Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Don Cooper
I just want to go on record (yours) as to say the literal stance of
bully-pulpit of B. Steele pretty much exposes his mean and negative spirit.
(A few months after a serious heart attack and triple bypass - he was
taunting me for not 'being a more serious caver' - wow - what an A-HOLE!)
I don't care so much about Locklear - but I care a lot less for his haters!
-Don C


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>  Please take it to private email.
>
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
> it out in private.
>
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
> me directly please.
>
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>>
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Don Cooper
I just want to go on record (yours) as to say the literal stance of
bully-pulpit of B. Steele pretty much exposes his mean and negative spirit.
(A few months after a serious heart attack and triple bypass - he was
taunting me for not 'being a more serious caver' - wow - what an A-HOLE!)
I don't care so much about Locklear - but I care a lot less for his haters!
-Don C


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>  Please take it to private email.
>
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
> it out in private.
>
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
> me directly please.
>
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>>
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
Heh, the problem is, the rules are very light, no flaming is really the
only one, but oh well, it works


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 9:40 PM, Bill Bentley  wrote:

> **
> well said...
>
> Did I ever tell you how glad I am that you took over the list?
> LOL
>
> All my other mailing list put together are not as much ... well
> interesting as the texacavers one...
>
> You might always remind them atht government officials, educators,
> parents, politicians and other who are not cavers are subscribers to the
> mailing list...
>
> a posting of the rules is good every now and then...
>
> Bill
>
> - Original Message -
> *From:* Charles Goldsmith 
> *To:* Sheryl Rieck 
> *Cc:* TexasCavers 
> *Sent:* Tuesday, August 20, 2013 7:42 PM
> *Subject:* Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails
>
> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>  Please take it to private email.
>
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
> it out in private.
>
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
> me directly please.
>
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>>   I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>>
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
Heh, the problem is, the rules are very light, no flaming is really the
only one, but oh well, it works


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 9:40 PM, Bill Bentley  wrote:

> **
> well said...
>
> Did I ever tell you how glad I am that you took over the list?
> LOL
>
> All my other mailing list put together are not as much ... well
> interesting as the texacavers one...
>
> You might always remind them atht government officials, educators,
> parents, politicians and other who are not cavers are subscribers to the
> mailing list...
>
> a posting of the rules is good every now and then...
>
> Bill
>
> - Original Message -
> *From:* Charles Goldsmith 
> *To:* Sheryl Rieck 
> *Cc:* TexasCavers 
> *Sent:* Tuesday, August 20, 2013 7:42 PM
> *Subject:* Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails
>
> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>  Please take it to private email.
>
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
> it out in private.
>
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
> me directly please.
>
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>>   I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>>
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Bill Bentley
well said... 

Did I ever tell you how glad I am that you took over the list?
LOL

All my other mailing list put together are not as much ... well interesting as 
the texacavers one...

You might always remind them atht government officials, educators, parents, 
politicians and other who are not cavers are subscribers to the mailing list...

a posting of the rules is good every now and then...

Bill
  - Original Message - 
  From: Charles Goldsmith 
  To: Sheryl Rieck 
  Cc: TexasCavers 
  Sent: Tuesday, August 20, 2013 7:42 PM
  Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails


  aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I have 
to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous one on 
this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.  Please take it 
to private email.


  If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit the 
almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk it out 
in private.


  If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to me 
directly please.


  Charles
  Texascavers.com listserver administrator



  On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck  wrote:

I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear 
about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while 
he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean 
spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to see 
her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say anything 
mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I realize at 
some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there was 
reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we had a 
falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or does she 
still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite specifically 
that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at full capacity and she 
gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this continued bashing of 
David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this 
kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage 
her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all 
this (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than 
Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot believe 
that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails say it did 
and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her recovery and not 
being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, 
her mom will take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind his back 
is sickening.


I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in one 
of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never realized that 
he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing in this situation. 
 It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is not to be trusted, and 
is not the kind of person I want to call a friend. 


I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.


Sheryl




Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Bill Bentley
well said... 

Did I ever tell you how glad I am that you took over the list?
LOL

All my other mailing list put together are not as much ... well interesting as 
the texacavers one...

You might always remind them atht government officials, educators, parents, 
politicians and other who are not cavers are subscribers to the mailing list...

a posting of the rules is good every now and then...

Bill
  - Original Message - 
  From: Charles Goldsmith 
  To: Sheryl Rieck 
  Cc: TexasCavers 
  Sent: Tuesday, August 20, 2013 7:42 PM
  Subject: Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails


  aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I have 
to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous one on 
this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.  Please take it 
to private email.


  If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit the 
almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk it out 
in private.


  If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to me 
directly please.


  Charles
  Texascavers.com listserver administrator



  On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck  wrote:

I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear 
about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while 
he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean 
spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to see 
her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say anything 
mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I realize at 
some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there was 
reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we had a 
falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or does she 
still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite specifically 
that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at full capacity and she 
gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this continued bashing of 
David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this 
kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage 
her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all 
this (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than 
Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot believe 
that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails say it did 
and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her recovery and not 
being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, 
her mom will take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind his back 
is sickening.


I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in one 
of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never realized that 
he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing in this situation. 
 It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is not to be trusted, and 
is not the kind of person I want to call a friend. 


I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.


Sheryl




Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread jerryatkin
I also agree with the sentiments below. This is not a time for mean-spirited 
behavior on behalf of Mallory - rather a time to regroup and be thankful that 
she is progressing well. 

Jerry.

Sent from my iPhone

On Aug 20, 2013, at 1:19 PM, Geary Schindel  
wrote:

> Sheryl,
> 
>  
> 
> I have to agree, I very much enjoy the posts that David makes and I have also 
> found him to be one of the most caring and considerate individuals I know.
> 
>  
> 
> He is without ego and is always trying to do the right thing and will help 
> anyone who asks.
> 
>  
> 
> If you don’t like what someone posts, use the delete key or send them a 
> private message and ask them to modify their behavior and Sheryl, thanks for 
> taking a stand on cyber bullying. 
> 
>  
> 
> Geary
> 
>  
> 
> From: Sheryl Rieck [mailto:sheryl.ri...@gmail.com] 
> Sent: Tuesday, August 20, 2013 12:34 PM
> To: TexasCavers
> Subject: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails
> 
>  
> 
> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear about 
> his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while he 
> may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean 
> spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to 
> see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say 
> anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I 
> realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there 
> was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we 
> had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or 
> does she still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite 
> specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at full 
> capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this 
> continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must 
> have to wallow in this kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly 
> that Vickie can manage her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and 
> effectively without all this (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's 
> business other than Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to 
> intervene.  I cannot believe that the subject was even discussed with 
> Mallory, which the emails say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She 
> should be focusing on her recovery and not being incited to anger by such 
> hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it 
> and this whispering and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
> 
> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in 
> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never 
> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing in 
> this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is not 
> to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
> 
> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
> 
> Sheryl


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread jerryatkin
I also agree with the sentiments below. This is not a time for mean-spirited 
behavior on behalf of Mallory - rather a time to regroup and be thankful that 
she is progressing well. 

Jerry.

Sent from my iPhone

On Aug 20, 2013, at 1:19 PM, Geary Schindel  
wrote:

> Sheryl,
> 
>  
> 
> I have to agree, I very much enjoy the posts that David makes and I have also 
> found him to be one of the most caring and considerate individuals I know.
> 
>  
> 
> He is without ego and is always trying to do the right thing and will help 
> anyone who asks.
> 
>  
> 
> If you don’t like what someone posts, use the delete key or send them a 
> private message and ask them to modify their behavior and Sheryl, thanks for 
> taking a stand on cyber bullying. 
> 
>  
> 
> Geary
> 
>  
> 
> From: Sheryl Rieck [mailto:sheryl.ri...@gmail.com] 
> Sent: Tuesday, August 20, 2013 12:34 PM
> To: TexasCavers
> Subject: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails
> 
>  
> 
> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear about 
> his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while he 
> may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean 
> spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to 
> see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say 
> anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I 
> realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there 
> was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we 
> had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or 
> does she still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite 
> specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at full 
> capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this 
> continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must 
> have to wallow in this kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly 
> that Vickie can manage her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and 
> effectively without all this (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's 
> business other than Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to 
> intervene.  I cannot believe that the subject was even discussed with 
> Mallory, which the emails say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She 
> should be focusing on her recovery and not being incited to anger by such 
> hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it 
> and this whispering and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
> 
> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in 
> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never 
> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing in 
> this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is not 
> to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
> 
> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
> 
> Sheryl


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Joe Ranzau
Understood. Damn work getting in the way of caving...

Joe

On Aug 20, 2013, at 6:10 PM, Charles Goldsmith  wrote:

> Her post is probably borderline, the defining bit for me is that it is 
> intended as rude (rightly so), but it's just a small flame waiting to be 
> fanned, and if I hadn't posted what I did, it would probably grow to a forest 
> fire.
> 
> I haven't had time for caving either, between a full time job and trying to 
> keep up on my hobbies and volunteer projects
> 
> 
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:59 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:
>> See, I don't think she flamed anyone as no names were named or enough detail 
>> given to id the perps...
>> 
>> I sort of agree with Sheryl but find David to be a total pain in the ass ;-)
>> 
>> I'm alright.  Took a consulting gig with 100% travel.  Been a lot of work.  
>> This project is only through the end of the year, I'm going to want the rest 
>> when it is over.
>> 
>> How about you?  Not much time for me to go caving...
>> 
>> Joe
>> 
>> 
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:56 PM, Charles Goldsmith  
>> wrote:
>>> OH, I agree with what you just said Joe, however, it's off topic, per the 
>>> rules set for this listserve.
>>> 
>>> Please see rule #1 http://texascavers.com/rules.html
>>> 
>>> Now, while I agree with Sheryl on a personal matter, I have to keep the 
>>> peace, which I will do.
>>> 
>>> Btw, long time no talk, how are you doing?
>>> 
>>> 
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:51 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:
 I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)
 
 Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at self 
 policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We have 
 a small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call them 
 on their bullshit.
 
 This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is part 
 of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.
 
 Thoughts?
 
 Joe
 
 
 On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith  
 wrote:
> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I 
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the 
> previous one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the 
> list.  Please take it to private email.
> 
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit 
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and 
> talk it out in private.
> 
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to 
> me directly please.
> 
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
> 
> 
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck  
> wrote:
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear 
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and 
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he 
>> is not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I 
>> haven't been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never 
>> known him to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to 
>> like to go after him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a 
>> falling out, but I know that there was reconciliation there in the same 
>> way I reconciled with Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if 
>> Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or does she still think we are 
>> mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's 
>> cognitive abilities are not functioning at full capacity and she gets a 
>> lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this continued bashing of 
>> David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow 
>> in this kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that 
>> Vickie can manage her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and 
>> effectively without all this (just judging by her posts).  It is not 
>> anyone's business other than Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked 
>> someone to intervene.  I cannot believe that the subject was even 
>> discussed with Mallory, which the emails say it did and she was pissed 
>> at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her recovery and not being 
>> incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, 
>> her mom will take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind 
>> his back is sickening.
>> 
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no 
>> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very 
>> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a 
>> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the 
>> way he has been doing in this situatio

Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Joe Ranzau
Understood. Damn work getting in the way of caving...

Joe

On Aug 20, 2013, at 6:10 PM, Charles Goldsmith  wrote:

> Her post is probably borderline, the defining bit for me is that it is 
> intended as rude (rightly so), but it's just a small flame waiting to be 
> fanned, and if I hadn't posted what I did, it would probably grow to a forest 
> fire.
> 
> I haven't had time for caving either, between a full time job and trying to 
> keep up on my hobbies and volunteer projects
> 
> 
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:59 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:
>> See, I don't think she flamed anyone as no names were named or enough detail 
>> given to id the perps...
>> 
>> I sort of agree with Sheryl but find David to be a total pain in the ass ;-)
>> 
>> I'm alright.  Took a consulting gig with 100% travel.  Been a lot of work.  
>> This project is only through the end of the year, I'm going to want the rest 
>> when it is over.
>> 
>> How about you?  Not much time for me to go caving...
>> 
>> Joe
>> 
>> 
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:56 PM, Charles Goldsmith  
>> wrote:
>>> OH, I agree with what you just said Joe, however, it's off topic, per the 
>>> rules set for this listserve.
>>> 
>>> Please see rule #1 http://texascavers.com/rules.html
>>> 
>>> Now, while I agree with Sheryl on a personal matter, I have to keep the 
>>> peace, which I will do.
>>> 
>>> Btw, long time no talk, how are you doing?
>>> 
>>> 
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:51 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:
 I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)
 
 Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at self 
 policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We have 
 a small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call them 
 on their bullshit.
 
 This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is part 
 of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.
 
 Thoughts?
 
 Joe
 
 
 On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith  
 wrote:
> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I 
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the 
> previous one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the 
> list.  Please take it to private email.
> 
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit 
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and 
> talk it out in private.
> 
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to 
> me directly please.
> 
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
> 
> 
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck  
> wrote:
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear 
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and 
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he 
>> is not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I 
>> haven't been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never 
>> known him to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to 
>> like to go after him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a 
>> falling out, but I know that there was reconciliation there in the same 
>> way I reconciled with Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if 
>> Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or does she still think we are 
>> mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's 
>> cognitive abilities are not functioning at full capacity and she gets a 
>> lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this continued bashing of 
>> David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow 
>> in this kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that 
>> Vickie can manage her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and 
>> effectively without all this (just judging by her posts).  It is not 
>> anyone's business other than Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked 
>> someone to intervene.  I cannot believe that the subject was even 
>> discussed with Mallory, which the emails say it did and she was pissed 
>> at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her recovery and not being 
>> incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, 
>> her mom will take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind 
>> his back is sickening.
>> 
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no 
>> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very 
>> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a 
>> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the 
>> way he has been doing in this situatio

Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Mimi Jasek
Thank you:) 

Mimi Jasek

Sent from my iPhone

On Aug 20, 2013, at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith  wrote:

> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I have 
> to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous one on 
> this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.  Please take 
> it to private email.
> 
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit the 
> almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk it 
> out in private.
> 
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to me 
> directly please.
> 
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
> 
> 
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck  wrote:
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear about 
>> his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while he 
>> may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean 
>> spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to 
>> see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say 
>> anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I 
>> realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that 
>> there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory 
>> when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made 
>> up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said 
>> quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at 
>> full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this 
>> continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must 
>> have to wallow in this kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly 
>> that Vickie can manage her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and 
>> effectively without all this (just judging by her posts).  It is not 
>> anyone's business other than Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone 
>> to intervene.  I cannot believe that the subject was even discussed with 
>> Mallory, which the emails say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She 
>> should be focusing on her recovery and not being incited to anger by such 
>> hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it 
>> and this whispering and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>> 
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in 
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never 
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing 
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is 
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend. 
>> 
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>> 
>> Sheryl
> 


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Mimi Jasek
Thank you:) 

Mimi Jasek

Sent from my iPhone

On Aug 20, 2013, at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith  wrote:

> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I have 
> to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous one on 
> this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.  Please take 
> it to private email.
> 
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit the 
> almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk it 
> out in private.
> 
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to me 
> directly please.
> 
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
> 
> 
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck  wrote:
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear about 
>> his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while he 
>> may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean 
>> spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to 
>> see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say 
>> anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I 
>> realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that 
>> there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory 
>> when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made 
>> up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said 
>> quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at 
>> full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this 
>> continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must 
>> have to wallow in this kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly 
>> that Vickie can manage her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and 
>> effectively without all this (just judging by her posts).  It is not 
>> anyone's business other than Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone 
>> to intervene.  I cannot believe that the subject was even discussed with 
>> Mallory, which the emails say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She 
>> should be focusing on her recovery and not being incited to anger by such 
>> hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it 
>> and this whispering and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>> 
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in 
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never 
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing 
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is 
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend. 
>> 
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>> 
>> Sheryl
> 


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
surprising very little these days, but I'd like to keep it that way.
 Thanks for understanding


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 8:06 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:

> I cannot even imagine the mail you get.  I don't envy you.  And, again, I
> apologize for my knee jerk reaction.  I'll behave myself.  :-)
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:58 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
> wrote:
>
>> Thank you.  On a personal level, I do agree with you, and while those on
>> the hunt are friends of mine, I do disagree with them and told them to keep
>> it off of the listserve.  I've had a few emails about it myself.
>>
>> Thanks for helping keep the peace, sometimes it's hard to with this many
>> diverse personalities.
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:54 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>>
>>> Will do. My apologies.  I have also apologized to Mallory and promised I
>>> will not comment on this again for any reason.
>>>
>>> Sheryl
>>>
>>>
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith >> > wrote:
>>>
 aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
 have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
 one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
  Please take it to private email.

 If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.
  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and
 talk it out in private.

 If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply
 to me directly please.

 Charles
 Texascavers.com listserver administrator


 On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck 
 wrote:

> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I 
> haven't
> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go 
> after
> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this 
> whispering
> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>
> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
> he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
> realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
> want to call a friend.
>
> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her
> recovery, rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate
> mongering.
>
> Sheryl
>


>>>
>>>
>>> --
>>> Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
>>> True SEM Antics, Inc.
>>> 361-205-1458
>>>
>>
>>
>
>
> --
> Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
> True SEM Antics, Inc.
> 361-205-1458
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
surprising very little these days, but I'd like to keep it that way.
 Thanks for understanding


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 8:06 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:

> I cannot even imagine the mail you get.  I don't envy you.  And, again, I
> apologize for my knee jerk reaction.  I'll behave myself.  :-)
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:58 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
> wrote:
>
>> Thank you.  On a personal level, I do agree with you, and while those on
>> the hunt are friends of mine, I do disagree with them and told them to keep
>> it off of the listserve.  I've had a few emails about it myself.
>>
>> Thanks for helping keep the peace, sometimes it's hard to with this many
>> diverse personalities.
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:54 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>>
>>> Will do. My apologies.  I have also apologized to Mallory and promised I
>>> will not comment on this again for any reason.
>>>
>>> Sheryl
>>>
>>>
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith >> > wrote:
>>>
 aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
 have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
 one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
  Please take it to private email.

 If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.
  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and
 talk it out in private.

 If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply
 to me directly please.

 Charles
 Texascavers.com listserver administrator


 On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck 
 wrote:

> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I 
> haven't
> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go 
> after
> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this 
> whispering
> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>
> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
> he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
> realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
> want to call a friend.
>
> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her
> recovery, rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate
> mongering.
>
> Sheryl
>


>>>
>>>
>>> --
>>> Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
>>> True SEM Antics, Inc.
>>> 361-205-1458
>>>
>>
>>
>
>
> --
> Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
> True SEM Antics, Inc.
> 361-205-1458
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
Her post is probably borderline, the defining bit for me is that it is
intended as rude (rightly so), but it's just a small flame waiting to be
fanned, and if I hadn't posted what I did, it would probably grow to a
forest fire.

I haven't had time for caving either, between a full time job and trying to
keep up on my hobbies and volunteer projects


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:59 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:

> See, I don't think she flamed anyone as no names were named or enough
> detail given to id the perps...
>
> I sort of agree with Sheryl but find David to be a total pain in the ass
> ;-)
>
> I'm alright.  Took a consulting gig with 100% travel.  Been a lot of
> work.  This project is only through the end of the year, I'm going to want
> the rest when it is over.
>
> How about you?  Not much time for me to go caving...
>
> Joe
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:56 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
> wrote:
>
>> OH, I agree with what you just said Joe, however, it's off topic, per the
>> rules set for this listserve.
>>
>> Please see rule #1 http://texascavers.com/rules.html
>>
>> Now, while I agree with Sheryl on a personal matter, I have to keep the
>> peace, which I will do.
>>
>> Btw, long time no talk, how are you doing?
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:51 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:
>>
>>> I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)
>>>
>>> Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at
>>> self policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We
>>> have a small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call
>>> them on their bullshit.
>>>
>>> This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is
>>> part of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.
>>>
>>> Thoughts?
>>>
>>> Joe
>>>
>>>
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith >> > wrote:
>>>
 aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
 have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
 one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
  Please take it to private email.

 If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.
  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and
 talk it out in private.

 If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply
 to me directly please.

 Charles
 Texascavers.com listserver administrator


 On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck 
 wrote:

> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I 
> haven't
> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go 
> after
> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this 
> whispering
> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>
> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
> he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
> realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
> want to call a friend.
>
> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her
> recovery, rejoicing in how well she is doin

Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
Her post is probably borderline, the defining bit for me is that it is
intended as rude (rightly so), but it's just a small flame waiting to be
fanned, and if I hadn't posted what I did, it would probably grow to a
forest fire.

I haven't had time for caving either, between a full time job and trying to
keep up on my hobbies and volunteer projects


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:59 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:

> See, I don't think she flamed anyone as no names were named or enough
> detail given to id the perps...
>
> I sort of agree with Sheryl but find David to be a total pain in the ass
> ;-)
>
> I'm alright.  Took a consulting gig with 100% travel.  Been a lot of
> work.  This project is only through the end of the year, I'm going to want
> the rest when it is over.
>
> How about you?  Not much time for me to go caving...
>
> Joe
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:56 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
> wrote:
>
>> OH, I agree with what you just said Joe, however, it's off topic, per the
>> rules set for this listserve.
>>
>> Please see rule #1 http://texascavers.com/rules.html
>>
>> Now, while I agree with Sheryl on a personal matter, I have to keep the
>> peace, which I will do.
>>
>> Btw, long time no talk, how are you doing?
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:51 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:
>>
>>> I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)
>>>
>>> Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at
>>> self policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We
>>> have a small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call
>>> them on their bullshit.
>>>
>>> This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is
>>> part of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.
>>>
>>> Thoughts?
>>>
>>> Joe
>>>
>>>
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith >> > wrote:
>>>
 aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
 have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
 one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
  Please take it to private email.

 If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.
  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and
 talk it out in private.

 If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply
 to me directly please.

 Charles
 Texascavers.com listserver administrator


 On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck 
 wrote:

> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I 
> haven't
> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go 
> after
> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this 
> whispering
> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>
> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
> he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
> realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
> want to call a friend.
>
> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her
> recovery, rejoicing in how well she is doin

Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Sheryl Rieck
I cannot even imagine the mail you get.  I don't envy you.  And, again, I
apologize for my knee jerk reaction.  I'll behave myself.  :-)


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:58 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> Thank you.  On a personal level, I do agree with you, and while those on
> the hunt are friends of mine, I do disagree with them and told them to keep
> it off of the listserve.  I've had a few emails about it myself.
>
> Thanks for helping keep the peace, sometimes it's hard to with this many
> diverse personalities.
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:54 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>> Will do. My apologies.  I have also apologized to Mallory and promised I
>> will not comment on this again for any reason.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
>> wrote:
>>
>>> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
>>> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
>>> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>>>  Please take it to private email.
>>>
>>> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.
>>>  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and
>>> talk it out in private.
>>>
>>> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
>>> me directly please.
>>>
>>> Charles
>>> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>>>
>>>
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck 
>>> wrote:
>>>
 I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
 about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
 while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
 not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
 been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
 to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
 him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
 that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
 Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
 that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
 believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
 not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
 don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
 pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
 behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
 Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
 (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
 Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
 believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
 say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
 recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
 doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
 and sniggering behind his back is sickening.

 I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
 other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
 disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
 friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
 he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
 realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
 want to call a friend.

 I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
 rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

 Sheryl

>>>
>>>
>>
>>
>> --
>> Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
>> True SEM Antics, Inc.
>> 361-205-1458
>>
>
>


-- 
Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
True SEM Antics, Inc.
361-205-1458


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Sheryl Rieck
I cannot even imagine the mail you get.  I don't envy you.  And, again, I
apologize for my knee jerk reaction.  I'll behave myself.  :-)


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:58 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> Thank you.  On a personal level, I do agree with you, and while those on
> the hunt are friends of mine, I do disagree with them and told them to keep
> it off of the listserve.  I've had a few emails about it myself.
>
> Thanks for helping keep the peace, sometimes it's hard to with this many
> diverse personalities.
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:54 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>> Will do. My apologies.  I have also apologized to Mallory and promised I
>> will not comment on this again for any reason.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
>> wrote:
>>
>>> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
>>> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
>>> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>>>  Please take it to private email.
>>>
>>> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.
>>>  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and
>>> talk it out in private.
>>>
>>> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
>>> me directly please.
>>>
>>> Charles
>>> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>>>
>>>
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck 
>>> wrote:
>>>
 I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
 about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
 while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
 not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
 been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
 to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
 him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
 that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
 Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
 that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
 believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
 not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
 don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
 pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
 behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
 Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
 (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
 Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
 believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
 say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
 recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
 doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
 and sniggering behind his back is sickening.

 I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
 other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
 disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
 friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
 he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
 realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
 want to call a friend.

 I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
 rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

 Sheryl

>>>
>>>
>>
>>
>> --
>> Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
>> True SEM Antics, Inc.
>> 361-205-1458
>>
>
>


-- 
Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
True SEM Antics, Inc.
361-205-1458


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Joe Ranzau
See, I don't think she flamed anyone as no names were named or enough
detail given to id the perps...

I sort of agree with Sheryl but find David to be a total pain in the ass ;-)

I'm alright.  Took a consulting gig with 100% travel.  Been a lot of work.
This project is only through the end of the year, I'm going to want the
rest when it is over.

How about you?  Not much time for me to go caving...

Joe


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:56 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> OH, I agree with what you just said Joe, however, it's off topic, per the
> rules set for this listserve.
>
> Please see rule #1 http://texascavers.com/rules.html
>
> Now, while I agree with Sheryl on a personal matter, I have to keep the
> peace, which I will do.
>
> Btw, long time no talk, how are you doing?
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:51 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:
>
>> I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)
>>
>> Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at self
>> policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We have a
>> small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call them on
>> their bullshit.
>>
>> This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is
>> part of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.
>>
>> Thoughts?
>>
>> Joe
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
>> wrote:
>>
>>> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
>>> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
>>> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>>>  Please take it to private email.
>>>
>>> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.
>>>  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and
>>> talk it out in private.
>>>
>>> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
>>> me directly please.
>>>
>>> Charles
>>> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>>>
>>>
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck 
>>> wrote:
>>>
 I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
 about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
 while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
 not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
 been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
 to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
 him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
 that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
 Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
 that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
 believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
 not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
 don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
 pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
 behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
 Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
 (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
 Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
 believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
 say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
 recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
 doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
 and sniggering behind his back is sickening.

 I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
 other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
 disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
 friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
 he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
 realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
 want to call a friend.

 I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
 rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

 Sheryl

>>>
>>>
>>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Joe Ranzau
See, I don't think she flamed anyone as no names were named or enough
detail given to id the perps...

I sort of agree with Sheryl but find David to be a total pain in the ass ;-)

I'm alright.  Took a consulting gig with 100% travel.  Been a lot of work.
This project is only through the end of the year, I'm going to want the
rest when it is over.

How about you?  Not much time for me to go caving...

Joe


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:56 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> OH, I agree with what you just said Joe, however, it's off topic, per the
> rules set for this listserve.
>
> Please see rule #1 http://texascavers.com/rules.html
>
> Now, while I agree with Sheryl on a personal matter, I have to keep the
> peace, which I will do.
>
> Btw, long time no talk, how are you doing?
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:51 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:
>
>> I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)
>>
>> Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at self
>> policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We have a
>> small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call them on
>> their bullshit.
>>
>> This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is
>> part of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.
>>
>> Thoughts?
>>
>> Joe
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
>> wrote:
>>
>>> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
>>> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
>>> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>>>  Please take it to private email.
>>>
>>> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.
>>>  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and
>>> talk it out in private.
>>>
>>> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
>>> me directly please.
>>>
>>> Charles
>>> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>>>
>>>
>>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck 
>>> wrote:
>>>
 I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
 about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
 while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
 not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
 been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
 to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
 him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
 that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
 Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
 that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
 believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
 not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
 don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
 pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
 behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
 Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
 (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
 Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
 believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
 say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
 recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
 doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
 and sniggering behind his back is sickening.

 I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
 other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
 disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
 friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
 he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
 realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
 want to call a friend.

 I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
 rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

 Sheryl

>>>
>>>
>>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
Thank you.  On a personal level, I do agree with you, and while those on
the hunt are friends of mine, I do disagree with them and told them to keep
it off of the listserve.  I've had a few emails about it myself.

Thanks for helping keep the peace, sometimes it's hard to with this many
diverse personalities.


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:54 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:

> Will do. My apologies.  I have also apologized to Mallory and promised I
> will not comment on this again for any reason.
>
> Sheryl
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
> wrote:
>
>> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
>> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
>> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>>  Please take it to private email.
>>
>> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
>> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
>> it out in private.
>>
>> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
>> me directly please.
>>
>> Charles
>> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>>
>>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>>
>>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
>>> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
>>> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
>>> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
>>> he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
>>> realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
>>> want to call a friend.
>>>
>>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>>
>>> Sheryl
>>>
>>
>>
>
>
> --
> Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
> True SEM Antics, Inc.
> 361-205-1458
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
Thank you.  On a personal level, I do agree with you, and while those on
the hunt are friends of mine, I do disagree with them and told them to keep
it off of the listserve.  I've had a few emails about it myself.

Thanks for helping keep the peace, sometimes it's hard to with this many
diverse personalities.


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:54 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:

> Will do. My apologies.  I have also apologized to Mallory and promised I
> will not comment on this again for any reason.
>
> Sheryl
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
> wrote:
>
>> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
>> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
>> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>>  Please take it to private email.
>>
>> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
>> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
>> it out in private.
>>
>> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
>> me directly please.
>>
>> Charles
>> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>>
>>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>>
>>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
>>> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
>>> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
>>> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
>>> he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
>>> realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
>>> want to call a friend.
>>>
>>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>>
>>> Sheryl
>>>
>>
>>
>
>
> --
> Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
> True SEM Antics, Inc.
> 361-205-1458
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
OH, I agree with what you just said Joe, however, it's off topic, per the
rules set for this listserve.

Please see rule #1 http://texascavers.com/rules.html

Now, while I agree with Sheryl on a personal matter, I have to keep the
peace, which I will do.

Btw, long time no talk, how are you doing?


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:51 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:

> I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)
>
> Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at self
> policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We have a
> small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call them on
> their bullshit.
>
> This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is part
> of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.
>
> Thoughts?
>
> Joe
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
> wrote:
>
>> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
>> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
>> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>>  Please take it to private email.
>>
>> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
>> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
>> it out in private.
>>
>> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
>> me directly please.
>>
>> Charles
>> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>>
>>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>>
>>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
>>> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
>>> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
>>> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
>>> he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
>>> realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
>>> want to call a friend.
>>>
>>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>>
>>> Sheryl
>>>
>>
>>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
OH, I agree with what you just said Joe, however, it's off topic, per the
rules set for this listserve.

Please see rule #1 http://texascavers.com/rules.html

Now, while I agree with Sheryl on a personal matter, I have to keep the
peace, which I will do.

Btw, long time no talk, how are you doing?


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:51 PM, Joe Ranzau  wrote:

> I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)
>
> Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at self
> policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We have a
> small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call them on
> their bullshit.
>
> This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is part
> of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.
>
> Thoughts?
>
> Joe
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith 
> wrote:
>
>> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
>> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
>> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>>  Please take it to private email.
>>
>> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
>> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
>> it out in private.
>>
>> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
>> me directly please.
>>
>> Charles
>> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>>
>>
>> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>>
>>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>>
>>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no
>>> other apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
>>> disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a
>>> friend.  I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way
>>> he has been doing in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy
>>> realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I
>>> want to call a friend.
>>>
>>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>>
>>> Sheryl
>>>
>>
>>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Sheryl Rieck
Will do. My apologies.  I have also apologized to Mallory and promised I
will not comment on this again for any reason.

Sheryl


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>  Please take it to private email.
>
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
> it out in private.
>
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
> me directly please.
>
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>>
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>
>


-- 
Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
True SEM Antics, Inc.
361-205-1458


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Sheryl Rieck
Will do. My apologies.  I have also apologized to Mallory and promised I
will not comment on this again for any reason.

Sheryl


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>  Please take it to private email.
>
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
> it out in private.
>
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
> me directly please.
>
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>>
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>
>


-- 
Sheryl Rieck, Oracle Financials Consultant
True SEM Antics, Inc.
361-205-1458


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Joe Ranzau
I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)

Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at self
policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We have a
small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call them on
their bullshit.

This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is part
of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.

Thoughts?

Joe


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>  Please take it to private email.
>
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
> it out in private.
>
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
> me directly please.
>
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>>
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Joe Ranzau
I'd like to say that I think you are wrong ;-)

Only though, because I feel cavers as a group do an excellent job at self
policing and pushing in or getting those outliers under control.  We have a
small group on a witch hunt and Sheryl found a tactful way to call them on
their bullshit.

This email list serves as the virtual campfire for the group, this is part
of the normal communal discourse that is unique to our virtual family.

Thoughts?

Joe


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 5:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:

> aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
> have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
> one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
>  Please take it to private email.
>
> If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
> the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
> it out in private.
>
> If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to
> me directly please.
>
> Charles
> Texascavers.com listserver administrator
>
>
> On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:
>
>> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
>> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
>> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
>> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
>> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
>> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
>> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
>> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
>> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
>> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
>> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
>> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
>> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
>> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
>> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
>> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
>> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
>> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
>> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
>> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
>> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
>> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
>> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>>
>> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
>> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
>> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
>> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
>> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
>> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>>
>> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
>> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>>
>> Sheryl
>>
>
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Logan McNatt

Charles, you're a good administrator.  Seldom seen or heard, but when it 
happens you write words of wisdom and common sense.

Thanks,

Logan


On 8/20/2013 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:
aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the 
previous one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.  Please take it to private email.


If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense 
and talk it out in private.


If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to me 
directly please.

Charles
Texascavers.com listserver administrator


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck mailto:sheryl.ri...@gmail.com>> wrote:

I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear 
about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some
time and while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us 
do?), he is not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring
person.  I mean, I haven't been to see her.  He went out of his way to 
visit.  I have never known him to say anything mean about anyone,
but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I realize at some point he 
and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there was
reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we had 
a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we
made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie 
said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are not
functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't 
understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a
sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious 
behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's
and Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this 
(just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business
other than Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I 
cannot believe that the subject was even discussed with
Mallory, which the emails say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She 
should be focusing on her recovery and not being incited to
anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, her mom will 
take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind his
back is sickening.

I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a 
friend. I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the
way he has been doing in this situation. It has brought me to the unhappy 
realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of
person I want to call a friend.

I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

Sheryl






Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Logan McNatt

Charles, you're a good administrator.  Seldom seen or heard, but when it 
happens you write words of wisdom and common sense.

Thanks,

Logan


On 8/20/2013 7:42 PM, Charles Goldsmith wrote:
aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the 
previous one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.  Please take it to private email.


If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense 
and talk it out in private.


If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to me 
directly please.

Charles
Texascavers.com listserver administrator


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck mailto:sheryl.ri...@gmail.com>> wrote:

I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear 
about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some
time and while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us 
do?), he is not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring
person.  I mean, I haven't been to see her.  He went out of his way to 
visit.  I have never known him to say anything mean about anyone,
but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I realize at some point he 
and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there was
reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we had 
a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we
made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie 
said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are not
functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't 
understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a
sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious 
behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's
and Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this 
(just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business
other than Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I 
cannot believe that the subject was even discussed with
Mallory, which the emails say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She 
should be focusing on her recovery and not being incited to
anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, her mom will 
take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind his
back is sickening.

I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very
disappointed in one of the people involved that I considered to be a 
friend. I never realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the
way he has been doing in this situation. It has brought me to the unhappy 
realization that he is not to be trusted, and is not the kind of
person I want to call a friend.

I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

Sheryl






[Texascavers] Mallory

2013-08-20 Thread Jill Orr
Please remember to send your support notes to me for Mallory. 

Mimi had a great idea of using an inspiring quote. 

Thanks all!



[Texascavers] Mallory

2013-08-20 Thread Jill Orr
Please remember to send your support notes to me for Mallory. 

Mimi had a great idea of using an inspiring quote. 

Thanks all!



Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
 Please take it to private email.

If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
it out in private.

If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to me
directly please.

Charles
Texascavers.com listserver administrator


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:

> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>
> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>
> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>
> Sheryl
>


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Charles Goldsmith
aside from my personal opinion on this matter (which doesn't matter), I
have to stay neutral on most matters.  This thread, as well as the previous
one on this subject, are way off topic and do not belong on the list.
 Please take it to private email.

If someone on the list offends you, you have two choices in my eyes.  Hit
the almighty delete button, or email the person making the offense and talk
it out in private.

If you have thoughts or opinions on this, do not reply all, but reply to me
directly please.

Charles
Texascavers.com listserver administrator


On Tue, Aug 20, 2013 at 12:34 PM, Sheryl Rieck wrote:

> I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
> about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
> while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
> not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
> been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
> to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
> him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
> that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
> Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
> that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
> believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
> not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
> don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
> pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
> behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
> Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
> (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
> Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
> believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
> say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
> recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
> doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
> and sniggering behind his back is sickening.
>
> I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
> apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
> one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
> realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
> in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
> not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
>
> I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
> rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
>
> Sheryl
>


[Texascavers] An olive branch ?

2013-08-20 Thread David
It seems like a good time to extend an olive branch, and put the past
behind me and those that have deep negative opinions of me.

I really just want to go in a fun cave and have some good times.   I do
hope to make a Kiwi Dig in November.That is the only caving related
thing on my calendar for 2013.

David Locklear


[Texascavers] An olive branch ?

2013-08-20 Thread David
It seems like a good time to extend an olive branch, and put the past
behind me and those that have deep negative opinions of me.

I really just want to go in a fun cave and have some good times.   I do
hope to make a Kiwi Dig in November.That is the only caving related
thing on my calendar for 2013.

David Locklear


texascavers Digest 20 Aug 2013 18:19:10 -0000 Issue 1827

2013-08-20 Thread texascavers-digest-help

texascavers Digest 20 Aug 2013 18:19:10 - Issue 1827

Topics (messages 22460 through 22480):

train
22460 by: Gill Edigar

Mallory
22461 by: Emily McGowan

Canada Cave News
22462 by: Lyndon Tiu

Register for the NSS Board of Governors meeting: Carlsbad, NM, 9 November 2013
22463 by: George Veni

TCR sausage making...
22464 by: Stefan Creaser

Mallory report, 8/18/13
22465 by: Emily McGowan

Freddie Poer
22466 by: Mixon Bill

UT Grotto Meeting August 21st
22467 by: Andrea Croskrey

Internet related
22468 by: David
22470 by: Stefan Creaser

pbotos from ICS
22469 by: Mixon Bill

Deep and Punkin Trip over Labor Day
22471 by: Geary Schindel

ICS photos
22472 by: Mixon Bill

AMCS pubs to next UTG meeting
22473 by: Mixon Bill

Re: photos from ICS
22474 by: Jill Orr

Mallory update, 8/19/13
22475 by: Emily McGowan

No Place on Earth
22476 by: dirtdoc.comcast.net

San Marcos, TX Google Earth Question (cave?)
22477 by: Joe Ranzau

Inappropriate emails
22478 by: Sheryl Rieck
22479 by: texascav...@yahoo.com
22480 by: Geary Schindel

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--
--- Begin Message ---
10 days or so ago somebody sent me a B&W video (3/4 hour or so) dealing
with steam trains. I got interrupted in the middle of watching it and now
can't find it back. Can you remind me if you sent it so I can find it back?
--Ediger
--- End Message ---
--- Begin Message ---
Hi all,

A few pieces of information regarding Mallory.  Her mother wants to let you
all know how much the family appreciates everyone's good wishes, vibes and
prayers!!   The overwhelming support means so much to Mal's family.  Thank
you.

Some of you have asked where to send cards to Mal.  Right now, please send
correspondence to the following address:

Mallory Mayeux
c/o TIRR
1333 Moursund, Room 330
Houston TX 77030

She will be at that address for another two weeks, at least. Mal's mother is
working on getting the apartment mail situation ironed out, but until she
does, she asked that all mail go to TIRR.

As far as visitors go, Mal can start having them now. Vickie asked that all
visitors schedule their visits through her.  Please contact me for Vickie's
phone number, or send me your phone number, and I'll forward to Vickie. Keep
in mind that visiting times will be quite limited, as Mal cannot have
visitors during therapy, and every day is different, schedule-wise. 

Thanks!

Emily
emm...@gmail.com
281-450-5391






--- End Message ---
--- Begin Message ---
http://www.vancouversun.com/news/Explorers+discover+sprawling+system+uncharted+caves+Glacier+National/8803450/story.html

-- 
Lyndon Tiu
--- End Message ---
--- Begin Message ---
Dear Friends,

The Pecos Valley Grotto and National Cave and Karst Research Institute (NCKRI) 
will be hosting the Fall 2013 Board of Governors meeting of the National 
Speleological Society (NSS) at NCKRI Headquarters, Carlsbad, New Mexico, on 9 
November 2013. The meeting will immediately follow the National Cave and Karst 
Management Symposium (NCKMS), which will follow the Board meeting of the Cave 
Research Foundation. A lot of things are happening in Carlsbad in early 
November!

Advance registration for the NSS meeting is requested. You are welcome to 
register onsite but it will help tremendously in our planning if you 
pre-register so we make sure to have enough, food, drink, and space for you. 
For the registration form and other details, go to the NSS Southwestern 
Region's Activities page: http://www.caves.org/region/swr/activities.html. 
You'll also find links there to the NCKMS and other happenings.

Important!!!
During the past two years, oil and gas production has greatly increased in the 
Carlsbad area. Although two new major hotels have opened during that time and 
more are being built, 95-97% of all hotels rooms in Carlsbad are filling every 
day. The NSS registration form has options for you to stay for free at local 
cavers' homes. Space in beds, on floors, and in yards for camping is limited so 
register ASAP. If you plan to stay in a hotel, make your reservations as soon 
as possible. People who arrive in Carlsbad without reservations often do not 
find rooms or pay very high prices. The registration form has hotel information 
to help you.

Lastly, the registration form has information on caving trips, parties, a 
unique caver scavenger hunt, and other things to do while you're in town. So 
come for NCKMS and stay a little longer for the NSS meeting. If you haven't 
been to one before, this is a great chance to meet with the leaders of the NSS 
and give them your thoughts on what is going great with the NSS and what needs 
improvement. That is the reason

texascavers Digest 20 Aug 2013 18:19:10 -0000 Issue 1827

2013-08-20 Thread texascavers-digest-help

texascavers Digest 20 Aug 2013 18:19:10 - Issue 1827

Topics (messages 22460 through 22480):

train
22460 by: Gill Edigar

Mallory
22461 by: Emily McGowan

Canada Cave News
22462 by: Lyndon Tiu

Register for the NSS Board of Governors meeting: Carlsbad, NM, 9 November 2013
22463 by: George Veni

TCR sausage making...
22464 by: Stefan Creaser

Mallory report, 8/18/13
22465 by: Emily McGowan

Freddie Poer
22466 by: Mixon Bill

UT Grotto Meeting August 21st
22467 by: Andrea Croskrey

Internet related
22468 by: David
22470 by: Stefan Creaser

pbotos from ICS
22469 by: Mixon Bill

Deep and Punkin Trip over Labor Day
22471 by: Geary Schindel

ICS photos
22472 by: Mixon Bill

AMCS pubs to next UTG meeting
22473 by: Mixon Bill

Re: photos from ICS
22474 by: Jill Orr

Mallory update, 8/19/13
22475 by: Emily McGowan

No Place on Earth
22476 by: dirtdoc.comcast.net

San Marcos, TX Google Earth Question (cave?)
22477 by: Joe Ranzau

Inappropriate emails
22478 by: Sheryl Rieck
22479 by: texascav...@yahoo.com
22480 by: Geary Schindel

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--
--- Begin Message ---
10 days or so ago somebody sent me a B&W video (3/4 hour or so) dealing
with steam trains. I got interrupted in the middle of watching it and now
can't find it back. Can you remind me if you sent it so I can find it back?
--Ediger
--- End Message ---
--- Begin Message ---
Hi all,

A few pieces of information regarding Mallory.  Her mother wants to let you
all know how much the family appreciates everyone's good wishes, vibes and
prayers!!   The overwhelming support means so much to Mal's family.  Thank
you.

Some of you have asked where to send cards to Mal.  Right now, please send
correspondence to the following address:

Mallory Mayeux
c/o TIRR
1333 Moursund, Room 330
Houston TX 77030

She will be at that address for another two weeks, at least. Mal's mother is
working on getting the apartment mail situation ironed out, but until she
does, she asked that all mail go to TIRR.

As far as visitors go, Mal can start having them now. Vickie asked that all
visitors schedule their visits through her.  Please contact me for Vickie's
phone number, or send me your phone number, and I'll forward to Vickie. Keep
in mind that visiting times will be quite limited, as Mal cannot have
visitors during therapy, and every day is different, schedule-wise. 

Thanks!

Emily
emm...@gmail.com
281-450-5391






--- End Message ---
--- Begin Message ---
http://www.vancouversun.com/news/Explorers+discover+sprawling+system+uncharted+caves+Glacier+National/8803450/story.html

-- 
Lyndon Tiu
--- End Message ---
--- Begin Message ---
Dear Friends,

The Pecos Valley Grotto and National Cave and Karst Research Institute (NCKRI) 
will be hosting the Fall 2013 Board of Governors meeting of the National 
Speleological Society (NSS) at NCKRI Headquarters, Carlsbad, New Mexico, on 9 
November 2013. The meeting will immediately follow the National Cave and Karst 
Management Symposium (NCKMS), which will follow the Board meeting of the Cave 
Research Foundation. A lot of things are happening in Carlsbad in early 
November!

Advance registration for the NSS meeting is requested. You are welcome to 
register onsite but it will help tremendously in our planning if you 
pre-register so we make sure to have enough, food, drink, and space for you. 
For the registration form and other details, go to the NSS Southwestern 
Region's Activities page: http://www.caves.org/region/swr/activities.html. 
You'll also find links there to the NCKMS and other happenings.

Important!!!
During the past two years, oil and gas production has greatly increased in the 
Carlsbad area. Although two new major hotels have opened during that time and 
more are being built, 95-97% of all hotels rooms in Carlsbad are filling every 
day. The NSS registration form has options for you to stay for free at local 
cavers' homes. Space in beds, on floors, and in yards for camping is limited so 
register ASAP. If you plan to stay in a hotel, make your reservations as soon 
as possible. People who arrive in Carlsbad without reservations often do not 
find rooms or pay very high prices. The registration form has hotel information 
to help you.

Lastly, the registration form has information on caving trips, parties, a 
unique caver scavenger hunt, and other things to do while you're in town. So 
come for NCKMS and stay a little longer for the NSS meeting. If you haven't 
been to one before, this is a great chance to meet with the leaders of the NSS 
and give them your thoughts on what is going great with the NSS and what needs 
improvement. That is the reason

RE: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Geary Schindel
Sheryl,

I have to agree, I very much enjoy the posts that David makes and I have also 
found him to be one of the most caring and considerate individuals I know.

He is without ego and is always trying to do the right thing and will help 
anyone who asks.

If you don't like what someone posts, use the delete key or send them a private 
message and ask them to modify their behavior and Sheryl, thanks for taking a 
stand on cyber bullying.

Geary

From: Sheryl Rieck [mailto:sheryl.ri...@gmail.com]
Sent: Tuesday, August 20, 2013 12:34 PM
To: TexasCavers
Subject: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear about 
his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while he may 
not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean spirited 
and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to see her.  He 
went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say anything mean 
about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I realize at some 
point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there was 
reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we had a 
falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or does she 
still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite specifically 
that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at full capacity and she 
gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this continued bashing of 
David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this 
kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage 
her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all 
this (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than 
Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot believe 
that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails say it did 
and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her recovery and not 
being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, 
her mom will take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind his back 
is sickening.
I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in one 
of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never realized that 
he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing in this situation. 
 It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is not to be trusted, and 
is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
Sheryl


RE: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Geary Schindel
Sheryl,

I have to agree, I very much enjoy the posts that David makes and I have also 
found him to be one of the most caring and considerate individuals I know.

He is without ego and is always trying to do the right thing and will help 
anyone who asks.

If you don't like what someone posts, use the delete key or send them a private 
message and ask them to modify their behavior and Sheryl, thanks for taking a 
stand on cyber bullying.

Geary

From: Sheryl Rieck [mailto:sheryl.ri...@gmail.com]
Sent: Tuesday, August 20, 2013 12:34 PM
To: TexasCavers
Subject: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear about 
his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while he may 
not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean spirited 
and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to see her.  He 
went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say anything mean 
about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I realize at some 
point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there was 
reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we had a 
falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or does she 
still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite specifically 
that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at full capacity and she 
gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this continued bashing of 
David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this 
kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage 
her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all 
this (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than 
Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot believe 
that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails say it did 
and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her recovery and not 
being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, 
her mom will take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind his back 
is sickening.
I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in one 
of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never realized that 
he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing in this situation. 
 It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is not to be trusted, and 
is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.
I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.
Sheryl


Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread texascav...@yahoo.com
Well put, Sheryl.

Mark Alman



Mark, by sheer dumb luck, somehow managed to send this from his Virgin Mobile 
Android-Powered Device

- Reply message -
From: "Sheryl Rieck" 
To: "TexasCavers" 
Subject: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails
Date: Tue, Aug 20, 2013 12:34 PM
I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear about 
his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while he may 
not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean spirited 
and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to see her.  He 
went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say anything mean 
about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I realize at some 
point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there was 
reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we had a 
falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or does she 
still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite specifically 
that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at full capacity and she 
gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this continued bashing of 
David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this 
kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage 
her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all 
this (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than 
Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot believe 
that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails say it did 
and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her recovery and not 
being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, 
her mom will take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind his back 
is sickening.


I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in one 
of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never realized that 
he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing in this situation. 
 It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is not to be trusted, and 
is not the kind of person I want to call a friend. 


I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

Sheryl

Re: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread texascav...@yahoo.com
Well put, Sheryl.

Mark Alman



Mark, by sheer dumb luck, somehow managed to send this from his Virgin Mobile 
Android-Powered Device

- Reply message -
From: "Sheryl Rieck" 
To: "TexasCavers" 
Subject: [Texascavers] Inappropriate emails
Date: Tue, Aug 20, 2013 12:34 PM
I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear about 
his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and while he may 
not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is not mean spirited 
and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't been to see her.  He 
went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him to say anything mean 
about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after him.  I realize at some 
point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know that there was 
reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with Mallory when we had a 
falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that, that we made up, or does she 
still think we are mad at each other? I believe Vickie said quite specifically 
that Mal's cognitive abilities are not functioning at full capacity and she 
gets a lot of things mixed up. I don't understand this continued bashing of 
David.  I wonder what a sad, pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this 
kind of vicious behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage 
her's and Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all 
this (just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than 
Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot believe 
that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails say it did 
and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her recovery and not 
being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she doesn't want him to visit, 
her mom will take care of it and this whispering and sniggering behind his back 
is sickening.


I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other 
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in one 
of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never realized that 
he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing in this situation. 
 It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is not to be trusted, and 
is not the kind of person I want to call a friend. 


I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery, 
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

Sheryl

[Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Sheryl Rieck
I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
(just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
and sniggering behind his back is sickening.

I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.

I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

Sheryl


[Texascavers] Inappropriate emails

2013-08-20 Thread Sheryl Rieck
I am still receiving inappropriate emails from people bashing Locklear
about his visits to Mallory.  I have known David for quite some time and
while he may not always say or do the proper thing (who of us do?), he is
not mean spirited and actually is a kind, caring person.  I mean, I haven't
been to see her.  He went out of his way to visit.  I have never known him
to say anything mean about anyone, but people sure seem to like to go after
him.  I realize at some point he and Mallory had a falling out, but I know
that there was reconciliation there in the same way I reconciled with
Mallory when we had a falling out.  I wonder if Mallory remembers that,
that we made up, or does she still think we are mad at each other? I
believe Vickie said quite specifically that Mal's cognitive abilities are
not functioning at full capacity and she gets a lot of things mixed up. I
don't understand this continued bashing of David.  I wonder what a sad,
pathetic life someone must have to wallow in this kind of vicious
behavior.  And, I feel quite strongly that Vickie can manage her's and
Mallory's business quite appropriately and effectively without all this
(just judging by her posts).  It is not anyone's business other than
Vickie's unless SHE specifically asked someone to intervene.  I cannot
believe that the subject was even discussed with Mallory, which the emails
say it did and she was pissed at Locklear.  She should be focusing on her
recovery and not being incited to anger by such hatefulness.  If she
doesn't want him to visit, her mom will take care of it and this whispering
and sniggering behind his back is sickening.

I find these emails I am receiving to be hateful and hurtful for no other
apparent reason than someone wants to be an ass.  I am very disappointed in
one of the people involved that I considered to be a friend.  I never
realized that he gossiped and stirred up trouble the way he has been doing
in this situation.  It has brought me to the unhappy realization that he is
not to be trusted, and is not the kind of person I want to call a friend.

I hope this will now stop and we can focus on Mallory and her recovery,
rejoicing in how well she is doing and not all this hate mongering.

Sheryl


Re: [SWR] No Place on Earth

2013-08-20 Thread Kathy Peerman
We saw it at convention,  what a great story,  I will be getting a copy of this 
movie


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Re: [SWR] No Place on Earth

2013-08-20 Thread Kathy Peerman
We saw it at convention,  what a great story,  I will be getting a copy of this 
movie


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[Texascavers] San Marcos, TX Google Earth Question (cave?)

2013-08-20 Thread Joe Ranzau
A couple of weeks ago I was on a flight from Chicago to San Antonio and
noticed we were flying just to the east of 35.  As we went over San Marcos,
I noticed a large dam that I had never seen before.  Being curious about
it, I made a mental note to check it out on google earth.

So today, several weeks later, I checked, and noticed just to the north, a
round black spot that appears to be a nice circular pond or sinkhole.  I'm
sure many of our Hays county friends know this area well, so I'm curious,
what flood control does the dam provide for and what is the circle? A cave?

Coords from G Earth

 29°55'14.48"N
 97°58'16.99"W

Curious in Portland,

Joe


[Texascavers] San Marcos, TX Google Earth Question (cave?)

2013-08-20 Thread Joe Ranzau
A couple of weeks ago I was on a flight from Chicago to San Antonio and
noticed we were flying just to the east of 35.  As we went over San Marcos,
I noticed a large dam that I had never seen before.  Being curious about
it, I made a mental note to check it out on google earth.

So today, several weeks later, I checked, and noticed just to the north, a
round black spot that appears to be a nice circular pond or sinkhole.  I'm
sure many of our Hays county friends know this area well, so I'm curious,
what flood control does the dam provide for and what is the circle? A cave?

Coords from G Earth

 29°55'14.48"N
 97°58'16.99"W

Curious in Portland,

Joe


[Texascavers] No Place on Earth

2013-08-20 Thread dirtdoc
FYI - it is now available from Netflix. My copy just came. 
DirtDoc 


[Texascavers] No Place on Earth

2013-08-20 Thread dirtdoc
FYI - it is now available from Netflix. My copy just came. 
DirtDoc 


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[Texascavers] Mallory update, 8/19/13

2013-08-20 Thread Emily McGowan
No update from last night.  Both of Mal's parents are very tired.  Y'all
keeping sending good vibes to Mal and her family!  They appreciate them!




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[Texascavers] Mallory update, 8/19/13

2013-08-20 Thread Emily McGowan
No update from last night.  Both of Mal's parents are very tired.  Y'all
keeping sending good vibes to Mal and her family!  They appreciate them!




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