Dalam hal ini saya tidak sependapat dengan justifikasi atas pembatasan terhadap hubungan nikah yang berbeda agama. Karena bukan larangan nikah antara pria non-muslim dengan perempuan muslim yang harus dijustifikasi, tetapi nilai sosial dan sistim hukum perlu diluruskan dari pemahaman patriarkis yang berbias gender dan itu tercerminkan dalam pernyataan yang langsung memukul rata seperti So, why expose a Muslim woman to such a situation..
Mungkin juga orang itu tidak merasa enak untuk menjawab pertanyaan itu. Harus ngomong apa atuh :-) Menurut saya, kita mesti berhenti mencap dan mendidik perempuan sebagai makhluk yang lebih lemah dibanding laki-2. Memang itu bukan proses yang selesai dalam satu hari. Salam, ayeye ************************************************************* -deleted How could the same freedom be guaranteed in a reverse case where a Muslim woman marries a non-Muslim husband? People may profess to accept that men and women are equal, but in practice, a woman is often the weaker party in a family situation. So, why expose a Muslim woman to such a situation by allowing marriage with a man who does not believe in the truth of the message given to the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)? As for your point about a particular couple who make all sorts of agreements concerning their life together and their children, you have to remember that laws are enacted for general application, not for individual cases. Thus, if in the majority of cases, religious freedom cannot be guaranteed, we cannot say that an individual case may be excepted because we have guarantees or agreement between the two parties. -deleted -- _______________________________________________ NEW! Lycos Dating Search. The only place to search multiple dating sites at once. http://datingsearch.lycos.com Milis Wanita Muslimah Membangun citra wanita muslimah dalam diri, keluarga, maupun masyarakat. Situs Web: http://www.wanita-muslimah.com ARSIP DISKUSI : http://groups.yahoo.com/group/wanita-muslimah/messages Kirim Posting mailto:wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com Berhenti mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Milis Keluarga Sejahtera mailto:keluarga-sejahtera@yahoogroups.com Milis Anak Muda Islam mailto:majelismuda@yahoogroups.com This mailing list has a special spell casted to reject any attachment .... Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/wanita-muslimah/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
