for that too.


 Yes, that's it. Whites Road, Royapettah.

 I can come to Adyar too, it will just take me longer especially if I have to 
 leave work a bit early.

 But I will go with wherever the majority indicates..

 Badri



Re: [silk] On self-improvement

2013-08-30 Thread Heather Madrone

On 8/28/13 9:26 AM August 28, 2013, Thaths wrote:

On Wed, Aug 28, 2013 at 9:16 AM, Charles Haynes charles.hay...@gmail.comwrote:


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 11:53 AM, Thaths tha...@gmail.com wrote:

Isn't improving one's life just a collection of individual life hacks?

Some improvements can be achieved by a sequence of locally optimal smaller
improvements, but not all.

Which is to say, you may not be able to hack your way to happiness.


may not is not the same as will not, right? I wonder why some people
are more successful at this than others. I suspect debilitating conditions
like clinical depression makes it difficult for some to achieve happiness.




It's probably complicated. I think, though, that a good serviceable set 
of beliefs and attitudes can really help a person pull herself up by the 
bootstraps. Something like the placebo effect for lifehacking. It works 
at least in part because you believe you can do it. If it doesn't work, 
the right attitude can help you keep trying different things until you 
hit on something that does work instead of giving up when you hit the 
first snag.


--
Heather Madrone  (heat...@madrone.com)
http://www.sunsplinter.blogspot.com

Live sweetly in bitter times.




Re: [silk] Chennai meet up

2013-08-30 Thread Suresh Ramasubramanian
On 31-Aug-2013, at 0:40, Srini RamaKrishnan che...@gmail.com wrote:

 Suresh do you have a preference? Chandroo, will you be able to make it?

Amethyst is actually fine but as I said I need to leave early

I have evening calls that I need to attend and some have a nasty way of coming 
in unscheduled

Cross I have to bear when I work mostly with teams on the east coast I guess :)