[WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Scott MacDonald
According to our article [[Facepalm]], this is a startrek internet meme
indicating an expression of embarrassment, frustration, disbelief, disgust,
shame or general woe. It often expresses mockery or disbelief of perceived
idiocy.

Well, that must be right.

Given that, I am wondering why we tolerate a template {{facepalm}}
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Template:Facepalm

This does nothing to foster civil discourse among Wikipedians. I've just
looked through how it is being used, and whilst I do see the occasional use
in self-deprecation, generally it is used as a shorthand put-down:
implicitly calling your correspondent an idiot, and his latest contribution
self-evidently moronic. 

Granted, removing uncivil templates won't magically increase patient and
constructive discussion, but I do suspect we'd still nevertheless delete
{{jackass}} or {{moron}}. If people are going to mock others, we shouldn't
be giving them shortcuts to do so. The existence of the template serves to
legitimise such dismissive discourse. 


Thoughts?  

Scott


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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread David Gerard
On 3 October 2011 11:02, Scott MacDonald doc.wikipe...@ntlworld.com wrote:

 Granted, removing uncivil templates won't magically increase patient and
 constructive discussion, but I do suspect we'd still nevertheless delete
 {{jackass}} or {{moron}}. If people are going to mock others, we shouldn't
 be giving them shortcuts to do so. The existence of the template serves to
 legitimise such dismissive discourse.
 Thoughts?


Sounds reasonable on civility grounds. You could probably get a TFD to fly.


- d.

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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Thomas Morton
On 3 October 2011 11:02, Scott MacDonald doc.wikipe...@ntlworld.com wrote:

 According to our article [[Facepalm]], this is a startrek internet meme
 indicating an expression of embarrassment, frustration, disbelief,
 disgust,
 shame or general woe. It often expresses mockery or disbelief of perceived
 idiocy.

 Well, that must be right.

 Given that, I am wondering why we tolerate a template {{facepalm}}
 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Template:Facepalm

 This does nothing to foster civil discourse among Wikipedians. I've just
 looked through how it is being used, and whilst I do see the occasional use
 in self-deprecation, generally it is used as a shorthand put-down:
 implicitly calling your correspondent an idiot, and his latest contribution
 self-evidently moronic.

 Granted, removing uncivil templates won't magically increase patient and
 constructive discussion, but I do suspect we'd still nevertheless delete
 {{jackass}} or {{moron}}. If people are going to mock others, we shouldn't
 be giving them shortcuts to do so. The existence of the template serves to
 legitimise such dismissive discourse.


 Thoughts?


{{facepalm}} (sorry... couldn't resist ;))

I bet any TFD goes off the rails...

On the one hand the template does have somewhat negative connotations. On
the other hand it always stuck me as a slightly less confrontational way of
saying that's stupid. *shrug*

Tom
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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread WereSpielChequers
I wouldn't judge it on the connotations, I'd judge it on the use. Self
deprecatory such as http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Talk:Richard_Winters is
fine.

Some of the other times it has been used are more troubling, but is it any
worse than some of the intemperate language we sometimes see? I'd prefer
that we keep it and try to resolve the conflicts rather than the symptoms of
those conflicts.

WereSpielChequers

On 3 October 2011 11:07, Thomas Morton morton.tho...@googlemail.com wrote:

 On 3 October 2011 11:02, Scott MacDonald doc.wikipe...@ntlworld.com
 wrote:

  According to our article [[Facepalm]], this is a startrek internet meme
  indicating an expression of embarrassment, frustration, disbelief,
  disgust,
  shame or general woe. It often expresses mockery or disbelief of
 perceived
  idiocy.
 
  Well, that must be right.
 
  Given that, I am wondering why we tolerate a template {{facepalm}}
  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Template:Facepalm
 
  This does nothing to foster civil discourse among Wikipedians. I've just
  looked through how it is being used, and whilst I do see the occasional
 use
  in self-deprecation, generally it is used as a shorthand put-down:
  implicitly calling your correspondent an idiot, and his latest
 contribution
  self-evidently moronic.
 
  Granted, removing uncivil templates won't magically increase patient and
  constructive discussion, but I do suspect we'd still nevertheless delete
  {{jackass}} or {{moron}}. If people are going to mock others, we
 shouldn't
  be giving them shortcuts to do so. The existence of the template serves
 to
  legitimise such dismissive discourse.
 
 
  Thoughts?
 

 {{facepalm}} (sorry... couldn't resist ;))

 I bet any TFD goes off the rails...

 On the one hand the template does have somewhat negative connotations. On
 the other hand it always stuck me as a slightly less confrontational way of
 saying that's stupid. *shrug*

 Tom
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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Scott MacDonald
Now on TFD, suggest we take it there:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Templates_for_discussion/Log/2011_Oct
ober_3#Template:Facepalm



 -Original Message-
 From: wikien-l-boun...@lists.wikimedia.org [mailto:wikien-l-
 boun...@lists.wikimedia.org] On Behalf Of David Gerard
 Sent: 03 October 2011 11:05
 To: English Wikipedia
 Subject: Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?
 
 On 3 October 2011 11:02, Scott MacDonald doc.wikipe...@ntlworld.com
 wrote:
 
  Granted, removing uncivil templates won't magically increase patient
 and
  constructive discussion, but I do suspect we'd still nevertheless
 delete
  {{jackass}} or {{moron}}. If people are going to mock others, we
 shouldn't
  be giving them shortcuts to do so. The existence of the template
 serves to
  legitimise such dismissive discourse.
  Thoughts?
 
 
 Sounds reasonable on civility grounds. You could probably get a TFD to
 fly.
 
 
 - d.
 
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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Carcharoth
On Mon, Oct 3, 2011 at 11:02 AM, Scott MacDonald
doc.wikipe...@ntlworld.com wrote:

 Granted, removing uncivil templates won't magically increase patient and
 constructive discussion, but I do suspect we'd still nevertheless delete
 {{jackass}} or {{moron}}. If people are going to mock others, we shouldn't
 be giving them shortcuts to do so. The existence of the template serves to
 legitimise such dismissive discourse.

Template:Jackass exists as a navigational template for the show.

Carcharoth

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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Rob Schnautz
Usually when I facepalm it's because I have a moment, not someone
else...

I believe [[WP:DICK]] is a bigger issue than {{facepalm}} at the moment

Bob

On Mon, Oct 3, 2011 at 10:27 AM, Carcharoth carcharot...@googlemail.comwrote:

 On Mon, Oct 3, 2011 at 11:02 AM, Scott MacDonald
 doc.wikipe...@ntlworld.com wrote:

  Granted, removing uncivil templates won't magically increase patient and
  constructive discussion, but I do suspect we'd still nevertheless delete
  {{jackass}} or {{moron}}. If people are going to mock others, we
 shouldn't
  be giving them shortcuts to do so. The existence of the template serves
 to
  legitimise such dismissive discourse.

 Template:Jackass exists as a navigational template for the show.

 Carcharoth

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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Scott MacDonald
 -Original Message-
 From: wikien-l-boun...@lists.wikimedia.org [mailto:wikien-l-
 boun...@lists.wikimedia.org] On Behalf Of Rob Schnautz
 Sent: 03 October 2011 19:25
 To: English Wikipedia
 Subject: Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?
 
 Usually when I facepalm it's because I have a moment, not someone
 else...
 
 I believe [[WP:DICK]] is a bigger issue than {{facepalm}} at the
 moment
 
 Bob
 

Dick has a didactic point - facepalm has none.

I've never understood people's problem with WP:DICK. 

Scott



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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Ken Arromdee
On Mon, 3 Oct 2011, Scott MacDonald wrote:
 I've never understood people's problem with WP:DICK.

Because invokin g it is equivalent to calling the other person a dick.

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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread James Forrester
On 3 October 2011 13:06, Ken Arromdee arrom...@rahul.net wrote:
 On Mon, 3 Oct 2011, Scott MacDonald wrote:
 I've never understood people's problem with WP:DICK.

 Because invoking it is equivalent to calling the other person a dick.

One of the fun things we wrote into the policy right from the start
was that invoking it was reflexively wrong, so really people shouldn't
(barring extreme circumstances). It's primarily foundational (or
constitutional) policy from which other merely high-level policies
spring (e.g. No Personal Attacks; Don't Revert, Discuss; Consensus Can
Change, etc.).

If you find examples of people invoking it against others, you should
take that to AN/I or a similar venue as it's generally a violation of
NPA. ArbCom citing it in a case doesn't count, obviously.

J.
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jdforres...@wikimedia.org | jdforres...@gmail.com
[[Wikipedia:User:Jdforrester|James F.]]

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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread James Forrester
On 3 October 2011 15:37, Bob the Wikipedian bobthewikiped...@gmail.com wrote:
 Wait, so someone pulling [[WP:DICK]] on someone else is something I can
 take to Arbcom? Arbcom is gonna be pretty busy if I start reporting
 every time I see it doneand I can't see it going very far with
 Arbcom or with AN/Iconsidering how many people back it as one of the
 three most important principles of Wikipedia-- which I disagree with
 entirely

When we founded ArbCom it was entirely with user disputes in mind. I'd
be disappointed and surprised if poor user behaviour wasn't dealt with
by the current Committee, but if you don't do anything about it and
call people on their poor behaviour when you see it, it'll never
improve.

J.
-- 
James D. Forrester
jdforres...@wikimedia.org | jdforres...@gmail.com
[[Wikipedia:User:Jdforrester|James F.]]

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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Bob the Wikipedian
Wait, so someone pulling [[WP:DICK]] on someone else is something I can 
take to Arbcom? Arbcom is gonna be pretty busy if I start reporting 
every time I see it doneand I can't see it going very far with 
Arbcom or with AN/Iconsidering how many people back it as one of the 
three most important principles of Wikipedia-- which I disagree with 
entirely

Bob

On 10/3/2011 3:11 PM, James Forrester wrote:
 On 3 October 2011 13:06, Ken Arromdeearrom...@rahul.net  wrote:
 On Mon, 3 Oct 2011, Scott MacDonald wrote:
 I've never understood people's problem with WP:DICK.
 Because invoking it is equivalent to calling the other person a dick.
 One of the fun things we wrote into the policy right from the start
 was that invoking it was reflexively wrong, so really people shouldn't
 (barring extreme circumstances). It's primarily foundational (or
 constitutional) policy from which other merely high-level policies
 spring (e.g. No Personal Attacks; Don't Revert, Discuss; Consensus Can
 Change, etc.).

 If you find examples of people invoking it against others, you should
 take that to AN/I or a similar venue as it's generally a violation of
 NPA. ArbCom citing it in a case doesn't count, obviously.

 J.

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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Phil Nash
James Forrester wrote:
 On 3 October 2011 15:37, Bob the Wikipedian
 bobthewikiped...@gmail.com wrote:
 Wait, so someone pulling [[WP:DICK]] on someone else is something I
 can take to Arbcom? Arbcom is gonna be pretty busy if I start
 reporting every time I see it doneand I can't see it going very
 far with Arbcom or with AN/Iconsidering how many people back it
 as one of the three most important principles of Wikipedia-- which
 I disagree with entirely

 When we founded ArbCom it was entirely with user disputes in mind. I'd
 be disappointed and surprised if poor user behaviour wasn't dealt with
 by the current Committee, but if you don't do anything about it and
 call people on their poor behaviour when you see it, it'll never
 improve.

 J.

That's an entirely different proposition from merely being vindictive for 
its own sake, which seems to be the current modus operandi of ArbCom. 
Calling people on their poor behaviour may be a function of ArbCom, but 
only when all other avenues have been exhausted, including RfC, and only 
when there is no plausible route to rehabilitation, including (but not 
limited to) friendly advice, a break from adminning to recover from the 
stress (which, to be honest, might well include death threatson one's own 
Talk page), or even a temporary desysop in the interests of the admin. Tell 
me, when did ArbCom last take that position, and actually realise that 
volunteering to improve Wikipedia, whether by adding content, or dealing 
with vandalism, or otherwise applying WP policies, is to be appreciated 
rather than castigated? Clue:Never, in my experience, and certainly not 
recently. ArbCom is a ramshackle, unaccountable shed, which should be torn 
down and rebuilt from scratch, if not cast permanently into the not fit for 
purpose dustbin. It's a disgrace as it is now.





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Re: [WikiEN-l] Facepalm?

2011-10-03 Thread Risker
On 3 October 2011 16:06, Ken Arromdee arrom...@rahul.net wrote:

 On Mon, 3 Oct 2011, Scott MacDonald wrote:
  I've never understood people's problem with WP:DICK.

 Because invokin g it is equivalent to calling the other person a dick.



Every day, I see perfectly civil people facepalming.  I have yet to see a
civil person turn to someone in public and say Don't be a dick.

I think perhaps some peoples' civility radar is somewhat out of tune.

Risker/Anne
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